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Whit4you

Monday, July 28, 2003 - 10:27 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Fly worked hard to help put together Monica's quilt.. here are a few messages she posted regarding that from the thread: Go see monica's quilt

Flyonthwall
Wednesday, April 10, 2002 - 01:36 pm Click here to edit this post HI all!!!

Moondance, saw your link to this section...I generally post all my updates, comments here:

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If you want you can go read what I've posted there, but basically it's this in a nut shell:

1: The quilt is being professionally quilted on the mechines at this time.
"Joleigh" and "Joe" her darling hubby, moved their quilting business so they are just now getting set up and rolling again. I talked to here last week 4-3, and she was really trying to get it going. They have been so swamped with business and the move.

2: The top peice in the photo above was beautifully peiced together by our very own "Shoofly".
After the disaster of the ...other person...not doing it after she said she did.....ANYHOW....
It's now done! Shoofly came though with flying colors and choose the beautiful border materials!!! Three cheers!!!!!

3: Just as soon as "Joleigh" finishes the quilt she is shipping it to Monica with all the info on our site and the folks letters and cards etc.
(Not to me, just right on to Monica).

4: I spoke to Monica shortly after they got out of the house but not since then.
I called her once but she wasn't in and did not return my call. I did not want to become a nuicence so I have not called again.
(Plus I have personal things going on too.)

5: The quilt is going to be finished soon and I or Shoofly or Joleigh WILL NOTIFY YOU ALL HERE or on the boards somewhere. So do not dispare!

Like I said in my post on the other one, things move slow, but I truly believe God is directing this. It takes time to heal and maybe if we'd finished the quilt sooner it would have been "too soon" for Monica in her pain you know?

So hang in there please and don't think we have forgot any of you! You are all so special for taking time to do all this.
There are so many places to post up-dates that I miss so many and I am sorry. I try to get the word out as best I can.

My health, which was an issue while BB2 was on-going is a major problem now. So I can't get on here as much as I would like to.
But I have complete faith and trust in Joleigh and Shoofly to see this project though to completition.

It hurts me to have to let it go to others and I feel I'm dumping it on them after doing the organizing and they/you all did all the work....but life don't work out like we want it sometimes.

So keep hanging on and we'll let you know soon I pray, that the quilt is on the way!
Thanks again for everyones interest and love and hard work to make this happen.
I do believe we have the greatest group of folks here and that is why even with out the bozo's that come and go in the BB2 house, the one's here in our Clubhouse are the BEST!!!!!!

Love and God Bless,

Flyonthwall...aka...Bobbi
PS...due to health problems, the Monica website has had to come down. Broke my heart but I couldn't keep it up. I know you all understand.
:-)

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and another...

Flyonthwall
Wednesday, April 10, 2002 - 01:47 pm Click here to edit this post Dang even after that long winded post I forgot to say that, if you want to know something about the quilt you may email me...but I don't get on the computer everyday. All I know I've already posted.

Sometimes I check mail each week. So it may take a while for me to answer but I will reply to each one I promise, if I'm able.

I have Lupus, and a new diagnosis of MS to go with it. Now my brain is going hokey pokey on me and I can't think clearly. Swelling in my brain, muscles not working...you know stupid stuff.
Things are not going well for me at all right now nor does there appear to be a "better" time for me ahead.

I have to much time to spend on medications and out of it in bed and not enough for fun here with you all that's for sure!
So I can't come out and play as much as I would like to. Nor can I sit at the computer as much either.
So please know that The MONICA quilt project will NOT be dropped just because of me.

There are others who know my situation and are doing everything in their power to make it happen for us. It's just going to take a little time.

Please forgive me for takeing on all this and then letting you all down and not being here to see it through. But it has done my heart good to see the love in people who don't even know each other reach out in such a kind way.

sorry to dribble...stupid pain med's just keep me rambling and boo-hooing......

Love ya all,miss you terribly.....
Fly

Whit4you

Monday, July 28, 2003 - 10:21 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Thought I'd share some of Fly's posts here at the TVCH for those who'd like to remember our wonderful friend and the fun times she shared with us here.

This is from

Do you have a Members Folder?

Flyonthwall
Tuesday, July 30, 2002 - 09:40 pm
YIPEE! Flyonthwall's folder!

Thanks Twiggish! I got a folder! WOW! What a treat!
FLy

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Thread: Name my Goat

Flyonthwall
Saturday, September 07, 2002 - 11:53 am
LOL thanks for the laughs you all!
This is the best thread since the Sock experiment!

So many names and such good one's to choose from!
Of course Juju is by far the learder!
But I loved the one about the see my goat TEE..ROFL

Weedeater.. since he eats the grass.
Mr. Jingles...always thought that was cute from the Green Mile!

Springs.. since he can jump so high!
of course FLY would be a good name too! LOL

Okay okay...Juju's the best!

Thanks for the laughs!

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Thread: How about a TVClub Group Hug

Flyonthwall
Saturday, July 27, 2002 - 09:36 am
Wow I can't even begin to list everyone here I'd want to hug for all the kindness I've been shown!
So to all of you my favorite, Mickey Hug!

Mickey Minnie Hug

Love you all!
FLy

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Thread: Need ideas for my hubby's Navy retirement party


Flyonthwall
Saturday, September 07, 2002 - 11:28 am
When my dad was in the Navy...many moons ago in the 40's...
They had a ceremony when they crossed the equator.
They all dressed up like pirates, some as hula girls! LOL

Then they had a kind of hazing type thing.
I looked at photo's millions of times from some my dad had. It was really funny!

