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Archive through October 10, 2000
Sandyc | Sunday, October 08, 2000 - 02:38 pm  Moondance still in Homo Discussion room waiting for Luke to come back. He went to freshen up after a hard Sunday at work. |
Sandyc | Sunday, October 08, 2000 - 02:46 pm  Topic Room 3 New Topic given by Host: Ala Stanley Kubrick's Eyes Wide Shut - The Love Bed hasn't quite heated up to this level yet, but what if it did? Would you participate or find a cozy, private place on the couch and try to sleep? What if you found out that a co-worker regularly attended orgies? Would it change the way you interact with that person? What if he or she invited you to attend? Would you go? Would you go alone or take your spouse/significant other with you? What if you did participate and other co-workers found out? Would you care? Not everyone can look like Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman. However, if you were guaranteed that all the participants did look that good, would it change your mind about joining in? Moondance jumping up to answer. No.. I don't think I could do that but I will think somemore about it. |
Sandyc | Sunday, October 08, 2000 - 02:49 pm  Luke in General discussion on Homosexuality has a few things to say to May - "You just might want to be a bit more careful with the passage you quoted, "Their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural, and the men likewise..." unless you truly understand the Greek meaning of "para physin" [unnatural] as well as its 7 different uses in the epistles of Paul. Also, be sure that you are well educated the practices and perversions of 1st century pagans--to which Paul was addressing. |
Sandyc | Sunday, October 08, 2000 - 02:56 pm  Luke sort of apologizing to May in Homosexual Discussion area and Moondance and Roger still chuckling about Mantastic's Fantastic Lover in Sexual consent DA. |
Sandyc | Sunday, October 08, 2000 - 03:04 pm  Moondance skips back to the Homosexual DA in time to hear Luke say to May... "Oh, and about the fact that you can't imagine being attracted to another woman.... let me tell you... I feel the same way! Never had sex with a woman, never cared to, and never will! (Only thing is, I'm a guy!) Straight sex has always baffled me... but not to the point where I'd want to try it! Now don't get me wrong here... I'm not prejudiced.... some of my best friends are straight. I mean, you guys didn't choose to be like that, so it's not your fault... HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA! " She Says: "Well said Luke ... glad you could make it back!" |
Sandyc | Sunday, October 08, 2000 - 03:07 pm  May joins Luke in Homosexual DA. She says "I'm not a Bible beater....I just brought the scripture up to add another angle to this conversation. There is always going to be a religious side to every debate, I just happened to be the one to bring it up. Xenia, I did not say that gay "people" are unnatural, but it is MY OPINION that two people of the same gender engaging in a sexual act is unnatural. I may be the only one in the entire world that thinks this, but so be it. I guess I'm finding it a little ironic that I'm being bashed for basically saying that I accept all people, no matter their preference. I do however, have a tough time accepting people that exude such negative energy as Xenia. And I guess from the looks of the last banner, the fans have spoken." |
Sandyc | Sunday, October 08, 2000 - 03:13 pm  Roger joins in on Eyes Wide Shut Discussion. He says that sex (orgies - never) is everyone's private business and he would not base it on looks or talk about anyone's sexlife with them even if asked. He also mentions having sex with a woman. |
Sandyc | Sunday, October 08, 2000 - 03:16 pm  Luke, May, and now Roger ( who just joined them in Homosexual DA) all giving each other a big group hug. |
Sandyc | Sunday, October 08, 2000 - 03:25 pm  Luke rambles on over to Sexual Consent DA and says.. "I was 17 when I lost my virginity... with a man that was in his 40's. I probably would have had sex earlier, but something inside me kept me from falling into peer pressure and have sex with a girl. I'm glad I waited... and that my first experience with sex was with another man." And then goes on to say... "When I have children," Plus more but it's too long to post here. |
