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Noslonna | Friday, October 20, 2000 - 01:46 pm  Friday, October 20 Internet Camera Himay10ns 4:39 am Good morning everyone! I'm back! I had to take a little break yesterday. Things aren't going so well on the homefront. My Great Aunt Jane is going through chemo and I got a rather disturbing call from my parents yesterday. I was so sad and depressed that I couldn't bring myself to sign on. I got a good night's sleep and I'm ready to plug forward. There have been several comments made about some of the other BGs wanting to "know me better". I'm committed to letting them do that! Thanks for being patient with me and I'll see you guys later! Xenia 5:52 am Hey Himay! Considering you and I may not get the chance to bond before I get banished in 14 hours, I just wanted to say that I do regret that we didn't get to know each other better and that time was wasted on negativity rather than developing something better. I hope both you and your aunt emerge triumphantly. ((((((CHOCOLATE CHIP COOKIE)))))) for you. Himay10ns 6:58 am XENIA! You are so sweet! Hey, don't worry about not getting to know me. It's more my fault than yours. Thank you for the kind words about my aunt, she's hanging in there. I guess you think you're leaving tonight, if that's the case, I'll see you shortly on the outside. I am looking forward to posting the live feeds with you during BB2! Here's a cookie right back at you! [ed. ] Arreal 11:17 am Hey May, I hope you got some well deserved rest. My prayers go out to you and your family. Morning everyone out there. My puter kept freezing up on me last night so I left early. GRRRRRRRR... I should know about the other one today at 3pm. Cross your fingers and toes. Looks like many new topics out there to post on so I'm going to be busy today. I will get through it. I'm saddened by the fact that it is banishment day. I don't want to see anyone go. I've wanted to have the chance to speak with Zeb, so it best not be him who leaves. I guess I'm curious as to why we aren't at each others throats in here. LOL Ciao! Hugs to all. Living Room Himay10ns 4:32 am Thanks to Roger for doing a great job with the challenge reward. You gave us a nice objective report and we appreciate you! I'm sorry I wasn't around last night to hear it firsthand. I had a very LONG day and when I got home, my parents called to give me an update on my aunt who is going through chemotherapy for lung cancer. It's not looking good... I was very sad and depressed so I went to bed at 8:30. I felt really bad this morning for not being an active participant yesterday, but I just couldn't get the energy up to sign on after that phone call. I hope you all understand. Vykin 7:14 am HiMay10ns family always should come first. Best regards for your aunts health Himay10ns 7:19 am Thanks Vyk sweetie! I'm feeling much better today! I want you all to know that I am committed to being here with you. Please feel free to ask me anything you want to know about me. I'm an open book... Luke 9:31 am Hmmmm, mornings seem to be slow in here. I guess I´m the only houseguest that´s a morning person! Hehehe. Anyone around? Himay10ns 9:37 am Hi Luke! I'm around. How are you today? Zebulon 9:45 am Hi everyone! I posted a new discussion topic. Luke 9:54 am Morning May! Morning, Zeb! Zeb--where did you post the topic? All I see under discussions at the top is your limerick page... Xenia 10:19 am Zebby my sugar plum! I responded to your new discussion topic! Go have a look! Roger_Ramjet 10:51 am Hello all! Just checking in quickly. I saw the new banner. I know many truths! LOL I believe I've "fessed up" to the ones I'm aware of. If only they would be specific. I wonder what I know about? Could they be screwing with me? That gruop of folks? LOL May, so sorry to hear the news of your aunt. Himay10ns 10:52 am Thanks Roger and don't worry about the banner! We'll know EVERYTHING in due time. Zebulon 11:05 am HiMay, I can only imagine what you are going through with your aunt. My friend went through the same type of treatment. Also, my own aunt battled liver cancer (and she even didn't drink) for over a year. Chemo is very tough to go through but I really pray she gets through it and beats the cancer. If you prefer not to talk about it, I certainly understand. I hope doctors will find alternative forms of treatment besides chemotherapy and radiation. I've heard stories that the herb from the Maitake mushroom can prevent and in some cases reverse the cancer process. Again, I'm very sorry to hear what you are going through. Visit and talk to her and keep her spirits up. Himay10ns 11:47 am Thanks Zeb, I appreciate the kind words of support. My aunt is 87 years old. She discovered a malignant melanoma on her arm about a year ago. Surgery was done immediately but the cancer had already spread. Aunt Jane never had any children of her own and her only sister, my grandmother, passed away years ago. Her husband has passed as well. I feel so bad because she is alone. My mother and father are really taking good care of her. I feel helpless being so far away. I've sent her cards and gifts but I know she would much rather have me in person. I'm considering taking a few days off in November and spending Thanksgiving with her. It's amazing how I take my good health for granted. Moondance 11:58 am Good Morning all! May, I am sorry and I hope that you do get to spend some time with her. I believe she can feel your good thoughts and energy even when you are not there. My love & prayers are with you! Luke 12:05 pm May, hang in there. I've been down the chemotherapy road with a loved one before. Although it may bring little relief to the pain and concern you and your family may experience, I do offer you my love and support. Hello my dear Moon! Last night I did take a trip around your fansite. You are one beautiful person! And from getting to know you in here, I can say your beauty is interior as well as exterior! How is your day going? I was in meetings all morning and am now settling down again at my desk. The majority of my attention this afternoon will be on these boards rather than on my work! hehehehe Himay10ns 12:08 pm Moon, I've been wanting to talk to you about all this. You are such a sweet spirit and your words have been uplifting to me. Sometimes its hard to admit I am sad or depressed when so many people are counting on me. I have to put on my happy face every morning in order to motivate my employees. Sometimes I just wish I could pull the covers over my head and hide from the world. It's been easier for me to talk about this in here. Everyone has been so understanding. Moondance 12:30 pm I love you Luke. I am glad you are around today. There are some good discussions. I like the one May started "If". May, you are so sweet as well. I keep thinking that for you when it rains it pours! But just think of the flowers afterwards. I know things are difficult but as you can see we care and Luke is great to get insights about this too! Seems like he has been through the ringer himself. I am going to miss "us". I have come to depend on the friendships here. I hope to keep you guys close when 'The Game' is finished. Xenia 12:34 pm Including me, Moon? LOL! Roger_Ramjet 12:38 pm Just checking back in--- hello everyone! It sounds like it's a typical Friday afternoon here in the house, with the exception of May's aunt, Vyk's neck, and Moon's virus. Let's hope the rest of us don't get sick or hurt!! LOL Being the oldest, I reserve the right to physically fall apart at any given moment for any given reason. Now mentaly--that is another story...I don't know quite what the story is...I just know it's another story! Luke 12:39 pm Roger! Roger! Roger! Are you going to be around for long? Roger_Ramjet 12:45 pm Luke--hey there! I'll be around all day, although with work going on, I can't guarentee the quickness I can get back to the board. I will of course respond to anything once I do get here. So far it looks like I'll be able to check in in a timely manner over the course of the afternoon. Sorry, while noncommittal, it is accurate. Did you have something specific to cover?? Moondance 12:43 pm Hi Roger, being the second to the oldest can I have that right too? Roger_Ramjet 12:49 pm Moon, no you can't---it's the only special previlage I have!! LOL You're not old enough yet anyway (even if you are the 2nd oldest) LMAO |
Noslonna | Friday, October 20, 2000 - 02:13 pm  Friday, October 20 Banners: ROGER KNOWS THE TRUTH: FESS UP NOW ZEB - XENIA SAID IN RR SHE'S YANKING YOUR CHAIN http://www.spamgirl.com/zeb/ The Virtual House: Dear Resident Computer User: Don't Miss This Opportunity! New Folder started by Zebulon. Zebulon 11:24 amAWESOME OPPORTUNITY! YOU WILL EXPERIENCE GREAT SEX within four days of receiving this letter, provided you send it on. Since the copy must tour the world, you must make ten copies and send them to others. This is no joke. Send no money. Just send copies to people who need to GET LAID within 96 hours. Zeb describes all the sexual experiences received by people who sent the letters then asks: Will you be the next to benefit from this opportunity? Give yourself a chance by mailing out 10 copies to your friends and family today. You'll be glad you did! General Discussions: Real Life Funny Stories about People We Know Himay10ns: We lived next door to Dave and Sandy, they had a little girl named Shannon. Shannon had named her private parts her Buffy. One day, in the middle of the grocery store, Shannon said in a really loud voice, "Mommy your Buffy smells!" Sandy was so embarrassed but relaxed when she realized no one knew what a Buffy was. Sandy told my mom this story and my mom told my dad. My father is hilarious and chose the perfect moment to embarrass Sandy. At a party a few days later my dad was standing in a large group with Sandy and Dave. He looked up, sniffed the air and said, "Whew, somebody's BUFFY SMELLS!" If you could have seen the look on Sandy's face! (I guess you had to be there, but our family still laughs about Shannon and her Buffy.) General Discussions: Zebulons Limerick's Zebulon:There once was a girl named Xenia. She looked like Vincent Gardenia. She spun webs of hate Then she would masturbate Riding Red Rockets to West Virginia. Zebulon: The thread is no longer an unfinished symphony. Zebulon 9:41 am I should feel bad about making fun of someone's looks because I try to make it a point to not do that, but in lieu of the current sadistic example Xenia is setting, I figured it was a special case and one evil turn deserved another. I don't claim to be perfect. Pray for me. |
Noslonna | Friday, October 20, 2000 - 03:04 pm  Friday Oct. 20 General Discussions: False Accusations of Abuse: What's your take? New Folder started by Zebulon. Zebulon: I have to admit that I've never been involved in a false accusation of abuse of someone until Xenia made the insinuation two days ago after mangling a post I made about a recent long term relationship. I find it hard to believe that any "sane" individual would even consider doing that to a person. Not much gets to me, but this has truly upset me and has caused me to bring up this discussion. It's not solely about Xenia, but about people (male or female) who make similar false immoral pleas of abuse everyday and get innocent people arrested or change people's views towards them. Do you think men and women have equal power or do you think one side has an advantage over the other when it comes to these types of accusations? What are your thoughts on this issue? Xenia Well, Zeb, first I'd like to clarify: I began to question whether or not you are an abusive man before the post about your ex-gf. It started after I read your posts in the domestic violence thread. I am so glad you started this thread because it raises an issue I wrote about in my visit to the RR last night. First, I have a confession: (I wasn't going to reveal this at all and just leave you to find out on your own, but since I'm leaving tonight, what the the hell, I'll spill the beans now...) During a RR visit I wrote:HAHAHAHAHA!!! Over the last few days, Zeb has proven to be the biggest source of entertainment for me since I've been in this game!!! Watching him have a MELTDOWN over the things I've been writing is HYSTERICAL!!! And the really funny thing is, I truly do not have an opinion about him. Nothing I have written about him is genuine. I don't even know the guy! But just watching him react cracks me up! He actually BELIEVES everything I am writing and doesn't seem to be even remotely considering it's all about me f-cking with his mind! I LOVE IT!!! Sorry, Zeb. I couldn't resist. You kept on reacting and I couldn't stop egging you on. What truly appauls me is that no one came to your defense. I wrote this in a late-night RR visit: I just came from the board and saw that, even though he said "I'm so over you", Zeb is still foaming at the mouth. LOL!!! But it got me to thinking... Here I am posting the most outrageous, most insulting, most unnecessarily dramatic comments about Zeb and NOT ONE PERSON is defending him!!! This is what I DESPISE about these kinds of situations. I can't blame this particular group of people because I think in most situations the average person would also sit back and say nothing. But, Christ, if someone else was speculating about Zeb the way I am, I would be all over their ass, telling them to shut the hell up because they cannot prove their assumptions, telling them to seek therapy, pointing out that their assumptions are wrong based on the info Zeb has offered. Is anyone challenging me? NO!!! They all just ignore the whole issue. How truly pathetic. Especially when they must have an opinion and want to say something. I really can't understand not wanting to "get caught in the middle". I think if you believe in something, believe someone is wrong and being unjust then you should say something!!! Go ahead and spew in anger. I probably deserve it. And I know I'm going to hell for this one. But damn it, I was bored and it was fun. Zebulon 10:47 am Oh, I'm sure it was fun for everyone. What made you come clean now? So people wouldn't think of you as the toad you are? You