Anyway, it was a HUGE right of passage back in the day. Everyone was involved and it was expected to happen.

So my thoughts maybe look in to that aspect.
Have a Luau with hula skirts etc buy some eye patches for the guys and then make some table deco with palm leaves and serve shrimp coctails! LOL

THe in the Navy song and dance would go great!

If you have a pool you could make your hubby walk the "plank" at the end of the ceremony!
Splash into the pool!

Get ya a "huck" inflatable shark...
Maybe some blow up "seals" and make them Navy seals! LOL

Decorate things up like an old time cantana..watch Pearl harbor to see some of their set decorations when they are at the bars.

we had a luau once.
I used cardboard to make a cabana top, used trellis to work for holding it up and then draped misquito netting all over it, to protect the food.
Tons of palm leaves for the roof and over the tables.
Tiki torches all around.
Had tons of food! Fish theme and Hawaii all around!
Oh and don't forget the watermellon!
Cut a deco top like a basket, cut a flat spot on the bottom,(so it won't topple over), then cut out most of the meat of the mellon.
Then pour in some sangria and mix in some pinapple and cherries with burbon and wow zowie you have some hula dancin' punch! LOL

We had a great time!
Hope your party goes super!!
Let us know and post some pics!
FLY


same thread:

Flyonthwall
Saturday, September 07, 2002 - 12:10 pm
LOL you could still have him walk the plank...
Use some cinder blocks..the gray kind you know?

lay several close together and then lay a board across them. Let it extend over the kiddy pool.
Put some palm plants by it so it disguises the blocks underneith.

When he walks the plank he "steps" off the end into the kiddy pool..only mucking up his shoes! LOL

Blind fold him before this ceremony so he won't know what's going on.
Have a serious saying prepared.
"Darling hubby, after all your 20 years in the Navy you have rightfully eared your right of passage into the civilian world.
To help you, we will guide you across, lending you a helping hand of support.
(someone take his hand and led him across the plank to the end. then stop. they say something like)
You were a huge asset to your Navy comrades and now you will be going forward into the new world to see how big a splash you can make.
(at this point give a little shove so he has to step off the end of the plank)

when he steps into the pool and makes his "splash"
then have everyone throw confettie or water on him and cheer him on!

After this I'd be really serious and hold a toast up for him and say something mushy like.
Dear we know it's a big old world out there and your splash may not be huge but it will send ripples of who you are near and wide.
We love you and respect all you've done in your life and know there is so much more to come, because that's they kind of guy you are."

Okay this is not really good but you get the idea.
It's all in the words and play on words you need to use to get him!

Some fun some serious, but in the end he'll know he's respected and loved and everyone wishes the best.

I wish I was there! LOL
Good luck sweetie! I know you'll make it grand!!
FLY

Whit4you

Monday, July 28, 2003 - 10:21 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
From the "Hey, try this "Message Map" thread:

This is Fly's response to finding out we were all stuck in the ocean... after Ryn had resized the map.


Flyonthwall
Tuesday, September 17, 2002 - 02:13 pm

Whew!! Glad I can FLY!!!

Buzzzzzz

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Thread: Guess what!? T-shirts are finally here!

Flyonthwall
Wednesday, August 21, 2002 - 08:27 pm

Thanks Neil! I got mine this week!
Great great great! I'll be the fashion envy of my neighborhood! LOL

Thanks again for all you do!
FLy

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Sharing the joy of new puppies:

From the thread: You name the puppy!!!


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Flyonthwall
Saturday, September 07, 2002 - 09:09 pm

I think Hippy would be a perfect name for the pup!
It would make up think of your time here! LOL

Winkie
Pepper
FLy hehehe
Juju
Oreo (well she is black and white!)

She's a real cutie pie!
Best of luck and enjoy those slobbery kisses!

Oh that reminds me...Chinese for Kiss is
Ching Ching ( sound of change falling LOL)
I always liked that.
I named my pom MaLie MiGau
It means beautiful faced dog! LOL
We call her Mimi
My smaller pom is named LuLu
When I call them at the same time I say MiLu!
ROFL

Okay nuf ..good luck!!
wow name a goat now a puppy...what next? teeheheee

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Flyonthwall
Saturday, September 07, 2002 - 09:39 pm

FLy like JujuFLy doggie teeheee

Hey what about Jujubee like the candy? ROFL
it's close to FLy!
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Flyonthwall
Saturday, September 07, 2002 - 11:41 pm

JootooFLY LOL
Sound like You to FLy
COol BeEns!

Oh Jpeg
ROFL
Night all! I'm over the edge!
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NOTE: same thread few days later...

Flyonthwall
Monday, September 09, 2002 - 08:28 pm Edit

WOOOHOOO!!!Lola Jujuflywhoamnekogail!!!

I am so happy happy happy I am part of this!

Lola is such a cutie pie! So happy for you all!
Hope you have a wonderful life together!

Fly buzzes off very happy now that she has been part of so much fun!!

Whit4you

Monday, July 28, 2003 - 10:44 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Fly takes the TVCH baby poll on the infamous baby of Neil and Lisa..to be in the "Baby Poll" thread:


Flyonthwall
Saturday, August 10, 2002 - 11:02 am

Well Enbwife, if you could post a pic of yourself then I could accuratly judge by how low or high your tummy is.
High a girl, low a boy.
LOL...or so my mother says!

hmmm lets see..without a pic, I'll guess:
Girl
8lbs 10 1/2oz
Aug 11 at 12:08am
birthmark on left shoulder blade
in shape of a flower
Her name: Calia Lilly

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The ever helpful Fly.. responding to her fellow posters in the thread:

"The return of The Return of the Gripe Thread"


After she'd helped Vanilla - Vanilla responded:

Vanillarose
Saturday, September 07, 2002 - 08:27 am

Thanks, Fly! That's really helpful! I won't ask you to help out with the pain in my butt, though!

