Archive through October 12, 2000

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Moondance

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 04:20 pm Click here to edit this post
Arreal....Yes, but after 2,3,4 or 5 ...I would think no matter (subconscious or not) that a person would get 'it' ... that it doesn't have that great of a pay off and strive for something else - wanting it to be different or not, is not going to change it... we can only change ourselves and make different choices. I have learned the hard way a couple of times!

But if you are unhappy and you have made those same choices time and again and it still isn't working when is it subconscious or just not willing to take the risk?

Moondance

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 04:22 pm Click here to edit this post
When I say 'you' up in my post... I didn't mean you... just people in general :)

Roger_Ramjet

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 04:32 pm Click here to edit this post
Arreal, one of the great advantages of going through that process we talked of the other night--coming to be able to completely accept who you are--allows a person to never go with comfort again if the comfort is not positive. The person how has succeeded in that will always recognize this. The person who is working on it will freqeuently recognize it.

There may be other factors that influence them such as security, although once a person succeeds with that process, it's a different slant for them. The insecurites melt away and the feelings now look at waht the person is good at, what they are week in, etc. They are no longer burdens--just pieces of information to use to improve yourself.

Moon, you have a good point about "lraening from experience". For those do not, there can be many contributing factors. If someone has mentally beaten you into submission, you end up feeling like you will always make a wrong choice. While not a good analogy in terms of how it happens, think of someone anorexic thinking they are still fat, even while looking in the mirror. Remember, I mentioned the "how it happens" is different--just used it as an example of how it can happen even though a person has been through so much.

Roger_Ramjet

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 04:34 pm Click here to edit this post
shit--learning! I'll blame it on chemical expoisure today. lol

Roger_Ramjet

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 04:34 pm Click here to edit this post
I give up! lol

Talisker

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 04:42 pm Click here to edit this post
Hi everybody!! How's it going? I hope everyone had a good day! As for me:

Work is the same,
life is the same.
Just taking things easy
except for the game.

I guess we still haven't heard an answer back from Big H on the challange with Jane, have we?

Roger_Ramjet

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 04:44 pm Click here to edit this post
Luke--are ya back yet?? Vyk--how about you?? I didn't ant to displace you in the convo!!! Want to hear your vies too!!! Sorry--passionate with my feelings.

Moondance

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 04:44 pm Click here to edit this post
I agree Roger .. well put

Here is something though... I have suffered from an eating disorder and yes I was stuck in that vicious circle ... back in my mind, I knew something was wrong though. The point I think is important, you hit on, Roger ... recognizing it. First ... major step.

All of this is not making anyone 'wrong.' It is just showing that there are different options out there ... which one does a person choice. Can we say for sure ... that a person beaten down so much feels that this is the only way? Yes, they feel like they cannot get out of the large black hole but are they just choosing not to see the way out... It is the longest, hardest journey to a better place or they just choosing not to make a choice... I believe it is more conscious than subconscious choice...

I am heading to the Improv room ... I need a laugh :)

Luke

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 04:45 pm Click here to edit this post
Hey Tali... nice Rhyme... do you think we're going to have our own song like BB does? I'm actually listening to the recording of George, Jamie, Josh, Curtis, and Eddie right now! Hehehe

Moondance

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 04:47 pm Click here to edit this post
Please don't apologize Roger... I am pretty passionate myself about this! Thanks for the Convo!

Hey Tali! :)

Roger_Ramjet

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 04:48 pm Click here to edit this post
Moon--watch out for my joke!

Tali--Hi there!!!!!!! No word yet on the challenge. I don't know about anyone else--I am pretty confident that we won this one too!

Moon, there are so many reasons (and usually more than one??) that people do what they do--or don't do! A person's perception is that person's truth!!!

Moondance

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 04:48 pm Click here to edit this post
Luke you are full of challenges that the BigHost can give us :)

Moondance

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 04:50 pm Click here to edit this post
Roger ... you said so much in so few words!

Talisker

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 04:52 pm Click here to edit this post
Hi Moon, Hi Roger, Hi Luke, Hi Vykin (I know you are wondering around somewhere)!

Thanks Luke - I made the rhyme up accidently a few hours ago. Didn't even realize it until someone pointed it out to me.

Luke

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 04:52 pm Click here to edit this post
Oh Yeah! I forgot that was a challenge for the BB guests! They just sounded so stupid, it seemed more to me like comic relief rather than a challenge! Hehehe

Roger_Ramjet

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 04:53 pm Click here to edit this post
Hey, I've got one of these 20 question challenges that I think could stump the Host. We should offer Host 40 questions (that's how confident I am) to try and solve!! Unless she knows it, I don't think Host could get it. I think it would be tough on our group!! I used lots of questiosn when I went through it. Anyone want to challenge Host??? hehehe

Moondance

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 04:56 pm Click here to edit this post
Roger ... the Big Host wrote the Daily updates... I don't think I want to challenge her! :)

Roger_Ramjet

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 04:59 pm Click here to edit this post
Moon--few words?? lol--that doesn't happen very often, does it? lol again

Luke, the BB song! lol It didn't sound too good. I suck at signing--so much so that I won't even sing to myself. I wouldn't sing to my worst enemy--wouldn't want to punish them that much!

Arreal, you went quiet quick! Thinking??

Tali--so, nothing new?? Keeping it comfortable?? lol--sorry, too easy to take advantage of--just giving you a bad time.

Moondance

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 05:02 pm Click here to edit this post
Roger.."I suck at signing" ROTFL

Luke

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 05:02 pm Click here to edit this post
Hey I have a question for everyone here... wouldn't it be cool if somehow we could all get together -- in person -- once the game is through? I just remembered that I suggested that to the Interrogator in my last RedRoom update... I know that it would present a lot of problems for some of us (first of all for me cuz I'm close to broke right now!), but I just thought it would be a great idea to meet all of you... I'm sure we will eventually... :)

Roger_Ramjet

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 05:02 pm Click here to edit this post
Moon, not a challenge of BB--a challenge like our gruop challenges, where you get a weird storyand have to figure it out with yes or no questions. That's what I've got that I think is pretty tough. I think it would be fun to challenge Host with one of those!

Luke, I forgot to thank you for the wine--thanks

Talisker

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 05:03 pm Click here to edit this post
Roger, you can give me any kind of time you want!

And what do you mean you don't sing? I know for a fact you were out singing that Bruce Springsteen song the night we met outside. Wasn't it "I'm on fire?"

:)

Roger_Ramjet

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 05:07 pm Click here to edit this post
Moon, I suck at singing too!! lol Hell, I should just type with my forhead!!!

Luke, I think that would be fun! Would we still feel the same once the game is over though?? I believe I would. I'm thnking back to what the BB HGs said while in the house, and what they say now.

Luke

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 05:10 pm Click here to edit this post
Well what came to mind was a picture that I got off the BBFC boards of all the houseguests with Paul Römer right after Eddie won... Even Will/Mega was there... I mean... don't you think that by the end of October that we're all going to know a lot more about each other? I'm sure that even someone as negative as Jordan was about the entire experience got something out of it...

Roger_Ramjet

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 05:12 pm Click here to edit this post
Tali--you are such the tease!!! hehe

I wasn't singing was I? I thought I was just saying the words as text. I make Jamie look like Pavaroti (sp?)---ok, maybe not look. how about sound?? lol

Moon--it sucks to be me! lol