Archive through October 22, 2000

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Chatman

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 08:08 pm Click here to edit this post
Welcome back - I will miss your sharp wit and quick tongue in the game. You really knew how to put people in their place. I really liked your padded room too. Hope you get your fan mail.

Lafatme

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 08:12 pm Click here to edit this post
wendy, you were great! you always managed to bring a smile to my face.

you'll be missed in the game but welcome out here. WELCOME BACK!

Wendy

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 08:15 pm Click here to edit this post
Thank you. :)

Whit4you

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 08:17 pm Click here to edit this post
Remembering what I learned young...

IF YA AIN'T GOT NOTHING POSITIVE TO SAY... DON'T SAY ANYTHING.....

<chanting it ...over and over...and over...and over...and over......and over....willpower....willpower...I got it.. I got it.... and for anyone who DOESNT yet know me TRUST me 10,000 words or less IS me saying nothing...!!!! >

Whit

Aroy

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 08:10 pm Click here to edit this post
Xenia you made watching the game fun! You are certainly the most interesting person out there. Good luck in everything!

Wendy

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 08:17 pm Click here to edit this post
Thank you. :)

Katie

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 08:22 pm Click here to edit this post
HI Wendy!

Merlin

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 08:27 pm Click here to edit this post
Outrageous and truly hilarious.

Can't wait to read you out here.

Misslibra

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 08:40 pm Click here to edit this post
Hi Wendy welcome back. Why did you want out of the game so bad after wanting to be in the game ? Was it that bad ? :)

Why did you say you thought Moon was fake ?

And what was the problem you had with Zeb ?

I must say out of all the board guess, you made me laugh the most ! :)

Lafatme

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 09:31 pm Click here to edit this post
wendy, join us in member chat, please?

Nikkid

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 10:12 pm Click here to edit this post
Hey Wendy - :) You were great. Made me laugh, and loved your intelligence - always shown through.

CBP

Wendy

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 10:54 pm Click here to edit this post
Thanks to all of you. :)

Misslibra: Because you asked so nicely, I will answer your questions. :)

Why did you want out of the game so bad after wanting to be in the game ? Was it that bad ?

I think I wrote my response to this in my RR visits. But I'll give you the abridged version. I applied impulsively and didn't think I would get picked. I thought only the BBFC favs and total suck-ups would be chosen. Also, at the time, I really didn't want the BB experience to end and I just applied.

But when I was chosen, I freaked for several reasons. One, I realized this was another form of procrastination and I was getting further away from getting into a productive routine again. Two, contrary to what people may think, I don't have an issue with anger, I have an issue with control. And when the game began I felt control being taken away from me on various levels and I freaked.

Why did you say you thought Moon was fake ?

After sh-t hit the fan in that thread about false accusations, I took some time from my computer and I gave some thought to Moon. When I compare her behavior to Roger's and Himay's something didn't seem right to me. Roger and Himay were just as warm as Moon was, but to me, she came across as too sweet, too eager to please, too flawless. Again, comparing her to Roger and Himay, she just didn't seem genuine to me. For a long time I thought it was because I was jealous of her, but then after the q & a thing, I just felt like she was "plastic".

And what was the problem you had with Zeb ?

(I had to go back to dig out the exact quote that first got me pissed...)

Just before the first banishment he said: "...but I see you enjoy lurking more than participating Xenia."

That started it. Him going off on me for being pissed at Gail for her mistakes fueled it.

Other than that, I had no problem with him. I thought his humor was lame and I didn't really read many of his posts.

And yes, I took the whole abuse SPECULATION (how I could I possibly accuse someone I don't even know?) too far. But I knew I wanted to be out of there and I knew if I created this HUGE soap opera-like scenario and based it on something people feel passionate about, then I would be banished. And I was. I do believe in the adage "What goes around comes around" and I am sure I will experience strife at some point.

I must say out of all the board guess, you made me laugh the most !

Thanks for saying that. I definitely wasn't at my best over the last two weeks. As I said in the "living room" about a week ago, I know time will pass and the way I behaved will sink in and I feel really guilty about my actions/reactions.

But whatever...

Now I have get back to a life I have been ignoring since July.

Lafatme: I went into the chat at about 1:15Am EST and no one was there.

Final note: I really don't blame anyone for being appalled by me. If you go back and look at my RR visits, you'll see even I found my behavior questionable.

I hope I was the source of entertainment for you all. I wanted to help make the game interesting and wild. I wanted to give people things to debate about it.