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To which Fly responds...

Flyonthwall
Saturday, September 07, 2002 - 08:35 am EditMoveDeleteIP LOL...Notice I didn't EVEN go here!

(ED: an image of bart mooning..)

BUTT Here's lookin' at ya!

Hope your butt is better, but a better butt does not mean it won't hurt, but maybe it's better to have a butt that hurts then a better butt..

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Flyonthwall
Saturday, September 07, 2002 - 08:37 am

((((HILLYBILLY)))))
Nice to see you!!!eeks

Been missing you!!

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Flyonthwall
Saturday, September 07, 2002 - 08:54 am

I added a new thread over at the spam area, for graphic's TVCH members create.
So check it out and add some if ya want to!

I hear ya Hillbilly....It's sad huh?

Well have fun you all and I'll check in with ya's later!

FLy

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Fly in response to the "What does your screenname mean" thread:

Flyonthwall
Saturday, July 27, 2002 - 01:15 pm

Well I think mine speaks all on it's own.

FLy

FLy buzzes off screaming Help me help me!

Whit4you

Monday, July 28, 2003 - 11:04 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Fly on Lisa's bite on her toosh...she seemed pretty interested in this topic - these posts made me smile so thought I'd share them...


Flyonthwall
Monday, July 29, 2002 - 08:51 pm

Wow I really feel sorry for Lisa, poor girl what ever it was that bit her she is in pain and not feeling good.

She said she has fever in her but cheek and pain down her leg, and now there is blisters on it.

I just saw her pull Eric in the HRD and Chir followed.
Lisa was crying a bit and told Eric that she saw the doc and they don't think it's contagious but now they are going to make and announcement that everyone has to use seat covers on the toliet!
Eric and Chi were like Oh it's okay honey.
Chi we use them anyhow.
Lisa say how...(humiliating? embarrasing?)
Feed goes outside.

Gezzz she's just not getting any good breaks here is she! I feel so bad for her!
Now she is going around telling everyone and she is sniffling and so sad.

She said they took blood and will get back to her tomorrow but until then they have to use the seat covers.

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Flyonthwall
Monday, July 29, 2002 - 08:53 pm

WElll nowww...we seem to have that "seat covered"...

LOL
Can't say TVClubhouse is slakin' on their jobs here 'eh?

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Flyonthwall
Monday, July 29, 2002 - 09:50 pm

Thanks Justin, I knew I saw that somewhere!

Well I just hope she gets to feeling better quickly! No one deserves to go thru what she has so far, expecially while on TV! UGH!
{{{Lisa}}}}
and {{{WYndie}}} Ouch! That sounds really painful for you! Hope I don't have that again either!
I hate creepy crawlies!

Flyonthwall
Wednesday, July 31, 2002 - 03:22 pm Lisa now has the most famous butt in world history! LOL

Ryanc, you made me laugh!
Have a good day!

FLy

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Flyonthwall
Friday, August 02, 2002 - 12:22 am

Lisa

Okay here's an update pic of Lisa's butt for those who are still interested in her dx.

She was changing the bandage and Eric was helping her.
Don't want to leave any info out that might help the BBTVCH armchair docs out in the cold! LOL

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(I'm sharing some of these just cause I think it'll warm peoples hearts to see her hugs to them...)

This was in response to Lawyer's thread: BB3 Live Show Audio Available

Flyonthwall
Thursday, August 01, 2002 - 03:37 pm

{{{Lawyerman}}} Glad to see you continue your tradition!!
Thanks!
FLy

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She writes a lymerick.... in the thread " Discuss Tonights Show 7/31 "

Flyonthwall
Wednesday, July 31, 2002 - 08:19 pm

Shoddy Roddy
Gosh ol mighty
Who the heck are we?

Watch'en you
and wanting you
to fall down on your knees!

Get 'em out
Make Chiara pout
That's what we want to see!

No F O T H
NO F O T H
NO F O T H
FOR ME!!!

Whit4you

Monday, July 28, 2003 - 11:24 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
During BB2 Fly starts a very popular thread and ets it all out in the "CAN I SCREAM .....PLEASE????" thread:


Flyonthwall
Monday, July 29, 2002 - 02:40 pm

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHhhhhhhh!

Yes you can!

Get it out right here!
When your feeling frustrated over the HG's talk, actions etc.

Or all the mind bending stratigy that is going on.

Or thread bashing that has gone awry.

Just come here, post a scream then go back to enjoying the game!
That is why we are all here is to have a GOOD time with this, make friends not have bash parties for either HG's or Posters.

FLy's already exhausted from all the plotting that is going on this year, and it's what week 3??! UGH!

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more from that same thread:

Flyonthwall
Monday, July 29, 2002 - 03:11 pm

Not all shouts have to be bad one's so be sure to go to the ****Thank you live feed posters*** thread and give a shout out there!!
They really need to scream to keep up with the feeds this year!!!!

Love you LFP'ers!!!! YOU ROCK!

Fly is so happy that everyone is feeling better now! Buzzing happily along!

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She's enjoying her thread ....

Flyonthwall
Monday, July 29, 2002 - 10:07 pm

OMG! Someone save me it's a repeat of last night with Amy NOW telling Gerry, who was asleep thru all last nights fiasco of drunken squaller, the exact same thing she told everyone in the house over and over again and again and again!!!!!!!!!

