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Seamonkey
Moderator
09-07-2000
| Monday, January 01, 2024 - 12:05 pm 
Well the next one, MsSonic, is there and sounds very even keeled.. So we need more like her .. well, one more after NTB moves on.
And indeed it does sound like NTB suffers from some issues that apparently are not being addressed, and it really is a shame.
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Naja
Member
06-28-2003
| Tuesday, January 02, 2024 - 6:22 am
RN Patsy and Dolly just finished a meet and greet with 2 male pit bulls. Max and Naveen. My dogs LOVED them.
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Tntitanfan
Member
08-02-2001
| Tuesday, January 02, 2024 - 11:40 am
Pit bulls are classic examples of the nature?/nurture? question. A well-raised, well-socialized pit bull can be a delight' an ill-treated, poorly trained chihuahua can be a holy terror!
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Tntitanfan
Member
08-02-2001
| Wednesday, January 03, 2024 - 12:11 pm
Have you thought about doggie day care a couple or three days a week? The going rate here is $30/day abd $22/half day of 5 hours or less.
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Naja
Member
06-28-2003
| Wednesday, January 03, 2024 - 11:40 pm
RN I already do daycare, but it's only occasionally. I don't have any regulars for it. But then again, I would rather not have regulars for daycare. I like the stretches in between now with no other dogs. My dogs are happy for those days as well.
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Tntitanfan
Member
08-02-2001
| Thursday, January 04, 2024 - 7:27 pm
Sprry! I didn't realize you were already utilizng that option!so that you did not need to be in any hurry to tent that second bedroom!
Don't get me wrong - I have enjoyed tales of NTB - just would hate being on site!
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Naja
Member
06-28-2003
| Friday, January 05, 2024 - 5:18 am
RN Oh I love having a place to spout off about NTB.
RN We just had a tiff about the rent. I waited until she was all dressed and getting ready to leave, and I said we have to have a talk about the rent. Where is it? She reminded me we agreed to every 2 weeks. I said yes, and it's due now. She said she won't have it until the 16th. I explained that's not how rent works. You don't live somewhere and then pay. You pay and then live there.
She kept reminding me of that I agreed to 2 weeks. And I reminded her the last time she paid me was Dec 20 which covered through Dec 31. So now it's like you are living here free. She started crying and stomping around "If I don't have the money, then I don't have the money!"
Then she stormed toward the door and yelled that she'll borrow money from father. I said don't make another debt for yourself. Just pay your rent. I want it on the 1st and 15th and I don't want it a game of catch up. I want the money on the 1st to cover through the 15th. I want the money on the 15th to cover until the end of the month.
Anyway, she left crying.
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Kappy
Member
06-28-2002
| Friday, January 05, 2024 - 8:01 am
Naja, I hope you stay firm on her leaving at the end of February. Mental health issues aside, she really is quite the master manipulator. I can't help but think she wants to become a nun at this late stage in life only because she has a vision of them taking care of her and providing for her.
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Seamonkey
Moderator
09-07-2000
| Friday, January 05, 2024 - 8:22 am
Yes, very manipulative.
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Sugar
Member
08-15-2000
| Friday, January 05, 2024 - 10:09 am
RN, IMO, if she doesn't pay appropriately, she doesn't live there. Stuff in box outside, locks changed if she doesn't pay by 9:00 am on Monday. This is a business arrangement not a shelter.
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Juju2bigdog
Member
10-27-2000
| Friday, January 05, 2024 - 1:20 pm
What Sugar said, except giving grace until Monday might be a trifle too generous.
Naja, I really do worry about your physical safety. Do your mother and your aunt know about US? We are a safety net of sorts for you, because you have extemporaneously chronicled here, in pretty much real time, events that occurred with the person who would be suspect #1 if something bad happened to you.
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Christy358
Member
07-10-2007
| Friday, January 05, 2024 - 5:12 pm
Juju, that is smart. Ok, so they need to know about us. And someone in real life need to know to check up. Naja, please be safe.
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Naja
Member
06-28-2003
| Friday, January 05, 2024 - 9:32 pm
RN Oh yes, I told my Mom and Aunt how I'm always complaining about her here. Plus, any time someone moves in I send all their info to them, including photos.
Really, I just don't feel in any physical danger. Except for the fact that 90% of the time she doesn't lock the front door all the way.
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Tntitanfan
Member
08-02-2001
| Friday, January 05, 2024 - 9:46 pm
What are you doing up at this hours of the AM? Do you always stay up this late? Or is it waking early?
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Naja
Member
06-28-2003
| Friday, January 05, 2024 - 10:02 pm
RN I'm always up early. It's about 6 AM here. I got up about 5 AM.
This is total opposite than I used to be just a few years ago. I used to be up all hours of the night. Especially during Big Brother season.
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Naja
Member
06-28-2003
| Saturday, January 06, 2024 - 3:39 am
RN Let's see how long it takes me to turn this into a piece of furniture. 
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Tntitanfan
Member
08-02-2001
| Saturday, January 06, 2024 - 4:36 am
Looks intriguing!
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Seamonkey
Moderator
09-07-2000
| Saturday, January 06, 2024 - 5:13 am
I am sure the dogs will want to supervise...
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Naja
Member
06-28-2003
| Saturday, January 06, 2024 - 5:59 am
RN Done! 2 hours and 15 mins.
A small set of storage drawers for the tiny bathroom attached to my bedroom.
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Kappy
Member
06-28-2002
| Saturday, January 06, 2024 - 7:41 am
Job well done, Naja!
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Juju2bigdog
Member
10-27-2000
| Saturday, January 06, 2024 - 1:31 pm
You are a wizard, Naja, Great job.
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Seamonkey
Moderator
09-07-2000
| Saturday, January 06, 2024 - 2:14 pm
I knew it would be a great success!
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Tntitanfan
Member
08-02-2001
| Sunday, January 07, 2024 - 12:58 am
Do you have a plan of action in place if NTB does not pay you tomorrow? I am hoping to be pleasantly surprisdif she DOES!!!
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Kookliebird
Member
08-04-2005
| Sunday, January 07, 2024 - 3:40 am
If there are rental rights in your state, you may need to jump through hoops to evict her.. if it comes to that. In our state, I think we have to have a 30 day official notice.
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Seamonkey
Moderator
09-07-2000
| Sunday, January 07, 2024 - 5:00 am
California has definitely added more rights for renters. Kind of glad I'm not a landlord, though I wouldn't be one to raise rents like crazy, so there are two sides to many stories of course.
But NTB is definitely not holding up her part of any bargains.
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