Sandyc | Sunday, October 08, 2000 - 03:32 pm  ArReal just came back from visiting her friend in the nursing home and she is p*ssed. She started a new DA about the elder abuse. Here is a bit at the end of her outpouring... "I mad at the nursing homes for neglecting the residents. I'm mad at the families for not visiting their loved ones. I just get so mad every time I go there to visit. I want to give the admin. a piece of my mind. I want to wake up the families and tell them to go visit. I wish I could tell everyone to adopt a grand parent and visit often. They are worth the love and the time. Breathe AI mad at the nursing homes for neglecting the residents. I'm mad at the families for not visiting their loved ones. I just get so mad every time I go there to visit. I want to give the admin. a piece of my mind. I want to wake up the families and tell them to go visit. I wish I could tell everyone to adopt a grand parent and visit often. They are worth the love and the time. Breathe ArReal." |
Sandyc | Sunday, October 08, 2000 - 03:37 pm  HiMay enters eyes wide shut DA. Here is some of what she says... "Sorry this is so mundane, but you have to know a little about the way I was brought up. I was born in a small town in Alabama and my father was an officer in the military. I lived a rather sheltered life, most of which was spent on military bases. I've been in the southeast all my life and most of what I have experienced has been rather conservative. At present, I live in Arkansas and haven't seen or heard much about orgies since I've been here. LOL Oh, and by the way, I rented Eyes Wide Shut and I turned it off after the first 30 minutes and returned it to the video store. Just a little too weird to me. I couldn't get into it." |
Sandyc | Sunday, October 08, 2000 - 03:48 pm  ArReal goes looking for company in the Homosexual DA. No one seems to be there. Luke and Moondance went to Elder DA to find and comfort her. Moondance says... "I laughed because at first I thought you starting a thread for our Samnastic! I experience a big loss this summer. One of my clients, Jack passed away... I am an exercise trainrer/physical therapist/ glamorized baby-sitter but in this case he was just my friend. He was fortunate to have the financial means to be able to live his elderly years at home ... equipped with home nursing and therapy. I visited Jack twice a week ... there were sometimes in the good health days he would meet me at the door with nothing on .... He enjoyed flashing people. It made for some funny 'Jack' stories. Between Jack and my wonderful Grandmother who I lost over a year ago motivated me to volunteer at a few Nursing homes in my area. I teach fitness and nutrition or just sit and talk. They are a "lost" generation. I find this ironic because they are so enjoyable and knowledgeable ... we could learn so much ... mostly about ourselves if we would just take the time and just listen" And thanks ArReal for posting this topic. |
Sandyc | Sunday, October 08, 2000 - 03:58 pm  Luke has ventured in Eyes Wide Shut DA. He is undecided as to what to say and how to say it so he leaves to go figure it out. (Ed' message - I too have to leave now. Maybe some one else can pick up Luke when he returns.) |
Noslonna | Monday, October 09, 2000 - 12:30 am  4:00 PM - 6:00 PM Topic 3 - Eyes Wide Shut Luke says he grew up in "very Catholic household" and "was pretty traditionally-minded" as a teen. "Coming out" drastically changed his views and since then he "has done a lot of different kinds of sexual things." Luke says he is "careful not to judge others others, LEAST of all on what turns them on sexually." Arreal says she would not join in an orgy on the board but she is willing to "cozy up with one person in here." She admits that last night she "had a desire to crawl into bed with a BG who was already asleep." Arreal says if co-workers attended orgies she wuld be curious and ask questions but she would not change her opinions or interactions with them. Mantastic says he has been involved in orgies and probably would again if he was in the right mood, with no regrets. Xenia says, "Watching an orgy here would be more comical than sexually arousing for me." If a co-worker went to orgies, she says it would change the way she interacted with them. She says she would be "trying to envision what they do at these orgies and a million questions would come to mind." Xenia also says she wouldn't attend an orgy if invited but she would organize her own. Xenia says, "One of the things I absolutely want to do one day is have, like, 4 guys in a room having sex with just me being the only female. I could really get into that." The Elderly - America's forgotten ones? Roger says, "the whole elderly care system is screwed up." He says, "the places that take care of them aren't given any incentives to do a good job." Roger says the elderly in facilities get "health care" but not "quality of life care." Arreal agrees that "CNA's are under paid, but that isn't an exuse for negligence." She said when she was a CNA she had her priorities. Arreal says that she was proud of being voted the best CNA of the month by the residents. She was told she "had to