Fly buzzes off wondering how long a sentence she can make with out proper punctuation or grammer!ZZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzz

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same thread...

Flyonthwall
Wednesday, July 31, 2002 - 07:27 pm

Anyone need to scream after tonights show?
Feel free.
OH WAIT!

Okay now you can go..I have my ear plugs in!
FLy


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(the HUG is a huge huge ascii graphic)

Flyonthwall
Wednesday, July 31, 2002 - 01:50 am

HUG

All around for each of you who have found this thread a release!
Keep it up! It really works!
Wow stessful show this year huh? But good!

FLy

Whit4you

Monday, July 28, 2003 - 11:40 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
During BB2 Fly starts a popular thread and ets it all out in the "CAN I SCREAM .....PLEASE????" thread:


Flyonthwall
Monday, July 29, 2002 - 02:40 pm

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHhhhhhhh!

Yes you can!

Get it out right here!
When your feeling frustrated over the HG's talk, actions etc.

Or all the mind bending stratigy that is going on.

Or thread bashing that has gone awry.

Just come here, post a scream then go back to enjoying the game!
That is why we are all here is to have a GOOD time with this, make friends not have bash parties for either HG's or Posters.

FLy's already exhausted from all the plotting that is going on this year, and it's what week 3??! UGH!

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more from that same thread:

Flyonthwall
Monday, July 29, 2002 - 03:11 pm

Not all shouts have to be bad one's so be sure to go to the ****Thank you live feed posters*** thread and give a shout out there!!
They really need to scream to keep up with the feeds this year!!!!

Love you LFP'ers!!!! YOU ROCK!

Fly is so happy that everyone is feeling better now! Buzzing happily along!

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She's enjoying her thread ....

Flyonthwall
Monday, July 29, 2002 - 10:07 pm

OMG! Someone save me it's a repeat of last night with Amy NOW telling Gerry, who was asleep thru all last nights fiasco of drunken squaller, the exact same thing she told everyone in the house over and over again and again and again!!!!!!!!!

Fly buzzes off wondering how long a sentence she can make with out proper punctuation or grammer!ZZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzz

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same thread...

Flyonthwall
Wednesday, July 31, 2002 - 07:27 pm

Anyone need to scream after tonights show?
Feel free.
OH WAIT!

Okay now you can go..I have my ear plugs in!
FLy


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(the HUG is a huge huge ascii graphic)

Flyonthwall
Wednesday, July 31, 2002 - 01:50 am

HUG

All around for each of you who have found this thread a release!
Keep it up! It really works!
Wow stessful show this year huh? But good!

FLy


A funny post by Fly in the BB2 thread "Everyones playing the game tonight"

Flyonthwall
Monday, July 29, 2002 - 02:55 am

Okay I got a pot of fresh hot coffee here!
Just grab a cup and if you got 'em smoke 'em!


This is like a soap opera and it started with Am Choice and Amy broke the dammm loose!!!

Glad to see I'm not the only addicted one here!
Hi my name is Fly and I'm a BB Addict. My husband is going to leave me cuz I sit up all night watching other people in a house of choas!!!
FLy

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I thought the last sentence in this one was hilarious, from the BB2 thread: "Is Eric going to use the veto, yes or no???"

Flyonthwall
Monday, July 29, 2002 - 11:42 am EditMoveDeleteIP Watching it all last night it seemed that maybe Lisa was trying to talk to Eric about it..but there was just to much whispering to be sure.

Roddy was so in "love" with the new Amy last night, her hurt and honesty, but he still wants her out I'm sure.
He was just showing his love for her on cam so she'll see it when she gets out..IMHO

I don't think he'll use it, but if Lisa bent his ear of her fear that she may be gone if Amy don't go and Josh gets HOH, he'll put Lisa up.
If Eric really does care about her, he may waver and want to do something to save her from that.

Who knows what will happen...this is like As The VETO turns! LOL

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It's amazing what a helpful person Fly was here I've came across a few dozen of her help posts - we could put together a whole help section just based on all her helpful tips.

I'd like to find some of her earliest posts to share here.. especially her first few.

Seamonkey

Monday, July 28, 2003 - 11:46 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Thanks so much, Whit!! This helps.

Whit4you

Tuesday, July 29, 2003 - 12:01 am EditMoveDeleteIP
You're welcome, it's hard to explain... but I'm leaving out anything that would be say 'anti' any particular houseguest... or any post that was part of a controversial topic (because she's not here to further explain her stance, and it'd be taken out of context etc..) but in reading them to me it's like she's still participating this year.. because so much of what we are discussing here this year, she's spoken her say on in previous BB years. So I have my answers to what she would have said in regards to our various discussions and debates. I miss her, and have been expecting her to return any day now so it saddens me to know she won't be returning.. but also makes me happy that her stance and thoughts on so much of what is to go on - during BB has been shared with us from previous shows. Even who she'd be rooting for and who she'd be against, just based on all the reading - it's easy to get a sense of that. More from Fly:


Fly has an excellent suggestion regarding the HGs breaking the rules on BB2 - in the thread "They need an airhorn"

Flyonthwall
Monday, July 29, 2002 - 10:45 am

I think electric shock therapy would be great!
Like one of those collars they use on dog to keep them inside their years! LOL
ZAAAAPPP!

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Fly shares some deep thoughts in the "Everyone ragging on Jason" thread during BB2

Flyonthwall
Tuesday, July 30, 2002 - 03:14 pm EditMoveDeleteIP Afternoon everyone!
(Touchy topic and very proud it hasn't turned into a flame thread!
Sorry this is soooo long!)