have some serious self-esteem issues you need to iron out girl. I can't even believe you would make up something like that. Xenia 10:52 am You continue to make me laugh, Zeb! I came clean now because I'm leaving today. I have nothing to lose - nothing to gain. I forgot to add to the above post: Thank you for making this week more bearable, Zeb. Thank you. Roger_Ramjet 11:16 am Xenia, I thought I answered your questions about when I say something and when I don't. At the time I gave them, you didn't mention that as being pathetic, yet now you do. My opinion on was of no consequence and that is why I didn't say it. There they go again going at each other. I don't know where they get some of their ideas-- well, let them battle it out-- they are both capable of holding their own. That is the same thing I told you when you asked me about not going to the defense of someone. I did state my opinion when you asked. I wonder how much amusement I've been for you-- right now I have no idea. I hope that I provided something positve to you-- even if only that. I don't know if you will leave or not-- I didn't look at the votes. Many like the conflicts that go on in here, many do not. You were not voted out last time. Until we hear the results, we can't really know for sure. Xenia 11:28 am Roger, as you will see with my RR visits, you were not a source of amusement for me during the last two weeks. Zeb and Giblets were. Yes, you did explain to me why you do not get involved and I respected your response. But remember the one time when you did? The time when I made the remark about Gail's family? You obviously felt that I had crossed a line then. Don't you think accusing someone of abuse is also crossing the line? But it's really here nor there. I had my fun with Zeb and torture time for him is over. Don't forget people, we are merely playing "The Game". (And a special note to you Zeb: Remember when you told me I was being "fake"? Kinda makes you wonder, doesn't it?) Moondance 11:30 am Xenia, I felt from the beginning you choose to do this to Zeb: 1) for attention 2) for a reaction. I choose not to participate because I believe there are bigger issues in life to be concerned with then to feed someone's ego by reacting to their selfish motivations. As you pointed out numerous times, I am older so I hope you will take some unsolicited advice. Please take domestic abuse seriously, it happens everyday to many people and I am sure they would be offended to what you have called entertainment. To 'make' your entertainment out of someone else's misfortune, character and/or feelings is not acceptable. If you feel that hostility is the only way to get a reaction or a discussion going then you have more to learn than I thought. As far as Zeb, I enjoy him here and he has 'handled' himself & you pretty well so please do not pimp the others for a defense. Zebulon 11:32 am I think everyone needs to scroll up to where all this began and see who actually DID start it. It's over as far as I'm concerned. Sparing the issue with Xenia, does anyone have any general views on this topic? Xenia 11:40 am Moon, You really put me in my place! I only mentioned ONCE that you were older than I was (Internet Cam thread yesterday). Do you seriously think Zeb handled me well? You need to go back and look all his posts. Zebulon 11:45 am The truth hurts your ego doesn't it, Xenia? An inflated mental ego will destroy you everytime. Buh Bye Moondance 11:46 am Actually you have mentioned it more than once, in the livingroom thread also but that is not the issue. Zeb gave you what you wanted, a reaction. He seems to be all right about things now, so yes, considering what you were accusing him of, he did handle you well. Xenia 11:52 am "He seems to be all right about things now" Are you serious? He's still fuming! Yeah, I wanted a reaction. Brownie points to you for figuring that out. Too bad you didn't give Zeb a heads-up about it before. It would have saved him some stress. And I have to stay, I appreciate that you set aside the fluff to express what you are honestly thinking. It's refreshing. Xenia 11:54 am Zeb, "The truth hurts your ego doesn't it, Xenia?" No. I knew I wanted a reaction from you and that's why I did what I did. Moon doesn't have some great insight into me that I am not aware of. You're the only one who couldn't figure "the truth" out. Himay10ns 11:55 am Pathetic, not quite. Bored and nauseated. ABSOLUTELY! I chose not to get involved because I thought the whole accusation was absurd. Remember Xenia, I've been on the opposite end of your rage once before. Read my RR convos when you get out. After the initial rise, I chose not to react to you anymore. I equated you to Charlie Brown's teacher, "wah, wah, wah, wah, wah". Zeb didn't need any defense, he held his own. I'm just glad the whole damn thing is finished! It was overkill. Xenia 11:58 am NOW THE TRUTH COMES OUT! Man, you people are so two-faced! Moondance 12:05 pm I will repeat myself. I choose not to participate because I believe there are bigger issues in life to be concerned with then to feed someone's ego by reacting to their selfish motivations. Arreal 12:10 pm The thing that I find unsettling about false accusations of abuse is that it causes the real accusations of abuse to be questioned. Perhpas I'm naive, but I tend to believe if accusations are false, the truth will come out. I find the real accusations more disturbing. I never saw any validity in Xenia's accusations. I took them as merely speculations. Why jump to defend something that isn't true? I believe all of us on the boards just saw it as a "Xenia rant" and I find it doubtful that it will harm Zeb in real life. As far as real abuse issues I think men have a much more difficult time revealing abuse when they are truly abused, by other men or women. I think it's wrong that society has a difficult time accepting that men can be victims also. I think it's sad that men struggle to admit that they were victimized. I've known men who have been victims of domestic violence and they just don't feel at liberty to discuss it. I think because of this, women are much more likely to make false accusations of abuse than men. Luke 12:11 pm I chose not to defend why I did not get involved. We are all grown adults in here, and I don't think it's asking too much to expect adult behavior from each of us. Moondance 12:19 pm Luke... ditto Arreal, you brought up some good points about it being a two way street. Men are victims also and the forum for them is limited! As far as false accusations, what goes around comes around! Laws of Karma. |
Noslonna | Friday, October 20, 2000 - 03:07 pm  Friday, October 20 Living Room Arreal 12:53 pm Hello all. Roger, thanks for the great job you did on the outside. You were obviously the right person for the job. May, I hope you do get to spend time with your aunt next month. Praying that it will come together for you. Try to set time aside for yourself to take care of you, sometimes that is the best we can do. Zeb, when do we get to chat, I really have got to find out why you aren't annoying me in here. I'm perplexed. LOL Luke 12:53 pm Roger, it's a wonderful day and I'm enjoing the time spent in here with you. Let's chat more when you have a larger block of time free. You have my love too, Moon! I'll be posting my thoughts on the discussions as much as I can. I feel a little down at the thought that today could very well be my last opportunity. Moondance 12:57 pm Noooo Luke. Don't say that! Luke 1:01 pm Well, it's a possibility. I am kinda glad that it gives me an incentive to write now. I've been wanting to post something on the domestic violence thread. Hey, girlfriend, are you going to be around during the chat/goodbye session tonite? Moondance 1:05 pm Yes, I took off work today because I didn't want to make my clients sick. I think I need some drugs! Luke 1:10 pm I'm putting about 25% of my energy into my real work and the rest into the discussion boards! Hey, it's Friday and I got a pretty easy weekend. If I'm outta here, I'll be catching up on the outside posts, and if i'm in here, I'll be on the discussion boards. Roger_Ramjet 1:13 pm Luke, happy to chat with you. I'l be here full time later thsi afternon, although if you don't mind small time breaks am happy to get into it now. Arreal! Hi, and thanks for your words--that was nice of you to say. I haven't had any talks with you lately--I've mised them. Hope you aren't getting tired of them. Well 4 of us up, 2 will go out. Based on what I saw skimming the posts, it's a crap shoot. We are all liked and not-so-liked! lol Moondance 1:14 pm Luke, I am so glad you have an easy weekend. You deserve a break! Luke 1:19 pm Thanks Moon. Do you remember that McDonald's commercial "You deserve a break today -- at McDonalds" Strange it wasn't one of their better commercials. Like "Two All-Beef Patties, Special Sauce, Lettuce, Cheese, Pickles, Onions on a Sesame Seed Bun", but it's stuck with me throughout the years. Moondance 1:28 pm Luke, now I can't get it out of my head. LOL Ya gotta love those old commercials! Zebulon 1:45 pm I'm back everyone. Hi Arreal. You were wondering why I haven't annoyed you? I have no idea. I just go with the flow of my cosmic existence. Speaking of commercials, what was the Oreo song? Does anyone remember it? There was one time I couldn't get that out of my head but I haven't heard it in a long time. Moondance 1:52 pm I left you a message Zeb in your folder. Now I am trying to remember the Oreo song Oh, you know what commercial I thought of. Have it your way... Burger King We are going to be sorry bringing these up. We won't be able to get them out of our head! Luke 1:58 pm "Oh my bologna has a first name, it's O-S-C-A-R Oh my bologna has a second name, it's M-E-Y-E-R Oh I love to eat it every day, and if you ask me what, I'll say... cuz Oscar Meyer has a way with B-O-L-O-G-N-A" Moondance 1:59 pm OMG Luke! LOL Luke 2:00 pm I can go on, Moon! I was a boob-tube addict from a very young age! hehehe Xenia 2:01 pm More fodder for your the "Pity Zeb" thread! Go check it out! Moondance 2:03 pm The Brady bunch song comes to mind.... How about one to go along with the BGs lol Luke 2:04 pm You're right, Moon.. that If thread was fun... thanks for the idea, May! Zebulon 2:08 pm It's more like Pity You, Xenia. I don't need any pity because you're the one that showed your ass. ok, now back to the original discussion... |
Noslonna | Friday, October 20, 2000 - 03:26 pm  Friday, October 20 False Accusations of Abuse: What's your take? Vykin 1:11 pm False Accusations? Abuse? Where do I start? Did nobody in here read my post on Domestic Violence and my reference to a family member who is in an abusive situation, but family turns their cheek? Xenia, you've said, you have a BA in Psychology. It appears to have been wasted on you. You just don't get it! Since you started "beating" on Zeb this week, I knew he was in for a ride. Verbal Abuse, Xenia, can be abusive whether you're a man or a woman. I have "followed" Zeb around the boards and I have left messages after your exchanges. I have tried to help him but Zeb could see the idiot in you. Xenia, it is one thing to post messages and "toy" with people. I can take a lot of crap in here! You are a part of the crap. But when you post messages like you did last week, about giving people like me a Dry F*ck with a 12-inch Dildo, it doesn't show your intelligence. It shows your need to shock people for vindictive self-satisfaction. At that time I emailed the HOST, and told him, if I wanted to go to a porn site, I would do that. I also told the Host, you were on the extreme side of vulgarity. There are young people most likely registered on this site, and if you continued, I would consider withdrawing. Now I don't know if the Host emailed you in private to ask you to clean up your language but for some reason, you stopped. Zeb handled himself very well with you. I followed your attacks on him, and if you "broke" him (which you didn't) I would have been on your ass quicker than an electric cattle prod. And I'm sure you know that I would have. The others, I can't speak for, except to say, when I was being attacked, Zeb was the one who "stood by me". You say, you did it for fun, then you said, Zeb isn't an abuser, you just lied about that. Well Xenia, you are perhaps the only one in here that has lied to an extreme, and the only purpose it's served is that you have made an ass of yourself. I believe, and I speak only for myself, that when I've seen people in here attacked, unnecessarily, I have stuck up for them. Xenia, you have some real life issues that you aren't facing about yourself. Rather you are exploiting and promoting them online, to feed your ego. If you do leave tonite, then perhaps its best. Personally, I too have credentials in psychology, and its easy to pick up "the real person" in online posts. You should know that. I don't agree with your lifestyle if its truthful in terms of the jobs you hold. That is my opinion. There is enough evidence in the world of psychology to indicate that people with your lifestyle are troubled people and you are one of them. Even, if everything you've said here is "play acting", that in itself is an indicator. Zebulon 1:36 pm I'm cool with all this. It just proves what I said to Xenia when she first stuck her nose in a conversation last week. She's just proved how BIG her ass is by showing it to the public and she's also proved what a FAKE she truly is. Her mental ego got massaged a little bit and she probably needed it. I would say there's nothing more I could do to her that she hasn't already done to herself, but the day is still young and her mouth so BIG. It matches her ass. Moondance 1:43 pm Zeb, I was constantly leaving you messages on the board to hang in there. I just thought it would be an insult to you if I butted in. You handled yourself well and if it was too much for you, I would have stepped up to the plate. Again, hang in there, I love ya! Xenia 1:53 pm You keep on mentioning my ass in your posts, Zeb. Do you have some sort of anal fixation? What you guys think of me really doesn't matter. Of course I care what you all think, but then