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Archive through January 23, 2001
Spamgirl | Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 02:48 pm  I think Guru didn't have the opportunity out there to be who he is in here... (sorry about talking behind your back, gu ;) Guru is great... I like the side of him we see in here... (although I'm sure he's being good ole gu in his RRs ROFL! ) But what brings up Guru, Merlin?? wrong thread, isn't it? |
Juju2bigdog | Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 02:56 pm  Juju is getting very confused. Spam is out of the closet, Merlin is getting flirting tips, MissLibra will be in here dong cartwheels any minute. and this in a drive-in movie thread. Hi kids, just got back in. |
Azriel | Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 02:57 pm  A lot of factors go into that one Merlin. I seriously can't give you a blueprint of a every woman's mind. I don't understand some women, myself. Flirting is sometimes like a first step. Sometimes it doesn't lead to the second step, because someone is using it as a shield to protect them from rejection. Flirting is sometimes just like Spam said, 'FUN' Flirting is sometimes just a means to get SEX! You just have to look beyond the flirting to the person. Every person is driven by different circumstances and emotions. |
Merlin | Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 03:01 pm  It was just a stab at cryptic humor, Spam. If you missed it, then most everyone else may have. It seems like a day or two ago you were somewhat paranoid and now today you are bouncing of the walls. If I use you as a comparison, Guru is consistent. Maybe someone will see the humor in that. |
Merlin | Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 03:02 pm  and I would love to have your insight on this juju |
Merlin | Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 03:04 pm  the flirting question that is, dont worry about my cryptic humor |
Spamgirl | Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 03:09 pm  Ah shit, Merlin... i got THAT part, Merlin... I just didn't find it funny, really I think Guru just got wise to the prize, baybee |
Merlin | Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 03:23 pm  Azriel, I understand there isn't a blueprint, but wouldn't it be nice if it was. Maybe we could just hold a sign saying #2 flirt coming up or a #1 flirt with time limitations attached. I appreciate the input you have given so far and hope that others will give their input also. I think that this is something everyone deals with, whether they are married or single. Some people may have felt the spotlight would have been on them and not the question, but you didnt hesitate to answer honestly. Thank you. |
Juju2bigdog | Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 03:39 pm  Merlin, LOL, I found your cryptic cyber humor to be the most interesting part of this discussion. I wasn't really paying much attention to the flirting discussion. It's been kind of a long time since I flirted. I used to travel a lot with all long-time married men. It is a different dynamic. |
Spamgirl | Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 03:41 pm  Throw it back at you, Merlin. How do you know when a guy says he'll call, he will? How come some guys will sleep with you early and stay in a long relationship, and others will wait a year, bag you, and then throw you to the curb? It works both ways... relationships are weird |
Merlin | Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 04:10 pm  How do you know when a guy says he'll call, he will? Ummm, when the phone rings? Seriously, you never do know. If I told a woman I met that I was going to call her, I would set a time and it would be like an appointment to keep. If I told a woman I was going to call and didnt, then that woman would get the message that it wasn't important enough for me to remember. End of story and end of chance for the guy. I get that the slow bagger guy is more of the question you are asking. My speculation is that this guy is more on the level of he may see it as a challenge to get to the sex part. All the preliminary waiting or courtship if there is one, may be his way of being sure that he is successful when he finally asks the ultimate question. When you say yes, he is successful and the challenge is complete. He is happy at being successful and moves on to the next challenge. This kind of guy is brutal because you are left wondering all kinds of things. |
Spamgirl | Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 04:14 pm  See, I'm not asking on my behalf... they were sort of just questions, Merlin... when a man says he's going to call me, he does (or faces the very bitter consequences ) |
Merlin | Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 04:14 pm  Juju, how about going back to the days you did flirt? What do you remember about it. And yes, long time married men are huge flirts. Did you find them more agressive flirters? |
Merlin | Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 04:17 pm  I knew it wasn't on your behalf, you are married. And I expect machinehead knows all about the consequences, too bad he isn't here to explain. |
Spamgirl | Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 04:23 pm  ROFL Nelson... yes, he knows the consequences... but he never faced them, he was very... obsessed |
