Anticipation? Isn't that really what it is all about?

The ClubHouse: Temptation Island: Anticipation? Isn't that really what it is all about?

Sfnative

Wednesday, February 21, 2001 - 10:13 pm Click here to edit this post

I keep looking at these people and thinking that they are sooooo young. They haven't had enough life experience to seperate what is real...from what is merely titillating. Lots of times the "payoff" (as in actually having sex) isn't worth all of the expectations and hopes and just plain "steaminess" that proceeds it.

If a person's first feeling, when waking up with a new lover is "what a mistake", then they have to deal with what they have trashed by their actions.

Doc99

Thursday, February 22, 2001 - 06:23 am Click here to edit this post

Sometimes anticipation is greater than realization. I agree, they seem very young.

Lancecrossfire

Thursday, February 22, 2001 - 07:31 am Click here to edit this post

It seems like it's more likely to think you've made a mistake when you have little emotional connection with the person. It's just sex for the sake of sex. For some that isn't a problem, and that's ok for them.

Seems like throwing that into the equation when you are looking at what road you want to take with someone you have invested a good portion of yourself into, makes for an ending filling with emptiness.