quit" because "depression and anxiety" caused her to miss work and now she has to be "watched" when she goes to visit so she doesn't hurt a resident. Arreal says "Talk about F*ucked up." She says her mom goes with her to visit and "also enjoys visiting the people." Roger says to Arreal, "It takes a special person to do the right things as CNA day after day with everything considered." Xenia says to Arreal that she admires how she continues to go back to visit the nursing home. Xenia believes "we want to ignore again and punish people for the simply fact that they have aged. And it is so unrealistic because WE ALL age." Moondance says, "We can do something by starting with something small to us but makes a difference to the elderly." Arreal hugs Roger and Moon. She says it is nice to know the thinks about this. Moon hugs Arreal. Xenia contemplates her wrists. Moon apologizes for leaving her out and give Xenia a hug. Xenia cracks up and thanks Moon for thinking about her. |
Noslonna | Monday, October 09, 2000 - 02:22 am  7:00 PM - 12:00 PM When Is Your Birthday Discussion
Moondance jumps in with a less serious discussion. Moondance: March 25. Enneagram - 2 "the helper" with a 7 wing "the enthusiast" Luke: June 23. Cancer. Ox. Meyers Briggs Type Indicator - ESFJ Enneagram - 2 Roger: I've had enough birthdays! Meyers Briggs Type Indicator - ISTJ Talisker: April 30. Taurus. Vykin: October 29. Arreal: January 6. Xenia: September 15. Zebulon: November 9. Scorpio. Homosexuality & Issues Discussion Arreal tells Luke, "I appreciate your insights and knowledge" and give him big hugs. Talisker says she is pretty open about gay rights but she says, "I like men’s bodies and I like to f*ck too much to ever consider that lifestyle for myself." However after a relationhip ended she found her women friends "typically more nurturing" and she needed someone close to her, "Not for sex but for companionship." She says this helped her to "understand a little bit of how and why a person would choose to live in a same sex relationship." Talisker adds, "It is my sincere hope that one day in the future, many of the hang-ups we have today will fade away. We will evolve to a place where it won’t matter who your mate or partner." Sexual Consent Topic Talisker responds to Mantastic's Sexual Consent story, "I'm not just hot,I'm wet!"
The Interrogator Discussion Talisker says everything is okay now. She went to RR and this time Interrogator spoke to her "in a really sexy voice." She says he is softening up and they have "an unspoken understanding." Mr. Rogers says he didn't want to be the cause of any problems for her and is available to discuss it with her. He says he is glad things are going better. Moondance tells Roger he said the same thing earlier. He laughs at himself. Talisker says she would like to talk to Roger later Outside, when it is quieter. She says if things get to crowded she will probably disappear. Roger says there are only 4 people in the LR and everyone has been asking where the rest of the folks are. The Edlerly Topic Zebulon agrees "that nursing homes aren't the best environments." He says it is one of the reasons why he "tries to teach the importance of investing early." Zebulon says, "The reason most people are in nursing homes is because they can't afford to stay in better facilities." Vykin comes by to tell Arreal it is a good topic and he will answer it in the morning. Eyes Wide Shut Topic Talisker says she doesn't share men and wouldn't participate in an orgy. She wants all the attention for herself so she can concentrate on the man she is with. Even if all the participants were good looking she would pass it up because she only wants one person at a time. Vykin sums up his answer, "I suppose the only other comment I have is those would participate in orgies need to do so for the right reasons. Myself, I prefer a monogamous sexual relationship." Zebulon says he lost his message and will give a new one on Monday. Roger expresses sympathy to Zebulon for his loss and says he looks forward to hearing them. Zebulon says it sucks but it's not the end of the world. He tells Roger there is a new Room under Requests. (ed. Zebulon created a new room called "Scream In A Pillow," where they can vent.) |
Noslonna | Monday, October 09, 2000 - 03:59 am  Virtual House