Wow what a great thread! You guys really have made some very interesting observations and comments. To many to mention by name!
Also Thanks for thinking of me and taking my post about the whole situation so well!

I was thinking about all this today, and talking to my sis-in-law and my neice (12yr old) asked me why would they pick on Jason so bad?

Without going into all the gory details of the topic...(she is very mature for her age!)
I told her as a Christian, we all have to be careful of how we are preceived by things we do.
Just as we judge the character of a person for things they say and do.

As a Christian I share my beliefs with others but don't push my religon on them.
When that person is open and accepting, they will seek their own answers.

Jason is trying to stand up for his own personal beliefs. To keep pushing their beliefs on him or their words at him without listening to him say stop or showing he is uncomfortable, would be just like him going around preaching to them all!

In THIS GAME he is caught between showing his real feelings or suck-up-and-deal with theirs.
If he gets mad and lashes out he will be kicked out.
Not only that, but he is also being judged on his actions and words by each of us that are watching him.

If he did something that changed how he is acting or if he went to the "dark side" he would affect the opinion of many veiwers and the HG preception of him.

I believe they, especially Chi is trying to provoke him so he'll do something to give her an out for getting him out. Maybe they all are.
He's too squeeky clean. They need to tarnish his image, then they won't feel bad kicking him out.

If this is all an act, then GREAT! So far he's representing a good fellow Christian and I'm proud of him.
(acting out this way saying his a virgin- so he won't have to sleep with or hook up with anyone. He knows this could be a disaster. Look at Roddy.
ACting like a Christian - he will be preceived as honest and true. Less threatening and more reliable than the others, so ppl will trust him)

All that said, which is way too much, Chi could use being around someone who is more spiritual or at least more refined. I hope she can see some good out of this in the end, and learn something.

If Chi is or is not a Christian, ( I do not know her heart) then hopefully she will look deeper into her own heart and find the answers she needs to grow into the beautiful young woman she is.

One last thing...If Jason knew this show would be this graphic this year I wonder if he would have gone?
You sure can't judge this year from the last two, if he was going based on those!
I pray for him to be strong and be very proud of who he is and what he believes.
He has touched many lives by his actions and I hope that he will not waver from them.

Sorry to "preach", and to those of you who do not have a spiritual preference, I do appologize for voicing my opinions. You have every right to voice your opinions also and I will not judge you by them. I am not trying to push my beliefs on you, just posting my thoughts.

Thanks again for the great thread and the understanding you have given each other in your posts. I'm glad we are not turning this into a bash religon or bash no religion forum.

Sincerely,
FLy

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Some thoughts for all of us...that can apply to this year (posted in the BB2 "Amy's Rambling" thread:


Flyonthwall
Sunday, July 28, 2002 - 10:53 pm

This whole gang this year is way out there in their actions to me.
But I watch.
Why?
It's interesting to see what people do when they are in this kind of situation.
I try really hard not to judge them by THIS SHOW, because they are acting out a lot.
You learn by seeing others as they are, this to me is not real. We are not seeing the real people here ALL THE TIME. Just part of the time.

Stress is flowing high on these boards and in the house. It just seems like it's worse this year then the last two....to me.

Everyone together now....Deep breath....Hold it....hold it.....Breath....relax....

Love you guys, and remember this is a show and they all know it, we need to remember it...I think....
FLy..night night!

Whit4you

Tuesday, July 29, 2003 - 12:10 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Her sis-in-law was offering suggestions for those who might wish to make donations, so I thought I'd share this thought from Fly... posted during BB2 in the " Mornings with Gerry - the kiss of death? (lol)" thread:


Flyonthwall
Wednesday, July 24, 2002 - 09:42 am

Spewed my coffeee this morning when Gerry said if he shaves off his beard he looks like uncle fester! LOL...then on to talk about his wife saying not peirce his ear peirce his nipple!
OMG...coffee went everywhere...dang...that visual was just to much...
Ear peirced...nipples...caption Blyh! Uncle Fester! Yikes!

Interesting though that he said his wife has Lupus, now that I wish he'd talk about! We need more folks to talk about this disease so we can get more funding...maybe if he won he'd donate??? Naahhh....but it was a thought...
Okay going to wash off the coffee now..

Fly


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This one touched me.. she had a way with words:
From the BB1 "THANK YOU LIVE FEED POSTERS!!!!" thread

Flyonthwall
Tuesday, September 18, 2001 - 01:35 pm Click here to edit this post

THANK YOU LIVE FEED POSTERS!!!

As the show comes to an end, it is with a sad heart I say goodbye to some of you for now.
I know some will move on and not have time to come around.

I can not express in words how I feel about the LFP GANG!!
So many new friends, so many new thoughts all brought from each of you!

It has been a privilege and honor to be among those of you who have given of your time, fingers and ED's!

Being a shut-in most of my days, I feel I have been everywhere, and involved in everything though your words and expressions...and e-mails.

You will never have any way of knowing how much this time has enriched my life.
But I do hope that you will not forget the camaraderie we shared and the friendships that were formed.

No matter how we feel/felt about issues to do with the show and the HG...we still were able to form lasting bonds.
To me that has been a great gift!!

All the love you have shown me personally has brought tears to my eyes on many occasion.

So I take my hat off, stand at attention and salute each of you.
Then I bow my head and pray that each of you will heal over the hurts from our nations mourning, that you can forgive hurtful words and people, and that you will stick around in the future at least pop in to say HI once in a while.

We are a unique family. I am glad to be a part of.

God Bless each of you,
FLyonthwall....aka...Bobbi

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Fyl spent so much time helping me gather up a list of names of all the live feed posters that year. I appreciated it so much.

