Truth or Dare
The ClubHouse: The Game II - Mysterious Puzzler: Discussions/Challenges:
Truth or Dare
Guruchaz | Friday, January 19, 2001 - 01:11 pm  Who's up? T or D? (Where's Merlin? uh huh huh) |
Spamgirl | Friday, January 19, 2001 - 05:17 pm  If no one else will, I'll take a truth |
Guruchaz | Friday, January 19, 2001 - 05:41 pm  What is the exact overall problem that you have with the CBs? |
Spamgirl | Friday, January 19, 2001 - 05:50 pm  We were in chat once, and they decided to go and mouth off to Kearie. They asked me to log it for them. I did. After they were done, I sent a copy of the log to them, my friend Misha, and Moondance who had asked for a copy. When I told them I sent a copy to Moon, they flipped out because she was a friend of Kearie's. This made my mad because a) Kearie could have logged it and done it herself anyways abd b) this was a PUBLIC chatroom with lots of other people in it who could have done the logging. I said I disagreed, that I didn't see their point, but that I would stop distributing the log because Petunia wanted me to. I then said "I'm going to leave before I say something I regret" and shut down - not completely, but they couldn't see I was there. When I came back to shut off mIRC, as I closed it I saw Nikkid saying "She probably sent it to everyone on her ICQ list" or something like that. Petunia emailed me a few times saying "Come back and talk to us!" but I knew it would just be me going back to them bitching, so I said no. She kept bugging me about it, so I replied "You can tell them to off! I saw what Nikkid said about me sending it to everyone on my ICQ list" or something like that. And after that, all they did was at me, fight with me, and other things that overstepped the line grossly (the letter on the board, accusing me of hacking their email, etc.) That's it... they actually have the problem with me, not vice versa. I forgave them for what they did a long time ago. I understand they have had tough lives and feel the need to take it out on people, and as long as it isn't me, I'm happy. Truth or Dare? |
Guruchaz | Friday, January 19, 2001 - 06:01 pm  Wow! It seems like it's very difficult for two or more women to get along together for a lengthy period of time. I've seen numerous individuals leave because of conflicts between people they seemed close to. Just an observation. That might make a good chat topic for the women. |
Juju2bigdog | Friday, January 19, 2001 - 06:06 pm  speaking of baiting, gu...
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Guruchaz | Friday, January 19, 2001 - 06:26 pm  uh huh huh (not intentional) |
Merlin | Friday, January 19, 2001 - 06:31 pm  You people must think I am crazy. Do you think I am going to get in a truth or dare thread with Guru around? That kind and sensitive side of his personality he is showing us is a trick. Just wait, he will catch someone with their pants down. |
Guruchaz | Friday, January 19, 2001 - 06:44 pm  Ouch! That hurts inside, Merlin and please don't say "someone with their pants down".  |
Spamgirl | Friday, January 19, 2001 - 07:02 pm  So who's up? Truth or Dare? |
Guruchaz | Friday, January 26, 2001 - 06:00 pm  Good question. Who's up now? |
Azriel | Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 07:23 am  TVCH, I DARE you all to try this in Game 3. It looks scary, but when you get in here it's fun and you learn things about yourself. Each game will be different because of the people in it. If you got in here, you could make it the best Game ever! I want to see YOU in The Game 3.  |
Guruchaz | Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 02:42 pm  Let's get crazy! Who wants to revive T & D? Better late than never! |
Elitist | Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 02:47 pm  Ok I will take Truth, but real quick. |
Guruchaz | Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 04:57 pm  What all did you NOT get out of this whole experience that you had hoped for and why do you think that is? |
Elitist | Thursday, February 08, 2001 - 10:37 am  I was hoping for a lot of stimulating conversations on the board that I could get into and relish. We have had a few, but not anywhere near the number I thought we would generate. I think the reasons this did not occur are numerous. First I think many of the players came in as a lark and were not willing to commit themselves to any deep discussions. Second I think we were all conscious of the outside would perceiving what we said and how it would affect our position in the house. Third I think the chat and one on one took away from the deeper discussions - chat is nice for conversations, but very difficult to lay down more complex thinking. Fourth I think we were also aware of how much ground we were covering that Game I had also covered - and we wanted to do something different and not repeat the same old stories. Next Victim? |
Merlin | Thursday, February 08, 2001 - 03:55 pm  I had hoped that I would be able to make a personal contact with more of the players than I have. I realize now, that was unrealistic to think that I could make a personal contact with all of them. If all of us had been on the board for 12 hours a day at the same time, I can see where it would have been more likely to have happened. With different schedules, it limited the time one could get someone into a conversation. I found that for myself when I was in a one on one chat that it was possible to have a deeper discussion. When we were in groupchat, I found it difficult for me to have any kind of deep discussion. Trying to have a conversation in a thread was slow and tedious. I found that it was a good place to be able to get into what your thoughts and feelings were. It was also a good place for others to add their thoughts to the subject or what they got out of what someone was saying. Some did and some didn't add their thoughts. I realized something that occurs in real life for me also happened in here. In real life if I meet up with someone whose mind is occupied with some issue that I am not sure I should get into, I generally limit what I say to some very neutral subject. The player that stands out in this category for me is Ocean_Islands. Understand that I am saying this is my assessment of Ocean and it may not be factual. I found that I limited what I would attempt and that is something I regret. I also realize now that I had more focus on the players that I had no previous outside contact with, or I should say very limited contact. This was Azriel, Juju, MissLibra, NewAmMush, and Guru. I found that by previous Tvclubchat with Elit and Spam gave me an idea of who they were and I had more of my focus on the ones I didn't know. In the case of MissLibra, I felt like she was going to be a tough one to really get to know. I felt she would take a lot of time to get her to reveal anything about herself that would tell me who she was. I kept putting it off, until it was too late. My assessment of NewAmMush from the beginning was that he was not going to be around here long after he got out of the game. I apologize for that sounding cold, but I decided to spend my limited efforts on others. I might as well add, this is something I do in real life and have been taking a hard look at. Joni was in and out of the game so quick there never was time to get to know her. Joni would more than likely have been the easiest one to get to know. In summary, I feel like I have gotten to know about five of the players in varying degrees. There are still four that I can't say that about. I realize it was my doing. I have enjoyed being in the game and I would play again. I have got what I came for. Next Victim? |
Guruchaz | Friday, February 09, 2001 - 10:25 am  I got more than I expected out of being here. Way more than I expected! I think a lot of the conversations and Red Rooms will sum that up. I do have some conversational regrets but most regrets are caused by our own personal inaction or procrastination. Some words of wisdom: Change is temporary pain. Regret is permanent pain. Don't hang on to regret and try to be aware of instances that might cause it and correct the situation. You definitely won't regret it. Since it's not time for this to cycle back to me for a new question just yet, I'm going to bat it to AZ. lol! Next Victim? |
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