Church Vykin got a calling to spread the word: "The LORD will grant that the enemies who rise up against you will be defeated before you. They will come at you from one direction but flee from you in eight." He was surprised God uses email. Arreal asks for God's email. She wants to request larger horns because her halo keeps slipping. Living Room 8:00 PM - 10:30 PM Xenia reading encyclopedia Volume A. Roger and Moondance and Arreal come in. Xenia asks if they have any suggestions on what to do. She says, "No Bible readings." Arreal gives Xenia hugs and says she was sorry she missed her input on the nursing home discussion. Xenia says, "Oh more hugs." Arreal suggests Truth or Dare. Moons says that sounds good. Xenia wonders where everyone is. She says it never feels like there are 10 people around. Roger says, 4 out of 10 and wonders what their best count has been. Moondance agrees. She says she is looking forward to the chat session. Arreal says she is looking forward to the "REAL TIME" chat too. Moon asks, "Who are we then?" Arreal is confused, she thinks Moon wants to talk about their real names. She thinks most people know who everybody is by now. Arreal says she knew who Moon was the first day. Moon says she meant the chat they are going to have on Tuesday. Roger excuses himself and leaves the LR. Arreal says she gets frustrated because as soon as a conversation starts "everyone disappears." Moon says she is there still and she knows who she is too. Arreal says she liked her fan page. Moondance said it was "very sweet." Arreal asks Moon about RR questions she has to answer. Moon said she is just going to submit random thoughts. Arreal says her RR discussion has to be about who her most favorite BG and least favorite are, with reasons. Arreal thinks its "weird," she thought they would all get the same questions. She wonders if Tali got the same questions. Xenia says she is going to bed. She tells Arreal that she got the same questions. Moondance tells Arreal that she is sorry but she has to go too. Arreal says goodnight to them. Outside 9:00 PM - 1:30 AM Roger joins Talisker outside. He asks her "what's up?" Talisker says she had a good time talking to him the other night. Roger says he enjoys talking too and there are clearly those that get along better. He asks her what was going on with her and RR. Talisker says no problems but the Interrogator was asking her specifically about her conversation with Roger and known of the others got specific questions. She says she told Interrogatot that Roger is a really nice guy. Tali says it was unnerving that she was asked about Roger right off the bat. Roger says they could be testing her or that it was something interesting happening. He tells her not to feel bad. Roger tells her, "It's comfortable talking to you." Talisker says she enjoys 1-on-1 conversations and since she doesn't like to argue you won't find her in large groups. Roger says he doesn't "care for large groups as much as smaller or 1-on-1." He asks how she liked the discussion topics. Talisker says, "I just wrote something for the Gay - pro -con topic and am working on something for the orgy topic." Roger asks her if she wants to join the few folk in the LR or stay outside. He says he left in the middle of a conversation even though he was more listening. Talisker says she is fine but if he wants to go back in she "will understand." She says she just wants to know more about him. She asks him if he can see Mt. Rainier from where he lives. Roger says he can't. He is about 30 minutes north of Oregon. He says he doesn't mind staying with her for awhile. He mentions Moon, Arreal and Xenia are having a really nice conversation in the LR. He says they are "really neat people" but he feels that way about her too. Talisker tells Roger she just posted to the her "orgy opinion" but not to bother hunting for it because "It is not my bag - I don't share when it comes to intimate moments." Talisker says Friday night was scary, she misses people "out there" and she feels a "little cut off from what is happening." She says, 'Feel like I am not getting close enough to a few people that I want to talk to." Moondance comes outside and says, "Hey you two... I came out to say Good Night! ... Sweet Dreams." Talisker thanks Moon for thinking of them and gives her an angel. Roger says goodnight to Moon and thanks her for taking the time to come and say good night. He tells her it is great she has so many fans. Roger says he looked at what Talisker said in the orgy discussion and wasn't surprised by what she said. He says he has only gone into chat a few times because too many people make it hard to interact for him. Roger takes about getting into the game and then apologizes to Talisker for rambling. He says he would like to hear her feelings on some things. Tallisker answers, "Lets go over to the club chat for a little bit. It is empty right now." Roger apologizes is he sounds like a "wet blanket" but says, "I notice in the rules that we aren't supposed to chat until we are given specific times." He says he hopes she isn't mad and he will talk to her "here." Talisker thought it would be easier to talk without waiting 15 minutes for his answers. Roger apologizes