Enbwife | Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 06:48 pm  Very interesting show! I believe Taheed and Andy will cheat for sure. I also think Mandy will. What do you think??? |
Ocean_Islands | Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 06:54 pm  They all will. |
Spamgirl | Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 07:13 pm  The orange haired girl already was shown to be smoochin on one guy... The bald white guy - will seek revenge The guy who spent an hour in the hammock with the girl he wasn't allowed to date - I mean, really The blonde girl - dunno, can't call it The black guy... I dunno - I think he'll be torn between booty and honour The black girl - she's a loony, could go either way The brunette - same, can't call it Her man - same |
Guruchaz | Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 07:13 pm  It'll be a two week bachelor/bachelorette party with all kinds of romps. However, I say a majority of the couples will remain together (3 of the 4 at least). |
Enbwife | Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 07:15 pm  I think Taheed and Ytossie are doomed!!! She was on him like a fly on sh*t from the get go... |
Wink | Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 07:16 pm  Anybody hear about one of the couples getting booted by the third show because they had a child? |
Spamgirl | Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 07:18 pm  I was going to say, who has the kid? |
Wink | Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 07:19 pm  Okay nevermind. Guess I should read the whole thread before I ask a dumb question. |
Enbwife | Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 07:22 pm  Read the spoiler thread... |
Wink | Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 07:28 pm  It's also in the news article thread Lisa |
Spamgirl | Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 07:47 pm  it was the black couple, so you don't have to bounce around Go figure... why ELSE would they still be together? |
Noslonna | Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 10:17 pm  Now it makes sense why she was so upset with the possibility of her man cheating. She said he had done it before and she obviously does not trust him, yet she remains with him. If they have children it could explain her very emotional reaction. |
Ocean_Islands | Thursday, January 11, 2001 - 03:49 am  It would also explain why she's hanging around. That guy is a creep. |
Em69 | Thursday, January 11, 2001 - 05:34 am  They will all cheat. They want to cheat, they want to fool around, that is why they are on the show. |
Resortgirl | Thursday, January 11, 2001 - 06:06 am  If they're on this show there are obviously problems in their relationship... add some rum punch, a bunch of good looking guys and gals and they're pretty much all doomed to cheat. Anyway, define cheating. I think going on a "date" is cheating if you are in a so called commited relationship. |
Dilligaf | Friday, January 12, 2001 - 07:26 am  I think Valerie and Kaya have the strongest relationship of the 4 couples. I think they will "cheat" the least. |
Sandyc | Friday, January 12, 2001 - 09:03 am  I agree with Ocean. I think they will all cheat. Then we'll see what they are made of. Guilt and recrimination here we come. |
Guruchaz | Friday, January 12, 2001 - 09:09 am  I think after this is all over with, they will all still be seperated, single, and invited to do MTV's Summer Beach Party. huh huh  |
Spamgirl | Friday, January 12, 2001 - 11:36 am  If I was there, and my husband was there, and we had both agreed to go... you're damn right I'd be cheating! By going, you're basically saying it's ok to cheat... |
Enbwife | Saturday, January 13, 2001 - 05:21 pm  Let's define cheating: Do you consider cheating having sex with someone other than your spouse? Do you consider cheating going on a date/kissing/hugging etc? Do you consider cheating spending time with, chatting and flirting? Or all of the above? |
Krissymoca | Sunday, January 14, 2001 - 07:34 pm  I consider cheating to be: having sex with anyone other than your partner, dating someone other than your partner, and kissing someone other than your partner. As far as the spending time with, chatting and flirting... well then everyone on that show is guilty. I think cheating for most of them will be when they step over the line, when they take the next step, which means getting physical to some degree with the other guys/girls on the island. It should be interesting to see who becomes jealous though, watching their partner spend time with, chat with and flirt with the opposite sex. |
Enb | Monday, January 15, 2001 - 06:10 am  Cheating implies 'not playing by the rules' and from what I can see, they all are willing participants. They all agreed to come on the island and test their relationships, so I don't think they are cheating if they have physical or emotional relationships with people other than their mates while on the island. |
Kitt | Monday, January 15, 2001 - 05:07 pm  I don't think the couples themselves see it that way. It looked like some of them seem prepared for their partner having sex (the couple with the guy who went straight to talk to his forbidden woman) but I think the others have their own line drawn at what they consider cheating. I would have thought for most of them anything sexually physical is out, although my guess is most of them will forgive kisses and 'mild gropes' is their partner still wants them after such Temptation. |
Lancecrossfire | Monday, January 15, 2001 - 05:16 pm  Enb, your take on the concept of cheating and rules is a good point. It helps us to realize there is yet another consideration of what "cheating" is--at least in terms of a definition. Agreed that they seem to be playing by the rules laid out by Temptation Island. Although what about any rules the couples had in their relationship before getting to the island? Maybe they all did agree between themselves that messing around was allowed--in which case, are they cheating on one another?? As upset as some seem to get though, I'm betting not all agreed it was ok to have sex with another person. That is what I'd call cheating for sure. |
Enb | Monday, January 15, 2001 - 05:30 pm  I just don't like the word 'cheating'. It just doesn't fit! Like you said, we don't know what agreements they have before going on the island? Who are we to judge? For all we know, these couples may have 'open' relationships where they encourage sex with other people, free from jealousy? And even though you(not you specifically Lance or Kitt or Enbwife....) may not agree that it's right, it's their choice. There is no right or wrong in the world, only consequences. So we can't really guess who might 'cheat' until we know what rules each couple has in their relationship...that's what I think! Some would say "A relationship means you don't have sex/physical contact with anyone else" but that is not the reality of all relationships...whether you like it not! |