again what you all think is merely a perception. After all, Zeb did say I was "fake"... Look at the way you have all treated me over the last two weeks. Then look at what each one of you wrote (with the exception of Roger... he is the only out of all of you who has any integrity. Look at how you all lied, treated me cordially, complimenting me -- but all the while you were judging me. Himay, all of the kind exchanges were all lies apparently. How sad. I thought you were being genuine. And I guess Moon isn't the compassionate saint she would like everyone to believe she is. I hope you have all learned something about yourselves. Now please, continue insulting me... Xenia 1:56 pm You would you stop portraying Zeb as being a f-cking victim, Moon? He isn't one. Also, you forgot to give him a hug. You are a total hypocrite. Xenia 1:58 pm Oh excuse me, I meant: You are a total "aging" hyporcrite. Moondance 2:00 pm (((Xenia))) Zebulon 2:13 pm Ok, I'll continue... You seem to push the blame on others but it's YOU who always bitched and complained and wanted out minutes after you got in. You have weak character and even weaker trying to say we are the source of your belligerency. Yes, poor little Xenia. I treated you decent until you decided to become your fake personality and lash out at me. You are a victim of your own doing and I enjoyed every minute of it. Vykin 2:20 pm Xenia, you are a perfect example why the rest of Canada doesn't give a rats ass about Quebec desire to separate. WE say go you idiots, but you don't have the guts to leave the country. You people there just spread your crap about how different you are from the rest of Canada. Well, it applies to you. You spread your crap about how you are above us, but you aren't Xenia. If you really read Course in Miracles you will remember: "Gods Plan Works, Yours Doesn't." (And Xenia, is this a personal attack? Yes it is) Xenia 2:25 pm Are you on medication, Giblets? When did I ever say I was above anyone? And comparing me to Quebec is a bad example. I just moved here a few months ago and I agree with your attitude. Dig deeper, but don't hurt yourself. Xenia 2:31 pm Zeb, Here's something to think about: I wouldn't have lashed out at you unless you had done something to cause it in the first place. Zebulon 2:33 pm I appreciate everyone's support but I don't need coddling on this. I mean that sincerely. Thanks Moon. Thanks Vyk. I appreciate your thoughts but this has just become another scenario created by Xenia's almighty "plastic character". Yet, she tells me I'm being fake. She passes the buck, can't accept responsibility for her actions, and is emotionally insecure. That's why she has to make up false scenarios that draw attention to her. Most of the thoughts she posts are not her own. They are quotes from someone else. Her life is lived through the experience of others. Maybe it's time she got one of her own. |
Noslonna | Friday, October 20, 2000 - 03:37 pm  Friday, October 20 Living Room Continuing discussion... Zebulon 2:08 pm . . .I don't need any pity because you're the one that showed your ass. ok, now back to the original discussion... Xenia 2:32 pm Another mention about my ass! Zebulon 2:42 pm I'm sorry Xenia. I guess I do have a fixation on your ass. Next time you should post a picture of your face so we'd have more to go on. Vykin 2:39 pm I miss the little old lady who used to say: Where's the Beef? Luke 2:41 pm The one that has stuck with me throughout the years, but wasn't so popular, was Finesse hair spray commercial: Sometimes you need a little... Sometimes you need a lot... but with Finesse you'll be looking your best cuz a little holds a lot! Does anyone remember that? Roger_Ramjet 2:45 pm Oreo song? You mean:Ooo, Ooo, Ooreeo. Ooo, Ooo, Ooreeo. Cookiee Ooo, Ooo, Ooreeo. Ooo, Ooo, Ooreeo. Cookiee You don't mean that one do you? It's really old. Shit! Luke 2:45 pm Roger-- and I thought you couldn't sing! That sounded great! do it again! hehehehe Zebulon 2:48 pm Yeah! I think that's it Roger. Hi Luke! What's up? Roger_Ramjet 2:54 pm I can't sing-- I just remembered how it went. Much like Burt Bacharach-- can remember music, just shoudn't be allowed to sing! That's me. Some can sing. Go to it in everyday USA, and you will find most can't. Xenia 2:55 pm Zeb: You are such a weak little boy. How many times have you criticized my appearance now? You are truly, truly pathetic. Now run off and find (the aging) Moon so she can console you. Arreal 3:30 pm Plop! Plop! Fizz! Fizz! Oh what a relief it is. Zeb, try harder please. Be obnoxious or something, like you were on the outside. |
Noslonna | Friday, October 20, 2000 - 03:54 pm  Friday, Oct. 20 General Discussions: False Accusations of Abuse Zebulon: 2:37 pm Little Xenia, When I confronted HiMay, that had no direct bearing on you. It was just something you used to fuel an attention grabbing moment for yourself. Both HiMay and I dropped the subject while you were still ranting on about it. You got your conflict and as a result you got the losing end of the stick. Suck it up and deal. Don't cry to me about your emotional problems. Fix them. Xenia 2:47 pm Zeb: I wasn't refering to the Himay situation. Think back to the night Gail left. Every since this game started you've written as though you know me so well. It really does make me laugh. I'm not taking responsiblity for my actions? Why do you think I posted my RR writings? I'm insecure? Look at the way you're behaving. Give it a rest, already. Go chase after Moon and make yourself look even more pathetic in the four hours you have left in here. Zeb, I re-read your above post. I swear to God, you and Moon are SOULMATES. Go after her. You deserve each other. Vykin 2:54 pm Zeb, Xenia is starting to repeat herself, she said the same thing about Tali and me being soul-mates. Could it be she's run out of other peoples thoughts? Xenia 2:56 pm Giblets, could it be your don't have any thoughts at all? Vykin 3:08 pm hmm xenia I'll have to "think" about that Vykin 3:10 pm hmm xenia I'll have to "think" about that Moondance 2:58 pm Well, the truth comes out Zeb. Xenia wants you for herself! I am not sure if I want to share Arreal 3:14 pm Funny, how you sometimes have to be silent before you can communicate. Himay10ns 3:17 pm Xenia, if defending myself against you calling me pathetic and two-faced makes me a liar, then so be it. My posts to you were GENUINE but the constant attacks on me and others are very tiring. My opinion, for what it's worth, is that you should sincerely apologize to some of these people and being adults, they will accept your apology and move on. It's the only way to end this barrage of bullsh*t. [ed. wtg Pickle] Xenia 3:38 pm I respect you for defending yourself. What I consider lying is when you seemingly offer sincerity but it apparently wasn't real. But you say was real. I don't know. My CONSTANT attacks on you? I've been constantly attacking YOU? Are you serious? Apologize? Do you know how many times my appearance has been criticized? How many subtle jabs, even you have taken at me? What about Arreal's insults directed at me? I've never said anything negative to her. I could go on and on... [ed. wtg X] Will anyone else apologize? I doubt it. |
Noslonna | Friday, October 20, 2000 - 04:28 pm  Friday, October 20 False Accusations of Abuse: What's your take? Zebulon: 3:46 pm Xenia, It's easy to deny other people's "realness" when you can't even admit your own. You've played a fake game since day 1. Now you're reaping the benefits. Live with it. (((Moon))) ((Arreal)) ((HiMay)) Arreal: 3:47 pm Xenia, could you please let me know what subtle jabs I made at you? I honestly don't recall making any directed towards you. Zebulon: 3:48 pm Yes, I feel bad about criticizing your appearance, Xenia. Do you feel bad about criticizing Moon by calling her "aging"? That's also pathetic on your part. Xenia: 3:48 pm Zeb, you are the biggest loser ever. And stop trying so hard to impress everyone. It's obvious they all feel sorry for you. I did you a favor! Himay10ns: 3:50 pm Let me be the first to apologize. If you believe I've taken subtle jabs at you, then I truly apologize. It was not my intention. The attacks on me occured early in the game and I felt our interaction has been positive and sincere ever since. I don't have a beef with you and yes, I think apologies are in order all the way around. Like I said, it's the only way to end all this crap. Since you've shared some of your RR convos, let me just share mine from this morning: Ok, let me start with some positive stuff! I got the sweetest message from Xenia this morning. I have to admit, in the beginning she scared the sh*t out of me. But in time, I've learned to love our differences and she has taught me more about myself in the past two weeks. Just think, I could have gone through my entire life not knowing what a mercury retrograde is!! She is a very bright, witty and intelligent soul. I know she will do well in whatever she attempts in life because she has PASSION." If you think that is insincere, then my apologies again. Hang tough... Zebulon: 3:53 pm Xenia, You're grasping for reasons to verify your behavior, Xenia. Take responsibility for your actions. They are nobody's fault but your own. All that's happened here over 2 days has been bickering. I imagine everyone on the outside is sick of it and I'm guessing I'll be gone since I've been a party to it instead of just ignoring you. That's fine. At least I can take responsibility for my actions and admit where I screwed up. All you will do is boost your ego more for attempting to drag people down with you. That's probably your goal in life. Moondance 4:03 pm Xenia, you shared personal information with me during BB. When I entered in this game I have never exposed any of it or used it against you, yet you were eager to have me open up. I do and you throw it in my face and say hateful things. Not cool Xenia. Hatred is a toxic element. I hope for your health you can work through things and let them go. Zebulon 4:13 pm She'll be sucking up to everyone and their relatives on the outside calling this her "in-game persona". Xenia 4:22 pm Moon, you said, "I do and you throw in my face and say hateful things." Hateful things? As though you haven't been "hateful" yourself toward me in this thread? I'd suggest you go back and look at your posts. I wasn't "eager" to have you open up. I did it out of courtesy and I have not taken any of the information you shared during the living room Q & A and used it in a derogatory fashion. If you are referring to your age issue, I asked about it because you had suggested I not fall prey to social judgements regarding aging, yet you seem to have an issue with aging yourself. I found that compelling. You are truly being paranoid. You write as though I was just waiting to attack you. I wasn't. I realized I had an issue with you from the beginning, I came to terms with it and I offered you basic respect. Don't make yourself into a martyr or a victim. This whole Zeb situation really had nothing to do with you until you attacked me in your initial post. Get over yourself, Moon. Xenia 4:24 pm P.S: If you feel the need to share the personal info you knew about me before this game, go ahead. Prove what a total b-tch you can be. And make Zeb feel better in the process. The Virtual House: The Hot Tub Vykin 2:40 pm Hmm it almost smells like Buffy in here. (refer to humorous real stories by HiMay10ns) Himay10ns 3:19 pm Vyk... LMAO about the Buffy comment. Glad you saw some humor in that little story! Luke 2:42 pm Oooh... are we all taking a dip? (getting wild and stripping down). Might as well skinny dip. It's friday! woo hoo! Anyone else in here? Did I scare everyone away? Hehehehe Moondance 3:03 pm Hey... I will join you guys if you don't mind? Roger_Ramjet 3:05 pm Where's the Beef woman's last name was Pell. Luke 3:09 pm Clara Peller! That was her name! "Where's the beef?" Luke 3:06 pm Hey there Moon. I think the rest of the house is buzzing too much right now so I thought I'd take a relaxing dip in here... aaahhhhhh...... What's it like down in So-Cal? It just got really cloudy here this afternoon I plan to go out tonite too, I hope it isn't too cold. Moondance 3:12 pm You guys are too much... that was a great ad campaign! Weather is pretty gloomy here Luke! But I am glad so I don't feel guilty about not being out! Luke 3:14 pm I know. I wish I was Wendy's marketing manager back in the early '80s. I'd be a rich man right now! Actually, I'm going to try bowling tonite. I haven't been in about... hmmm... maybe 10 years! I'm wondering if I can even pick up those bowling balls! Tonite is going to be real comedy! Roger_Ramjet 3:16 pm Hey folks, how about what must be the best commercial ever, and by accident. Dirt Devil vacuum commercial by the owner of the company -- got pulled within a month, Here it is (honest, it was on TV.): "The power of an upright in the palm of your hand." LMAO Moondance 3:17 pm Luke, Bowling is so much fun. Take double socks, not sure about those shoes Luke 3:19 pm Hahahaha Roger!!!! That is soooooooo hillarious! Moondance 3:19 pm That was like a roof over my head.. I saw the commercial and didn't get 'it' until I just read your post Roger! Luke 3:21 pm I still don't get it Roger (hehehe) Anyone care to explain it in greater detail? Roger_Ramjet 3:26 pm If we put the Dirt Devil and the "Where's the Beef" commercials together we have the makings of a great X-rated commercial spoof. Hell with being Marketing Mangaer--- I want to be Dave Thomas! Notice the old commercials said "Owner of Wendy's" under his name-- now it say "Founder of Wendy's" He sold the business-- Gee, ya think he made much?? Whoa Doggy--- He can afford one of his own bugers now!! Himay10ns 3:31 pm Hey y'all-- we have to have our Challenge Reward figured out by the Chat tonight. Wanna head over to the discussion area and finalize our request? See ya there... Roger_Ramjet 3:34 pm OK--- see ya there. |
