Archive through January 15, 2001

The ClubHouse: Temptation Island: So... who do you think will cheat???: Archive through January 15, 2001

Enbwife

Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 06:48 pm Click here to edit this post

Very interesting show! I believe Taheed and Andy will cheat for sure. I also think Mandy will. What do you think???

Ocean_Islands

Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 06:54 pm Click here to edit this post

They all will.

Spamgirl

Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 07:13 pm Click here to edit this post

The orange haired girl already was shown to be smoochin on one guy...

The bald white guy - will seek revenge

The guy who spent an hour in the hammock with the girl he wasn't allowed to date - I mean, really :)

The blonde girl - dunno, can't call it

The black guy... I dunno - I think he'll be torn between booty and honour

The black girl - she's a loony, could go either way

The brunette - same, can't call it

Her man - same

Guruchaz

Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 07:13 pm Click here to edit this post

It'll be a two week bachelor/bachelorette party with all kinds of romps. However, I say a majority of the couples will remain together (3 of the 4 at least).

Enbwife

Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 07:15 pm Click here to edit this post

I think Taheed and Ytossie are doomed!!! She was on him like a fly on sh*t from the get go...

Wink

Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 07:16 pm Click here to edit this post

Anybody hear about one of the couples getting booted by the third show because they had a child?

Spamgirl

Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 07:18 pm Click here to edit this post

I was going to say, who has the kid?

Wink

Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 07:19 pm Click here to edit this post

Okay nevermind. Guess I should read the whole thread before I ask a dumb question.

Enbwife

Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 07:22 pm Click here to edit this post

Read the spoiler thread...

Wink

Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 07:28 pm Click here to edit this post

It's also in the news article thread Lisa

Spamgirl

Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 07:47 pm Click here to edit this post

it was the black couple, so you don't have to bounce around :)

Go figure... why ELSE would they still be together?

Noslonna

Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 10:17 pm Click here to edit this post

Now it makes sense why she was so upset with the possibility of her man cheating. She said he had done it before and she obviously does not trust him, yet she remains with him. If they have children it could explain her very emotional reaction.

Ocean_Islands

Thursday, January 11, 2001 - 03:49 am Click here to edit this post

It would also explain why she's hanging around. That guy is a creep.

Em69

Thursday, January 11, 2001 - 05:34 am Click here to edit this post

They will all cheat. They want to cheat, they want to fool around, that is why they are on the show.

Resortgirl

Thursday, January 11, 2001 - 06:06 am Click here to edit this post

If they're on this show there are obviously problems in their relationship... add some rum punch, a bunch of good looking guys and gals and they're pretty much all doomed to cheat. Anyway, define cheating. I think going on a "date" is cheating if you are in a so called commited relationship.

Dilligaf

Friday, January 12, 2001 - 07:26 am Click here to edit this post

I think Valerie and Kaya have the strongest relationship of the 4 couples. I think they will "cheat" the least.

Sandyc

Friday, January 12, 2001 - 09:03 am Click here to edit this post

I agree with Ocean. I think they will all cheat. Then we'll see what they are made of. Guilt and recrimination here we come.

Guruchaz

Friday, January 12, 2001 - 09:09 am Click here to edit this post

I think after this is all over with, they will all still be seperated, single, and invited to do MTV's Summer Beach Party. huh huh

Spamgirl

Friday, January 12, 2001 - 11:36 am Click here to edit this post

If I was there, and my husband was there, and we had both agreed to go... you're damn right I'd be cheating! By going, you're basically saying it's ok to cheat...

Enbwife

Saturday, January 13, 2001 - 05:21 pm Click here to edit this post

Let's define cheating:
Do you consider cheating having sex with someone other than your spouse?
Do you consider cheating going on a date/kissing/hugging etc?
Do you consider cheating spending time with, chatting and flirting?
Or all of the above?

Krissymoca

Sunday, January 14, 2001 - 07:34 pm Click here to edit this post

I consider cheating to be: having sex with anyone other than your partner, dating someone other than your partner, and kissing someone other than your partner.

As far as the spending time with, chatting and flirting... well then everyone on that show is guilty.

I think cheating for most of them will be when they step over the line, when they take the next step, which means getting physical to some degree with the other guys/girls on the island.

It should be interesting to see who becomes jealous though, watching their partner spend time with, chat with and flirt with the opposite sex.

Enb

Monday, January 15, 2001 - 06:10 am Click here to edit this post

Cheating implies 'not playing by the rules' and from what I can see, they all are willing participants. They all agreed to come on the island and test their relationships, so I don't think they are cheating if they have physical or emotional relationships with people other than their mates while on the island.

Kitt

Monday, January 15, 2001 - 05:07 pm Click here to edit this post

I don't think the couples themselves see it that way. It looked like some of them seem prepared for their partner having sex (the couple with the guy who went straight to talk to his forbidden woman) but I think the others have their own line drawn at what they consider cheating. I would have thought for most of them anything sexually physical is out, although my guess is most of them will forgive kisses and 'mild gropes' is their partner still wants them after such Temptation.

Lancecrossfire

Monday, January 15, 2001 - 05:16 pm Click here to edit this post

Enb, your take on the concept of cheating and rules is a good point. It helps us to realize there is yet another consideration of what "cheating" is--at least in terms of a definition. Agreed that they seem to be playing by the rules laid out by Temptation Island.

Although what about any rules the couples had in their relationship before getting to the island? Maybe they all did agree between themselves that messing around was allowed--in which case, are they cheating on one another?? As upset as some seem to get though, I'm betting not all agreed it was ok to have sex with another person. That is what I'd call cheating for sure.

Enb

Monday, January 15, 2001 - 05:30 pm Click here to edit this post

I just don't like the word 'cheating'. It just doesn't fit! Like you said, we don't know what agreements they have before going on the island? Who are we to judge? For all we know, these couples may have 'open' relationships where they encourage sex with other people, free from jealousy? And even though you(not you specifically Lance or Kitt or Enbwife....) may not agree that it's right, it's their choice. There is no right or wrong in the world, only consequences.

So we can't really guess who might 'cheat' until we know what rules each couple has in their relationship...that's what I think! Some would say "A relationship means you don't have sex/physical contact with anyone else" but that is not the reality of all relationships...whether you like it not!