Let Roger win!

Misslibra

Saturday, October 21, 2000 - 12:12 am Click here to edit this post
Thank's Xenia ! I'm going to have to get use to not calling you that ! :)

Tukuul

Saturday, October 21, 2000 - 12:44 am Click here to edit this post
Wendy, I'm just your biggest fan. I'm so impressed that you made it past 2 days inside with all the stress and turmoil. You are so brave. I think you are so great to take time out of your busy schedule to answer our questions. You are so kind and, I'm not just saying this, but I've never met a finer actress.

May I have your autograph?

Adven39

Saturday, October 21, 2000 - 08:31 am Click here to edit this post
Wendy, as one who was appalled by some of the things you said and posted on it in less than flattering terms to you, I am not going to speculate further on what might have motivated you to do what you did, beyond what has already been said. I'm sure you have already read most of the threads in regard to this and you have offered your explanation.
As for experiencing strife at some point, possibly, but I hope it isn't from any of us. I have no desire to go head-hunting and hope others feel the same way. Nor do I want to see some of the uglier conflicts from inside the house, transferred out here.
I am willing to believe that Xenia has left the building and Wendy has returned. Welcome back.

Chatman

Saturday, October 21, 2000 - 08:33 am Click here to edit this post
ROFLMAO Tuk!!!

Norequerdo

Saturday, October 21, 2000 - 08:34 am Click here to edit this post
Agreed Adven, also perhaps as an acknowledgement of all the work these people put into setting this thing up lets make this last week a good heated debate but a clean one. I for my part promise to do my best to keep it clean. Good luck to everyone. This should be a fun week.

Lafatme

Saturday, October 21, 2000 - 12:33 pm Click here to edit this post
wendy, you probably went to the wrong chat room. since the game began a new room was set up (members room) that the BGs can't access. go there for members chat.

tuk, you are invited also. (not that anyone needs an invitation)

Twiggyish

Sunday, October 22, 2000 - 01:20 pm Click here to edit this post
Honestly Wendy, I don't know how any of us would react if in a similar situation. At first, I thought you were too negative. Then after reading the circumstances and talking with others, it became apparent you were being real and responding to unkind criticisms. I don't think you need to apologize to anyone.
Welcome back Wendy, I missed in you on this side of the fence.

Guruchaz

Sunday, October 22, 2000 - 02:37 pm Click here to edit this post
Do I hear the sucking sound of a big wet "buttsmack" from you, Twig?

I can't believe your justification here. Wendy made just as many unwarranted unkind criticisms. Look at what she said to Moondance.

She's just trying to clean up her scarred image that she did to herself. I can't believe you're so weak as to believe she's this wonderful person again all of a sudden. What a sucker you are. Are you even on the same site as I am? She deserved everything she got.

Twiggyish

Sunday, October 22, 2000 - 04:52 pm Click here to edit this post
Guru, lighten up. It is just a game. geez. If you don't like it, don't read my post. If you disagree, give me good reasons. I appreciate a good debate.

Jana

Sunday, October 22, 2000 - 05:05 pm Click here to edit this post
for ONCE i agree with Guru....i can't believe how you all are sucking up to Wendy after the disgusting behavior she exhibited in the game....she even had her pictures removed no doubt because she was so embarrased to show how pretty she is on the outside after exhibiting how completely ugly she is on the inside.

Nikkid

Sunday, October 22, 2000 - 05:27 pm Click here to edit this post
Gotta go with Twiggy on this one.
Xenia did nothing but play the game. Yes, she did go over the line a couple times, but she also made sure we knew she knew what was up. She had her reasons - Banishment. I really liked all of the rest of her stuff while in the house. I also followed lukes lead and went to her wendywallace.com site - I think a couple of you would learn a few things if you went there too.

Digilady

Sunday, October 22, 2000 - 05:32 pm Click here to edit this post
Yep. Nik. So she went over it (once, IMHO). She was funny! Bright, and a gas to watch.

Can't believe she got banished, what with a bod just like Pamela Anderson's, and all.

Sure wish she'd come back!

Jana

Sunday, October 22, 2000 - 08:07 pm Click here to edit this post
mmmm i was the one that posted the wendywallace site in the first place...i USED to email with her...

"but she also made sure we knew she knew what was up" (maybe us, but not some of the players)

fun i guess....if cruel and vulgar is fun for you....whatever....i'll be happy to be the only one to have this opinion...nothing would convince me to change my mind so no biggie