Noslonna | Friday, October 20, 2000 - 05:19 pm  Friday, October 20 Challenge 7 - Theme Song Himay10ns 7:25 am Maybe we could have Mantastic or Talisker come back for a live chat, they've obviously gotten a taste for both sides? And just so you know, I don't take one ounce of credit for this challenge. Song writing is not in my bag of tricks. By the time I even got a chance to sit down with the lyrics, the challenge was pretty much over! I think everyone did a great job. I'm proud of the song, even though not one word is mine! Sorry guys! Zebulon 9:23 am Don't worry about it, HiMay. It looks like we get to choose a prize-- within reason. Good to see you! Himay10ns 9:27 am Thanks Zeb, you did a great job! A real leader. Vykin 12:13 pm Thats a good idea HiMay about Mantastic or Tali. Those are the only ones that I would accept cuz they would be fair. Last nite I went to sleep and had a really good idea. But by the time I awoke this morning, I forgot what it was! Himay10ns 3:25 pm Hey you guys, we have to give our answer tonight during the chat. Any more thoughts on a reward for the song? Roger_Ramjet 3:27 pm I didn't contribute a single word, so I'm willing to go with what you guys want! Himay10ns 3:34 pm Roger, I feel the same way but we need to come to some decision by 7:00. Any ideas anyone?? Luke 3:39 pm How about reading one discussion topic off the Outside Boards? Like, we all chose one topic together based on the road map that Roger used and the Host can post all the comments from that thread somewhere inside our house. Moondance 3:41 pm I am with anything you guys choose. Not sure what to suggest. Roger_Ramjet 3:52 pm Luke, that is a good idea. Suggestions so far:- One entire Discussion thread for us to read
- 10 more minutes on their board
- A BBFC (or TVCH) T-shirt with the song lyrics on the back
- Bring Mantastic or Gail in
Any others? Himay10ns 3:53 pm Luke, I think that's a great idea! Roger, any suggestions on which thread we should choose?? Roger_Ramjet 4:05 pm POost of mine, a short one, although an answer to your question, just got stuck. Anyway, the map of what the subjects are called is on the link Host left for us last time. The topic should be decided by what people want to know about--I can't answer that for anyone. I feel I shouldn't be involved in picking the prize (not being an ass-- just feel that is fair) I hope the folks that helped with the song are interested enough in their own reward to come and provide input?? So far, just Zeb, unless you added to the song, May. Himay10ns 4:10 pm No Roger, as I said before, song writing is not in my bag of tricks. I was just trying to encourage everyone to make a decision so when we are asked during the chat, we have some sort of answer. I'm cool with whatever choice is made, I just think it's time to make a decision. Roger_Ramjet 4:08 pm Ok, everyone else is in a pissing contest. That is fine, although I hope it doesn't interfer with them getting to decide about their reward. Moondance 4:13 pm Roger, I have already said it doesn't matter. I have no clue what to suggest. Roger_Ramjet 4:20 pm I know Moon-- there were others that helped who aren't helping to decide and we have to provide an answer during chat. Didn't want this other thing to over shadow this reward. Moondance 4:20 pm My suggestion way above was shot down because I guess not everyone here know everyone out there. That's fine but that's all I got. Roger_Ramjet 4:28 pm Moon-- I hope you know I wasn't slamming you in any way-- just wanted all who contributed to decide. That seemed fair to me. If you don't care, that's ok too. Moondance 4:35 pm It's not that I don't care. I am at a lost for suggestions. Roger_Ramjet 4:40 pm That's cool too. Just didn't want the time to pass and have all of you forget. I didn't know if any of these or others sounded good. I remember you wanted someone to come in? Vyk liked that too, he just had certain folks he wanted. Hey, if no one comes over, I guess you get to pick! Just trying to lighten the mood-- I really wanted you guys to get a cool reweard because the song is so cool-- and I admire all of you for being able to create something like that! Moondance 4:37 pm Just say that a banished player gets to come back for a visit or the host will have a ten minute chat with us and have to answer any questions? Roger_Ramjet 4:43 pm Those are good ideas too Moon! Hey, why don't you ask the song folks-- they might be in a better frame of mind to listen to you right now? I'm just trying to help, even if it doesn't feel like it. Moondance 4:48 pm They aren't listening to me! General Discussions: False Accusations of Abuse Roger_Ramjet 4:26 pm Hello everyone---wanted to ask a favor. The reward has to be told to Host during chat. Could ALL those contributing to our song pleaes take a look at the current ideas, see if you have any others to add, and figure out what you guys would most like to get??? I didn't want to be part of that deciding group, as I didn't contribute this time around---I'm willing to go with what the song writiers want---May is of the same ilk. Thanks! (song thread please) Xenia 4:39 pm One more thing Moon: Since you seem to approve of Zeb continually criticizing my photo, do you want to add your insults? I'm sure being the hypocrite you have proven to be, you have something negative to say. And think about it, it would bring you and Zeb closer. Moondance 4:43 pm I have told you, Xenia, I thought your pix were beautiful. |
Noslonna | Friday, October 20, 2000 - 05:54 pm  Friday, October 20 Challenge 7 - Theme Song Arreal 4:49 pm I think the people on the outside should vote who to send in. Maybe Tali and Snave haven't had a chance to read everything. People out there would know best who is most honest, unbiased and who could tell what THEY wanted us to know. Moondance 4:50 pm We have at 2 hours. Maybe they will come over. Thats a great idea Arreal. Have them vote! Arreal 4:54 pm I just think they would have a better idea of who to send in. Give them the challenge to pick someone to come in and post for 20 minutes in the living room. (It takes longer to type than read) Give them 3 hours to pick a person to come in. Luke 4:53 pm Okay, what are our choices again? Sorry, was on a phone call. Arreal, you mean one of the non-house guests? Roger_Ramjet 5:02 pm Arreal, what an original idea! Luke, the suggestions so far:- Pick a subject off the map and get to read all posts (Luke)
- Have someone come in so we can talk to them (Moon)
- Have it be either Mantastic or Gail only (Vyk)
- 10 more minutes on their board (Zeb)
- A BBFC or TVCH T-shirt with the lyrics of our song printed on the back (Zeb/Roger)
- Have the outside folks vote on who to send in for a chat with us (Arreal)
- Be in chat room with Host and get to ask questions (I don't remember who) [ed. It was Moondance's suggestion.]
Did I miss any?? Luke 5:04 pm You're awesome, Roger. Thanks! So what now? do we vote? Roger_Ramjet 5:10 pm May and I don't want to be included in deciding-- we want the song folks to decide the reward. Please. That would be all of you! hehe Luke 5:13 pm I don't care much but if we're going to have someone come into the house let it be one of the old house guests. At least we all know them. I wasn't very close with anyone else outside before I came in here. I wouldn't mind seeing a post, or even 10 more minutes for somebody here to be out there. I'd opt for the t-shirt last, because I already paid for mine. (and haven't received it yet!) Okay everyone else. Let's come to a general consensus somehow. We have less than 2 hrs left. Moondance 5:14 pm CHICKEN!!!! I vote for someone coming in. Decided by the outside Roger_Ramjet 5:16 pm Moon--- LMAO you have such a way with words--- and you and Arreal are little adventurers, aren't you??? hum Moondance 5:15 pm I meant chicken cause Roger doesn't want to vote! Roger_Ramjet 5:18 pm Ooops!! Still LMAO!! Not chicken-- will go with group becuase I didn't help with the song--and I can't see any of these that are bad. Moondance 5:24 pm I know you were just being nice but it is a team thing so let's vote for what we want and hope the others join in. Luke 5:24 pm Okay. If you guys want. How's about process of elimination? Which DON'T we want? Arreal 5:27 pm I vote to let them vote for who comes in. They would know best. I think who they chose will be unbiased and have had a chance to read anything. I'm with Moon. Outside picks who comes in. Moondance 5:28 pm Be in chat room with Host and get to ask questions (I don't remember who). That would be mine. I really don't mind. it's been an emotionally - physically taxing day so anything would be fine General Discussions: False Accusations of Abuse Zebulon 5:06 pm I sincerely apologize for criticizing your photo, Xenia. I'm not being sarcastic either. However, your accusation whether it was in fun or not is equally offensive to me. I certainly hope you aren't one of those girls who run around calling rape just for kicks or everytime you have a tiff. That's a serious issue. Luke 5:30 pm Hello Hello Zeb! We're trying to decide (somewhat collectively) what our reward will be for finishing the song. We gotta announce it during chat this evening. |
Noslonna | Friday, October 20, 2000 - 06:08 pm  Friday, October 20 5:30 PM - 5:45 PM Challenge 7 - Theme Song Zebulon: Hi all. What exactly is it that we're trying to come up with here? Luke: Hello Zeb! We're trying to decide what our reward will be for finishing the song. Zebulon: Ok, I'm caught up. Let's just have someone come in. I don't care if we know them or not. That doesn't matter. Zebulon: The lyrics on the shirts would be cool, but not everyone will get a free shirt. Luke: Yeah-- I'll agree. Let someone come in. Now let's see. Anyone opposed to this? Moondance: I am with Zeb. It doesn't matter if we know them or not. It will be fun. Zebulon: That's fine. Luke: Okay. How long will this person be on the boards with us? Roger_Ramjet: Ask for a day, and see if you get an hour!! lol Zebulon: LOL |
Noslonna | Friday, October 20, 2000 - 06:17 pm  Friday, October 20 5:45 PM - 6:10 PM Challenge 7 - Theme Song Vykin: I am NOT FOR SOMEONE COMING IN THAT IS VOTED ON THE OUTSIDE UNLESS ITS ONE OF THE EX-HOUSEMATES. IT IS HIGHLY UNFAIR TO ME, BECAUSE I KNOW FROM BEFORE THERE ARE REGULAR POSTERS OUT THERE THAT WILL HAVE FAVORITES IN HERE. THAT IS ABSOLUTELY, UNEQUIVOCABLY UNACCEPTABLE TO ME. Luke: Vykin has a point. Moondance: But we are not having them come in to tell us how much they like us. Just to let us know about what is going on on the board. So what else do you suggest Vy if this is not good for you? Zebulon: Ehh-- let them come in and vent. If they get too rowdy, we can use them for target practice. LOL! Roger: Zeb--- LMAO Vykin: I WILL ONLY ACCEPT US VOTING A FORMER HOUSEGUEST TO COME IN INCLUDING THE TWO WHO ARE BANISHED TONITE. Luke: Okay, is there anyone AGAINST having one of the banished houseguests come back in? Moondance: Vy, why are you yelling? Okay, lets bring someone back. Vykin: We could ask the Host to arrange for chat where the ex-house guest would come and talk to us for a period of time. Zebulon: I'm ok with that. Let a banished BG come back in. Now, let's all go soak in the hot tub. Luke: Last one to the tub is a rotten egg. (giggling like a little kid)!!!!! |
Noslonna | Friday, October 20, 2000 - 06:54 pm  Friday, October 20 General Discussions: If... Luke:- If you were granted one wish, what would it be? ---To be able to conceive and bear a child.
- If you could, in retrospect, change one thing about your childhood, what would it be? ---Growing up in an environment and a society that treats homosexuality in a positive way. I would so much have loved to be as out and proud as I am right now back when I was in elementary school and junior high and high school.
- If you could have chosen your first name, other than your current one, what would it be? ---Luke.
- If you were going to initiate a new charity, what would be its mission and who would it benefit? ---Gay youth--to support them in their coming out, to fight gay bashing in schools (physical and verbal, from students and faculty), and to provide better education on gay issues in society.
- If you could "unknow" one thing you know, what would it be? ---All the corruptions of organized religion (especially my own).
- If you could foresee a single day of your future in its entirety, what date would you select? ---My death. I think that the knowledge of the circumstances of my death, as well as my situation in life when I die, would affect the way I live the rest of my life more than anything else.
- If you had to be someone's body part, what would you be, and on whose body? ---Ben Affleck's eyes--so that I could stare at Matt Damon all day long!
- If you had to name your single worst fear, what would it be? ---Losing someone to death before being able to say that I love them.
- If you had to eliminate one odor from the earth, which one would you get rid of? ---I'm an extremely olfactory person. I seriously have wondered if my sense of smell is even more precise than even my sense of sight or hearing! And the worst-- the one that sends me up the wall worse than fingernails on a chalkboard, would be skunk. That smell stays with me for hours on end, and leaves a lingering dizziness with me for the rest of the day.
- If you could be on the cover of any magazine next month, which magazine would you want it to be, and what would the caption say? ---The Advocate--Second gay man to win a Reality Game.
- If you had to recall the worst date you've ever been on, which one was it? ---All the dates I went on with girls before I came out. It was unfair to them and to me to make believe I was straight.
- If you had to sacrifice your own life for one thing, what would it be? ---Hardest to answer. I'd sacrifice my life for a lot of things. Loved ones, my principles, gay rights-- too hard to narrow it down to one.
- If you could eliminate one habit you have, what would you stop doing? ---Twitching my left big toe. It's a nervous tick, I guess, and I can go through the sole of a good pair of shoes in about 3 months.
- If you had to name the dumbest purchase you've ever made, which would it be? ---An 8-track tape player.
- If you were cremated, where would you want your ashes scattered? ---On the rose gardens at Santa Clara University (if they allowed it). A lot of memories took place there. A WHOLE LOT.
