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Debbieeeee
Member
09-16-2005
| Thursday, September 19, 2013 - 4:07 pm 
I agree Maris - I was born in Brooklyn and spent my first 16 years there and I don't talk like that - I despise racism - and was offended that she used being from NY as an excuse - I am proud to be from Brooklyn, NY!
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Maris
Member
03-27-2002
| Thursday, September 19, 2013 - 4:11 pm
Debbie, I am from the Rockaways!!!!!
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Merrysea
Moderator
08-13-2004
| Thursday, September 19, 2013 - 4:19 pm
The old "it was taken out of context" excuse really annoys me! When we're watching the live feeds, we see EXACTLY what the context is - there is no editing there.
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Lostfan
Member
03-10-2010
| Thursday, September 19, 2013 - 4:20 pm
Andy is in such DENIAL- wth!
hopefully I will be able to go back there in January when the new semester starts. I worked semester to semester, so it's not like I had a full-time position and no longer do. I don't think I should be penalized for sitting in a room while people said hateful things and hopefully the college will understand that.
He literally doesn't see that HE HIMSELF was one of those people saying hateful things!
I want to smack this loon! Geeeesh
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Bamagirl
Member
08-26-2012
| Thursday, September 19, 2013 - 4:28 pm
Right Lost.. he is going to have to have someone SHOW him some live feeds for him to get it. It's not fair? Was it fair for you to say over and over you want to punch Elissa in the throat..he is as vile as the others in my book.
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Justmom2
Member
03-15-2008
| Thursday, September 19, 2013 - 4:36 pm
Andy still doesn't get it....he said he apologized to Elissa, but then claims she deserved it. She got on his nerves. Really Andy YOU got on our nerves. And he doesn't KNOW what he said that offended anyone.... He needs help
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Simplyde
Member
07-26-2011
| Thursday, September 19, 2013 - 5:04 pm
We all knew the excuses they would use for the way they acted and what they said in the house. Same answers over and over again.
Once they view the feeds we can only hope their apologies will come out more sincere and own everything they said and did. I don't bet on it tho but at least they will understand why America feels the way we do. It's not like we made this disgusting stuff up. It's on the feeds!
Yes, they tainted BB to a certain extent and I hope they never ask anyone of these cast back. (I don't think Elissa would ever put herself in this position again so not including her).
Elissa is the only one that will have something to show for her winning AF, the other 2 will have theirs spent within the year with nothing to show for it. Hey, it's theirs to do with what they choose and I could care less. Adios!
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Missyb
Member
07-28-2004
| Thursday, September 19, 2013 - 5:08 pm
Almost the entire house spewed. It was an epidemic !!
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Sanfranjoshfan
Member
09-17-2000
| Thursday, September 19, 2013 - 5:08 pm
"but at least they will understand why America feels the way we do."
Some Americans, not all of America.
Not everyone feels the same way about him.
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Sanfranjoshfan
Member
09-17-2000
| Thursday, September 19, 2013 - 5:16 pm
Just a quote I have always liked:
"When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free."
~Catherine Ponder
LINK to positivityblog.com
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Karuuna
Board Administrator
08-30-2000
| Thursday, September 19, 2013 - 5:17 pm
FWIW, I feel badly for them all. Yes, I think the things they said were reprehensible.
But some of the things I've seen posted on their Facebooks and Twitters and other websites that allow such things are not only as bad but often worse.
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Simplyde
Member
07-26-2011
| Thursday, September 19, 2013 - 5:17 pm
You are correct Sanfranjoshfan, my bad.
ETA: "but at least they will understand why 99% of America feels the way they do"
My post was about all the HG that are guilty of spewing...not just "him".
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Oliviamimi
Member
05-30-2009
| Thursday, September 19, 2013 - 5:20 pm
How long before the tears start? Being dramatic and stomping your feet will not make the ugly go away. He is going to have to look at his actions and own them. It sounds like Spencer is doing just that. I've already heard him say Elissa deserved it. Really.......
