Taheed and Ytossie are two of a kind

The ClubHouse: Temptation Island: Taheed and Ytossie are two of a kind

Fabnsab

Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 07:56 pm Click here to edit this post

Taheed and Ytossie are two very stubborn people who know what the other is all about. I am not saying that their relationship is a good one, but they have been putting up with the same stuff for 5 years and I don't think that will change soon. The whole thing with neither of them sending a message was pretty telltale. I don't think I would have either though, just because you agreed to two weeks with no contact. It goes back to the ole BB rules about outside contact. If you're not supposed to have it, don't.

Lancecrossfire

Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 10:56 pm Click here to edit this post

Yes they are two of a kind--both liars and cheats. They have a kid (at least by all reports available so far). I don't think they just happened to accidently forget that through all the forms and paperwork. There behavior with the other adults takes a back seat to this, IMHO.

Enb

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 07:00 am Click here to edit this post

They seem to be playing games all the time! The woman especially.....like why don't they just come out with what they really want to say!?

The whole not sending a video thing was nothing but a game to them....hidden messages. I hate that!

Max

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 09:14 am Click here to edit this post

I said this in the other thread, but will repeat myself a bit here. :)

I think they are very co-dependent. Each thinks the other is "learning a lesson" and that their actions (in not sending a personal message) will make the other one think about his/her own actions.

Problem is, each of them blames the other for all the problems in the relationship. Doesn't seem like either one of them owns up to their portion of responsibility for how things have transpired.

Ytossie seems like a very angry person to me. ALl that attitude is just her defense mechanism for not dealing with what the underlying issues really are.

If they really have a kid, I feel sorry for the kid. If they stay together, the kid will learn all about how to have a dysfunctional relationship. If they split up, the kid will hear nothing but bad stuff from mom about dad, and probably vice versa.

And what in the heck-fire was Taheed thinking in discussing the details of his relationship with his date?!?! Geez, if I was his date just getting to know him, I would NOT be impressed. If I was Ytossie, I'd be royally pissed that he shared such personal details with a stranger. Just poor taste all the way around, IMHO.

Lancecrossfire

Saturday, January 27, 2001 - 02:26 am Click here to edit this post

Max, you speak of a lot of bad choices by these two. There might be one more to add to the list--thinking they could get anything resolved by going through all of this. Actually I'm waiting for one of them to make a right choice.

Even when separate and offered the chance for messages, as you point out, they say no. I wonder what they think communicating is?? Never mind, no need to answer.

Enbwife

Saturday, January 27, 2001 - 10:32 am Click here to edit this post

I really hate to see two people lash out at one another every opportunity they get. It's embarrassing for the two of them, and pathetic for us to watch. I feel very sorry for their child. :(

Enbwife

Wednesday, January 31, 2001 - 07:04 pm Click here to edit this post

I was surprised to see how easy the producers were on Taheed and Ytossie tonight about their deception... I thought they'd really give it to them for screwing with their show, but instead, they offered them a private island to discuss their troubles. I thought that was very classy of them, however, surprising. I'm glad they chose to take the offer and not go their separate ways, for their child's sake... I hope we get updated on their status, and that they are able to break down the walls that have been built between them.

Enbwife

Wednesday, January 31, 2001 - 07:14 pm Click here to edit this post

One more thing... I didn't miss Taheed or Ytossie one bit after they left the island. It actually seemed better without them. :)

Enb

Wednesday, January 31, 2001 - 07:23 pm Click here to edit this post

No kidding! Much better. They didn't seem to 'fit' right. Everyone else seems to have bonded a little more in their absence.

I wish them luck in their lives, but I don't really care if we hear about them again! :)

Max

Wednesday, January 31, 2001 - 10:12 pm Click here to edit this post

Well, Ytossie chose to accept the offer. Taheed just went along for the ride after telling the camera he was ready to just walk away. Wonder if they'll show the follow-up of them.

And I agree with Enb and Enbwife--I didn't miss them at all. In fact, it makes the show more palatable to have their venomous, passive aggressive remarks removed from the mix.

Seamonkey

Wednesday, January 31, 2001 - 10:28 pm Click here to edit this post

I think it was classy in a way, but also kept Taheed and Ytossie away from the general public
for a time.

I'm also totally convinced that the producers will continue to tape them, just as they did when
they left T ad Y "alone" (with the camera)to decide... I think we have more passive aggression
to come from them..

I don't miss their dynamic in with the others.

Lancecrossfire

Wednesday, January 31, 2001 - 11:47 pm Click here to edit this post

I agree with the masses on this one. They are almost making about revenge. A revenge for everything between each other. it appears from they way they are shown that they want much different things out of life. IMHO, that is

Bearcatuc

Thursday, February 01, 2001 - 06:11 am Click here to edit this post

I saw on ET last night that Ytossie and Taheed are no longer together. I was not surprised with this news considering the way they treated each other on the show. I think they are better off apart, even though they have a child. They are toxic for each other.

Kiari

Thursday, February 01, 2001 - 06:34 am Click here to edit this post

I saw on acess hollywood that they are going to keep showing Taheed and Ytossie on every episode.
They also said that at the present time Billy has moved to LA and Mandy is staying in Atlanta

Enbwife

Wednesday, February 21, 2001 - 07:35 pm Click here to edit this post

Tonight's epsiode with the Taheed/Ytossie update was very interesting. I think Ytossie was completed floored by Taheed saying he wants to spend the rest of his life with her. I think he has hurt her so badly in the past, it is really hard for her to break down the walls she's built around herself for protection. I hope they get the counselling they need and can learn to respect and accept each other.

Seamonkey

Wednesday, February 21, 2001 - 10:12 pm Click here to edit this post

hmmm well that doesn't take into consderation that it seems that Taheed is married with kids
in Orange County, CA... his wife found out
(she knew he was with Ytossie and all that) when she saw him, or actually his son saw him, on a preview of TI. At least that is one report.

I agree that they need counselling...

Max

Thursday, February 22, 2001 - 11:02 am Click here to edit this post

I think Taheed just said that to look good on camera. I'm not buyin' it, although I wish it were true.

The only thing I've seen about the wife and kids story was from the Enquirer. Has anyone seen other corroboration of the story from a more "reliable" source? It seems to ring true to form, but you never know with the Enquirer. :)