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Mamie316
| Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 4:58 pm
Right now Lk, I'm thinking you are some wonderful woman! I would never let my husband tell his exgirlfriends he loved them and especially in my presence. He doesn't love me more, he loves me! you have the patience of a saint. I have to hand it to you!
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Texannie
| Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 5:25 pm
Right now, I am saying I do not have a jealous bone in my body, can NOT stand it in other people, but Lk, I defintely don't think you are being irrational. You are amazing! Welcome back Tater!
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Mamie316
| Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 5:28 pm
Right now, I totally agree with Texannie! I have met many of my dh's exgirlfriends and really liked them but he doesn't really keep in touch with them now. I am not jealous and the past is the past. You are not irrational Lk, not in the least!
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Suitsmefine
| Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 5:29 pm
Right now I am thinking I have a cast iron skillet with Lkunkel's DH's name on it and I will gladly ship it to her overnight express so she can knock some sense in his head....then head on up to Denver and whack the ex with it too!!! You have alot more understanding than I do...I'd have committed a felony by now!
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Mamie316
| Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 5:31 pm
Right now, I am laughing at Suits! I would do the same thing!
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Tabbyking
| Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 5:33 pm
i don't have a problem with them being 'exes' and have met several; some i liked and was friends with, others i could take or leave. i would have a problem with someone still being in my dh's life to where they call him if they have a problem or need help with a move, or need bail money, etc., unless they had kid/kids together; then they should both be totally involved in raising those kids. but what your husband has are not 'exes'; they are 'currents' and he feels flattered. i would not put up with it at all. JMO, of course! but to me, it seems they aren't even on the back burner--they are still sizzling. no way, no how.
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Suitsmefine
| Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 5:41 pm
That is exactly how I see it Tabby.... (I just get violent with my solutions)!LOL
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Lkunkel
| Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 5:46 pm
Right now I'm laughing and feeling better! Nope, no kids...just themselves. I'm debating if I should tell Tabby about the Denver GF being at our Wedding and What Happened. (But wondering where to email it to her since I'm not sure where it would fit.)
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Tabbyking
| Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 5:47 pm
well, the skillet thing you mentioned did make me think of the back burner/sizzling analogy! LOL
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Tabbyking
| Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 5:52 pm
without kids, there is absolutely no reason for the exes to be in your husband's life at all. it's not as if they are co-workers, so have to interract, etc. they are not even in your area, and they are calling him. and that is the alarming part: they are not in both of your lives, they are in HIS LIFE. he has a 'relationship' outside of your marriage, that is not kosher, IMO. you said you were 'eavesdropping', which means he thought he was alone with his conversation. and he said things to an ex that should only be said to you. again, IMO.
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Tabbyking
| Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 5:57 pm
right now, sorry Lkunkel, it's really not my business! it just got me hot
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Mamie316
| Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 6:52 pm
Right now, I understand exactly how you feel yet again Tabby! It isn't my business but I did too feel indignation for Lk's situation. Lk seems like such a sweetie and MEN! Sometimes you just really want to let them have it!
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Ddr1135
| Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 7:26 pm
Right now I'm just getting back from helping ex with boxing what little was saved from the fire. They were able to start demolition today. Here's a few pics to show the devastation.

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Mamie316
| Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 7:34 pm
Right Now, I'm saying a little prayer for Ddr. What you must be going through!
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Mocha
| Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 8:07 pm
Right now, aww Ddr, and again thank god no one was hurt.
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Grannyg
| Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 8:11 pm
Ddr, that is an awful site!! I am so glad everyone is safe. Sending lots of prayers and lavender bubble bath your way.
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Lkunkel
| Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 10:27 pm
Right now I'm thankful DDR is safe. ETA: Tabby, by eavesdropping, I was in the other room. He says it whether I'm in the room or not. I was just listening to the conversation to see if he was planning a trip once I heard him say "Gee, Hon, I'm sorry you broke up and you have to move."
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Tabbyking
| Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 10:59 pm
i am going to do you a favor and not comment any more, because there is nothing good i can say about this.....
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Yankee_In_Ca
| Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 11:30 pm
Right now I'm dying to watch ER, but my partner is playing indoor soccer and I promised him I wouldn't watch it but would tape it so we can watch it when he comes home at midnight. Which is why I'm on TVCH so late -- to keep me away from watching ER!!!
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Tess
| Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 11:35 pm
Right now I'm telling Yankee that it was a tear-jerker.
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Ddr1135
| Friday, January 16, 2004 - 1:46 am
Right now I'm saying "Crap!" cause I fell asleep on ER and missed the tear-jerker parts.
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Reiki
| Friday, January 16, 2004 - 6:01 am
Right now it is -7 here in Albany, but it feels like -35 outside in the wind. School is closed. Yeah! We had meetings scheduled today but someone (ME) had the foresight to leave a message on the answering machine and to bring home a list of parents to call to cancel the meetings. I pity anyone who has to go out in this weather today.
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Pamy
| Friday, January 16, 2004 - 7:10 am
Right now I want to know where Mware told his airline letter story..thx
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Kaili
| Friday, January 16, 2004 - 7:31 am
Right now I'm thinking about how cold it is in the east and all the poor homeless people freezing their butts off. I feel bad for you frozed homed people too, of course. It's 13 degrees here right now- not too bad. (it's sad when you decide that 13 degrees isn't "too bad"!!!!)
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Mocha
| Friday, January 16, 2004 - 7:53 am
Right now I'm cold and I swear there's a draft somewhere.
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