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Lisad

Wednesday, September 18, 2002 - 08:38 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
So many hateful people here. I saw one where a woman reamed her for leaving her 2 young "babies" at home. Unfactual, totally baseless. Babies? Aren't they like - in high school? LOL

Hateful people - hypocrites. Can you imagine going out of your way to spew hate by leaving messages like that? It's abnormal, bizarre, and hypocritical behavior. Yuck! Glass houses.

Ozarktracy

Wednesday, September 18, 2002 - 09:16 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
I don't like the way Dani has ACTED in the house. I have admired the way she's PLAYED THE GAME, with her secret alliance, avoiding being HOH until it was crucial for her, etc., but during her "off time", when she's just been hanging around, her behavior turned me off.

Sure, they're in the house playing the game 24/7, and yes, a point could be made that perhaps it is in her strategy to mock and ridicule some of the other HGs, and to be two-faced about it (i.e. saying horrible things behind their backs, then telling them to their faces that she'd never do something like that).

But I kinda think (choose to think) it's more like a cabin fever type thing that's going on and that she's truly just sick and tire of being locked up with some of the others.

THAT I can understand and feel sorry for her that the cameras are on her all the time and that her ugly behavior is taped for all to see (mocking, ridiculing, gossipping about the others in ways that aren't IMO strategic... like talking about Gerry's personal habits, Roddy being the devil, telling everyone Amy flashed the mirror, etc.)

If this is the way she behaves in her personal life, she's not someone I'd really like to be friends with (but who really cares what type of person I prefer to be friends with, lol? Only me!). I have decided to not get all bent out of shape and write mean and nasty things in any of her fan website guestbooks. I'm not going to write ANYTHING in them for that matter. I'll leave that to her fans because that's what the guestbooks are there for.

I'm sure the evicted HGs are by now aware of the way she is, when playing the game, and in her "off time". If they choose to make an issue of her two-faced behavior, and base their voting on that, then so be it. If they don't, there's nothing any of us can really do about it. I'm sure they're all watching the live feeds, tapes of the show, and probably (hopefully!) reading live feed transcripts of what all has gone on in that house.

I don't think it's going to help a thing to write nasty things to Danielle. It's very hurtful to write mean things in guestbooks dedicated to her. To her family most of all, secondly to her (IMO of course). Bad karma, too, and who wants that!!!

People, please don't do that! Leave the snake and rat speeches for the HGs to do!! Just have patience and wait and see what the HGs do and say in interviews once they're ALL out of the house and are free to read and find out as much as possible about what went on in there. If you don't respect Danielle, then think of how hurtful it would be for her daughters to read mean things written to their mom.

Lisad

Wednesday, September 18, 2002 - 11:08 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Ozarktracy - I respect your opinion. And I don't see anything hateful in your post.

But I am having a problem with some people here spewing ridiculously hateful comments both here and other places. Stuff that is 1 eyelash shy of wishing her a nasty death - and meaning it. Also alot of 'reaches' into her personal life such as she doesn't love her children. Also the 'she's no christian so I'm hatefully makeing these remarks about her' type of comments from people expousing to be religious. Remind me to not choose that religion? I even read that Dani AND Jason are "children of the devil".

It's very strange as well as disgusting. And I wish people would use some semblance of respect for others on this board and try to be a bit more polite in their hatred. And yes - for anyone to go to a Dani site and spew this... It's just darned weird and scarey isn't it? I for one don't think Dani would ever do such an intentionally mean thing like this to someone (especially with children).

Wendo

Wednesday, September 18, 2002 - 11:56 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Lisad, yep, agreed.

Heck, none of the already evicted HG's have received the level of crap Dani's been served up on this board. :(

Uhoh

Thursday, September 19, 2002 - 12:06 am EditMoveDeleteIP
i don't agree with the over-the-top hateful messages, but see nothing wrong in voicing disappointment that she resorted to being personally ugly about her fellow houseguests behind their backs. that was not necessary for the game.

if she's not allowed to see that she did indeed disappoint many of us by doing that, then she's not getting a balanced picture of how she was in the house. i just don't get it.

i actually want her and marcellas to know that the majority of us who watched the feeds and saw a fuller picture, found that part of their behavior flat-out distasteful.

what's wrong with that?