Moondance: Luke, great answers but my fav was: If you could foresee a single day of your future in its entirety, what date would you select? ---My death. . . . How profound. Luke: Thanks, Moon. But my favorite is the one about looking at Matt Damon all day long! Moondance: He is a cutie!!!!!! ****************************** Topic # 8 - Fly on the WallHOST: You all should remember the shows "I Dream of Jeanie" and "Bewitched" (even if it's only from Nick at Night (howings). We find we always envied Jeanie's and Samantha's ability to observe things they weren't supposed to see without being detected. Well, we found an unused spell of our own in the attic the other day and decided to let you test it out for us. Here goes nothing! **POOF!** You now have the ability to be a fly on the wall and secretly observe anything you like. Where would you choose to land and why? Watch out for flyswatters and bits of rolled up newspaper! (Presented with apologies to Vincent Price and Jeff Goldblum for besmirching their respective "Fly" roles.) Zebulon: I would like to land on Xenia's head so I could excrete on it without her knowing. Why? She deserves it. Vykin: I would like to have been a fly on Byron Smith?? (sorry being sequestered has turned part of my brain to Cream of Wheat). The Canadian who reached the top of Mount Everest. I would love to stand on the highest mountain in the world and absorb the breath taking view. Then after I did that, I would fly off Byron's head and buzz: I'M KING OF THE WORLD, flap my wings, and probably freeze to death after that, because flies can't survive in cold. Himay10ns: (Sorry Vyk, this may hit a little close to home for you! hehehe) I would like to have been a fly on the wall in the Oval Office when Monica and Bill were having their sordid affair! To watch him smoke that cigar--and to see how that little stain appeared on her dress! Ahhhh, to know the truth! LMAO Vykin: HiMay ROFLMAO. I thought of putting that but somehow I have this feeling that people in here aren't convinced that I'm the Prez of the USA. LOL Xenia: I would have loved to have been a fly on the wall to watch the last day of Mother Teresa's life. Zebulon: Umm hmmm Arreal: I don't know that being a fly on the wall would be that exciting for me. I can't really think of a time or situation that I would like to watch. Things that I say I would like to have seen are things that I am truly better off not knowing, such as when my ex cheated on me. Parts of me want to know, but other parts don't. Ask me to be able to read a person's mind and know their thoughts, feelings and intention, I'd be all over that. Seeing things, doesn't give you answers, just more things to speculate about. I would rather have understanding of another. If I really had to chose, I would say i would like to have been with Socrates during his last few days--watching his trial. ****************************** General Discussions: If Your Mouse Could Talk, What Would It Say? New Discussion started By Zebulon. Zebulon: <chuckle> Moondance: "Give me a break, I need a vacation!" |
Noslonna | Saturday, October 21, 2000 - 11:13 am  Friday, October 20 6:00 PM - 7:00 PM Hot Tub BGs waiting for Banishment Chat at 7pm. Luke 6:07 pm Oooh... water is hhoo--oo--tt... Aaahhhhh... Don't forget the drinks, Roger! Moondance: Hey Luke. Luke: Moon! What an intense week. I've got a relatively kick-back weekend and I just got approval from my boss for my after-Christmas vacation! Zebulon: <slips into the hot tub> Ahhh... this is great! It's even warmer with clothes on. Oops Moondance: Congrats on the vacation! Hi Zeb! Clothes can weigh ya down in water! Zebulon: What do you all like to do for recreation or entertainment? Luke: Entertainment? I'm trying the gay club scene but am not very impressed with it. There's gotta be other ways to meet people. Zebulon: Luke, have you tried Church? j/k Luke: Oh Zeb, if you only knew how often I've tried church! Ha! It's not that there aren't lots of gay people in church--there are but how well adjusted they are? That's the question. And clubs are so filled with "attitude". Like you need to have body-perfect in order to meet people at clubs. Such a high value is placed on looks, number of hours at the gym every day. yuck. Moondance: Dance!!! Zebulon: Moon, I should have guessed. <slapping forehead> Luke: Yikes! 1/2 an hour left. In case it's me... I'll send you banners! Zebulon: Luke, do you play golf or anything like that? Luke: Tennis. Haven't picked up a racket in a while, but I think it'll be easy to get back into. Why? Moondance: What do you do for fun Zeb? Zebulon: I like to hit the lake with friends, play golf, movies, go out dancing at clubs sometimes. I love playing party board games and travelling a bit when I can. Of course, being on the internet is fun! Zebulon: That's cool, Luke. I was just getting ready to say that I also love playing tennis but the problem is that I know absolutely nobody closeby who plays. My friend who plays now lives in Florida. Moondance: I love pictionary! What kind of dancing to you do Zeb? Zebulon: Moon, I love Pictionary and Balderdash. I like just hitting the dance floor to whatever they are playing: dance, techno, etc. When Suzanne and I were together, we would go out slow dancing. I had to learn to like country music but it's not my preference. I also love all types of museums. Does that sound strange? I also love good theatre shows. I just saw Phantom of the Opera and it was awesome! One of the best shows I've ever seen is the Cirque Du Soliel in Las Vegas. Their newest travelling show is supposed to be here next fall. I just get into all kinds of stuff. Luke: Wow, Zeb, have you been to the new Ghetty in southern California? I'm dying to go there. Have you been yet, Moon? Moondance: The Ghetty is amazing! I was lucky enough to have a tour right when it opened. Luke: AAHHH I HATE YOU MOON!!! I've been dying to go there. You have to PROMISE me when I come down there and visit you that we'll go there. PROMISE! hehehe Moondance: Luke, I will take you to the Ghetty and Zeb I will take you dancing if you are ever in my neighborhood! Zebulon: As for everyday entertainment, mainly hanging out with friends, golfing, or chillin' on the computer. Luke: Are you local, Zeb, to the bay area? Yeah, you are, aren't you? Zebulon: Luke, I live in Texas. Luke: That's right, Zeb. Snave/Mantastic is Bay Area Local. There are hardly any gay clubs where you can go slowdancing. It's all dance, hiphop, techno, fast stuff. Nothing for romantics like me. Zebulon: Sorry, Moon, I shouldn't have brought that up but I don't do any type of organized dance. I wish I lived near you so you could teach me. Zebulon: Luke, I know nothing about the gay scene. You're on your own there buddy. No offense. Luke: AAAAHHHHH 5 MINUTES LEFT! See you in chats! Zebulon 6:59 pm <stands up and jumps out of hot tub> I guess they won't noticed if I have wet clothes on in chat. I just couldn't help but jump on in. <splosh splosh splosh splosh> Arreal: For the record, I am in complete disagreement to allow a former guest back in here. I don't think it's right that the person who yells the loudest in the thread gets to make the final choice. If you want a former houseguest, I say we each pick one person we would like to have come visit. That would give the outside 8 people to chose from and vote on. We all have equal chance to have our 'person' come in. Then Vyk can pick Snave or Tali and I can pick Jana. I know Moon had said she wanted the outside to vote also. I won't be able to be in chat tonight, so I trust someone will voice my opinion for me. Again I disagree with limiting ourselves to only a former house/board guest. Roger: Arreal-- I suggested Interrogator-- if you don't like that, and it's still a stand off at chat time, I will make sure your ideas are presented. |
Noslonna | Saturday, October 21, 2000 - 12:46 pm  Friday, October 20 Living Room Prior to Banishment Chat: Xenia: Zeb, You are such a weak little boy. How many times have you criticized my appearance now? You are truly, truly pathetic. Zebulon: Yes, it is pathetic Xenia. Resorting to criticism of your appearance is as offensive as your insinuation of my treatment of women. In your own immortal words, "Can't you take a joke?" Vykin: I have posted in challenge discussion, asking Host to let us vote an ex-houseguest to come in for a period of time in the chatroom. Living Room 7:30 PM - 8:00 PM Post Banishment Chat. Xenia and Zeb good-byes. Luke: First post to Xenia. I've read through the living room conversations. I know you said once that you wish you could have gotten to know me more. The feeling is mutual. I know you're a profound and complex person. That's what makes you beautiful. Thank you for everything you contributed in here. Take care, my friend! Vykin: Zeb buddy I'm really gonna miss talking with you. Xenster same to you. I really have enjoyed you more often than not. I will remember Giblets till the day I die. Roger: Xenia--wish we could have talked a lot more--and what talks we had I truly enjoyed very much! Luke: Post to Zeb-- You've always made it a point to say "Hey Luke" whenever you saw me in the room. Thanks for that. I wish we could have gotten to know each other better. I've got a lot of friends in Texas. Maybe we should go golfing if I'm ever in town visiting. Thanks for all your work, especially on the song. Good luck, Zeb! Roger: Zeb---I love your humor---your great discussion topics and the way you played the game. I respect your approach to competition. The edge you put on things is great as well. Xenia--snap some great shots for me to look at sometime! Himay10ns: Xenia, as I said in my RR this morning, I'll see you on the outside and we can post the live feeds for BB2. Zeb, had it not been for the distractions in the past two days, you and I might have had some decent convo. I'll look you up on the outside. Goodbye and good luck to both of you! Roger: Xenia--will you at least say good-bye to me? Vykin: Zeb, Xenia-- I hope you continue your contributions on the outside boards. Dammit I'm missing the two of you already. Moondance: Hey Zeb, just left you a messege in the discussion thread. I am going to miss you! Thank you for your humor. It was appreciated and needed! Xenia: I have very few things to say...Roger-- Thank you for being such a decent human being and for being genuine and caring and for not judging me. You are truly a wonderful person. Giblets-- You took my jabs pretty well and gave back some good ones too. I'm glad our rapport almost ended on a good note. I know you have a good heart. Himay-- Thank you for your sincerity. You are a warm person and I respect you for the way you approached me with kindness after our tiff. You are the person I felt most connected to in here. Luke-- You must think I am insane. I'm sorry I never left you with a better impression. Arreal-- You obviously had issues with me you and you refused to deal with me directly. To be honest, I'm glad you had computer problems because reading your self-absorbed posts were draining and boring. You're high-maintence and more fragile than a piece of glass. I don't know how Roger kept his patience with you. Moon-- I really gave this a lot of thought tonight. You come across as this loving, caring person but I have always gotten a bad vibe from you. Roger is genuine. Himay is genuine. I think you're extremely f-cked up and want so desperately to be accepted and never judged. As I said in a RR visit, you have no depth. I believe you are fake. I have learned a lot and I now have a lot to examine. Roger, I hope you win. BYE BYE Zebulon: This isn't a permanent goodbye. I'll be on the outside causing havoc or whatever, I'm sure. LOL! We'll be talking again. Thanks for the kind words. I really do appreciate it. I have a few things to say too... I don't want to leave anyone out.Xenia-- I think everyone who doesn't think you're the goddess of all is perpetually on your shit list. I have a feeling that's most of the people you come across in life. Moon-- You are an absolutely fantasic woman. I wish we had more conversations together. That's probably my fault. Keep smiling and keep dancing... Arreal-- I know you're probably disappointed we didn't have more conflicts. I'm not. You've been wonderful. HiMay-- I know you didn't like the confrontation, but i wish we had more time to talk as well. The last few days have been very pleasant. Roger-- You just keep doing whatever you're doing, dude. You seem to get the banners. Thanks for the talks and encouragement. Vyk-- I really appreciate you and your humor. You are great to talk to and I hope I have helped by being here in some way. I really enjoyed our discussion. Luke-- Our paths didn't cross too many times, but it's been a pleasure when we did get to communicate. Just keep being you. (((Moon))) (((Arreal))) (((HiMay))) <high fives to Vyk, Roger, and Luke> This whole experience has been a memorable blast and I'm glad you all were a part of it! Roger: Xenia--thanks for taking the time to post. I enjoyed all we chatted about. As far as winning, I always hope I do--or I wouldn't play!! LOL It's really an issue of what the voters think--and after all, that will be the biggest statement of the game! Take care Xenia--I would like to talk with you after I get out. Arreal: (((Zeb))) going to miss you in here. You added great insights and lots of laughs. You were the last person on these boards I thought I could actually like. You proved me wrong and I thank you for that. Thanks for sharing all that you have with us. I hope we can continue the peace on the outside, if not, I'll still kick yer butt in a battle of wits. We all know that Tuk is unarmed. Have fun out there and I will see you soon. Vykin: Xenia I ECHO YOU AS WELL, I ENJOYED SPARRING WITH YOU, I do know there is a great side to you. Thanx for challenging my mind seriously. Xenia: Thanks for all the warm sentiments guys. I have to share with you all. I just received my first piece of hate mail: -----Original Message----- From: Grass Hopper [mailto:grasshopper_us@yahoo.com] Sent: Friday, October 20, 2000 10:24 PM To: wendy@ [ed. I am removing Xenia's email address unless she chooses to re-post it herself.] congrats to us! we couldn't be more happy to see you leave! of course you already know that because you are cheating.....you are the shit on the bottom of my shoe and now i can finally wipe you off.....good riddance.....why don't you go back to spewing your vulgarities on you phone sex line...nobody wants you at tvclubhouse any more... Luke: Xenia--I am pretty sure