Abby7

Tuesday, July 29, 2003 - 12:41 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Whit, Thank you. What you are doing for Fly is so very, very kind of you.

Sunrvrose

Tuesday, July 29, 2003 - 12:56 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Whit, Thank You.

Whit4you

Tuesday, July 29, 2003 - 01:13 am EditMoveDeleteIP
(You're welcome Abby and Sun)

I am posting this one just because I think the 2nd paragraph is soooo funny and so Fly. :) It's from the Thank you live feed posters thread of BB2.

Flyonthwall
Tuesday, September 11, 2001 - 12:34 am Click here to edit this post Special THANKS again to each and every member of the LFP GANG!

Without you, there would be no fights in the general discussion board! LOL JUST KIDDING!

With things winding down, it is hard to entice newbies to come play and post. So each of you who stick with it till the end are to be committed...er...commended!

Remember......
YOU ROCK!!!!

FLy

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I thought her tribute to Monica was really sweet and show a part of Fly's personality, remember this was just a few days after 9/11 - and Monika left having lost her cousin. So I'm sure people like Fly really touched her.

From the "Monica's Farewell speech" thread BB2:


Flyonthwall
Wednesday, September 19, 2001 - 12:23 am Click here to edit this post I'm a Monica Fan!
And proud of it!

I watched her say her prayers in the morning, thanking God for the day.
I listened to her and Bunky share some deep religious feelings.

She had respect for herself and faith in her own strengths and character qualities.
She did not compromise her values to fit in with other groups.

She also did not constantly spew foul language and smut stories, nor wallow over other in the hot tub.
She did not complain about gifts or food she received from BB.

Her faults..yes there are some. She knows what they are and admitted to several. But she never felt the need to gloss them over for others comforts.
She never shed false tears.
She did not lie continually to others.
She respected others beliefs and opinions, even when she did not agree with them.

She walked out of the house with her head high, shoulders back and proud of herself.

She will not care if we were happy or mad over the way she played the game.
She did it for herself...her way.

For that Monica has my deepest heartfelt respect.
She is a winner, and does not need money to be self fulfilled.

with respect,
Fly

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This one's for Sea :)

From the BB2 thread "At this point in the game of BB1 the place was trashed"

Flyonthwall
Wednesday, September 19, 2001 - 08:33 pm Click here to edit this post Seamonkey and everyone...you brought a smile to my face tonight reading these post!

I remember those times so well and really miss them!

It was way better than what has gone on this year!

I still giggle when I think of Chicken George digging up the garden and cactus patch looking for money they had buried! ROFL

And the shower thing when George blasted off??
Oh my....

When the only thing that was irritating about what came out of lips was Jamie's gloss..not foul language! <snicker>

Ahhh those were the days...

If you haven't gone over to Thom Johnson's site for BB movies you really need to!
I watched last years movies and had a great time remembering!
Here's the link:
http://www.tconl.com/~tjohnson/bbs/

There are some from this year too! Look for the BB2 movies!

Thanks for the LOL and ROFL! I really needed it!

FLy

Ezgoing

Tuesday, July 29, 2003 - 01:40 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Whit-
Thank you so much for this lovely tribute to Fly. Just by sharing her own words with us, those who were blessed to consider her a friend and those who didn't have that opportunity can easily see why she was so special! She always had a generous way of looking at people, savoring their uniqueness, nonjudgmental and positive no matter what. It is rare to find a person so genuinely respectful of others, even those who differed in their opinions.

It makes me smile to know that right now, FLy's probably buzzing around and getting a good chuckle out of all of us recalling how wonderful she was---she always did love to make folks think about the good and fun things in life! Thank you for sharing your humble, generous heart with all of us.

FLy, we will remember you.
(formerly: Guiltyviewer)

Goddessatlaw

Tuesday, July 29, 2003 - 01:54 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Thank you for posting these, Whit. She was wonderful.

Whit4you

Tuesday, July 29, 2003 - 02:26 am EditMoveDeleteIP
(Ez, Goddess... you're welcome)

I thought this one was cute from the BB2 thread:

"My name is ___________ and I'm a BB addict!"


Flyonthwall
Friday, August 31, 2001 - 10:43 am


Hi group! <group says Hello!>
I joined last year and have been watching everything BB since then. <group.. ahhhhh>

I joined the last thread BB anon but it went off the boards and I truly need support.<group...Yeah>

I need a mentor and chose Snee to help me out and Moon to show me more color font clip tricks!
<group nods>

Thanks and is the coffee ready??
<group claps then shows FLy to the donuts!>

FLy

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And here's a funny song she wrote posted in the BB2 thread called "Transcript of Mike's Diary Room Speech for Krista"

Flyonthwall
Friday, August 03, 2001 - 08:09 am

Hello my names is Mike

I plotted and sceamed
with my main man Will
Cuz that's what's it's about
in the town called Chill.

Justin used Krista
said he'd feed 'er to the gater's
Got his butt kicked out
'for he could oper-ater

A knife to her throat-
He was a pressin'
Man that dude didn't have aggression!


So then my gal Shan got with Will the Man,
hooked it up and danced the sheets
the she cleaned the can.


I rolled up the plate-
with Krista for my date,
Loved to watch her suck the heads-
off all that crawfish she ate.

Made it look like
I was going for the score,
but I didn't wanna do nothing
with that canky sore

So I spin a little tale
like I've done before,
and leave 'em wonderin'
as I hit the door.

My name is...My name is...My name is...Mike Malin...my name is...My name is...My name is...Mike Carri....


