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Csnog

Tuesday, September 17, 2002 - 11:05 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Is there a need for some of the HG's to apologize to other HG's?

I think so and I hope that they do.

What555456

Tuesday, September 17, 2002 - 11:07 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Outside of Lisa's calling Gerry a pedophile (which she has already apologized for) I don't think so. I do not see anyone having done anything that was not to be expected in this game.

Ginger

Tuesday, September 17, 2002 - 11:22 am EditMoveDeleteIP
I think they all need to apologize to Gerry. When did Lisa apologize to Gerry, What?

Gina8642

Tuesday, September 17, 2002 - 11:25 am EditMoveDeleteIP
I think they all need to apologize to each other. Amy and Chiara. Dani to nearly everyone. Marcellas to Gerry. Lisa to Gerry. Amy to Tanya. Etc.

I don't think this is end of the world stuff, but they have all said some rather hateful and hurtful things about each other. I think apologies are in order. Even though it was 'just a game', that doesn't mean human feelings and emotions weren't involved.

What555456

Tuesday, September 17, 2002 - 11:27 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Ginger

It is my understanding she did so soon after she made the comment. To be honest, though, I do not know this for sure. But it has been mentioned by several posters that she did apologize.

Costacat

Tuesday, September 17, 2002 - 11:28 am EditMoveDeleteIP
I agree with Gina. This may be a game, but some very hurtful things have been said. I think apologies are definitely in order. And I think they should be one-on-one; not someone saying to the cameras "I'm sorry if I offended anyone."

Gina8642

Tuesday, September 17, 2002 - 11:33 am EditMoveDeleteIP
I was talking about person to person apologies to be exchanged in private after the game is over.

Like what Costacat just said....

Jagger

Tuesday, September 17, 2002 - 11:47 am EditMoveDeleteIP
I do beleive that there may be some appoligizing going on during the cast party, but I think most people will just consider this a game and get over it with no problem. I have a feeling some of the hgs may continue to communicate with each other afterwards, but I think most of them will just move on with their lives.

Crossfire

Tuesday, September 17, 2002 - 12:42 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
I think if they could get together join arms and raise a beer after its all said and done, that should be good enough.

After that, those who have issues can go back to who they were before it all started, and just move along.

Scorpiomoon

Tuesday, September 17, 2002 - 12:50 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
You're damn right they need to apologize!

Marcellas verbally ripped everyone to shreds over petty things and he needs to apologize for that. Amy was almost as bad and she needs to say a few "I'm sorry"'s too.

Danielle needs to apologize to Roddy about obsessively calling him "the devil".

They all need to apologize to Tonya and Gerry.

Whit4you

Tuesday, September 17, 2002 - 12:56 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Well I think people should only apologize if they are truely sorry for something. If any of these houseguests are truely sorry for anything they've done in the house then yes of course they should be big enough to do so.

I think being in that environment brings out the worst in people sooner or later and that most of them do have a things to apologize for but as I said only if THEY feel they did something wrong and are truely sorry for it.

I hope most of them realize they should do some apologizing. I wont bother listing off all who should apologize and to whom because I think it's a very personal issue and entirely up to them as individuals.

Bigbrotherbelle

Tuesday, September 17, 2002 - 01:12 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
I think Dani and Marci should apologize to Amy for calling her a fat pig.

I think Dani should apologize to Tonya for the things she said about Tonya as a mother and to Roddy for calling him the Devil.

I think Chiara should apologize to Amy for saying she wanted to rip her larynx out.

Amy already apologized to Chiara for calling her names in the DR, but should also apologize to Tonya along with Marcellas.

Yes, lots of apologizing to be done if they want to be friends after the show.

Wendo

Tuesday, September 17, 2002 - 01:19 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
It would certainly be an "apology" fest. So many need to apologize to each other. LOL!

Amy and Mar to Tonya, Gerry.

Amy to Chiara.

Josh to Gerry.

Tonya and Chi to Amy.

Dani to Amy and Roddy.

Lisa to Gerry and Amy.

Roddy to Amy.

Oh golly, the list goes on and on. They're all adults despite exhibiting childish behavior. I imagine the cast party would be full of "mea culpas" and sorry's.

