Archive through October 18, 2002
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Archive through October 18, 2002
Machellewatches | Thursday, October 17, 2002 - 07:20 pm     i just wanted to know if there is anyone out there that say a tv news show on the worst fatalities on railroad crossings. My husband was killed Monday when he was hit by a train here in Texas, Caldwell County. i have heard that just a couple of days before there was a news report on train fatalities and the city that this happened in (Lockhart Texas) has had a number of fatalities at this same site. His name was Jerry C. Batson Jr. The front page of the towns paper has a web site at www.posst-register.com. The picture of the accident was front page, the story follows on page 7. I have two small children to take care of with virtually no benefits, is there someone out there was some advice? my e-mail is txbornchik@yahoo.com Sincerely |
Twiggyish | Thursday, October 17, 2002 - 07:26 pm     OMG!! So sorry Machelle. You must still be in shock. Have you thought about an attorney? I don't know anything about what happened, but they can help you sort it out. I tried an internet search, and I'll keep looking, maybe there is something there. |
Suitsmefine | Thursday, October 17, 2002 - 07:31 pm     Machelle, So sorry to hear of your tragic loss....There are alot of really nice people on this board who will do whatever we can to help you....we will check into somethings for you....and again, My deepest sympathy. |
Lancecrossfire | Thursday, October 17, 2002 - 07:32 pm     Oh no Machelle!! I'm so very sorry  |
Oregonfire | Thursday, October 17, 2002 - 07:39 pm     I'm so sorry hear that, Machelle. |
Whit4you | Thursday, October 17, 2002 - 07:40 pm     Machelle You've got friends here - don't forget that - join us in the Depression/anxiety thread if you need a place to express your feelings as time goes on |
Spygirl | Thursday, October 17, 2002 - 07:44 pm     I have had a client system in the same situation, Machelle. The family of the victims were able to sue and get a substantial amount of money for the family's needs once they had lost two members. You definitey need to hire a reputable attorney, not the "sue everything in sight" guys (no offense to the lawyers out there). You can also get much needed grief counseling paid for from the lawsuit, and a good lawyer will arrange it so that the counseling can begin before the money is actually paid. Good luck and you are in our thoughts  |
Hippyt | Thursday, October 17, 2002 - 08:34 pm     Machelle,I'm also very,very sorry. You do need to talk to a lawyer. I'm in Texas too,and train wrecks happen here far too often. Did the tracks have a working gate and lights? I know many here do not. I hope you have some family that can help you out right now. You're in my thoughts. |
Machellewatches | Thursday, October 17, 2002 - 09:20 pm     Hippyt and all of you guys, thanks for your love and support. There were no flashing lights, cross bars or anything. i was paid a visit yesterday by union pacific railroad to offer their condolences. i do have an attorney, but like most people we were a mom and pop and he was the company and i did the books, therefore, i have no income right now. somehow someway i have a funeral to pay for on Sat 5800 and am just asking for prayers that will get me through this. i love this board and appreciate everyone. |
Fanny | Thursday, October 17, 2002 - 09:26 pm     Machelle, I'm so sorry for your tremendous loss. I didn't see the news program you're asking about, but I wouldn't be at all surprised if someone here did see it and can offer you information. I'll just echo what so many here are advising, and that's to seek a good attorney. My deepest sympathies to you and your family. |
Misslibra | Thursday, October 17, 2002 - 09:41 pm     I didn't see the TV news show, but I'm so sorry to hear that you lost your Husband in such a terrible accident. I think you are doing the right thing by getting a attorney. But make sure someone goes with you, since you are grieving such a great loss in you life, and may not be thinking as clearly as you normally would. My sympathies goes out to you and your children. |
