Archive through January 26, 2001
The ClubHouse: The Game II - Mysterious Puzzler: Discussions/Challenges:
7 Truths About Female Orgasm:
Archive through January 26, 2001
Misslibra | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 05:03 am  Well since I happen to be the Sex Goddess of the group ... yes that's right you heard me correctly Sex Goddess ! I thought some topics on sex would be very simulating. We need some stimulation in this house .... hehehehe Let's face it. Few among us talk truthfully or openly about sex, especially to our partners. It's high time we did some communicating. In hopes of shedding a little light on the dark corners, here are the seven truths about the female orgasm that every woman (and her lover) should know. TRUTH 1# All Women Climax Differently. Some of us have orgasms from clitoral stimulation only, others by stimulating the G spot, or Grafenberg spot, which is a sensitive, nerve-intensive area about two inches back inside the front wall of the vagina. And some women experience orgasm through both the clitoris and G spot, though rarely at the same time unless they are lucky enough to have been born with bionic genitalia. Because our bodies are all unique, there's no fail-proof recipe for bringing on a female orgasm. We must discover what works for us through trial and error. One thing to keep in mind as you explore the way your body works: G spot orgasms aren't more "sophisticated" than those triggered by the clitoris. Nor is one necessarily better than the other. Research shows that the nerve impulses resulting from various orgasms all look the same regardless of how they were precipitated. The result is generally three to five vaginal contractions followed by full-body release of muscle tension that leaves you more serene than an hour-long massage. Everyone knew this right ? Tomorrow I'll give out truth 2# |
Juju2bigdog | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 06:38 am  Oh, good lord, MsL. You are going to cause Merlin to give up his job and just hang out here. Are you prepared to support him into his old(er) age? Well, are you? G-spot is good. Trying to remember from the depths of my memory that revolutionary sex book that came out about thirty years ago. It was written by a woman who didn't even give her full name as an author, just something like J or O. Came out around the same time as Alex Comfort's Joy of Sex. Oh, okay, The Sensuous Woman, by J, I think. Anyway, I don't even think they had discovered the G spot at that time. But, she did teach some women how to have an orgasm, and that was a good thing at the time. Now, MissLibra, I expect great things out of you as the sex goddess of the world, and I want you to go on to discover something just as revolutionary as the G-spot.
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Spamgirl | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 06:42 am  You know, I was watching TV, and I think it was Dr. Ruth who said there was no g-spot? This is fairly recent too... and then there's Sue Johansen (sp?) who loves talking about g-spots... I don't know if Dr. Ruth is singing a different tune now, but I found that very odd at the time... |
Newamush | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 07:06 am  I just have one thing to say: Yuk! |
Juju2bigdog | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 07:15 am  So sorry, New, just cover your eyes. There there. Maybe one of the fellows will start a hot male sex site. LOL
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Guruchaz | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 10:30 am  <sits back and listens intently to this conversation> |
Azriel | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 12:14 pm  Oh my! Spam, I've heard Dr Ruth and several other doctors say that the G spot is a theory not a known area of the female body. Anyway, I think if you start worrying about the mechanics too much, you lose a lot of the excitement and passion. Just do it, baby!  |
Juju2bigdog | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 03:31 pm  Ahem, er, um, G spot is not a myth or theory. Just not lots of people are successful at finding it. ahem.
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Merlin | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 05:37 pm  My thoughts were poor Dr Ruth. I wonder what else she is unaware of. |
Merlin | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 07:01 pm  ESO, EXTENDED SEXUAL ORGASM by Alan P. Brauer, Donna Brauer (Jan 1984) If you haven't read this book Misslibra, it is one you should take a look at. It is written by a husband and wife and suggests some training methods in order to be able to have an extended orgasm. And by that I mean, once it starts it continues for an extended period of time without stopping. They suggested that this could last as long as one hour,uninterrupted orgasm. I used to think it was not possible |
Juju2bigdog | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 07:06 pm  MissLibra - told you so, told you so, told you so. |
Azriel | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 07:17 pm  Merlin, I think I need to do some in-depth research on this subject.  |
Guruchaz | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 08:12 pm  Have you seen this one hour orgasm in action Merlin? I'm taking that from your last statement that says "I used to think it was not possible." I've read about that myself but never heard any stories supporting it as fact. |
Merlin | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 08:27 pm  yes, guru. I have seen it happen. |
Juju2bigdog | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 08:30 pm  Merlin, those dirty movies are all fake.
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Misslibra | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 08:56 pm  Yes Merlin darling, I know about those hour orgasms. But never experience it myself. Wow ... imagine that, having a orgasm for a hour. People would have to cut back on their normal daily four times a day sex, huh Merlin ... hehehe that would wear a person out JuJu ... LOL Dr Ruth has lost her memory. I think she should stop talking about sex all together. Az mines actually have the letter G right on it. LOL  |
Guruchaz | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 09:58 pm  <ordering book for future reference> |
Misslibra | Wednesday, January 24, 2001 - 02:26 am  Truth 2# Orgasms Don't (Pardon the Pun) Come Easily. Life would be so divine if orgasms were as predictable as our credit-card bills. Dream on. Unlike the case with men, who can't seem to relate to us on this one, female orgasms with a partner require harmonizing four components: mechanical know-how, savvy communication skills, a certain comfort level with the partner and complete mind and body receptivity. Bottom line: It takes practice, because even if we know every nuance of our clitoris or G spot, there's no guarantee we'll get the orgasm goddess dancing. One of the reasons orgasms can be difficult to achieve is that we tend to need different types of stimulation at different times when we're making love. Small differences of touch make big differences with women. Sometimes we need harder pressure, other times more delicate strokes. The clitoris has as many nerve endings as the penis, but they are concentrated in such a small surface area that sometimes even the slightest touch can be too much. What's more, the approach that worked magic yesterday may have little effect on us today. While it would be dreamy to have a lover who, in an osmosis kind of way, knows exactly where to touch us and with what degree of vigor, here in the real world there's no way our mate can know what is right on or all wrong . . . unless we start talking, which conveniently leads us to the next truth. |
Elitist | Thursday, January 25, 2001 - 09:00 am  Where is truth #3? I am waiting here with bated breath. |
Guruchaz | Thursday, January 25, 2001 - 09:33 am  <insert another crude joke here> |
Elitist | Thursday, January 25, 2001 - 09:36 am  Did you hear the one about the two vaginas that went into a bar for an orgasm? |
Guruchaz | Thursday, January 25, 2001 - 09:37 am  Ok: No, what happened? |
Elitist | Thursday, January 25, 2001 - 09:41 am  They couldn't pay for it cause neither one had a G spot. <waiting for groan> |
Guruchaz | Thursday, January 25, 2001 - 10:25 am  <moan> uh huh huh |
Guruchaz | Friday, January 26, 2001 - 11:06 am  MissLibra, are you ok? Please continue your posts.  |
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