And, if they all are as mature as they claim to be, then part of being mature is accepting said apologies.

Chance

Tuesday, September 17, 2002 - 01:23 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
M said to Amy he wished Gerry would trip,fall have a stroke and die. This is not acceptable under any circumstances and then to read Ms interviews saying he was all about (pp) playing the game with love makes me want to gag. An apology is the minimal he owes Gerry.

Secretsmile

Tuesday, September 17, 2002 - 01:33 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Maybe I'm wrong, but I thought Amy apologized face to face to Chiara in the HOH when she got back in the house. Chiara brushed it off at the time, and said she said stuff too.

I agree with the rest of you though, some personal apologies should be given. Unfortunately we won't get to see it! LOL!

Oregonfire

Tuesday, September 17, 2002 - 01:41 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
I agree, Whit!

Lisad

Tuesday, September 17, 2002 - 01:49 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Marcelles needs to appologize to HIMSELF! LOL

Lynnann

Tuesday, September 17, 2002 - 01:57 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
The hg's abused Gerry very badly but with Amy they made it a moral issue which really disgusts me. As if these paragons of virtue are ones to judge? I thought the Amy bash fest was over but as soon as the girl went to the bathroom last night, there was Jason in the backyard, begging Lisa and Dani to imitate her. Then there was Marc on national tv "Judging Amy". They might have been kidding around last night because Lord knows Jason would never do anything wrong but he has stood by before and watched serious bashing and said nothing so his religious morals do not impress. I just don't think they are in any moral position to bash Amy and should all get on their knees and ask her forgivness. Any bashing Amy did was in retaliation for their behavior and who could blame her? She is not the type to shower naked with the woman, jump into bed with strangers or beat the smack out of those who deserve it. However these people will get what they deserve because they will act this way to others who will not take their invictive. Any drinking Amy did in that house pales in comparison to the other hg's disgusting behavior.

Laffy

Tuesday, September 17, 2002 - 02:03 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
this is a competition. if it was a boxing match would you expect one opponent to apologize to the other for hitting him?

it's how the game has to be played. otherwise they should have just stayed home and we could have our lives back.

Boberry

Tuesday, September 17, 2002 - 02:18 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Laffy -- even in a boxing match, you get penalized for low blows, which was exactly what several of these incidents were, especially the pedophile deal with Lisa and Marcellas whipping Amy verbally when he nominated her (he even admitted it didn't have anything to do with the game). So, no, it's not how the game is played. Do I expect people to apologize for something they don't feel sorry for? No. Would it bother me if there were ramifications for their actions. No on that one, too.

Lynnann

Tuesday, September 17, 2002 - 02:21 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
No, this was "let's get one person in the group, paint a target on their back and go for it" disgusting.

Wendo

Tuesday, September 17, 2002 - 02:21 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Lynnann, Amy participated in the Mar bash session where he wanted Gerry to "have a stroke and die". She was laughing and adding comments through that entire "session". Her bashing pales in comparison? I don't think so.

Unfortunately, many of the HG's (if not all) participated in some form of bashing through this whole game. It was the "theme" this year for sure.

Lynnann

Tuesday, September 17, 2002 - 02:29 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Amy and Gerry were both targets and Amy still is. With only 4 people left they are still putting her down.

Guinevere

Tuesday, September 17, 2002 - 02:57 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
I agree with Whit; I don't see the point of anyone apologizing unless they mean it.

Should they apologize? If they are sorry, they should. Should they be sorry? Yeah, most of them have at least one or two comments (and in some cases, many more than one or two) that they should be ashamed of.

Onlyhuman

Tuesday, September 17, 2002 - 03:10 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
They should all apologize but my guess is that only Amy will, and only to a few.

Most of the others seem to believe that they have done nothing wrong. Reading Marcellas' interviews, he talks about how he played the game kindly, motivating me to check my dictionary to make sure that I have been using the word correctly for the the past 30 years.

Amy feels bad about the things she has said, so my guess is she will apologize to Chiara (though not for thinking those things, just for saying them :) ), probably Gerry and maybe Roddy. She may not mean it, but her manners will require it.

Edited to add...Whit, I agree with you, that they should only do it if they mean it!