False Accusations of Abuse: What's your take?

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Moondance

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 02:00 pm Click here to edit this post
{{{Xenia}}}

Zebulon

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 02:13 pm Click here to edit this post
Ok, I'll continue...

You seem to push the blame on others but it's YOU who always bitched and complained and wanted out minutes after you got in. You have weak character...and even weaker trying to say we are the source of your belligerency.

Yes, poor little Xenia. I treated you decent until you decided to become your fake personality and lash out at me. You are a victim of your own doing and I enjoyed every minute of it.

Vykin

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 02:20 pm Click here to edit this post
Xenia, you are a perfect example why the rest of Canada doesn't give a rats ass about Quebec desire to separate. WE say go you idiots, but you don't have the guts to leave the country. You people there just spread your crap about how different you are from the rest of Canada.

Well, it applies to you. You spread your crap about how you are above us, but you aren't Xenia,
if you really read Course in Miracles you will remember: Gods Plan Works, Yours Doesn't
(And Xenia, is this a personal attack? Yes it is)

Xenia

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 02:25 pm Click here to edit this post
Are you on medication, Giblets?

When did I ever say I was above anyone?

And comparing me to Quebec is a bad example. I just moved here a few months ago and I agree with your attitude. Dig deeper, but don't hurt yourself.

Xenia

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 02:31 pm Click here to edit this post
Zeb: Here's something to think about: I wouldn't have lashed out at you unless you had done something to cause it in the first place.

Zebulon

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 02:33 pm Click here to edit this post
I appreciate everyone's support but I don't need coddling on this. I mean that sincerely.

Thanks Moon. Thanks Vyk. I appreciate your thoughts but this has just become another scenario created by Xenia's almighty "plastic character". Yet, she tells me I'm being fake.

She passes the buck, can't accept responsibility for her actions, and is emotionally insecure. That's why she has to make up false scenarios that draw attention to her.

Most of the thoughts she posts are not her own. They are quotes from someone else. Her life is lived through the experience of others. Maybe it's time she got one of her own.

Zebulon

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 02:37 pm Click here to edit this post
Little Xenia,

When I confronted HiMay, that had no direct bearing on you. It was just something you used to fuel an attention grabbing moment for yourself.

Both HiMay and I dropped the subject while you were still ranting on about it. You got your conflict and as a result you got the losing end of the stick. Suck it up and deal. Don't cry to me about your emotional problems. Fix them.

Xenia

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 02:47 pm Click here to edit this post
Zeb: I wasn't refering to the Himay situation.

Think back to the night Gail left.

Every since this game started you've written as though you know me so well. It really does make me laugh.

I'm not taking responsiblity for my actions? Why do you think I posted my RR writings?

I'm insecure? Look at the way you're behaving.

Give it a rest, already. Go chase after Moon and make yourself look even more pathetic in the four hours you have left in here.

Xenia

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 02:49 pm Click here to edit this post
Zeb: I re-read your above post. I swear to God, you and Moon are SOULMATES. Go after her. You deserve each other.

Vykin

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 02:54 pm Click here to edit this post
Zeb, Xenia is starting to repeat herself, she said the same thing about tali and me being soulmates. Could it be she's run out of other peoples thoughts?

Xenia

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 02:56 pm Click here to edit this post
Giblets, could it be your don't have any thoughts at all?

Moondance

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 02:58 pm Click here to edit this post
Well truth comes out Zeb... Xenia wants you for herself!!! I am not sure if I want to share:)

Vykin

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 03:08 pm Click here to edit this post
hmm xenia I'll have to "think" about that

Vykin

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 03:10 pm Click here to edit this post
hmm xenia I'll have to "think" about that

Arreal

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 03:14 pm Click here to edit this post
Funny, isn't it, how you sometimes have to be silent before you can communicate.

Himay10ns

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 03:17 pm Click here to edit this post
Xenia, if defending myself against you calling me pathetic and two-faced makes me a liar, then so be it. My posts to you were GENUINE but the constant attacks on me and others are very tiring. My opinion, for what it's worth, is that you should sincerely apologize to some of these people and being adults, they will accept your apology and move on. It's the only way to end this barrage of bullsh*t.

Xenia

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 03:38 pm Click here to edit this post
Himay: "if defending myself against you calling me pathetic and two-faced makes me a liar, then so be it."

I respect you for defending yourself. What I consider lying is when you seemingly offer sincerity but it apparently wasn't real.

But you say was real. I don't know.

My CONSTANT attacks on you? I've been constantly attacking YOU? Are you serious?

Apologize?

Do you know how many times my appearance has criticized? How many subtle jabs even you have taken at me? What about Arreal's insults directed at me? I've never said anything negative to her. I could go on and on...

Will anyone else apologize? I doubt it.