there'll still be a lot more opportunities for us to continue getting to know each other. See you on the outside! Roger: Xenia--a fan! LOL Too bad when someone tries to speak for everone. Himay10ns: Xenia, this too shall pass! Thanks for the kind words. I baked you a plate of cookies to take with you. Choose your cookie recipients wisely! Goodbye my friend. We'll laugh about this in a few weeks. You are probably laughing already! [ed. Maybe not quite yet. Xenia come to chat soon. We love you. Please don't be sad.] Moondance: Good Luck Xenia! Take care. Luke: ZEB!!! MORE ZEBUSCUSSION TOPICS! Thank youuuu!!! You couldn't have given us a better parting gift! Roger: Hey, Zeb--how is it going to feel to type in Tukuul again? LOL Moondance: Zeb... I am going to MISS you! Arreal: Xenia, I'm sorry you felt that way about me. I never had issues with you. I wish I could understand why you feel I was less than sincere, and what I did to make you believe I was insulting you. Never the less, I will miss your spirit and your spunk. I will continue to admire the way you stood up for yourself. I find that a great trait, which I am often lacking in. Good luck to you on the outside and I hope out there we can get to know each other better. That is in your hands though. Best of luck and have fun out there. Roger: Xenia--Take care! Vykin: Gee the 1/2 hour goes by fast. Mind is racing for closing remarks: OH I KNOW: CHECK MY FANCLUB SITE XENIA AND ZEBULON THERE WILL BE DEDICATION THERE TO THE TWO OF YOU (THEY WILL BE NICE DON'T WORRY) In the next day or so: http://hometown.aol.com/vykinfanclub/ Roger: Zeb---big high-5!! Zebulon: TuKuuL will live again! Only, he might be a little more wiser for the wear. He still likes to have fun though... heh heh Roger: Tukuul--see you out there--I look forward to more talks with you as Tukuul Moondance: Thanks Zeb, please keep playing from the outside! Thank you for teaching me about finances! Much Love & luck! Roger: Wendy! Keep in touch! Zebulon: Time is ticking so you all play fair and have fun--or at least do one or the other. LOL! Luke: Take care, both of you. I am so convinced now that we gotta have a reunion after all this is over! Moondance: Zeb... Bye sweetness... Have fun out there. Himay10ns: Zeb, I'm learning that confrontation only makes one stronger. Thanks for challenging my mind. See ya Tuk! And I promise, if I ever come over, I won't use your toilet! hehe Roger: May--THAT was f*ucking funny!!! LMAO Himay10ns: Thanks Roger! Host: Zebulon & Xenia, please exit the Play Room now. You're privileges to the rest of the board have been reinstated under your old names. |
Noslonna | Saturday, October 21, 2000 - 12:57 pm  Friday, October 20 8:00 PM - 11:40 PM Living Room Himay10ns: And then there were 6... Luke: Man... I know banishments are part of the game but they suck! And I think they're only gonna get more and more difficult as we get to know each other more. <sigh> Roger: Luke!! LOL another week of LNC?????? everyone one else is wanted too!!!!!!!! [ed. LNC is late night convo. god help me.] Luke: LNC it is, Roger! we gotta decide on this reward, though! (heads to the challenge boards) Roger: May---getting stronger??? The next week should be good for us to get closer---then ripped apart again! Isn't the game....unique? Luke: Gonna grab a bite to eat. snot sure if I'll be back tonite. I'm cool with anyone coming back into the house. It'll be great just to get some more outside information. Roger: I'm going to get food as well, and it turns out one of my friends (true frind) is having some problems--going to check in on him. Probably back late night. Take care, and talk to you in a bit. Vykin: Roger--Luke, have a great late night conversation. I'm going to bed. Moondance--HiMay10ns, Good morning to you, I'm sleeping in. Looks Like Zebulon seems to be the choice. [ed. for challenge reward] |
Noslonna | Saturday, October 21, 2000 - 01:13 pm  Fri. Oct. 20 - Sat. Oct. 21 8:00 PM - 11:40 PM The Internet Camera Himay10ns Friday, Oct. 20 - 7:37 pm Hi Noslonna and Digilady! You guys don't know how much I appreciate your support. Just knowing you are out there is keeping me in the game. You're the greatest! I'll see you soon. Luke Friday, Oct. 20 - 8:13 pm You have got to be joking! I am totally floored! This is so cool! I have a fansite! Thank you, Spamgirl, whoever you are, and all you Luke supporters. I may have been a little quiet up until now but I think the dynamic of this house just changed this evening. I predict we'll be seeing a lot more out of everyone in this house. For those of you who tune in late at night, I'm sure Roger and I will be up chatting. Thanks again to all of you for your well wishes and go easy on those of us who eventually get banished (especially Xenia. I think there's a lot more to her than meets the eye.) (((hugs to all of you!))) Arreal Friday, Oct. 20 - 11:12 pm Hi everyone, and good evening. It sucks having Zeb and Xenia gone. Our size in here is dwindling. I find it frustrating that Vyk and I are at odds again with trying to decide who to come in. Gail, I meant no disrespect towards you when I said I didn't want you to be the one. I am nervous about honesty and vendettas. I hope you can understand that. That goes for you also Flint. Smile and be nice all. Vykin Friday, Oct. 20 - 11:40 pm Hello NightOwls: Zeb/Xenia - I'm drowning HELP! (then again last week I said, "Oh Lord, help me Jesus, and he replied, "You're beyond help my son". Zeb, thanx a million. I'm saving your folders for tomorrow, to help me survive. Xenster, I may have to unlock your Padded Cell, I think I'm gonna need it quick. No one is talking in here tonite, looks like the rest of the houseguest's computers have frozen up since the chatroom, they must also be having Java problems. Oh except for Arreal, miraculously her computer seem to work fine before and after chatroom discussions. Do we think, she will be in chat when you come and report to us Zeb? Hmm gee, I wonder, perhaps OnReal can send her ghost for she surely seems to do well at "Selective Disappearance". Come to think of it, perhaps her (ghost) did go to the chatroom tonite. Who knows? She certainly seems to have no problem when it comes to replying to my posts. She's pretty quick at that. Regardless, I might as well save you all the suspense: Yes, I will be nominating Arreal in the next round. On that note, I'm going to catch David Letterman. Public Service Announcement: Quote from Vykin: Unfortunately I cannot be held responsible for the actions of others, both inside, outside the boards or in chatrooms. Good Nite and GodSpeed Zebulon and Xenia. Roger Saturday, Oct. 21 - 1:35 am Vyk, for the record on my computer, it's fine. I posted in another room that in real life I had a friend who needed help tonight. Some problems that just crushed him. Had it not been for that, I would have been here the entire evening. I expect to be here all evening tomorrow (hell most of the whole day a well.) If you have the opportunity, I would enjoy having you for late night chat. Vykin Saturday, Oct. 21 - 11:48 am Hi Roger, I saw your post, that you'd be gone for a bit. Checked to see if you were back, but weren't so I headed off to sleep (Roger, I have no doubt your puter was fine.) LOL |
Noslonna | Saturday, October 21, 2000 - 01:48 pm  Sat. Oct. 21 The Church Roger: Sat. Oct. 21 - 2:02 am I found this message blowing across the lawn outside. It had your name on it Vyk. Something about having a kid, so having an understanding of what kids come up with. Arreal, your name was included next to Vyk's. Roger leaves two stories in Vykin's Church. One about Love from a child's view: There are 2 kinds of love--our love and God's love. But God makes both kinds of them. You can break love, but it won't die. Another story. Moral: Friends are a very rare jewel, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share a word of praise, and they always want to open their hearts to us. Roger: Sat. Oct. 21 - 2:42 am Vyk, even though we have differening beliefs, I wonder if the idea is that the issue could be how we act as humans, how we treat each other that really counts? I don't know. I do believe this also belongs here. Forgive me if I was wrong. Roger leaves another story for Vykin. Endiing: Thank You, God, that Your love has spread abroad through human hearts and hands. Vykin Sat. Oct. 21 - 11:53 am Gee Roger, great stories! Not sure what you mean about different beliefs, I believe in God. Thanks, great way to start Saturday. (Hey Big G give Roger a good day today, he told great stories) |
Noslonna | Saturday, October 21, 2000 - 02:51 pm  Sat. Oct. 21 10:30 AM - 1:30 PM New Banner: THE INTERROGATOR GETS JOB AS REGIS' CO-HOST! New Challenge:Challenge 8 - Guessing Game: Board Guests - It is time for an individual challenge. You are required to E-mail the Host by 3:00 p.m. PST Sunday, and provide three things about yourself that none of your fellow Players know. The list of issues will be posted without the names attached, and it will be up to each of you to figure out what belongs with who. Once the list has been posted, you will be given more instructions. Living Room Roger_Ramjet 10:38 am Interesting--there was a post at 7:41 am, although when I view the messages, there are none between my 3:30 am message and this one. Problems? Roger_Ramjet 10:54 am When someone comes in, let me know. I'd be interested in hearing your thoughts on last night's events. Moondance 10:58 am Good Morning Roger! Luke 11:00 am Good Morning everyone! Hmmmm... thoughts on last night. First of all, I think it's kind of funny that we are having such a difficult time coming to a decision as to what "reward" we want! We still don't have that decided yet, do we? Moondance 11:04 am Morning Luke! Luke 11:05 am I'm reading through the posts and it seems like Friday night in here after the banishments were pretty much dead. Usually it takes me half an hour to read all through the previous night's posts. I finished in 5 mintues now! Hello Moon. God, it's a beautiful day up here. How are you doing after last night? I wrote in my redroom visit that I was concerned about how you might have handled Xen's comments. Moondance 11:08 am I think Zeb. Other than having a 102 temp, the flu and being on Xenia's hostility list (everyone has been at one time or another) everything was fine last night. How was bowling Luke? Hope you had fun. Roger, is your friend better? Luke 11:13 am Believe it or not, it was a date. This guy took me out for bowling and dinner, it was loads of fun! Moondance 11:20 am So you had a date! I am so proud of you. Getting back up on the horse! And it was fun. whooo hooo! Hey, did you guys see the banner this morning. Pretty funny Luke 11:25 am Hehehe. It was fun. And he's a sweet guy too. We're still getting to know each other. Arreal 11:25 am Hi. Sorry to hear you're not feeling well Moon. Luke, glad you had fun. Hope your friend is okay Roger. I agreed on Zeb. Roger 11:28 am Is my friend better? I hope so. I think he did figure out that ethanol is not the best way to deal with the issues. If he didn't realize that last night, I bet he did this morning. Moondance 11:27 am Hi Arreal. Thanks, feeling so so. Hey, did you guys see the new challenge? This sounds like fun. Challenge 8 - Guessing Game, an individual challenge where we have to give Host three things about ourself that the other Players don't know. Then we figure out what belongs with who. Roger 11:28 am Moon-Luke, good to see you! I was responding to our Interrogator while waiting for someone to show up! Luke 11:28 am Morning Arreal! The dumb bowling ball wouldn't follow my instructions! It kept heading too much to the left or to the right! Moondance 11:34 am Luke LOL. I talk to mine too or yell at it as it rolls off into the gutter! Roger 11:29 am Hi Arreal, sorry you couldn't be in the chat room with us last night. How are you doing today? Luke 11:30 am Roger, looks like you had a heavy evening as well. It's good you were able to be of support to him. I saw that challenge, Moon. I've been trying to think up some interesting things that I haven't told you guys yet. Roger 11:33 am Moon, saw that banner! Poor Flint! LOL! Arreal 11:40 am I'm doing okay Roger. Sick of all the bullsh*t with Vyk calling me a liar about my computer. Other than that, I'm fine. Roger_Ramjet 11:48 am Arreal, not quite sure why the computer thing is an issue for Vyk--you not being in chat does not have a bad affect on us. Personally I believe you'd love to be there. I leave that for you and Vyk to work out. Moondance 11:51 am Arreal, I hope you & Vy can work it out. Roger 11:41 am I seem to be synonymous with bad news. When bad things happen and a fix is needed, my phone rings. When people want to have a good time and have fun, my phone is silent. I have a niche with a number of people, and they can't let me in both worlds. I see it as a price to pay for being the one that gets to help with all the "bad stuff" they have in their lives. Moondance 11:48 am Roger, you just hit on something. My best friend stopped calling me and coming around after her life got on the right track. You loose friends when they find a boyfrind/girlfriend but this was different. We were BEST friends and the only other conclusion I could come up with was that I just reminded her about the how she had struggled. WOW thanks for sharing, that was a nice validation. Arreal 12:05 pm I've had friends like that also... friends when they need you... but gone when the crisis is over. My best friend has always been like that. It's hard, but she always knows who she can count on. I have other friends that are fun and caring. But I'm still always there for her when crisis' arise, as she is me. Luke 11:45 am Arreal... Do you go bowling a lot? Arreal 11:52 am I enjoy bowling a lot. But vain me. I let my fingernails grow out so long and then I refuse to bowl. lol Like now. I would not bowl at all. In a month, when they all break off, I will be hitting the lanes. (Got to have my nails long for halloween.) Luke 11:54 am Hehehe. My own piano teacher would constantly debate with herself whether or not to let her fingernails grow for beauty, or cut them in order to play piano better! Speaking of Halloween, anyone have plans yet? Moondance 11:58 am I have a party to go to. What is everyone dressing up to be or, if you could what would you dress up as. Roger_Ramjet 12:00 pm My Halloween plans--work! Luke 12:02 pm I haven't yet been to the Castro on Halloween--I've seen it on TV every year but never gone. Maybe I'll just be daring enough this year to try it. Arreal 12:16 