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I think this next one is a riot, it might sound like she's dissing Monica but remember she was Monica's #1 supporter here so it was just meant in jest.

From the BB2 thread "Predictions for the rest of the episodes":

Flyonthwall
Saturday, August 11, 2001 - 01:18 pm Click here to edit this post My predictions are:

1 Nicole will throw Hardy down on the HOH bed and....

2 Hardy will announce that he is gay

3 Bunky will announce that he is not!

4 Krista will od on nyquil and dirt nap Hardy

5 Will's hair will finally over take his entire head!

6 Monica will finally say something we can all understand!

Fly anxiously awaits #6

Bearware

Tuesday, July 29, 2003 - 09:49 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Thanks Whit - Can't express how sad I am she's gone, but it does help to look back and appreciate her again.

Whit4you

Tuesday, July 29, 2003 - 10:42 am EditMoveDeleteIP
(You're welcome Bear)

Here's a really sweet one from when she was nominated as one of the posters in the BB2 thread "Posters Who Play Well With Others"

Flyonthwall

Monday, August 13, 2001 - 07:59 pm

I am proud to be associated with this wonderful group of people!
Those of you who mentioned me, put a lump in my throat! I am humbled by your compliments!

Special thanks to each of you who have emailed me with Thanks for doing LFP and seen humor in my posts.

There is no way to mention each and every person that is important here by name, for that would be everyone!
Even when tempers flair, we all seem to learn from others views.

As a 'homebody' that has no other outlets than my puter world, I can't tell you how much association with people like the one's here mean to me.

So to each one of you, you are special, and appreciated. Your views are important, and your activity here.. expecially LFP are a true blessing!

Thanks bunches, and happy posting! Flyonthwall

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Her and I agreed on many of the clever user names here, her's was picked out by so many as being clever - made her day. Here's her lists from the "Clever usernames on this board?" thread from BB1.

Flyonthwall
Tuesday, August 21, 2001 - 11:17 am

Ophelia! Love it! Yep hard to believe no one got it!

Snave...all time best post hysterical and deep!

Snee...makes me laugh!

Fruitbat..and any of the peripherals there of..LOL

Ocean_Islands...very romantic sounding.

Ryn...(okay kissing up here on that one LOL)

Bernie..knowing your real name, this makes me laugh!

Shoofly...you always make me feel your trying to tell me something! ROFL

Schoolmarm...cute idea!

Ketchuplover...reminds me of my neice, she uses it on everything!

Grog...prehistoric sounding!

Whit...because you are whitty!

Joker...cuz I love this little clipart!

Eddiesleg...what can I say sick twisted and hysterical! LOL

There are tons more...I think I'll make a list of everyone! LOL

FLy

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(she added more later...)

Flyonthwall
Wednesday, August 22, 2001 - 07:41 am

Thanks for the comments, glad you like my name!

Grod...sorry about the mess up on that..still like it though! Sounds even more prehistoric! LOL

Here's some that caught my eyes...
Allyg8r
Bunnyfoof
Caffeinebuzz
Cheeznrice
Chickenman2000
Daplane
Freydnot
Froufrou
Grooch
Guminherhair
Hamsteritis
Imnewagain
Imwatching2
Jushvnfn
Justsomeguy
K9mom
Keepinmymoney
Keepitreal
Labmouse
Lazybastard
Lurknomore
Makeitstop...ROFL
Netnerd
Needmylifeback
Nyquilbeer
Pbnjay
Readmefirst
Rejectedhamster
Roxibalboa
Ryn....(okay kissing up again...
Scribe
Shinypenny
Sherball
Theriddler
Trinitron
Whatsitsay
Who2go
Yankee_In_Ca
Zagnut

These are just a few of the great names out there! I'm compiling a list so if you want to email me your name and I'll add it then post the list!
Yep...I'm board! LOL
FLy


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Anyone remember when Fly made a list of all the TVCH posters - don't recall why she did it but wow it took alot of time. I remember alot of people enjoyed the list - and couldn't believe she'd managed to put together such an extensive list.

Kellirippa

Tuesday, July 29, 2003 - 11:46 am EditMoveDeleteIP
I believe that this post was likely her last here at the clubhouse, it's from the "Hello to the Old and the New" thread Archive from this year.

Flyonthwall
Saturday, June 28, 2003 - 02:31 pm
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A BIG HELLO! TO each of you!

So nice to see many names again this year!
I'll be sure to pop around now and again to see what's up with the gang!

I have enjoyed so much our BB gang here and can't wait to join in again as I can!
My DSL is once again hooked up, but still no lap top, but I do hope that can be arranged at some point. As many of you know my health issues won't allow me to stay with it for long periods of time any longer.

I will still enjoy reading the LFP's and watch as other carry on a time honored tradition!
What a great place huh?

TO each of you who choose to give of your time doing the feeds, THANK you in advance and remember, YOU ROCK!!!!

I'll see you all and try my best to catch up on each of you as I have time and energy.
Thank you for all the prayers and love you give!
What an exciting time, with Big Brother starting once again!

Take care and ROCK ON!!

FLyonthwall

Draheid

Tuesday, July 29, 2003 - 12:03 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Two of Fly's favorite images to post. I think these speak for how she felt about the clubhouse.


tvch

yourock

Shoofly

Tuesday, July 29, 2003 - 12:22 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Whit, it has been a delight to review posts by our Fly. Thank you. She was a one of a kind.

From one of Fly's letters as she developed her understanding of her place here and her health struggles:

" There are those who are born to a life of struggle. But once I looked deep inside and listened to God talking to me, I realized that the ones who struggle are the ones who really find meaning in life. The ones who get it all and have it easy, never really get to talk to God on that more intimate level. They never get to the point of crying out for answers that they can't find..............

