Archive through February 08, 2001

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Maddie

Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 03:20 pm Click here to edit this post

Lance, you didn't say anything concerning what Spam had to say about Moon. I understood you were commenting on an entirely different issue. You should not criticized for what you haven't said or for not covering every possible topic. :o)

Lancecrossfire

Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 04:11 pm Click here to edit this post

Tuk, I agree that Spam has left, and Guru hasn't. If you read everything I've said about him, you fill find my opinions cover both positive and negative that I've seen. Interesting choice of words you use--continue not to give me the time of day.

As I've said, in MY dealings with Spam (note I'm referring to mine only), she has been civil to me. Up to this point, Guru cannot say the same. Interesting you would paint me the bad guy if after 4 weeks, Guru CONTINUES to not give me the time of day after doing so for 4 months. He told me in a chat that he wanted to talk to me after the game. I told him I'd be hear whenever he was ready. Let me know anything I've said about him that wasn't based on anything he has said or done in the game. I ask again Tuk, let me know what I've said out here that warrants him not giving me the time of day.

Wink, I explained this to Xenia in the game, and have seen specific examples of it here on the board just before the game. She asked when I didn't come to Tukuul's rescue when she was accusing him of abusing women. I said because I thought Tukuul was doing a good job of defending himself. That is my nature--not to assume that someone can't stand up for themselves. That is why I haven't come to anyone's rescue or defense--they seem to be able to handle it, and I don't want to undermine them looking like they can. Don't want to allow for the chance to have someone say, "look, they have to have someone else fight their fight." Specifically in your case, I saw your situation, and thought (I could be wrong), that you had asked Gator and Hostess1 about specific situations. I don't remember you inviting me in on it.

Physical violence or RL verbal abuse is one thing. Name calling in here is another. During BB when it went on in a thread, all I did was to ask that it stop. I didn't take sides about who was right or wrong. half the time I was told to shut up, or that I was too sensitive, or it was none of my business. It's apparent that it isn't going to matter what I do--someone will be pissed. To some I don't help out a friend, to others, I'm being a busy-body.

I'm looking at all the posts above and all the issues raised with me after I posted about a banner and brought up two issues:
1) I didn't know if it was a joke or not, so I asked if it was.
2) IF it wasn't a joke, there was information to show that it hasn't been said that we hate Elitist.

And I'm also looking at all the things people have issues with me about that AREN'T about those two topics, yet was started by that post. I sure can't accuse you guys of not being willing to tell me how screwed up I am.

Wink

Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 04:18 pm Click here to edit this post

Okay Lance I'll let go of this except to say I wasn't asking you to come to anyone's rescue or defense. It was about support.

Moondance

Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 04:29 pm Click here to edit this post

No one is saying 'how screwed up' you are Lance... I was just confused that you were so concerned over the validity of the banner and not the validity of Spams attack on someone you have said to be a friend

I am not asking you to fight my battles or come to the rescue ...I just found it interesting that you would be concerned over some silly banner and not someone's feelings

Moondance

Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 04:36 pm Click here to edit this post

I am done...promise

How about those Ravens?

Wink

Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 04:38 pm Click here to edit this post

Gee Moon I never thought we'd disagree on too much but I was rooting for the Giants.

Moondance

Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 04:42 pm Click here to edit this post

:)

Go Bengals!

Wink

Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 04:51 pm Click here to edit this post

Doug Flutie Rules. Go Bills.

Hostess1

Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 04:56 pm Click here to edit this post

HOW about those BENGALS

Tukuul

Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 04:57 pm Click here to edit this post

I didn't mean it that way, Lance. I just noticed what all had been going on and that you appeared to want to talk to him before he even asked you. Maybe I'm wrong.

Yes, you are right. You've only stated the facts from your point of view. I don't know how Gu will react out here especially after reading everything. In all truthfulness, he probably expects to get like he gave to you and some other people. He was out of control and really didn't know anymore about you than anyone else here, I imagine. I think he's learned a bit of a lesson being inside. That's all I was trying to say.