Sia | Thursday, October 17, 2002 - 11:28 pm     Machelle, I'm so saddened to hear of the loss of your husband and the father of your children. The grief you must feel over his death must be compounded by the financial straits in which you find yourself. Others in this thread have advised you well: contact a reputable lawyer and seek the advice of a close friend or relative who can act as family advocate and accompany you to meetings with the lawyer and with representatives of the railroad company. Upon the death of a spouse, assets can be frozen. You need to assess the cash and credit that are available to you. An attorney may be able to advise you as to how to best protect the assets you have. Where I live the law was changed regarding access to a jointly-owned safety deposit box upon the death of one of the box-holders. You need to learn what your rights are in this situation. If you have a mortgage and/or installment loans and/or credit card balances, I would certainly contact the creditors and explain the situation. If your cash reserves are terribly low, I might even consider approaching an organization like the Consumer Credit Counseling Service, who can help you to work with creditors. I offer prayers for you and your children; please know that people here will take time to research things that you might need information about while you are going through such a difficult ordeal. I am so, so sorry. |
Whoami | Thursday, October 17, 2002 - 11:50 pm     Mach, I have no more words of wisdom to offer. However, please know that you and your family are in my prayers tonight. |
Wargod | Thursday, October 17, 2002 - 11:53 pm     Machelle, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Please know that anytime at all you want or need to talk, someone will be here for you. I am so sorry for your loss. {{{{{Machelle}}}}} |
Itsallgood | Friday, October 18, 2002 - 05:04 am     Machelle, I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your children. Take care of yourself and God Bless You! denise  |
Twinkie | Friday, October 18, 2002 - 05:41 am     Machelle, I'm so very, very sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your children in my prayers. I can't image the grief you must be going thru to lose your husband. That alone is hard enough without having to worry about finances. I agree with everyone else that a good lawyer is indeed needed especially since there was no gate or lights. You might also check out a grief group who can not only give you moral support but may also be able to rally financial support from the community. There are good samaritans everywhere just waiting for a worthy cause. God bless you and get you thru this terrible time. |
Resortgirl | Friday, October 18, 2002 - 06:06 am     Machelle, I too am so very sorry for your loss. There is so much support on this board so please use "us" as a sounding board and a place to find solace. My heart just aches for you and your children. Take care and God's speed! Jane |
Silksmoke | Friday, October 18, 2002 - 06:08 am     Machelle, I'm so very sorry to hear of your tragic loss. My heart and prayers are with you. I agree with everyone's advice to get a lawyer, and seek out grief counseling. Above all, be gentle with yourself. Don't let anyone tell you how you should be feeling or how long your grief should last. Take time for yourself, and allow yourself to process this tragedy in your own way. my deepest sympathies silkie |
Fruitbat | Friday, October 18, 2002 - 06:18 am     OMG!!! Machelle, I am so sorry. This is horrible. I will hold you and your children in my thoughts. I agree with the advice above. There are attorneys out there that may take your case for a percentage of the settlement without money upfront. Just be careful of the percentage. |
Weenerlobo | Friday, October 18, 2002 - 06:23 am     Machelle, I wish you strength right now. I have lost a husband and have an understanding of your situation. We'll be here for you. You'll be in my prayers. |
Bigd | Friday, October 18, 2002 - 07:13 am     You are in my thoughts and prayers. I know how abrupt this loss feels. Lean on your family and friends. |
Whowhere | Friday, October 18, 2002 - 07:43 am     Oh my goodness. How completely terrible! I can't imagine what you are going through. Words don't give any situation like this justice. Just by quick search, I found this website. Although it is for California, it seems like there MIGHT be some information that you will find helpful. http://www.trainaccidentlaw.com/index.html I will try to find any information on this subject as it pertains to Texas and post it here. I will keep you and your children in my prayers. |
Theowl | Friday, October 18, 2002 - 08:26 am     {{{Machelle}}} My heart goes out to you and your family. Just remember we're here for you if you ever need us. Take care of yourself and try to stay strong.  |
Twinkie | Friday, October 18, 2002 - 08:32 am     Can someone please help me? I have searched the Lockhart Post-Register newspaper for info on the train crash for both Oct. 14th and 15th and can't get anything but a mostly blank page. I'd like to get more info since i have lots of friends who are lawyers and would like to help. I'm getting no info. If anyone out there can help please send me the info you have. |
Twinkie | Friday, October 18, 2002 - 08:34 am     Email me at jim.tanya@verizon.net or post here. |
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