Archive through December 08, 2002
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Archive through December 08, 2002
Calamity | Friday, November 22, 2002 - 12:51 pm     {{Ginger}} I'm so sorry for your loss. And while you grieve, just remember that you and Mitzi will always be loving friends. Nothing can change that. |
Whoami | Friday, November 22, 2002 - 02:33 pm     {{{{Ginger}}}} Thank you so much for coming back to fill us in during your time of pain. Sending more energy and hugs your way, as you begin the healing process. |
Webkitty | Friday, November 22, 2002 - 04:10 pm     {{Ginger}} I wish I could find the words to make it all better. Please take care of you, and thank you for checking in with us in your time of grief. |
Ginger1218 | Sunday, November 24, 2002 - 09:21 am     Well, it has been 3 days. I am saddened and heartbroken, but feel a sense of relief in knowing Mitzi is not suffering anymore. And in that regard, neither am I, (well I am in a different way). I had a sick feeling inside for almost 2 months. Watching her deteriorate. She is at peace now. I miss her terribly. There will never be another Mitzi. And not just for me, but everyone who came in contact with her. She made people who were not normally cat lovers, become cat lovers. She was just so sweet. Spanky seems to be doing fine. I think he does not even seem to be affected. Perhaps he is, and I don't see it. I know, when I have to go pick up her ashes, it will be devastating, but then I will have my little girl home with me again. Thanks to all of you. |
Fanny | Sunday, November 24, 2002 - 09:38 am     Ginger, I've had you and Mitzi in my thoughts so much recently. You are exactly right about bringing her home. The terrible sadness returns but there is a sense of relief at having her home with her people where she belongs. Wish I could reach through the computer and cry with you and give you a huge hug. XXOOXXOO Fanny |
Ketchuplover | Sunday, November 24, 2002 - 08:40 pm     (((Ginger))) |
Lucy | Sunday, November 24, 2002 - 09:10 pm     Ginger-I think about you every day and share in your sadness. {{{{Ginger}}}} |
Sia | Sunday, November 24, 2002 - 09:37 pm     Ginger, I'm so sorry for your loss; what a difficult thing to go through. I know you will miss your friend and companion of 17 years. Nothing I could say would ease your pain, but you have friends here who care about you. I'm so sorry about the loss of your beloved Mitzi. You did the compassionate thing and were with her right until the end. I'm sure she knew she was deeply loved. ((((Ginger))))  |
Strawberry | Monday, November 25, 2002 - 03:13 am     {{{Ginger}}} You are in my thoughts every day. Please let us know before you go to pick up Mitzi's ashes. I can't imagine how difficult this must be for you, but hang in there. Keep checkin in so we won't worry |
Mystery | Monday, November 25, 2002 - 06:55 pm     Ginger, I'm crying as I've read through this whole thread. I'm sorry for what you and Mitzi had to go through. I hope you know that you did the right thing. It sounds like she was definitely ready to go and that keeping her alive longer would have been for your benefit, not hers. Thanks, too, to Whowhere for posting that information about a "natural" death. I have a 19 year old cat whose kidneys are slowly failing and though I've promised myself that part of my job of taking care of him includes not letting him suffer, I was halfway hoping that when he goes, it will be at home in his sleep. I had no idea that what I thought would be a peaceful experience might not turn out that way. He's holding his own now but as his time gets closer I'm going to watch him very carefully. I also had no idea that having him put to sleep at home might be an option; he hates riding in the car and going to the vet and I think if we have to have it done, it will be here at home. Ginger, you and Mitzi are in my thoughts. |
Scarlett | Tuesday, November 26, 2002 - 10:06 am     Very late to the thread. Just wanted to say I am sorry Ginger. I just lost my cat last month. Momma's baby of the three I had. Had only had him for three years, so I can't imagine the grief involved in seventeen. You are brave to have done this. I know it is a very sad time in your life. I just wanted you to know I was thinking about you and LOL, I have two birds who are like your two cats. I dont think either will be affected much when the other is gone. Sorry for the babbling. Just wanted to let you know I was sending you hugs {{{{{{}}}}}} |
Ginger1218 | Wednesday, November 27, 2002 - 08:11 am     I want to wish all of you a Happy Thanksgiving. Right now the only thanks I have are for the people who were supportive and that Spanky is ok. I am really not into this Holiday this year. I am quite depressed and sad. I have no desire to do anything or go anywhere. I am sure this will pass eventually, but -- right now, I just have no holiday spirit. But in the spirit of the Holiday, I need to say my thanks to all of you who gave me, hugs, and support. {{{{{{{{Thanks}}}}}}}}}}}}} |