pm Luke, I wouldn't say I grow my nails for beauty, but to detract from ugly. I have the ugliest hands in the world. lol A girlfriend of mine told everyone in my Jr high school that when I was born, I had no skin on my hands so the doctorss grafted pig skin to put on them. Guess I can't use the pig skin thing for challenge #8 now. Vykin 12:03 pm Morning. Luke, I haven't really bowled too much in my life, but it sounds like its a lot of fun. Roger, on the padded room, wasn't thinking of you, only my one adversary in here. It 12 noon right now, I'm gonna pop into the shower and then come back and see whats up in here. Checked the challenges, the new one is interesting, Moon. It was weird last night. After Zeb and Xenia left, everyone disappeared. These banishment nights can be mentally exhausting! I was really pissed off at one acquaintance and another for disrupting the chat so much. I don't like it when the Host warns them a number of times. So my apologies for the one who was associated to me. Seems like Zeb is the overall pick to come to a chat with us. So if thats okay, I can email the Host and let him know. I will have my shower first and give you guys time for final okay. Be back in half an hour. Oh nice sunny day out there. Arreal 12:05 pm I would have loved to have been in chat. It would be awesome to be able to talk in real time with people. It gets lonely in the house all alone. I just don't support java script... hell I don't even know what that means. My puter situation is an issue for me, a very frustrating one. I don't understand why it is such a huge topic for Vyk. Funny, I would think someone of his intelligence could find something better to b*tch about and speculate about. (NOTE TO SELF: Shut up about it already!) Moondance 12:05 pm Zeb is great by me. Roger 12:08 pm Vyk--nice of you to apologize for the floks in chat. In reality, they are responsible for their own actions. The fact they are rooting for you, or you know them is no reflection on you or any affects you can have on them. At least it's easy to tell they want to be part of the experience---better than apathy! Luke 12:09 pm Those people were out of line last night. They were getting on my nerves too--and ruining the experience for us and the other outside viewers who just wanted to listen in. Moondance 12:10 pm Thanks for saying that Vy. I guess it didn't really bother me. I just ignored it. Roger_Ramjet 12:15 pm All--I made a comment to Interrogator last night for the required daily visit. Had to do with as the time draws close to the end of the game, we have 50/50 male/female. It seems that there is a strong chance the winner of our game will be a woman. Moondance 12:22 pm Roger, I think it is a bit of chance. The competition along with nominations, then it has to do with the outside votes. Ao many factors involved, hard to say for sure. Arreal 12:29 pm Roger, Ihave to give that one some thought. I think in real life women are much more competitve with other women than men are with men. I mean in petty ways, not in the spirit of competiton. I think women tend to compare themselves to each other more so than men do. Men focus on the end, the win. Women focus more on how to knock out the other women, their personal competion. Luke 12:25 pm I need to get out and enjoy this gorgeous day. I'll make a post on the discussion boards and then I'm outta here. Catch up with you guys later! Moondance 12:27 pm Bye Luke... come back soon! Roger_Ramjet 1:22 pm All--haven't been ignoring you--just problems with my computer--still having them actually. I can't get into the discussion portion of the site with Netscape for the past hour. I'm doing this through Explorer right now. It's now become a matter of principle for me to have this piece of shit Netscape let me through. I'm going to keep trying. If there is anyone out there who knows anyone who had anything to do with Netscape, please bring them to me, along with a couple of tubes of preperation H. They will need it. Arreal, I have comments to your thoughts. Will provide them after I get back on through Netscape. Can't argue with machine---it hasn't cared that I was in here awhile ago, just won't let me in now. gggrrrrrr Moondance 1:25 pm <along with a couple of tubes of preperation H, they will need it> LOL You are funny even when you are flustrated. I don't know anything about Netscape but i wish you luck. I hope you get it back to working! |
Noslonna | Saturday, October 21, 2000 - 03:30 pm  Challenge 7: Reward Discussion Just prior to Banishment Chat. Arreal I don't agree with letting a banished house guest come in. I think we should pick four people and let the outside vote. I say Jana should come in. She is unbiased and has been around forever on the boards. Vykin THAT IS NOT FAIR ARREAL, I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT EXTENT MY FRIENDS ARE POSTING OR THEIR USER NAMES. NO I WILL NOT ACCEPT JANA SORRY, IF PEOPLE WANT TO VOTE EX-HOUSEGUEST WE CAN EXCLUDE VOTING FOR TALI TO COME BACK BUT I'M JUST NOT GOING FOR IT, OUTSIDE IS AN UNLEVEL PLAYING FIELD. Luke Hmmm... Who is Jana? Vykin Luke thats exactly what I meant some of us don't know all the regular poster like Arreal, Xenia or others inside here do. Roger How about Interrogator- or Host- or ENB himself Those can be trusted. Vykin Interrogator would be fine with me too. Moondance The Interrogater... yes! Roger Watch out, Moon may get that shirt with the target ready. Vykin Moon thanx. Not that I didn't like your idea, just gut feeling it would be a setup. Roger I meant Moon would get it ready to have Interrogator put it on. Just a joke on my part! Himay So Gail is out and any old outsider is out. Do we want to specifically ask for Snave/Mantastic? That would be fine with me. Vykin First, we have to ask Host if our reward is okay. Then we should vote who to pick to come in the chat and have it scheduled for Sunday or Monday. Then over weekend we can vote who we want. Roger The old guy isn't as dumb as he looks. Ok, maybe he is! Interrogator knows all and has a feel for us like no other and he can't play favorites! Moondance Interrogater sounds great! Himay Interrogator/Flint would be fine. Do you think BigHost would go for it? Flint applied to play the game, but I guess that's irrelevant. Roger If you don't ask, the answer is always "no". Why not ask to have each of our choices come in at the same time! The worst that can happen is them saying no. Arreal I say we each pick one person we want to have come in. Vyk, you can pick Gail. That would give those on the outside eight to pick from. Or let host pick from those eight. He knows who will be fair. I WILL NOT AGREE to limiting ourselves to just ex house/board guests. Vykin NO Arreal, I said, we can exclude Gail/Tali from the pick but I stand firm on no outside person voted by outside viewers. Arreal I don't like the idea of a moderator coming in here either. Sorry. Roger Don't have to apologize Arreal, no problem. Luke Guys! They want us in chat! Roger! Moon! ARreal! |
Noslonna | Saturday, October 21, 2000 - 03:55 pm  Challenge 7: Reward Discussion Fri. Oct. 20 After Banishment Chat - Sat. Oct. 21 Vykin 8:00 pm THEN we choose an ex-houseguest, but excluding Tali. So the choices: Himay Vyk, I would be happy with any of the three. Vykin HiMay me too, if majority wanted Interrogator wouldn't have problem with that either. Lets see what the others have to say. I have been trying to post good-byes to Zeb and Xenia. Luke I'll be happy with any of the three, or even the Interrogator. I gotta get a bite to eat so please count my vote together with the majority's on this one. Roger Arreal--I did tell Host what you preferred for the reward. Arreal (((Roger))) Thank you very much for expressing that for me. Again I couldn't get there. The only houseguest I would trust to come in would be Zeb. I still don't think it's a good idea. I said Jana would be a good person to come in and I stand by that. She is not a fan of mine at all. I barely know her. I think she is the one who made Moon's fansite and added pages for each of us. I think Jana was a BBFC Angel along with Moon. Jana certainly knows Moon, May, Gail, and probably Roger better than myself. Having her come in would certainly not be for my benefit. I happen to trust her honesty and integrity. I know she has probably been on the boards and read everything from the beginning. I trust that she wouldn't give mean or spiteful information. I personally think she would be the best choice. Vyk, I know you think that I said Jana for my benefit but that is not true. I think she would be the best for all of us. To be honest, I don't want Flint in here either. I know Gail has been close with him. I know all that stuff that happened between me, Gail and Vyk is supposed to be in the past. Gail and I did make ammends before she left. But recently, in the past few days in the camera feed, you brought it up again Vyk. It is not in my best interest to have certain people in here giving information. That would be unfair to me. I trust if you were in the same situation as I am you could understand my hesitance. This is why I think someone not associated with the game be allowed to come in. No moderators, no ex-house guests. We, as a group chose Roger to go out because we trusted his integrity and honesty. I want to trust the person who comes in here, or at least have a fair opportunity. I trust that the outside people voting will also choose who they think is the most honest and has the highest standard of integrity. Vykin The answer is a flat no, Arreal. You, HiMay, Moon and Roger may know Jana--Luke and I don't. It is unfair to us. I want someone I know from inside here and that is:- Zeb
- Mantastic
- Xenia OR
- The Interrogator
I am sure Jana is a nice person but I'm not buying into your suggestion Arreal. Besides, you said you wouldn't mind Zebulon. It seems the majority of people in here except you seem to agree with an ex-houseguest or interrogator. And to be perfectly honest Arreal, I don't trust you. Call me suspicious, but thats the way I feel on something like this. Just like you would feel if I suggested someone I know, that you don't know, and said "trust me". As far as the Host coming in, I feel that would put him/her in a compromising position and be a conflict of interest. Arreal If nothing else can be agreed upon, I say we allow Neil to choose a person to come in. Not a moderator and not an ex-house guest. I trust him also. I think he will pick the person who will be best for all of us. Arreal Roger, Moon, May---care to add anything? Maybe enlighten Vyk on your take of Jana since he doesn't trust mine? Tukuul is fine with me, but I don't think asking him to be prepared to come back in here in two days gives him enough time. Vykin Arreal you seem so intent on getting Jana when everyone already agreed to an ex-houseguest or the Interrogator. We also discussed it with the Host in the chatroom. If you were still having computer problems and couldn't get in, you could damn well have made arrangements to use a friend's computer or go to an Internet Cafe to join the chat. But it was pretty clear in the chat room that everyone felt it was fine to have an ex-guest or the Interrogator. Now you are trying to screw with us again. You said you are fine with Zeb, two days plenty of time for him. So everyone else? Do we go with Zeb? Arreal Vyk---The only person I know who has a computer... Believe what you want. You're mad because I told the truth about IM's not being just technical. You hold petty grudges. I know that I am honest. I don't hold grudges. Every Red Room report I have made stays true to who I am out here. The truth will come out for you Vyk and I will still be able to hold my head high. I wish for you the same inner peace. Yes, Tukuul sounds great to me... Read up Tuk, you got a job to do. Vykin Arreal, you said: You're mad because I told the truth about IM's not being just technical. You hold petty grudges, you are delusional. Go back in the posts and check how many times when you started the stuff about Tali. You can post whatever you please. I have nothing to hide. Don't be a Twisted Sister. So the DECISION IS ZEB Roger Sat. - 1:22 am I blew it by even suggesting Interrogator--sorry for making just another point to debate. I don't know Jana other than another poster who's been around forever. I was the one that also suggested Host. She could answer or not answer something, just as any other person coming in. I also suggested Neil---I did so as having Neil coming in, not as Admin. He could also pick someone. Either way, not sure why he couldn't be trusted to keep complete integrity. From what I remember in chat, Host said you have time to decide. She didn't say any specific time. I go with anything said so far by anyone. For me, not contributing to the song allows me only that comment. Once you guys decide, just send a message to Host. Himay Sat. - 7:15 am I am happy with Zeb, but like Roger, I didn't contribute much to this challenge and I think the decision should be with Luke, Vyk, Moon and ArReal. Vykin 11:45 am We will go with Zeb. I will send a message to the Host. Moondance Thanks Vy. Vykin 1:57 pm Hi gang, I have sent the email to the Host here is what I sent:Good Afternoon Host: Looks like we have agreement on the Theme Song Reward: We request that Zebulon be asked to come to the Chat Room, perhaps for 15 minutes to report outside information to us. Only Zebulon and us Inmates be able to speak. We would like him to come perhaps Monday Night, before we have to begin the next round of nominations. If this meets with your approval please let us know. Thank You, Vykin Moondance Perfect Vykin... again thanks! Can't wait til Zeb comes back! |