Zebulon

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 03:46 pm Click here to edit this post
Xenia,

It's easy to deny other people's "realness" when you can't even admit your own. You've played a fake game since day 1. Now you're reaping the benefits. Live with it.


(((Moon))) ((Arreal)) ((HiMay))

Arreal

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 03:47 pm Click here to edit this post
Xenia, could you please let me know what subtle jabs I made at you? I honestly don't recall making any directed towards you.

Zebulon

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 03:48 pm Click here to edit this post
Yes, I feel bad about criticizing your appearance, Xenia.

Do you feel bad about criticizing Moon by calling her "aging"? That's also pathetic on your part.

Xenia

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 03:48 pm Click here to edit this post
Zeb, you are the biggest loser ever.

And stop trying so hard to impress everyone.

It's obvious they all feel sorry for you.

I did you a favor!

Himay10ns

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 03:50 pm Click here to edit this post
Well then, let me be the first. I you believe I've taken subtle jabs at you, then I truly apologize. It was not my intention. The attacks on me occured early in the game and I felt our interaction has been positive and sincere ever since. I don't have a beef with you and yes, I think apologies are in order all the way around. Like I said, it's the only way to end all this crap.

Since you've shared some of your RR convos, let me just share mine from this morning:

"Ok, let me start with some positive stuff! I got the sweetest message from Xenia this morning. I have to admit, in the beginning she scared the sh*t out of me. But in time, I've learned to love our differences and she has taught me more about myself in the past two weeks. Just think, I could have gone through my entire life not knowing what a mercury retrograde is!! She is a very bright, witty and intelligent soul. I know she will do well in whatever she attempts in life because she has PASSION."

If you think that is insincere, then my apologies again. Hang tough....

Zebulon

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 03:53 pm Click here to edit this post
You're grasping for reasons to verify your behavior, Xenia. Take responsibility for your actions. They are nobody's fault but your own.

All that's happened here over 2 days has been bickering. I imagine everyone on the outside is sick of it and I'm guessing I'll be gone since I've been a party to it instead of just ignoring you. That's fine. At least I can take responsibility for my actions and admit where I screwed up. All you will do is boost your ego more for attempting to drag people down with you. That's probably your goal in life.

Moondance

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 04:03 pm Click here to edit this post
Xenia, you shared personal information with me during BB ... when I entered in this game I have never exposed any of it or used it against you ... yet you were eager to have me open up...I do and you throw in my face and say hateful things. Not cool X...

Hatred is a toxic element. I hope for your health you can work through things and let them go.

Zebulon

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 04:13 pm Click here to edit this post
She'll be sucking up to everyone and their relatives on the outside calling this her "in-game persona".

Xenia

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 04:22 pm Click here to edit this post
"I do and you throw in my face and say hateful things."?

Hateful things? As though you haven't been "hateful" yourself toward me in this thread? I'd suggest you go back and look at your posts.

I wasn't "eager" to have you open up. I did it out of courtesy and I have not taken any of the information you shared during the living room q & a and used it in a derogatory fashion.

If you are referring to your age issue, I asked about it because you had suggested I not fall prey to social judgements regarding aging yet you seem to have an issue with aging yourself. I found that compelling.

You are truly being paranoid. You write as though I was just waiting to attack you. I wasn't. I realized I had an issue with you from the beginning, I came to terms with it and I offered you basic respect.

Don't make yourself into a martyr or a victim. This whole Zeb situation really had nothing to do with you until you attacked me in your initial post.

Get over yourself, Moon.

Xenia

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 04:24 pm Click here to edit this post
P.S: If you feel the need to share the personal info you knew about me before this game, go ahead. Prove what a total b-tch you can be. And make Zeb feel better in the process.

Roger_Ramjet

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 04:26 pm Click here to edit this post
Hello everyone---wanted to ask a favor. The reward has to be told to Host during chat. Could ALL those contributing to our song pleaes take a look at the current ideas, see if you have any others to add, and figure out what you guys would most like to get???

I didn't want to be part of that deciding group, as I didn't contribute this time around---I'm willing to go with what the song writiers want---May is of the same ilk.

Thanks! (song thread please)

Xenia

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 04:39 pm Click here to edit this post
One more thing Moon: Since you seem to approve of Zeb continually criticizing my photo, do you want to add your insults? I'm sure being the hypocrite you have proven to be, you have something negative to say. And think about it, it would bring you and Zeb closer.

Moondance

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 04:43 pm Click here to edit this post
I have told you, X. I thought your pix was beautiful.

Zebulon

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 05:06 pm Click here to edit this post
I sincerely apologize for criticizing your photo, Xenia. I'm not being sarcastic either.


However, your accusation whether it was in fun or not is equally offensive to me. I certainly hope you aren't one of those girls who run around calling "rape" just for kicks or everytime you have a tiff. That's a serious issue.