Moondance | Tuesday, October 17, 2000 - 05:03 pm  Day has been hectic but quieting down... we haven't really gotten to talk in awile and I miss chating with you |
Roger_Ramjet | Tuesday, October 17, 2000 - 05:10 pm  As I miss chatting with you Moon! I still haven't forgotten about that question on getting acknowledged---just been so many others thrown up there, and with all that's going on..I'm not too pushy of a person. "What a wonderful world it could be..." |
Moondance | Tuesday, October 17, 2000 - 05:14 pm  I love how Xenia is comfortable with you and opening up. You guys have really been chatting!... I think she is great. So Roger Rabbit ... you work too much! You are such a great listener, caring soul and all around great guy but I haven't heard about a special person in your life but I really don't know if you would have the time... ( I asked you before but the convo went the other way ) |
Roger_Ramjet | Tuesday, October 17, 2000 - 05:19 pm  It would be great if Xenia was comfortable around me---seems she has lots going on for real that isn't all that great. It would be nice to be able to be a little island where she can have something positive (or at least not negative) going on. Ask whatever you'd like about my work, or anything in my life. I'm not adverse to answering most anything. (that way I avoid giving you the shootgun affect, hoping I cover everyhing) |
Moondance | Tuesday, October 17, 2000 - 05:27 pm  I get that feeling from Xenia too ... I want to chat more with her! Now to you... You have been so great to tell me about your job but I am thinking that you put in a lot of hours and I know how much you love your job so I am sure it is easy to get lost in it. So my question ... do you have anyone special in your life? |
Roger_Ramjet | Tuesday, October 17, 2000 - 05:31 pm  No, not at this time, and not in the past number of years. I make a successful effort not to get "lost" in my job. I consider my job life and nonjob life very separate--I try to make sure when I walk out of the work door that the work stuff stays there as well. I dn't ever take work home. |
Moondance | Tuesday, October 17, 2000 - 05:36 pm  Kudos to you for keeping to that! I know a lot of people who do get lost in their jobs and in their relationships... So, you are a hot commodity ... why hasn't someone swept you up? Do you go out much... what do you do for fun ... other than 'The Game' |
Roger_Ramjet | Tuesday, October 17, 2000 - 05:43 pm  Well, I'm not a hot commodity. Over weight from not working out...need to,a lthough my mind has to be in a ceratin set, and I haven't been there for awhile. I don't go out too much---a beer and a game to relax. For fun I work (I've been serious about this one ). I have very few friends because of how I define a friend. There two I do have that are males, and the two female friends are both attached....and if not, they are not intested in me---been friends with them long enough to know that. I also don't seek out relationships. If it can happen, it will show itself in time. My preference in women probably doesn't help. |
Moondance | Tuesday, October 17, 2000 - 05:52 pm  Preference in women meaning priorities? Because you should hold on to them. One of the things that is obvious to me and I hope removes judgments on how a person looks would be this game... Look at the personality, love and care that you exude in here... I would hope someone who knows you would not be blind to this and scoop you up if they were to meet you in person. We live in such a superficial world sometimes... funny coming from someone in Hollywood |
Roger_Ramjet | Tuesday, October 17, 2000 - 05:59 pm  I've never been concerned about looks when it comes to a relationship. For some guys it counts a lot. As much as I hear women say the same thing, of the women I know (not juts friends--the ones I know) looks are every bit as important as for the picky guys. Not a b!tch--just a data point. No, by preference, I mean what attracts me to a woman--the things I would want in a relationship. I know myself well enough to know what I want out of a relationship--what excites me, what I need that person to be/do. (that last one has to do with the traits/ethics/approach to life they would have) What about you??? |
Moondance | Tuesday, October 17, 2000 - 06:06 pm  I think we are misunderstanding each other! I think we agree on the preferencec being what you listed as priorities. That s what I meant too I agree about the looks thing that is why I would hope people in general would not make that so important! Just think you are great and should be on the market Me... I had my heart broken in Feb. so I am a little gun shy! |