again "for being a wet blanket." and asks, "Are you willing to keep going, or did you want to hit the sack?" Talisker says she will be awake for a little while. She says she is hoping they get more challenges besides just discussions. Roger thinks she will get her wish. He reminds of the boards sending suggestions for challenges before they were in game. Talisker says she hopes they have something to talk about tomorrow besides sex. She says she is getting tired of talking about it. Roger laughs about her not minding sex but not wanting to talk about it. Arreal joins them and asks if she is interrupting anything. Roger says he is just getting to know Tali, they both stay up late. He asks what they missed in the LR. Arreal says everyone left the LR after he did. Roger says, "Ladies--you are pretty quiet. Did you want to turn in, or did you want to stay up and keep chatting?" Arreal says she is "kind of shy." She says she hopes they "get something lighter to talk about tomorrow." Arreal says she is calling it a night and gives Roger and Tali hugs. Roger hugs Arreal. He asks Tali again if she wants "to stay up, or go to bed." Vykin comes by and says he is going to bed but wanted to congratulate Roger on leading the challenge. Roger is left talking to himself. Tali seems to have left. |
Whit4you | Monday, October 09, 2000 - 02:53 pm  The Live-Feed Posters have been spanked by the Admin so many times for Editorializing that they still refrain from it - even here. Too Cute |
Host | Monday, October 09, 2000 - 05:49 pm  Noslonna or SandyC - we are getting many requests for a transcript of the scheduled "Chat with the Players" scheduled for Tuesday from 7:00 - 8:00 pm. board time. If possible, is there any chance you guys can try to capture it and post here? Excellent work - keep up the great job!  |
Noslonna | Monday, October 09, 2000 - 07:05 pm  Host I will try to be there. I had a busy weekend with it being Thanksgiving here and all my family home for the holiday. I couldn't keep up the Live Feeds today. Hope others can jump in too. |
Sandyc | Monday, October 09, 2000 - 08:19 pm  Sorry guys. I work nights and only have a few hours in the late morning/early afternoon. Sunday I was pretty much undisturbed at home so I was able to spend some time. I usually get home between 10:30 and 11 EST. I'll sure help if I am able to get home earlier. That will be tough - everything moves so fast in the chat room.
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Noslonna | Tuesday, October 10, 2000 - 06:40 pm  Summary of Discussions for Monday, Oct. 9 Eyes Wide Shut Topic 1:00 AM Zebulon: Personal sexual relationships are very private to him but he will share some things. Meaningless sex is basically "a mutual masturbation session." Meaningful sex for him "contains emotion and respect and a deep feeling..." Zebulon says an orgy would be nothing more than an "empty feeling." He also says, "It's too risky and I can't see myself ever participating." However he wouldn't be judgemental if he found out a co-worker attended but he would be curious and probably ask questions. Zebulon says he might reconsider if he was "single, horny" and he was invited to an orgy with "Nicole Kidman type girls humping their brains out." He says that would be "the ultimate fantasy." He adds that an orgy on the board is not real life and a "fantasy orgy seems harmless" to him but to him "cybersex seems like a waste of time." The Elderly Discussion - Monday, Oct. 9 7:00 AM Xenia says, "People need to take responsibility for their (potential) future." She wishes "our perspective on aging would change." She says, "Even at 31, I can feel a certain prejudice being directed at me because I am aging. And women in general are way more punished for again than men." 7:30 AM Himay tells about working in a clinic and how patients coming in from nursing homes arrive in uncared for conditions. In Orthopaedics where she works she sees patients that come in with broken bones from falling out of the bed and other sad conditions. She "truly hopes" she won't spend her "final days in a home" and says she is going to do all that she can to take care of her own parents. Himay tells Arreal, "I admire you for your love for Alice. Jewels in your crown!" 9:30 PM Vykin jokes to Arreal that since she has to be WATCHED when she goes to visit the nursing home, maybe he should be watching her. He says he is just kidding and quips, "I have my uzi close at hand." On a serious note Vykin asks Arreal, "So what happened that you quit/got fired and then couldn't go back and visit without being supervised?" 9:55 PM Arreal explains she was missing too many days of work and she was given the ultimatum to either "make a commitment to be to work every day or to quit." She was give an hour to decide. When her employer called back, Arreal said, "I had apparently switched personalities and talked to her." Arreal says, Lucy, her 6 year old girl persona had talked to the lady and that is why she is watched. Arreal says she never "switched at work" and finds it "totally unfair that they would try to prevent me from visiting the residents due to one conversation with a harmless little girl... while I was at home, under pressure." |
