Archive through October 12, 2000

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Roger_Ramjet

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 12:28 am Click here to edit this post
Moon, I second what Arreal just said!

Moondance

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 12:31 am Click here to edit this post
thanks roger & arreal... I know she doesn't like them but I wish I could give xenia a hug too!

Thanks for everthing!

Roger_Ramjet

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 12:34 am Click here to edit this post
Tou are welcome, although I'm not sure I did anything to make the situtation any better. Let me correct that--I'm sure I didn't do anything to make the siutaion with you and Xenia any better.

Are you hanging around a bit??

Arreal

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 12:38 am Click here to edit this post
When I said negativity towards us I was really meaning being nasty, mean and hurtful.

I mean, I read some of the post to various HG's in the so called LOVE THREADS that were brutal and just plain me. I hope we don't have much of that out there waiting us.

Intentional hurtfullness, I neither understand nor like. It does bother me.

I know people may simply not like me because of who I am, but I still don't think ugliness is okay.

I assume there will be posts out there with people saying...She is this or she is that...
I know I won't like not being seen as honest, because I am. I won't like being seen as ignorant or selfish or self absorbed. I won't like seeing the term "crazy" or "sick" used in reference to me.

That would bother me. I can be sensitive, but certainly not fragile. I may have 'breaking points' with my mental illness, but those are my self-induced, subconscious defense mechanismism.
That doesn't make me weak or crazy.

I also don't want to see people assuming that I have talked about my illness for some sort of pity vote. No way is that me.

I just don't want to see meanness.

Roger_Ramjet

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 12:48 am Click here to edit this post
Ok, based on how you defined that, I would agree with you completely. It wouldn't make sense to me, and I would not apprecaite it at all.

It's weird that someone would use weak as a descriptor for you. I have never thought of you in that manner at all. Sensitive with the ability to have your feelings hurt (not many of us not like that)--but weak?? Not at all!!

Wow, you used the "P" word!! Had you not said that, I never would have ever thought of it in those terms for you! That one I just had to sit back for a minute and go, "huh??"

maybe it's the same as the joke about driving (although I think there is a lot og truth in terms of driving)---anyone going slower is a slow poke weak bast@ard, and anyone going faster is a maniac.

In other words, anyone different than that person is wrong. (i mean in terms of how some people think about each other)

Arreal

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 12:52 am Click here to edit this post
pardon my ignorance, but why does that come up looking like a link?

Roger_Ramjet

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 12:53 am Click here to edit this post
Not a clue on my end--and I'm not going to click on it.

Arreal

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 01:01 am Click here to edit this post
lol okay....had to ask.

I want to expect the best, yet be prepared for the worst.

I f there are mean cruel things, I need to be able to shut them out.

The honest, negative posts that are reflective, intelligent judgement calls I can handle fine.
Those can be interesting and educational to read. I have to keep an open mind about myself, and other people. Things can and do change for everyone. I also need to protect the vulnerable side of me. I don't want anyone to try to do that for me. I have to.

I think different isn't wrong. Have you read Brave New World or any of the novels that try to create a Utopian society. Differences in people make life enjoyable and interesting.

Arreal

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 01:03 am Click here to edit this post
It brought up a self addressed letter ready to be written on to someone named Bast@ard at AOL lol

Roger_Ramjet

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 01:09 am Click here to edit this post
I haven't read much for quite awhile. Work seems to take up most of my time--just love my job. People should be so lucky to love their job as muc as I do mine!!

Open mind--reminds me of something!!:

"We are not borm with maps; we have to make them, and the making requires effort. The more effort we make to appreciate and perceive reality, he larger and more accurate our maps will be. But many do not want to make this effort. Their maps are small and sketchy, their views of the world narrow and misleading."

M. Scott Peck "The Road Less Traveled"

An example of what a closed mind will cause, in a manner of speaking. Just popped into my head when you said that.

Different is neither right or wrong--it's just...different

Roger_Ramjet

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 01:10 am Click here to edit this post
LMAO!!!

Arreal

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 01:14 am Click here to edit this post
I liked that quote.

I just had to click it. I had to. It was a wild hair that could not be denied. :)

Arreal

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 01:16 am Click here to edit this post
I think I do need some rest now. Wish I had more stamina. Yawn.

I do enjoy talking to you very much at night. tis good, very good.

Just my brain is shutting down and my finger, well, they keep hitting the wrong keys. :)

big hugs, good niters and sweet dreams...no tossing or turning.

Roger_Ramjet

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 01:20 am Click here to edit this post
It called out to you in a melodic, soft echoing voice......

No problem with the quote! There are a lot of them I enjoy--beacuse they take a feeling, or feelings, or issue, and put it in terms that I can highly relate to. Some will allow others to relate as I do, and some do not allow for that. Very person dependent!

Have you ever seen a "Successories" catalog?? Do you enjoy the philosophy of life??

Roger_Ramjet

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 01:26 am Click here to edit this post
Good night Arreal--hugs to you as well. As other nights, it has been great shhoting the breeze with you. See you tomorrow.

Arreal

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 01:28 am Click here to edit this post
Of course I enjoy the philosophy of life. It fascinates me.

Never heard of the "Successories"

Arreal

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 01:29 am Click here to edit this post
Night.... smil
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Himay10ns

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 06:43 pm Click here to edit this post
<naked> :)

Himay10ns

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 06:44 pm Click here to edit this post
OK, here's a good hot tub topic....DOES SIZE MATTER??

Talisker

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 06:45 pm Click here to edit this post
Looks like the hot tub is empty right now. . . okay, I am going to dump in lots of bubble bath and uncork this bottle of wine. Maybe a few people will head on over here to relax with me.

Luke

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 06:45 pm Click here to edit this post
<stripping>
I wish Josh was here! :)

I have a question... Xen was pretty riled up... Apparently there was some really bad fight today? Does anyone know in which room that took place?

Luke

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 06:47 pm Click here to edit this post
Does size matter? IS THE POPE CATHOLIC?

Hehehehe... just kidding... somewhat... :)

Talisker

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 06:47 pm Click here to edit this post
No, size does not matter - size never matters!! Heart matters ! Feelings are what matter! <naked too!>

Talisker

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 06:49 pm Click here to edit this post
No, Luke, I don't know . . . :( When I see people arguing or hurting each other, I leave. I feel later after they calm down, maybe it will be better if there were less people to see them act mean to each other.

Himay10ns

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 06:49 pm Click here to edit this post
Empty! I'm naked, not invisible!!

Luke, I wish you would have posted a REAL picture of yourself. I have this feeling you are a "hunka, hunka burning love"!!