Roger_Ramjet | Tuesday, October 17, 2000 - 06:17 pm  Oh, we are saying the same thing using different words! lol Thanks for your comments!! I guess by definition, I see myself "on the market" lol How was your heart broken?? Or would you prefer not saying in this forum?? I sucks what people do to each other sometimes! |
Moondance | Tuesday, October 17, 2000 - 06:28 pm  It was a combination of things... he just wasn't ready for commitment. We were both hurt. I did learn more about myself with him then I have with anyone so I am grateful... I hope he was able to see the good too. I am not lonely.. I am alone... there is a difference but it would be nice to share some things with someone... How about you... do you get lonely or feel alone? |
Roger_Ramjet | Tuesday, October 17, 2000 - 06:39 pm  It's great that you were able to learn something about yourself. So many feel the need to blame the other person for everything...when in fact it's typical that both parties had a hand in it. Funny you should mention alone and loney. Two words that for me have very different meanings from each other. For me alone means that I don't have a current serious relationship (actaully, there is no serious comical one either). Lonely means to me that I am empty inside, and that emptiness is a result of not being in a relationship. I hear some people saying "I wish I had a man/woman so I wasn't lonely." Probably not a good reason to get involved with someone--just to have them as comany. Needs ot be so much more, IMHO. I'd like to be in a situation where I can open up every single thing about myself, have it accepted and loved totally for who I am, and have that person feel enough love, trust, comfort that they too could competely show every sinlge thing about themselves--and I would love them totally. As the Purple Snorkelwacker told Binkley though, "pipe dreams are under the bed." |
Moondance | Tuesday, October 17, 2000 - 06:49 pm  (Actually, there is no serious comical one either.) LOL You said that so well, Roger... I agree with everything you wrote... That is why I say I am alone (soul control of the remote control)! But I am far from lonely! I actually am a loner in many ways. I have never been afraid to spend time with myself and I also feel sad when I hear someone thinks that someone will 'fill them up.' I think I like Purple Snorkelwaker! |
Roger_Ramjet | Tuesday, October 17, 2000 - 07:00 pm  You might not--he brings Binkley an axiety all the time, as he is the keeper of all of Binkey's anxieties--and he lives in Binkley's closest. It's from a specific cartoon strip---can you believe that coming from me???!! I too am a loner. Not out of want, although I do very well with it! lol I'm not a control person...as long as I get to have a partial vote when I really really care about something. I tend to be able to get by with most anything, so the other person can make a lot of choices. (if I could just find a woman who doesn't wear make-up to go along with all of that!!!) |
Roger_Ramjet | Tuesday, October 17, 2000 - 07:34 pm  Moon, been ahwile since you said anything...I have to go take care of a couple errands. Be back shortly. Are we done with this topic, or is there more you are interested in covering?? |
Moondance | Tuesday, October 17, 2000 - 08:04 pm  I think I can change Binkley! |
Roger_Ramjet | Tuesday, October 17, 2000 - 09:48 pm  So much for shortly--the Mariners game...started watching after an errand,a nd next thing you know they turn a yawn fest of 4-0 lead into a loss. Back to this game!! I notice lots of work on the song. Way to go folks!! |
Moondance | Tuesday, October 17, 2000 - 09:50 pm  Welcome back Roger! |
Xenia | Tuesday, October 17, 2000 - 09:58 pm  Moon are you here? |
Roger_Ramjet | Tuesday, October 17, 2000 - 10:02 pm  Xenia what do you feel about me joining in?? |
Luke | Thursday, October 19, 2000 - 01:25 pm  Eewww... how yucky a hot tub can get when nobody has used it for two days!!! What is this stuff? Looks like coagulated.... um... Yuck!!!! (cleaning hot tub) "This is the way we scrub the tub... scrub the tub... scrub the tub..." |
Luke | Thursday, October 19, 2000 - 01:28 pm  There you go.... Now i can actually feel safe about stepping into this thing.... Aaahahhhhhhhh...... nice... anyone want to join me in here? |
Moondance | Thursday, October 19, 2000 - 01:32 pm  I will!!!! Hey you! |