Elitist | Monday, January 22, 2001 - 09:37 am  I know this topic has gotten far from the original, but here is one of my band camp stories about drive-ins. My first year in college (a very strict Christian college) I lived with a friend of mine from my hometown church in his grandparent's house. We were both pretty good boys, but away from home for the first time. One Thursday, he started talking about this movie that was playing at the drive-in that was X-rated, very controversial, and had someone named Linda Lovelace as the star. He went on and on about it and how we had to go see it on Friday. I finally caved in, so on Friday night we piled into his old junker and went for a night of education in the finer arts. We parked the car and the screen lit up. It was a very interesting story about a bunch of Asians, with lots of action and karate and all that stuff, and pretty poor dubbing. We kept wondering where all the "good" stuff was, and just knew it was going to be in the next scene. We never left the car for popcorn or drinks because we knew if we left, the scenes we wanted to see would come up and we would miss them. The movie finished, and another started that we watched, figuring the first one was just the warmup. The second one was some murder mystery movie, and again we waited for some flash of flesh, to no avail. A third movie started, but we were too tired to stick around and went home. The next day I told him to show me the paper he had seen this in. Instead of "Deep Throat" which I was expecting to find, the movie he had taken us to see with such high expectations was "Deep Thrust", a martial arts movie. Needless to say I hit him over the head multiple times with the newspaper. |
Guruchaz | Monday, January 22, 2001 - 03:33 pm  LOL! When I was in high school, there was an X rated drive in located in a smaller city about 11 miles away (not there anymore). Behind it was a long road that lead from the main road to an industrial area where one could always get a good peek at what was going on. One evening on a weekday, a friend of mine and I drove by as a "very moving film" was playing. Not another car was in sight, so we turned the car around and parked on the side of the road where we could get a good view and turned the lights off to not attract attention. Well, needless to say, we weren't paying much attention to things around us, just the screen. All of a sudden, we see flashing red lights behind us and we both practically shit. The policeman asked what we were doing there (duh) and then asked us to follow him to the station. We did. He really had us going as he asked for both of our parent's phone numbers where they could be reached. We had no idea how they would react to something like this and we were scared. Nobody was home at my friend's house so he got off easy, but then my parents were home. When my mom answered, the officer said who he was and that he had asked us to follow him to the station. When my mom asked why, he said that he was just calling to verify their identity and that we had accidentally parked in a no parking zone and was going to let us go. He scared the shit out of us, but the way he handled it was smooth. Needless to say, we didn't make it a habit to ever park behind there again. |
Guruchaz | Monday, January 22, 2001 - 03:53 pm  their identity = our identity |
Azriel | Monday, January 22, 2001 - 04:21 pm  LOL! Guru, that is so funny. Do you think your parents really would have got that upset over it? |
Azriel | Monday, January 22, 2001 - 05:02 pm  Children of the 60s and 70s and 80s, if you want to take a nice walk down memory lane, look up this site. Yesterdayland |
Guruchaz | Monday, January 22, 2001 - 05:40 pm  I'm not sure how they would have reacted. Sources say yes but I'm glad I didn't have to find out. It was an embarrassing situation at the time. |
Juju2bigdog | Monday, January 22, 2001 - 06:09 pm  that is a cute story, Gu, and one smart cop. |
Azriel | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 06:37 pm  Do you remember your first kiss? I was 12 years old. We had a neighborhood pool and I spent practically every day there during the summer. There was a guy that I had been flirting with for over a month. He was 15, big man of the world, in a 12 year old girl's eyes! One day, he asked if he could walk me home from the pool. He held my hand as we walked along the sidewalk and I was so excited and happy. We had to pass by his house on the way to mine and when we got there, he said, 'Hey, you want to come in and meet my mom?' I said,'Sure' Another thrill that he wanted me to meet his mom! We went inside the house and he started calling out for his mom. She didn't answer. He said, 'She must be in the laundry room.' He leaned over and gave me the sweetest tenderest kiss. The first I ever had. ~sigh~ oh how I wish the story ended there. You know, of course, his mom wasn't there and yes, I ended up having to fight my way out of his grasp only to find the door we came in locked. I was so upset I couldn't open it and the little creep just stood there laughing while I cried and fumbled with it. I told him if he didn't let me out now my brothers were going to kill him. He said, 'Oh yeah, who are your brothers?' There was a look of total fear on his face at the mention of my brother's names. He let me out of there so fast. My brothers paid him a lil visit later that day. They brought him back to our house to apologize to me. He was VERY sorry |
Merlin | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 06:48 pm  Uhhh, didnt you mention your brothers were still in Houston? |
Azriel | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 06:55 pm  Yep. I hope I'm smart enough now that I won't ever need their services again in that area. |
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