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Machellewatches

Friday, September 20, 2002 - 09:53 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
I think that we all need to agree to disagree and appreciate the board for what it is. The mods do a lot of work here, and it is great that we can voice our opinions, but noone should feel like they do not want to post because of other people not liking what they say. Just a thought.

Yankee_In_Ca

Friday, September 20, 2002 - 10:04 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
I agree to disagree! But then again, I don't post that often, either... :-)

Lurknomore

Friday, September 20, 2002 - 10:12 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Um...as someone who does post a lot, I'm not sure I currently see a whole lot of problems with most folks doing this. I'm not seeing bashing or trashing. Sure some different opinions but that is why we come here.

I think most folks should feel confident enough in what they post, and do it respectfully enough that they sincerely don't care how others reply (though they certainly might enjoy a string of replies by others agreeing with them lol).

So all this said, I'm confused by the poster. What is the problem, or is it to stop something or create something? Sorry but that was the question that came to my mind when I read this. Then I left, came back, and still that is what came to mind. Just my thoughts :)

Machellewatches

Friday, September 20, 2002 - 10:16 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
just had visited the anti dani thread and a couple of people seemed upset-that they could not voice their opioion without being bashed, just trying to take people's feelings into consideration, did not mean to start something else and it is not why i started this thread

Lurknomore

Friday, September 20, 2002 - 10:27 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Ok...quick, sincere question before I leave this thread forever (just had a nice cleansing trip to the complaint thread and I want to stay cleansed lol).

If you go to an anti anyone thread then you know what the tone in there is, correct? Isn't it a good thing that those feeling that way are staying IN that particular thread, and if that isn't your cup o tea you can just avoid said thread?

Sigh...deep breaths...perhaps I should go off in search of the zen thread now.

Machellewatches

Friday, September 20, 2002 - 10:30 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
point well taken, thanks for pointing out my shortcomings (i sincerely mean that in a good way). maybe i am just tired and taking things the wrong way. have a good night.

Jadeygurl39

Friday, September 20, 2002 - 10:35 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Machelle, I understand where you are coming from. I do think people, (such as myself), get flustered and overheated and maybe take it out on other posters. I don't post much but I can see where some might get offended or take something wrong, or even take it personal. I get a kick out of TVCH. I just wanted to let you know I hear ya. :)

Jazzmaroo

Friday, September 20, 2002 - 10:36 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
I'm like Yankee_In_CA, I don't get a chance to post that much, and I guess I don't take all of this to heart.

I post what I want and then go on to another thread, or go read more of the "Live Feeds".


So, if someone doesn't like what I post, and reply with whatever they have to say..... I never know... because I don't keep reading after I post.
I try to go on to another thread, just to get a sample of what's going on. I enjoy what people discuss, and I wish I had more time to participate. I love a good healthy debate.

I didn't know people weren't getting along until I saw this thread.

I hope everyone can have some fun and not take things to heart. I wish you all well.

Draheid

Friday, September 20, 2002 - 10:37 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Whatever happened to the old adage of:
Can't we all just get a BONG! :O
Is that really showing my age or what!

Zachsmom

Friday, September 20, 2002 - 10:39 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
yes Draheid..it shows that your very young..:)

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Machellewatches

Friday, September 20, 2002 - 10:39 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Well thanks you guys- i needed to hear that, i am a new poster and kinda felt like i had done something wrong by voicing my opinion.

Jadeygurl39

Friday, September 20, 2002 - 10:41 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
**cough**Maybe just a wee bit Draheid :)

Lisad

Friday, September 20, 2002 - 10:42 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Machelle! You and I are on the same wavelength the past couple of days.

I wanted to start the same thread but I thought it might get pulled or I'd get reamed for posting it. It isn't hard to start a 'mini war' here even with the best of intentions.

Lurk - I think the point is that some posts are just so amazingly nasty and contain personal attacks on other posters. I personally think we could all play a bit kinder here. Some of the ugliness has been a bit wearing.

I think Machellewatches' intent here was genuine & kind and hope she doesn't get reamed for it. I think it was nice.

Jadeygurl39

Friday, September 20, 2002 - 10:42 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Welcome Machelle!!! :)

Machellewatches

Friday, September 20, 2002 - 10:43 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
zachsmom-your rocking chair is too cute

Machellewatches

Friday, September 20, 2002 - 10:45 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
thanks LIsa and Jade-i was being bashed on another thread, but on the sly-guess i should not take things so personal