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Karuuna
Board Administrator
08-30-2000
| Thursday, September 19, 2013 - 5:23 pm
I'm not surprised they are defensive. Attacking people usually results in invoking defensiveness.
Lots and lots of mean things are being said to and about them on many websites that allow such vitriol. Going on and on like that about how awful they were is no different than the HGs going on and on about each other in negative ways.
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Justmom2
Member
03-15-2008
| Thursday, September 19, 2013 - 5:25 pm
Andy at the end of one of the interviews, said he went on Twitter this morning and "got annoyed" he may go back on to defend himself...You do that Andy...
GinaMarie said the reason she made a comment about Candice's mother not wanting her is because Candice said "she still lived at her mother's house" "she made a low blow so I did too" Really? Candice may have gone low, but she went into the gutter.
Spencer thinks he played a "solid" game. Was I watching the same BB he was on? He didn't do anything. Claims he was a much better player then GinaMarie as she "didn't know what was going on half the time". "Her biggest move was putting up McCranda but that wouldn't have happen without the backing of the exterminators". And he "WOULD have won against Andy at the end". He doesn't hate anyone his best friends in the house were "Howard, an African American and Andy a homosexual"..and of course things taken out of context.....asked about his job said "I'm union protected".....this will all go away very shortly, but does think he will be suspended....
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Simplyde
Member
07-26-2011
| Thursday, September 19, 2013 - 5:27 pm
ITA Karuuna but I believe in Karma too. What goes around comes around and I believe like every other season, this too shall pass. They will be forgiven but it will never be forgotten.
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Maris
Member
03-27-2002
| Thursday, September 19, 2013 - 5:34 pm
I am sure Spencer has a mess to clean up. I dont think that the police leave everything nice and tidy after they execute a search warrant especially if they are looking for porn, thta would mean looking for DVDs, computer programs, they may have torn his place apart. He is going to need flylady
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Karuuna
Board Administrator
08-30-2000
| Thursday, September 19, 2013 - 5:57 pm
Simplyde, I believe in consequences equal to the faulty behavior, as does "karma". In this case, the consequences are tenfold or more, that's not the philosophical concept of karma. IMO.
So, Karma does come around, yes it does. And we should all be thoughtful lest we are the ones it comes around to. 
The concept of right speech (part of Karma) is...
"Abandoning abusive speech... He speaks words that are soothing to the ear, that are affectionate, that go to the heart, that are polite, appealing and pleasing to people at large..."
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Karuuna
Board Administrator
08-30-2000
| Thursday, September 19, 2013 - 6:01 pm
I thought Spencer lived with his parents? I sincerely doubt that the local police tore apart Spencer's parents' house, with his father a local circuit county judge. And even if he doesn't, I think the police probably made their nice statement "we looked into it" just to get people off their backs.
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Dawn
Member
07-24-2009
| Thursday, September 19, 2013 - 6:07 pm
i'm pretty sure spencer had his own place. he talked about it quite a bit.
he talked about how marilyn was staying there while he was at the BB house.
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Karuuna
Board Administrator
08-30-2000
| Thursday, September 19, 2013 - 6:09 pm
Could be. I thought I read here that he lived with his folks, but I could be remembering that wrong.
Either way, he lives in the same town as his folks, that is clear. And again, I really don't think the police took it all that seriously.
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Dawn
Member
07-24-2009
| Thursday, September 19, 2013 - 6:12 pm
i've been wrong before so i could be wrong again 
but i agree the police probably didn't do much
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Dipo
Member
04-23-2002
| Thursday, September 19, 2013 - 7:47 pm
I don't know what thread this fits in, but I really am curious if anyone has asked Andy why he dressed like a child. I am interested in his answer for that one.
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Clearwaters
Member
08-25-2013
| Thursday, September 19, 2013 - 8:06 pm
OMG, Maris. I graduated from Far Rockaway High School. So did my Dad. Both my kids were born in Rockaway, as well.
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Wendo
Member
08-07-2000
| Thursday, September 19, 2013 - 8:08 pm
Dipo, I'm curious about Andy's attire as well. I want to know if it was part of his strategy to appear less threatening. If so, brilliant tactic.
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