Dilligaf

Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 05:15 pm Click here to edit this post

Is anyone chatting tonight? And if so, where?? I want to try out some of my new wavs!! Hehehe, I'm such a geek!! uh huh huh

Lancecrossfire

Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 05:17 pm Click here to edit this post

Thanks for the clarification Tuk! I hope that I've not given to him the way he has done in the past.

I didn't know how he was then, and don't now--all I have to go by is what he shows. I don't know if you read that long winded post I created, although I did say quite a bit in there about his laying it on the line thread. I would like to be able to look at him, or Juju, or E, or any of them as fairly (well, that of course is open to what we all think fair is for each of us) as I'd like to have done to me.

I spoke to him a couple times when we were allowed to--mostly asked questions of him and others--didn't want to give information. He asked me about talking after. I have no idea what it's about, although will listen to him no matter the topic. He seems to have made a connection with Merlin at least. Merlin in a way that is different from the rest. I hope they both cultivate that connection.

Dilligaf

Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 05:44 pm Click here to edit this post

Where is everyone? I'm lonely.....

Noslonna

Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 05:52 pm Click here to edit this post

Dilli, Guru and Merlin in OneOnOne. GameDiscuss and GroupChat are open. :)

Spamgirl

Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 11:27 am Click here to edit this post

"The MENSA National Headquarters is in Arlington, TX just about 30 miles from where I live. It wouldn't be tough to look that up."

Are you going to look up Guru too, Tuk? He's not married yet, so his name hasn't changed...

;)

Lancecrossfire

Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 11:33 am Click here to edit this post

Fair is fair

Spamgirl

Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 11:35 am Click here to edit this post

HEhehe ;)

I'm just playing, in case anyone things otherwise ;)

Tukuul

Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 02:22 pm Click here to edit this post

What the hell was that about?

Spamgirl

Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 02:40 pm Click here to edit this post

You wanted to look me up at MENSA HQ to prove whether or not I had really been a member, but you didn't know my maiden name... so you couldn't...

I was just joking around that you COULD look Guruchaz up, 'cuz he hasn't changed his last name...

(he mentioned recently that he was just accepted into MENSA)

Tukuul

Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 03:04 pm Click here to edit this post

Oh, ok. Yes, I questioned a lot of things. Some have been answered, others on the verge and some may never be. That goes for anything in life.

Spamgirl

Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 03:30 pm Click here to edit this post

Yes, and I was just making a joke... not trying to start anything with you :)

Tukuul

Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 04:40 pm Click here to edit this post

New tabloid up

Tukuul

Thursday, February 08, 2001 - 09:01 am Click here to edit this post

The Azriel / Elitist One on One yesterday seemed to start off rather bitter, don't you think? I had more interest in the Merlin / Gu conversation in groupchat while they were gone.

There's too much speculation and backbiting on Azriel's and Elitist's part. Sour Grapes.

Ducky

Thursday, February 08, 2001 - 09:55 am Click here to edit this post

I think Ariel feels uncomfortable when she is around Merlin and Guru as she stated in chat they just ignored her and went on chatting amongst themselves.
In the chat with Elitist I think she was just venting her frustration about being ingrored. And in her conversation with Elitist she also explained how all they could come up with to ask them about was Elitist pool.
I enjoyed watching both chats last night but found myself enjoying the conversation with Elitist and Azriel the most. Merlin and Guru were onto a good conversation with Merlin giving Guru allot of advise.

Tukuul

Thursday, February 08, 2001 - 10:20 am Click here to edit this post

I saw that. If they don't want to talk about the pool then why didn't Elitist say something or start a conversation up himself? He complains about nobody having a conversation with him, yet he's the one that just quietly sits back. At least Gu was trying to make conversation. If that's all they have to do is complain about the topic at hand or about other people getting along with each other, then they have serious personal problems.

I didn't see much substance in their chat except complaining and whining. They seem to be made for each other.