Noslonna | Tuesday, October 10, 2000 - 06:41 pm  Summary of Discussions for Monday, Oct. 9 Online Relationships New discussion started by Xenia 8:00 AM Xenia tells of a Canadian survey that says 1/3 of Internet users admitted to having an ongoing online relationship. Xenia says, "I'd never actively go searching online for a boyfriend" but says in her 20's she "spent a ton of hours using telephone dating services and they had disastrous results. I can only imagine that meeting online then trying to take it offline and making it something real and realistic would be just as hard." Xenia says she has bonded with many people at opendiary.com since keeping an oline diary at that site. She says she has a close friendship with one woman she keeps in contact with but only on ICQ. She says neither of them have the desire to meet in real life. She also considers a guy she met "via the alt.astology newsgroup five years ago" a good friend even though she hasn't heard from him in months. Himay tells Xenia it is a good topic and asks if she has actually met any of her online friends. Xenia replies that she hasn't. Roger, Mantastic, Luke and Talisker agree it is a good topic and will respond when they have time. 12:00 PM Arreal has met quite a few people she knows from online. She belongs to an AOL Club where they meet online friends. That's where she met her husband. Three years ago Arreal also made friends with two people from the On-Line Psych chat and went to meet, Stacy and Thomas, in LA. Later, Stacy took her on a trip to Las Vegas. Stacy was Arreal's maid-of-honor at her wedding a year and a half ago and they remain close. Arreal also "adored" Thomas and he told her if she "ever quit smoking to look him up and we'd get married." He was having many difficulties with his mental illness and she lost touch with him. 1:00 PM Mantastic says the "essence" of being online is to be connected to each other. He says the fears people had that the internet would be the "final nail in the coffin of humankind's isolation from each other" is not what we see today. He says it is "quite the opposite" and the internet offers the great benefit of "interconnectedness." He cites, "The informational resources. The potential to entertain. To distract. To edify." Mantastic says what interests him is "the potential the medium offers for pretend." He says, "I can be a geriatric grocer named Sam! I can be Snave Knave, live-feed narrator and professional smartass. I can be Mantastic, disenfranchised loner who doesn't participate when he has nothing to say.." (ed. See? You should all listen to Jana.) Mantastic opines, "Isn't it interesting that virtually all of us choose to remain accountable? We grasp even tighter to the values we already hold, and get upset when they are transgressed." Mantastic goes on to say he has never met anyone from online and doesn't know if he wants to. In a surfer mode he says he is, "More committed to the surface than to the depths, I'm more interested in the different faces we can wear when we interact, than the real ones behind them." He believes "It's all about style" but "none of that holds a candle to the intense power of a reader's imagination of who I am, who I think you are, and the power you have to make me imagine who you are." 1:00 PM Talisker has a girlfriend she met online in '94 on AOL. They met looking for advice on the same kind of dogs they owned and became "fast friends." Talisker flew up to Chicago to meet her and spent several long weekends with her and her husband." Tali says, "Through the years, she has been a big source of support, advice, and companionship." Talisker says she met a guy online in '93 who lived 30 miles away from her and they both had the common denominator of owning dogs. The exchanged emails daily and arranged to meet. She met him in the bowling alley and was "pretty disappointed" in his appearance. The person who seemed interesting in email turned out to be boring in person. She ended up getting stuck paying for the entire cost of bowling and drinks. As planned they continued the date at a resaurant across the street and he only paid 1/3 of the bill. When asked later by her house-mate how the date was she said, "Expensive." Talisker ends by saying that she stayed away from online relationships after that for a long time but now she says, "I met someone online whose companionship has come to mean a lot" and who has "become a good friend." 