.......I could see how I had worked in other people's lives. Made things better for them. Yeah, maybe it was worse for me sometimes, but I could truly see where I had made a difference in someone else's life and that was what I was supposed to do.

I know that God needs me here. I'm not sure what He'll use me for next. But taking that time to do some deep searching, I saw it like a roadmap, how I had touched someone or helped someone. I'm not bragging. I know you understand. It's just I didn't even see it. I just saw all the bad things......

....But, when I really looked, I saw the other side of that and realized I am one of the lucky ones. I get to see what God is really doing with my life.

I am one of the burdened ones, but also blessed. God is teaching me, trusting me with a greater faith so I can help others. How could I help if I didn't go through hard times? I'd have no emotions to draw from. How could I have compassion if I never learned to be needy?

Life is hard. But we are among the most blessed, the most trusted. We get the joy of knowing that we may struggle but we learn valuable lessons along the way. Our hearts have a greater capacity for love and compassion. Why? Because we hurt, we love, we grow as we fall. But God gives us the strength to get back up and keep going, because we want to learn more and get closer to Him.....

God never promised us riches or wonderful things. Nor did He promise things would be perfect. But he did promise us He'd have a place for us. That is the only promise that really matters when you get to the end.......I know that God is working through each of us to help others......."

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We have all been blessed to know her and share her humor and passion and love. She will be missed and she had a powerful message.

Sweet Fly, life was made so much the richer for having known you.

Pamy

Tuesday, July 29, 2003 - 06:24 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
WHIT..thank you so much for posting some of Fly's posts, it brought back such great memories. It was my DH navy retirement party that she posted those great ideas. We used a lot of them and I had saved that thread for my DH scrapbook. She will always have a special place in my heart. I hope FLy's husband will be able to read thru this thread and see what joy she brought to all of us.
I was surprised to see how many people Fly brought out of lurkdom(myself included) that shows what a magnetic personality she had. I will miss her so much.

Flyonthwall

Tuesday, July 29, 2003 - 08:42 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Whit4you, Thank you so very much for all these notes! I had no idea all the things that went on here, and you helped to capture it in these. Each of our family members made quilt squares for Monica's quilt project, and had a great time doing it. I truly appreciate the time you took to compile these for our family, some really great memories! I have laughed a lot tonight and that has helped me so much! Thank you!

Shoofly, Bobbi spoke of you so often when she spoke of her friends here. I know you two had a long ongoing friendship. I'm very sorry about this for you, as I know you were cherished by her. Please know that the letter you posted gave me unbelieveable strenght! She was very spiritual, and gave God the credit for so many of her lifes experiences. The letter you posted summed up how she felt very well. Thank you so much for posting this! Forgive me for not contacting you personally. Things here are changing rather quickly and lots of packing going on. Rex is moving soon, this was something that was already in the works so things are not where he can personally do any of this, I don't think he could handle it right now anyway.
Jan, thank you for showing me where to find this area! I'm so glad I didn't miss this!
Each of you have given us so much and I will always be greatfull for that. Thank you again,My printer is going full speed. I don't want to miss any of these. Bless you all, Fly Family ~Tami

Whit4you

Tuesday, July 29, 2003 - 09:15 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
{{{{{{{{{{{ Tammi }}}}}}} (that's a cyber hug)

You are very welcome - I was hoping you'd find this thread and read it. Maybe you can print a copy out for her hubby so he'll see that she wasn't just playing 'the sims' here, but actually had many loving caring friends. In looking for her threads I found dozens and dozens of threads she'd posted helping others. She was a wonderful lady, and an inspiration.

I'd like to thank her hubby for sharing her with us.

Whitney

Shoofly

Tuesday, July 29, 2003 - 10:00 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
{{{Tami and Fly Family}}}

Thank you so much; your words mean more than I can say.

This is a special place, made much more special by Fly's presence. It would please her so much to see her gift of love being returned now, to her family. She taught us well:)

Sia

Thursday, July 31, 2003 - 12:11 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Tami, I would love it if you became a TVCH member and wanted to be a part of our little cyber-family. We'd love to have you. You can make up your own screen-nick, like TamiFly or something, to honor Bobbi and to help you grieve a bit. There are many of Fly's friends here who will, no doubt, have many memories to share with you about your sister-in-law. One of the nicest things about TVCH is that there is always someone here willing to listen to your troubles, your gripes, or to your good news, too. We share everything. Please consider the invitation always open.

Mak1

Thursday, July 31, 2003 - 05:13 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Thank you, Whit and Shoofly, for posting these for us. When I first came to this site, Fly was one of the posters I enjoyed reading, and I was looking forward to seeing her again this summer. These posts are great memories for so many of us. Some of the more poignant ones have me in tears. She was blessed, and we were even more blessed to have known her.

Eliz87

Thursday, July 31, 2003 - 09:42 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Whit, what a beautiful gesture.

Whit4you

Tuesday, August 05, 2003 - 11:21 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Thank you Eliz & Mak1

It's strange how often I think of Fly now. I mean I'd been thinking about her often since the feeds came up but now so many things remind me of her and her personality here, like I wonder if she'd be one of the few enjoying this years BB or one of those who really don't like it. I remember how much time she spent helping me compile a list of live feed posters - just thinking of working on some dedication here for her. I mean you know the live feed posters are being the fly on the wall - watching the HGs. Thinking it'd be really nice to have some of us put a tiny fly at the end of our posts in the LFP area or something, not sure yet but that's one idea...