Archive through November 09, 2000
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Caged | Wednesday, November 08, 2000 - 06:35 pm   Why does losing a pet hurt so much? Today, I had to make one of the most difficult decisions of my life. I had to put my beloved Mickey, my miniature poodle to sleep. Yes, he was 15 years old and yes, he was sick but why can't I make my heart understand that. Some people might think I am crazy and maybe I am but all I know is I loved that little guy so much. I have to now learn to deal with the fact that he won't be here to greet me when I get home from work. Already tonight, I can't even count how many times I have looked around for him. This probably sounds really stupid but a pet's love is unconditional. How do you learn to live without that? Those of you who read this, I thank you for taking the time to read through my tears. All of those who have pets, take an extra second to pet them tonight, you never know what tomorrow brings. |
Nancy091158 | Wednesday, November 08, 2000 - 06:41 pm   caged , so sorry for your loss. Its very difficult for sure. I have no kids(or husband either) and my cats are my babies. When I've had to put them down its the hardest thing I had to do. I think you have a feeling like it was best for your pet that helps. give yourself a little while. but i definetly recommend getting another one eventually. nancy |
Twiggyish | Wednesday, November 08, 2000 - 07:43 pm   I know it is painful when they die. Your dog was family to you. I am sorry to hear of your loss. |
Bamagirl | Wednesday, November 08, 2000 - 07:46 pm   Caged I am so sorry for your loss. We lost our dog after her being in the family 14 years. They are part of the family and are missed!!! |
Nikkid | Wednesday, November 08, 2000 - 07:47 pm   my condolences. I know how hard it is - I wrote a poem about my cat, not sure I'm over it yet and it's been 14 years. |
Max | Wednesday, November 08, 2000 - 08:01 pm   My sympathies for your loss. The reason it's so hard is that they aren't pets--they're family. My cat is 13 years old. She doesn't go outside, so she'll probably live quite a few more years, but when she does go, I'll be a wreck. The only time I can ever remember seeing my dad cry was when one of our dogs died (happened several times over the years). Pets are so much more than just little balls of fur to greet us at the door. They are are confidants, our comfort, our true source of unconditional love. If you didn't get upset over the passing of your beloved Mickey, that's when I would wonder about you. Peace. 
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Sbw | Wednesday, November 08, 2000 - 08:02 pm   {{{{Caged}}}} |
Zelda | Wednesday, November 08, 2000 - 08:11 pm   Caged... My heart and prayers are with you. I am so sorry. Dilligaf/HiMay just lost her Levi, kitty of 13 years yesterday. My heart is so sad for both of you. Those wonderful little souls... now they are your special Angels |
Lancecrossfire | Wednesday, November 08, 2000 - 08:24 pm   Caged--so sorry to hear of your loss. They do grow on us--just as any other familiy member. Zelda, sorry to hear about May and Levi. |
Caged | Wednesday, November 08, 2000 - 08:53 pm   I really appreciate everyone for their condolences. Zelda~you are so right, he is now a little angel. I wish I could show you guys a picture of my little friend but I am so bad with the computer that I don't know how to do it.If anyone can help, please let me know. |
Flint | Wednesday, November 08, 2000 - 09:22 pm   Sory to hear about your loss. As I said in another thread, it hurts so much because they aren't just pets. They are part of our families and our lives. Losing them is as hard as losing any brother or sister you grew up with. I wish there was something I could say or do to mitigate the pain you must be going through. Unfortunately, it is something we have to work through, and there is no magic catch phrase or anythging else that will take the hurt away. Mind you, if you need to talk, there are definitely a lot of good people here to talk to. Who have been through it themselves. |
Flint | Wednesday, November 08, 2000 - 09:25 pm   And, since you asked, I took some extra time to let my pets/family know how much I love them, and how much they mean to me. God, I wish I could say or do something more to help you get through this. I have never done this before on here, but my heart goes out to you so ... {{{{{{caged}}}}}} take care, and if ya need to just talk without posting, my email address is available. take care Tim |
Dilligaf | Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 04:11 am   Caged, I can so relate to this thread. On Tuesday morning I woke up to find my 13 year old cat bleeding from his belly. The cancerous tumors had broken through his skin and he was basically bleeding to death. He looked and acted fine on the outside, but if you turned him over he was a mess. I took him to the vet and he told me it was time. I was devastated. I wasn't ready to give him up. He gave him a little gas to put him into a light sleep and then he shaved his little paw and injected an overdose of a sleeping agent. He was gone in 30 seconds. I stayed with him a while and talked to him and petted him. The hardest part was walking out of the clinic and leaving him there on the table. I returned home with an empty cage to a very empty house. I don't have to tell you about the pain. It is unbearable. He's the only pet I've ever had and I want him back so bad. Yesterday morning, I had a bowl of cheerios and he always sits by me and waits for the milk. I had to pour the milk down the sink....I was sobbing. Then I had to come home to an empty house last night. I couldn't bear it so I just went to bed at 8:30. I'm wondering how long this feeling will go on. Do you ever get over it? I miss him terribly but I know he's up in heaven sitting on God's lap, fully cured from the cancer. Thanks to Zelda and Noslonna for their kind words. Thanks also to Lance up above. Even though you guys never got to meet my little friend, you know how much I loved him. I was a good mommy! I love you guys... |
Twiggyish | Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 05:06 am   awwww Dilli, I understand. I don't know what I would do if anything happened to our kitty. They curl themselves around our hearts. |
Fruitbat | Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 05:23 am   I have been through this also. (((((((caged/dili))))))))))) |
Whatwillidonow | Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 05:44 am   Caged & Dilligaf, You are both in my thoughts & prayers. |
Affinity | Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 06:51 am   Caged, Dilligaf...you put tears in my eyes. I also have a cat, but he is only a year old. We have tough times and he makes me angry, but I sill love him. As a matter of fact, he's getting a big hug when I go home. My heart goes out to you both. I am not looking forward to the day that this will happen to me. |
Wink | Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 08:59 am   Caged, Dilligaf......"Sorrow does not last forever, love does". My deepest sympathy to you both. |
Bamagirl | Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 09:14 am   (((Dilligaf))) |
Dilligaf | Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 11:07 am   Thanks everyone....I could sure use the hugs right now.... |
Leap | Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 11:14 am   My deepest condolences to both of you. I am not sure what to say, other than my thoughts are with you. I wish I could make it better. |
Nant | Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 11:27 am   So sorry Caged. So sorry Dilligaf. You both will be in my prayers today. What you are going through is very hard. My wishes go out for strength and comfort to you. |
Zelda | Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 01:05 pm   {{{{Dilli}}}}} {{{{Cage}}}}} Those are from Sabastian & Shilo We love you guys and we love Angel Levi & Angel Micky |
Norwican | Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 01:16 pm   Sorry to hear your sad news Dilligaf and Caged. |
Dilligaf | Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 01:51 pm   I just received a dozen pink and yellow roses from my friend Melissa in Alabama. True friends are wonderful at a time like this! Thanks to all of you.... |
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