2:30 PM Luke has met many people online. He says there are many AOL gay chat rooms. He says that before he went to Spain he went into chat rooms from Spain and hooked up with friends he made when he was in that country. One of them acted as his tour guide, by cell phone, while he was there. Luke says he also had a year long, real life relationship with a guy he met online. However he says most of their conversations were online when they were logged on at work. He says they broke up over AOL Instand Messenger. Luke finishes by saying, "The internet has provided a way for people to interact socially" and guesses that "chat or interacting socially online will only continue to grow in popularity." 7:00 PM Vykin has been chatting online sine '93. He has met hundreds of people. He keeps in contact with about 30 he met on OJ trial board. He has 5 people he chats with on a regular basis and 2 of those, both female, he feels "really close with." He says if he ever had a chance to meet them he would. He says they are his "confidants" but that is after 7 years of talking to them online. Vykin says he has met "about 30 key friends" in the Big Brother chats on AOL. For chatting he says he only uses AOL and looks for chat rooms "specific to a given situation, i.e. BB, Political Chats, Criminal Investigation, and Psychological discussions, I also access the Travel Chat discussions." Vykin says he has no interest in "intimate online relationships." He sums up by saying, "If we allow a piece of equipment to determine real life relationships for us, then I believe we are just succumbing to machines over our minds." 10:00 PM Roger is not interested in online "girl friend type relationships" however, he has talked between people as you would a friend. He has one online friend he keeps in touch with on a fairly regular basis. When he found BBFC he began posting on the boards and tried the chat area a few times. He enjoys it most "when there are just a few people in there." Roger says it's interesting that you can never know if you are getting the real person online but says he is the same online as in real life. He says he just tries to enjoy it and so far has. He has "even had an email exchange with one person." Roger says he is "pretty limited in experience compared to the rest of you" but adds that he has enjoyed hearing their experiences. |
Noslonna | Tuesday, October 10, 2000 - 06:43 pm  Summary of Discussions for Monday, Oct. 9 Embarrassing Moment Discussion 12:00 PM Arreal asks Roger to tell the stupidest thing he has done since he doesn't have an embarrassing moment. Moondance shares that she slipped and skidded to "a nice butt stop" in front of 30,000 fans when she was a cheerleader. Luke was embarrassed when he was overheard chatting with "cute guys" by the congregation praying in church because he forgot to take off his cordless mic. Arreal tells "a silly story" that embarrassed her. In a hardware store she says, "I had switched to my little girl personality." The personality was skipping the aisles and acting like a 6 year old child and got scared when she walked into a "really tall man's chest and belly." She ran and grabbed her husband's hand. 3:15 PM Zebulon's most embarrassing moment was when he fell out of the shower onto the lap of his aunt who was sitting on the toilet. Xenia "wracked" her brain and remembered an embarrassing moment. She recalled wanting to talk to the program director at the university radio station who was in a punk band. At the office there were 2 girls. She ignored the "seriously overweight" girl who she thought had "an unattractive face" and mistakenly followed the girl who was "slim with purple hair" because she looked more the way she thought she would. 3:45 PM HiMay tells a story of spending a night with a guy and during the night she plugged up the toilet. She had to use the toilet again and was too embarrassed to wake him up so she just left and drove home. She says, "I was so embarrassed I never returned his calls and I never saw him again!" Arreal says May's story made her laugh and thanks her for sharing it. Zebulon feels sorry for the guy in May's story and tells her, "When you Dump someone, you really 'Dump' someone." 