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Archive through January 16, 2004

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Mamie316

Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 4:58 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
Right now Lk, I'm thinking you are some wonderful woman! I would never let my husband tell his exgirlfriends he loved them and especially in my presence. He doesn't love me more, he loves me! you have the patience of a saint. I have to hand it to you!

Texannie

Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 5:25 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
Right now, I am saying I do not have a jealous bone in my body, can NOT stand it in other people, but Lk, I defintely don't think you are being irrational. You are amazing!
Welcome back Tater!

Mamie316

Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 5:28 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
Right now, I totally agree with Texannie! I have met many of my dh's exgirlfriends and really liked them but he doesn't really keep in touch with them now. I am not jealous and the past is the past. You are not irrational Lk, not in the least!

Suitsmefine

Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 5:29 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
Right now I am thinking I have a cast iron skillet with Lkunkel's DH's name on it and I will gladly ship it to her overnight express so she can knock some sense in his head....then head on up to Denver and whack the ex with it too!!! You have alot more understanding than I do...I'd have committed a felony by now!

Mamie316

Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 5:31 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
Right now, I am laughing at Suits! I would do the same thing!

Tabbyking

Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 5:33 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
i don't have a problem with them being 'exes' and have met several; some i liked and was friends with, others i could take or leave. i would have a problem with someone still being in my dh's life to where they call him if they have a problem or need help with a move, or need bail money, etc., unless they had kid/kids together; then they should both be totally involved in raising those kids. but what your husband has are not 'exes'; they are 'currents' and he feels flattered. i would not put up with it at all. JMO, of course! but to me, it seems they aren't even on the back burner--they are still sizzling. no way, no how.

Suitsmefine

Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 5:41 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
That is exactly how I see it Tabby.... (I just get violent with my solutions)!LOL

Lkunkel

Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 5:46 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
Right now I'm laughing and feeling better! Nope, no kids...just themselves. I'm debating if I should tell Tabby about the Denver GF being at our Wedding and What Happened. (But wondering where to email it to her since I'm not sure where it would fit.)

Tabbyking

Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 5:47 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
well, the skillet thing you mentioned did make me think of the back burner/sizzling analogy! LOL

Tabbyking

Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 5:52 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
without kids, there is absolutely no reason for the exes to be in your husband's life at all. it's not as if they are co-workers, so have to interract, etc. they are not even in your area, and they are calling him. and that is the alarming part: they are not in both of your lives, they are in HIS LIFE. he has a 'relationship' outside of your marriage, that is not kosher, IMO. you said you were 'eavesdropping', which means he thought he was alone with his conversation. and he said things to an ex that should only be said to you. again, IMO.

Tabbyking

Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 5:57 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
right now, sorry Lkunkel, it's really not my business! it just got me hot :)

Mamie316

Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 6:52 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
Right now, I understand exactly how you feel yet again Tabby! It isn't my business but I did too feel indignation for Lk's situation. Lk seems like such a sweetie and MEN! Sometimes you just really want to let them have it!

Ddr1135

Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 7:26 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
Right now I'm just getting back from helping ex with boxing what little was saved from the fire. They were able to start demolition today. Here's a few pics to show the devastation.

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Mamie316

Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 7:34 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
Right Now, I'm saying a little prayer for Ddr. What you must be going through!

Mocha

Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 8:07 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
Right now, aww Ddr, and again thank god no one was hurt.

Grannyg

Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 8:11 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
Ddr, that is an awful site!! I am so glad everyone is safe. Sending lots of prayers and lavender bubble bath your way.

Lkunkel

Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 10:27 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
Right now I'm thankful DDR is safe.

ETA: Tabby, by eavesdropping, I was in the other room. He says it whether I'm in the room or not. I was just listening to the conversation to see if he was planning a trip once I heard him say "Gee, Hon, I'm sorry you broke up and you have to move."

Tabbyking

Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 10:59 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
i am going to do you a favor and not comment any more, because there is nothing good i can say about this.....

Yankee_In_Ca

Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 11:30 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
Right now I'm dying to watch ER, but my partner is playing indoor soccer and I promised him I wouldn't watch it but would tape it so we can watch it when he comes home at midnight. Which is why I'm on TVCH so late -- to keep me away from watching ER!!! :)

Tess

Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 11:35 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
Right now I'm telling Yankee that it was a tear-jerker.

Ddr1135

Friday, January 16, 2004 - 1:46 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
Right now I'm saying "Crap!" cause I fell asleep on ER and missed the tear-jerker parts.

Reiki

Friday, January 16, 2004 - 6:01 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
Right now it is -7 here in Albany, but it feels like -35 outside in the wind. School is closed. Yeah! We had meetings scheduled today but someone (ME) had the foresight to leave a message on the answering machine and to bring home a list of parents to call to cancel the meetings. I pity anyone who has to go out in this weather today.

Pamy

Friday, January 16, 2004 - 7:10 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
Right now I want to know where Mware told his airline letter story..thx

Kaili

Friday, January 16, 2004 - 7:31 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
Right now I'm thinking about how cold it is in the east and all the poor homeless people freezing their butts off. I feel bad for you frozed homed people too, of course. It's 13 degrees here right now- not too bad. (it's sad when you decide that 13 degrees isn't "too bad"!!!!)

Mocha

Friday, January 16, 2004 - 7:53 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
Right now I'm cold and I swear there's a draft somewhere.