Noslonna | Saturday, October 21, 2000 - 04:31 pm  Sat. Oct. 21 2:00 PM - 4:25 PM Living Room Roger 2:13 pm Hello---I have the advantage---I can (and would) shit here re-starting this till my computer needed replaced. It's going to wear out before me. As you can see, I made it back. For how long, I have no idea....there is always explorer though. If I could take the way explorer works (that would be it does) and the way all this looks on my Netscape and combine the two, life would be so much nicer. Of course those folks who has the little problems of war, starvation, ilness, poverty----just nothing in comparison to my shitty Netscape!!! There, I pimp-slapped (and for all you whiners out there that feel the need tag racist or hater to just about any term you can get your hands on--don't bother--it's just SLANG) myself back into place!!!!!! I was slamming myself for being so frustrated about such a trival problem. LOL Roger 2:22 pm Shit here--sit here--which ever it takes!! LOL Some goofs are funnier than others (the one time the cancel post button doesn't work!!) hehe Roger 3:16 pm Checking in to see if anyone is around...heeelllooo? Moondance 3:20 pm hey Roger... my posts are really taking long to post Roger 3:25 pm Mine are too---the ones that aren't locking up! It sucks to be us!! LMAO Moon, you and Vyk seemed to really be affected by Zeb's departure--both of you appeared to have grown close to him, are you doing ok?? Your comments about your nominations implied you might do them differently if you could?? Can I ask what you would have done differently, now that they are passed?? Moondance I nominated for competition reasons. Wish I would have done it for friendship reasons, that's all. I am sorry that Zeb is gone because we will miss his humor and I liked him as a person. Roger 3:52 pm I was thining about the issue of missing people. Being in this house, we've all gotten to know each other pretty well. We have also experienced feelings and emotions. There will be 3 of us that will leave in just 6 days,the rest in just 9 days. Hardly a long time, yet we miss people so much when folks leave here. I think it's because we are thinking of terms of being in here and pay little attention to actual time for these emotional issues. Also, out there it just won't be the same so many the interaction will be a little different??? I don't know--I was just thinking about it. Moondance 3:58 pm I agree Roger. In here it is more intimate so when we do go back over to the other board it will not be the same. Also, we have grown accustomed to the styles of posts in here. I will miss that, example Zeb. It is also different because there are less people period. Roger 4:01 pm Moon, did you feel Zeb's posts were that much different, between in here and out there??? Moondance 4:06 pm Yes and no. He always came across as smart, witty and a bit cutting outside more than in here. But we never interacted out there and in here I got to know him on a different level. What about you, do you find him different? Roger 4:14 pm Not at all! Out there he was a bit more cutting, more freqently but that had to do with the posts. If he thought it was a lame post, he pounced and pounced hard. In here he had posts for getting to know people, where out there it wasn't like that. Just my take---based on similar good posts out there, he would respond in similar fashion. I found your comment about nominating based on friends instead of competition to be a surprise! Other than Zeb, would they have been different? And why would you rather vote based on relationships?? (just asking becuase I find that subject very interesting in gemeral) Moondance 4:21 pm I say that and then have to turn around and remind myself it is a game. I am a very competitive person, but I do have compassion so I am torn sometimes! |
Noslonna | Saturday, October 21, 2000 - 04:51 pm  Saturday, October 21 Topic # 8 - Fly on the Wall Roger: I would want to be a Chinese fly on the wall of the home of Confucius. Why? A man of wisdom and knowledge---yet he used his wisdom not to pass on that knowledge but to help others realize what they knew. Moondance: So many places I would like to be. Maybe a fly on a cloud in heaven to see what my Dad & Grandmother are up to. I definitely do not want to be a fly on the wall in my house. My cats are great little hunters and I wouldn't last long! The original movie The Fly scared me so bad! I remember watching it when I was a kid and had nightmares about it! I woke up screaming, "Put the head back on!---put the head back on!" Vykin: LOL Moon, everytime I open the door to the microwave oven, I think of the movie! Moondance: Vy LOL. Don't get me thinking about that.What did we learn from The Game? The Fly - the microwave! You know where - Buffy! |
Noslonna | Saturday, October 21, 2000 - 05:07 pm  Sat. Oct. 21 4:25 PM - 5:00 PM Living Room Roger 4:26 pm The nominations are by far the worst part of the game! LOL Just 1 more nomination round. Each person will end up picking 3 out of 5 possibilities. Does that make it easier or harder for you?? And do you expect that over the next week we will bond more now that there are only six?? Moondance 4:36 pm That all depends on what happens this week. Of course nominations will be hard. We all think it is the worst part of the game. What about you do you think it will be easier or harder? You did get a feel of what it was like on the outside. Will that change your strategy or mind about who you will pick? Roger 4:45 pm No, what I experienced won't change how I vote. My short stay showed that we all have people pulling for us and we all have people that want to vote our asses off at the first chance possible! LOL I admit that I will vote by competition not friendship. I hope that the competition thing wouldn't get in the way of how much I care about those in here. Best of friends can go at each other on the field, and be friends off the field. I hope everyone here is willing to see it like that and not equate caring about someone with a lack of willingness to vote for someone. The voting is the only voice we have in what happens. It is a privilege as well as a responsibility. I hope that doesn't stike you as too cold hearted. Moondance 4:49 pm Why would I think that be cold hearted. It's how I have been nominating! I also think it is important to go at it on the field and embrace afterwards! Roger 4:54 pm I agree about the issue of how to be off the field. The one exception of just going at it on the field is if you see someone you are attracted to--then you just go for a "cheap shot" as a form of embracing. LOL--kidding! Moondance 4:59 pm LOL. That all depends on how much you can get out of it! Roger_Ramjet 5:02 pm <very evil grin> |
Noslonna | Saturday, October 21, 2000 - 08:14 pm  Sat. Oct. 21 5:00 PM - 7:05 PM Living Room Vykin: It was weird last night after Zeb and Xenia left, everyone disappeared. These banishment nights can be mentally exhausting! I was really pissed off at once acquaintance and another for disrupting the chat so much. I don't like it when the Host warns them a number of times. So my apologies for the one who was associated to me. Luke: Those people were out of line last night. They were getting on my nerves too, and ruining the experience for us and the other outside viewers who just wanted to listen in. Moondance: Thanks for saying that Vy. I guess it didn't really bother me. I just ignored it. Roger: Vyk--nice of you to apologize for the floks [sic] in chat. In reality, they are responsible for their own actions. The fact they are rooting for you, or you know them is no reflection on you or any affects you can have on them. At least it's easy to tell they want to be part of the experence-- better than apathy!!!! Vykin: Roger, regarding the "floks" (cud it be folks?) interrupting the chat. There was only one that I recognized and I asked that person to stop chatting a few times. The others I don't know about. That person in particular, it was really weird, because it seemed so very out of character to do that, to keep disrupting the chat. That person normally isn't like that. So, I don't know what happened there. That's why I posted. It didn't sound at all like the person I know. In terms of the nominations, in reference to Zebulon, I sent a red room to the Interrogator or, "Gato" as I usually call him. He emailed asking how I felt about Xenia and Zeb leaving, I said a few things, then just said, "Outta sight, outta mind". I tend to agree with you about nominations, though I don't have any real set plan or strategy. Have to admit, it makes you think before nominations, and then after banishment. I find myself actually "feeling" the stress of having to make decisions or vote someone I've come to like in here. The only person I regret nominating was Mantastic. I sent my nominations in early and he had started posting some good stuff. I was disappointed when he voluntarily withdrew. Roger: Yes, should have been "folks" LOL I think that for how many have been in chat the last couple of times, just a couple people getting in the middle is pretty good. Never know if there is a fight going on with anyone out there--a person can sign on as someone else, screw things up really bad and end up getting that person in trouble!! Just a thought of how an out-of-character situation could happen?? It always sucks when someone you've been having good interactions with has to leave! I have to go get food here shortly, so will be taking leave for a bit, although will be here al evening! Vyk/Moon, see you in a bit. Vykin: Yeah, Roger, I understand in terms of the chat room a person can type in any name they want and no one would know. So I don't know whether the one person I recognized was the actual person I know. Moondance: Hi Vykin. How is your neck? Vykin: Moon, neck feeling much better, don't need pain killers today. Last nite I went to bed early and slept in today. Went outside and had a look at what the real world is doing. Past 3 days were busy between The Game, doctor tests, and presentations I had to do at conference. I just don't want to have to go through an operation if I can help it. Moondance: It's always smart to to do anything to avoid an operation. Glad to hear that you were able to get out awhile. The weather here isn't great but it soumds better up where you are. Vykin: I had some fun today, did a revisit to all the houseguests websites, there's some neat stuff out there. Moon I always like yours. Nice to see Roger get one. I just had an update to my site. I'm lucky the person who offered to do it was someone I met during Big Brother Chat, so for them to set up a site for me, without knowing me was nice. Moondance: I love yours Vy. I still laugh at the official dog! And the Family photo album, you are so bad! Vykin: It rained here yesterday and last nite but today was nice and warm. Did some yard work, (lots of leaves to rake.) My son seems to ensure he is very busy, its his job to rake the leaves! LOL But he's quite active in sports in school and he's away this weekend again for volleyball. Roger: Vyk--good to hear things are a bit better. I concur with anyone who says it's great to avoid the knife! Shit, just as more postings are happening, I take off! See ya soon. Vykin: Moon, that picture of the White House with the dog, an online friend sent it to me. He had just put in a greenhouse. So when he sent a pic of it, I laughed and said, it's white. When this game came up I thought it would be perfect because its White - thus whitehouse. My friend's dog was in the picture thus "Buddy" (Clinton's dog). The family portrait of the West Wing folks seemed appropriate. I got nicknamed, ThePrez, by some regulars in BigBrother Chat. I forget now how it started, so they just kept calling me theprez. It seemed to all fit when I applied for this Game. I have never posted any real pictures of myself online because there are too many nutcrackers out there. When I sent the pic to the Host, he seemed to accept it. I LOVE THE WEST WING SHOW HOWEVER. The Family Photos, a friend emailed that to me. I opened it and there's this goofy picture of this guy. I laughed so hard. I couldn't resist, had to share with you folks. I have no idea who put that together. I also took the link and emailed to a bunch of my long term online friends and real friends because my online friends don't know what I look like (and I don't have anything to hide, I look fine.) So when the online buddies got The Family Photos they couldn't wait to open it fast enough. Then they realized they'd been had! Moondance: I love having behind the scene info. You had told me part of it before! The West Wing is a great show, well written and has an amazing cast. I will always think of you as the Prez! The photos were hysterical! Vykin: I only go to The Improv folder every few days. I was just there to catch up on the jokes. I don't know how I missed the one you posted about the little boy and the $5 bill! I read it and laughed hysterically! Copied and pasted it. But--you forgot to mention, Yes it was "I" who is the Prezident in the joke. Though they got taxed 95%, I did however send the little boy an autographed picture of myself and a souvenier coveted White House pen. (Joking) Moondance: So do you & your son have plans tonight after you pick him up? Vykin: Nope, my son has his own plans! LOL, I think there is a hockey game in town tonite. But he has a 3 hour road trip back from his volleyball tournament so it will depend on how late he gets back. He just told me before he left that he will be planning to take the car out tonite. Moondance: I guess he is at that age It is amazing how fast they grow up. it sounds like you are a great Dad! Vykin: He's the only child I have. I have to try make the best of it. I've been lucky so far, but never doubt that things could change in a heartbeat. He is not a spoiled kid. He learns to appreciate the things he gets and works hard for many of them. I think the advantage I may have had in terms of raising him is my 9 years experience on a school board. I was gone so often, usually to the coast, Vancouver, on so many different committees, etc. that I made sure I took advantage of every and any workshop relating to kids, peer pressures, etc. Hopefully it will have paid off. I am really proud of him, more so in the way he carries himself with other people. He is quite comfortable in a group of his peers, and equally comfortable with someone in their forties, fifties sixties, etc. Do you hope to have kids someday Moon? Moondance: Sounds like he is very well rounded. I think you have the most important factors covered, you care and are active in his life! I still can have children if I choose to in the future. The pre-cancerous stuff that I went through, I chose the route that would make sure it was possible if I wanted them down the line. I love kids, especially the ones that can talk! I have very little patience with babies. My mom said I will change if I get my own but that is also her wishful 'Mom' thinking! Most of the jokes I posted that had anything to do with the President, I dedicated to you! Vykin: LOL on the jokes, thanx, I was reading Fly on the Wall folder and added a few items to your: "What we've learned here". We should do a folder sometime this week on that. I wonder where everyone is. Roger went for bite to eat, I wonder if Luke, Himays or Arreal are gonna come on tonite. |
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