4:30 PM Mantastic sharing an embarrassing moment from the first time he ever surfed. He was promptly swamped and "surfaced again, spluttering and gagging." Three attempts later he finally "gained the outside" and was sitting astride his board. He turned his head to look at two cute "surf-betties" and was promptly "rolled up in a barrel and duly punished" with the girls laughing at him. Mantastic made another attempt and was successful and emerged on the other side of a wave, "staring down into the trough between the wave and the next." That's when he thought he saw a the dorsal fin of a shark coming towards him. He froze and then tried to scream, "Shark!" but he could only get out "a couple of watery squeaks." He clung to his board and waited his fate as the "shark" got closer. It was close enough to look him in the eye when "it blew spray through its blowhole." That's when he realized it was not a Great White. He headed to shore and as he walked by "one of the surf-betties" standing on the beach she "asked chirpily" if he had seen the Dolphin. 5:00 PM Roger tells his story. His parents were away and he had the house to himself. He and his girlfriend were necking and things predictably progressed to undressing down to her panties. Roger says they spent 2 hours in foreplay, exploring each other's bodies before he asked if she wanted to get completely naked. She said no but the foreplay continued until she said she had to go home. On the way home she told him she had "really wanted to do it." The next night, after an hour of foreplay Roger asked her "if she wanted to have sex" and this time she said yes. He said, considering it was their first time, "It was damn nice!" Then they moved to his room and he asked her if he "could try giving her oral sex." He said "That also went very well." He suggested one more time before he took her home. Unfortunately his parents came home early so he says, "So, the first time that I had sex, I got caught by my parents." He was not embarrassed but says he was "really pissed!!!" He adds that his "parents were pissed as well--go figure!!" but he ended up marrying the girl. Mantastic likes Roger's story, he thinks it is hot. 9:00 PM Vykin adds one of his embarrassing moments. He was in his oval office one night, helping his daughter with homework. His wife called and said she was coming up. He sent a young woman who worked in the office to get him something to eat because he had a sudden urge for junk food. She brought back pizza and some tomato sauce fell on the carpet. The 23 year old offered to clean it up and Vykin went to help. When she bent down to wet the rag all of a sudden he realized "this was one hot chick!" with "the most magnificent hair." He place his hand on her head and next thing you know she goes down on his zipper. She did things to him he didn't think he "could get from the wife." Vykin who had his pants around his knees when Stephanopolous walked in to talk with a "big fat Cuban cigar in his mouth." Vykin says he "jerked back and that folks is how the stain got on the dress." He says that was his embarrassing moment but "you have to ask George" about how the "cigar ended up where it did." He says, "I found god after that and urge all of you to visit my church." |
Noslonna | Tuesday, October 10, 2000 - 06:43 pm  Summary of Discussions for Monday, Oct. 9 The Improv Discussion 7:10 PM Himays says she needs cheering up and asks everyone to tell their favorite joke to makie them laugh. 7:20 PM Zebulon jokes about Himay's Most Embarrasing Moment. Zebulon: What do you get when you cross your sleep over date with an embarrassing situation? ... Dumped 7:30 PM Xenia gets angry at Zebulon for "being childish." She says, "Leave the mind-f-cking to someone who is better at it than you are." Xenia ends with "Get back to your role as a "The Game" lush. It's much more entertaining." 7:50 PM Zebulon says he has a problem with Himay's "real situation" and says it is "terrible what she did to that guy... It's very lame...not honest at all." Zebulon says he has enjoyed Xenia's comments and can appreciate her defense of her friend but insists she showed "very weak character." He says he made a valid disagreement and wants to "let it go at that." 8:05 PM Xenia says to Zeb, "Get a f-cking grip." Xenia thinks it's "damn obvious" there were other issues involved in Himay's embarrassing moment and she thinks in other circumstances Himay would have dealt with it differently. Then Xenia tells Zebulon he is "being a assh-le" and transferring "negative experiences and dumping them on Himay." Xenia also says, "By the way, I don't consider Himay to be a friend." 8:10 PM Zebulon tells Xenia not to try and analyse him. He says what Himay did was "a crappy thing to do." 9:55 PM Vykin thinks, "These people are effen nuts!!!, they can't even tell a joke without getting into a battle with each other." 10:00 PM Vykin says since he cleared the room he will tell a joke. He tells a Blonde Joke and laughs hilariously. He says, "Gosh I love when I laugh at my own jokes!" |
Sandyc | Tuesday, October 10, 2000 - 10:52 pm  Noslonna. Please read message in Members messages area. |
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