Sia | Wednesday, November 27, 2002 - 12:56 pm     Thank you, Ginger, for your holiday wishes, which you've been kind enough to extend even though the joy has been taken out of this season for you due to your loss. Of course you're sad and depressed. You will mourn for a long time. Give Spanky a squeeze for me, okay? Maybe you two can curl up with a good book or a movie and spend some quiet time together reflecting on things you still have for which to give thanks. Don't let Spanky have any wine, though. Cheese is okay, just no wine. {{{{Ginger}}}} |
Ginger1218 | Saturday, December 07, 2002 - 01:16 pm     I went to pick up Mitzi's ashes today. I really really tried to be strong. I have gotten it down to where I only cry once or twice a day now. But, I am very sad. I walked out of the Vet's office and started to cry hysterically. I sat in my car hugging the box like a crazy person and crying so hard. Some wonderful lady drove up next to me (she was bringing her dog to the Vet and she came to my car and starting to cry with me. It was very surreal. She told me that Mitzi's spirit was with me, and she felt it (maybe she was nuts, I don't know) - and that she actually could feel Mitzi's paw on her hand - (Mitzi used to pull my hand to make me pet her). I am sure that is what a lot of cats do, but it made me feel that Mitzi was there. This woman told me that one day, I will see an animal and I will see Mitzi's spirit and I will know instantly. (again, maybe she was crazy), but she made me feel a little better. I just wanted you all to know that I have my baby girl home with me. They put her in a small pretty tin. I think I will buy a nice urn of some kind, and make a copy of my favorite picture of her (laying in front of my computer) and put a little candle next to it, make a little shrine to her. This woman also recommended that I put in my will or make it known, that I want her ashes buried with me. Oy vey, what a thing to think of now. Anyway -(smile) - thank you again all of you for your thoughts and wishes. Now, I have to heal again. This brought up the pain freshly. But, I will. |
Whoami | Saturday, December 07, 2002 - 01:33 pm     {{{Ginger}}} That woman had to have been an angel sent to you by Mitzi herself. Don't you think? |
Rig | Saturday, December 07, 2002 - 01:37 pm     Ginger, I'm glad you told us how it went today. I think it's good for you not to keep it in when you feel sad. You can always post here at the Clubhouse and find someone who cares. I wonder if that lady was an ? |
Halfunit | Saturday, December 07, 2002 - 01:46 pm     Ginger, I have to agree with Who. And aren't all of us pet owners a little 'touched'? I am glad to hear Mitzi is back home with you, where she belongs. |
Webkitty | Saturday, December 07, 2002 - 01:50 pm     <<< This woman told me that one day, I will see an animal and see Mitzi's spirit and I will know instantly>>> Believe it and take comfort from it Ginger. Hang in there kiddo {{Ginger}} |
Moondance | Saturday, December 07, 2002 - 02:01 pm     {{{Ginger}}} I love that my Sasha is home with me now... I picked up his ashes last month... I completely understand |
Weinermr | Saturday, December 07, 2002 - 02:01 pm     Ginger, this was one more step on the road to healing after the loss of your beloved Mitzi. Things will get better. I promise. Take care. {{{{Ginger}}}} |
Pamy | Saturday, December 07, 2002 - 02:21 pm     I agreee the woman was an Angel sent to comfort you today. I have tears in my eyes reading the story. (((Ginger))) |
Twinkie | Saturday, December 07, 2002 - 03:43 pm     Oh Ginger, it is so wonderful that you have your baby home with you now. Take comfort in that. She will always be with you. I know your heart is breaking right now but it will get better. Lots of hugs and love to you. {{{Ginger}}} |
Squaredsc | Saturday, December 07, 2002 - 06:38 pm     ((((Ginger))))  |
Serate | Saturday, December 07, 2002 - 10:21 pm     Ginger I TOTALLY believe that one day you will see an animal that has her spirit. You might not know it at the time. 2 years ago January my brother found a 3 month old kitten outside. She was nearly frozen to death, her nose was completely frozen with mucas and grass. We called her Sniffles because she had a runny nose the whole time we had her. She was a joy. A sweetheart that never really grew up, physically or mentally. A month and a half ago it was apparant that she was getting ill, I got a kitten, not to replace her but to help my mother through Sniffy's death [my mom is an invalid with breathing problems of her own]. Fred is totally different in color and as he was only 6 weeks old we had no idea what his personality was. Sniffy passed away 3 days later. Seeing Fred today [at 12 weeks old he is just a little bit smaller than Sniffy was] it is QUITE apparant that Sniffy's spirit is in him. He is onery and loving and doesn't have to quit playing because he couldn't breath. Fred attacts the dogs the exact way that Sniffy did. We joked just yesterday that Fred was Sniffy reincarnated, then I come here and read what the woman said to you. Thinking about it maybe I was drawn to Fred by Sniffy. She never wanted anybody sad. She had a good two years, but did not die until she knew my mom would be happy. Hang in there, Mitzi wants you to be happy and remember the good times, not the sad. God Bless! |
Sia | Sunday, December 08, 2002 - 01:30 am     {{{Ginger}}} Hugs your way, Ginger. What a difficult thing to do; I really feel for you.  |
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