Update on Hubby
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Twinkie | Saturday, November 23, 2002 - 05:02 pm     Deb, I'm so glad to hear that your DH has a good program to go into and that things are progressing well. My thoughts and prayers are with you. |
Bookworm | Saturday, November 23, 2002 - 06:11 pm     Sounds like you are getting somewhere Deb. I think about you often and hope you are taking care of yourself as well as you hubby. |
Aussiedeb | Monday, December 02, 2002 - 01:37 pm     Hi all, I have no internet access at home till at least the next few days till I pay the bill..oops..and they were closed over the weekend and I am at college till tonight now. Dave is now a resident of the Dayton VA. I took him there this morning and he is happy. I will be going down there on Friday afternoon till Sunday morning. Will update when I talk to him or see him then. This is the last week of classes here for me then next week is finals and then I am off till Jan 6th..whoohoo.. I might actually get some of that much needed rest. Deb |
Grannyg | Monday, December 02, 2002 - 03:39 pm     Deb, I do hope you get that much needed rest. Prayers and hugs to you and Dave. Thanks for letting us know how things are going!! ((((((((((Deb and Dave)))))))))) |
Sia | Monday, December 02, 2002 - 05:11 pm     {{{{{Aussiedeb and Dave}}}}} Glad to hear our update. You're chugging right along, aren't you? How is your back doing now? I was pretty worried about you for a while there, Deb!! Hope you're feeling well and that you're able to get everything done that is on your big to-do list! Hugs and prayers your way, Deb! |
Bookworm | Monday, December 02, 2002 - 05:13 pm     Sounds like things continue to look up for you AussieDeb. Hope they continue to do so. I think about you often. |
Aussiedeb | Wednesday, December 04, 2002 - 12:19 pm     Its me again lol I spoke to Dave's counsellor yesterday afternoon and he will be in Dayton for 90 days not the 45 we originally thought. They also recommended that I not visit him this week and wait another week, but I will talk to him about that as I am not sure if it will make him worse with me not seeing him. I am not feeling well at all and this bronchitis is not going away quickly. So I am guessing a weekend of rest and be ready for finals on Monday is in order for me. They said he will probably not go back to work either since its causing more probs. I got all upset yesterday afternoon about it all, but am calming down a little. Thanks for the wishes everyone, and hopefully I get net access back by Friday as I need it for college too, plus I miss coming here and reading all the messages. Deb |
Draheid | Wednesday, December 04, 2002 - 05:15 pm     Well, Deb, keep hanging in there. Sounds like the Drs are working to take care of hubby. Now you need to take just a little time to take care of yourself. A weekend of rest and recovery sounds like it might be just the thing for you. If everything works out that way, it would sure help with you getting ready for your finals next week. Good luck on those too. We'll be keeping you in our thoughts here. And look forwared to having you more active on the boards soon! {{{{{Aussiedeb & Dave}}}}}} |
Car54 | Wednesday, December 04, 2002 - 05:28 pm     Deb, trust your judgement. When you talk to him, if it sounds like he is ok with the counselor's suggestion, maybe this would be the weekend to stay home and catch your breath. Take care kiddo. |
Lancecrossfire | Wednesday, December 04, 2002 - 05:34 pm     Deb, it's really good to hear that he is finally at the facility. 45 days or 90--the big thing is having him there for a time that will really make a sifference for him. Rest up lots this weekend, keep taking your antibiotics and give it your best shot on your tests. The work thing could be light years away as far as what could happen. We are pulling for Dave and for you. Please say hi to him from the gang at TVCH when you get to talk to him. I will be keeping both of you in my thoughts. |
Squaredsc | Wednesday, December 04, 2002 - 06:07 pm     deb, glad things are moving forward a bit. don't forget that you need rest too. also have dave's doctor/counselor put that in writing somewhere in his file. thats something that is definately needed if he is going to file for disability. keep you head up. (((((Deb/Dave))))) |
Sia | Wednesday, December 04, 2002 - 10:10 pm     {{{{Aussiedeb and Dave}}}} Get some rest, sweetie. Hope you feel better. You've gotten some good advice up-thread, so there's really nothing I can add. I am praying for Dave's recovery. He's in a good place, and I feel confident they can help him!  |
Aussiedeb | Thursday, December 05, 2002 - 11:33 am     I am at college again lol... its my only net access till tomorrow evening at least. I spoke to Dave last night and he is not happy I was advised against seeing him.. I didnt mention who told me though. I am driving down there Saturday morning as he needs things from home and things like laundry detergent. He said they have to do all their own things etc, and he will be allowed to come home on weekends after Dec 16. When he does that he will drive his car back there so I dont have to do all the driving..phew... I had my last day of scheduled classes today and I am tutoring till tonight 8pm ET then am here all day tomorrow. He is in good spirits otherwise and they do a lot of relaxation therapy and spiritual therapy. He is calling me tonight so I will convey all the messages from here to him as I know it means a lot to both of us for the support here. Deb |
Draheid | Thursday, December 05, 2002 - 11:44 am     It's wonderful to hear from you again, Deb. Thank you for keeping us up to date on things. I suspected Dave wouldn't be happy about the advice you were given. I don't think it was given lightly, though, so perhaps a compromise of just going to visit long enough to delivery the 'supplies' he needs. I'm sure it will be hard to not spend as much time as you can, but I suspect those that suggested it have good reasons. Congratulations on completing all of your scheduled classes and good luck on the finals coming up next week. I think the time you have to yourself this weekend to study could help. At least I'm hoping so. I'm sure you will do well anyway, but it never hurts to have a little more time to prepare. {{{{{Hugs}}}}} to you & Dave. We continue to think of you often and hope for the continued improvement in your situation. BTW: Any word on the status of the 'so-called' social worker you were having trouble with? Any word on your other projects you've been working on? I know Dave is foremost in your mind, I was just curious on some of the other things you've talked about if you care to update on them too. Take care! |
Sia | Thursday, December 05, 2002 - 02:10 pm     (((Aussiedeb & Dave))) Glad to hear that you will get to see him; it sounds like Dave really wants to see you. Draheid has good advice about not staying too long, though. I know you will be relieved to see him, as well, though. It is so hard to be separated for reasons beyond your control. Hugs and prayers, Deb! |
Twiggyish | Thursday, December 05, 2002 - 02:31 pm     ((Deb)) Hugs to you both. |
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