Uhoh

Thursday, September 19, 2002 - 12:11 am EditMoveDeleteIP
lisad - then how do you explain all the ugly and really hateful gossiping about gerry behind his back, but knowing full well cameras are recording your every word for posterity?

gerry has children. his daughter wasn't even able to keep watching the show because of it!

so i beg to differ - dani would and did do that.

Cute1073

Thursday, September 19, 2002 - 12:18 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Um...i've said it on other threads and will say it here.....why do people only see these people being 'personally ugly' when it's convientient?
They have all bad mouthed eachother. I think that if I had a camera in my house or anyone elses house 24/7 i'd hear plenty of bad mouthing...harmless venting about people. Dani has done it, Jason has done it, Lisa has done it, and Amy...the polite, 'wonderful', southern belle Amy has described how she wishes to see someone DIE!!!!!!
So, I don't think anyone who likes anyone in this house should be critizing Dani for bad mouthing.....ooops sorry about any personal attack that might be...but i've been watching posters like me (and me in fact) get attacked all night and I felt I should say something

Wendo

Thursday, September 19, 2002 - 12:34 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Uhoh said, "i don't agree with the over-the-top hateful messages, but see nothing wrong in voicing disappointment that she resorted to being personally ugly about her fellow houseguests behind their backs. that was not necessary for the game."

I have no problem with that either. However, a lot has been said that's over the top hateful and drags her family in. *shrug*

As far as Gerry, a lot of the Gerry bashing was done by Marcellas. Yes, Dani did some too, but the viscous stuff was all Marcellas (have a stroke and die - Amy was there too.) There were many times I saw Dani on the feeds say to Mar that he should stop.

As I posted on an Amy thread, the four HG's left seem a lot better in terms of the gossip since Mar left. He was the king of gossipy trash talk. (Also, the swearing has dropped below the radar too.)

Hypermom

Thursday, September 19, 2002 - 12:43 am EditMoveDeleteIP
I liked Gerry! I didn't like the trashing that went on about him by the HG's or people posting here. Did Dani trash him? Yep, she did and I think it was awful. However, she wasn't the only one. People want to call her on it, and that's fine. But, they are doing it the same way she does and not only about her and her family, but other people posting. That's the problem, in my opinion. Somewhere along the line, people have forgotten that this is a fanclub. I feel sorry for any of the HG's that read some of things that are being said about them on here. But, more so, I feel sorry for any poster that posts something about a HG that they like and they get trashed for it. JMO

Bbholden

Thursday, September 19, 2002 - 06:42 am EditMoveDeleteIP
I think there is a lot of frustration in those hate letters. We can't do anything but sit back and watch this woman who has been at the heart and the leader of the hate spewed in the House toward the other HGs. She started her hate campaign with Gerry and when Lori called her on it... her true colors emerged.. as she puts it, she went Ghetto on Lori. IOWs, no one was permitted to step in and stop her lies and her destruction of the others personal lives. Even their children were not safe from her.

She planted her poison seeds and made sure the others cultivated them to her satisfaction.

Since we as viewers cannot see how rewarding her with any amount of money is right... some have resorted, in frustration, and wrongfully, to give her back what she gave to all those other people.

Yes, it is wrong, no I have not made a point to post anything at her site.. I prefer to just ignore her totally... However I do understand, no matter how I feel it is wrong, how frustration and disgust can prompt the hate mail.

You reap what you sow... An eye for an eye... What comes around goes around...

If she did not want this type of reaction, she might have thought to emulate Jason instead of laughing and being so proud to be his "darkside".

Tabbyking

Thursday, September 19, 2002 - 07:50 am EditMoveDeleteIP
why can't we all get a bong?

Ladytex

Thursday, September 19, 2002 - 07:55 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Yep, Bbholden, what comes around goes around. That goes for Dani, Marc, the other hgs, but it also goes for the posters that go over the top on this and other boards ........

Itsallgood

Thursday, September 19, 2002 - 07:59 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Tabbyking, can ya pass that this way please!!! hehe

Bbholden

Thursday, September 19, 2002 - 08:02 am EditMoveDeleteIP
You're absolutely correct Ladytex, and that is why I do NOT think it is right. As I stated, it is wrong, but I do understand how it happens. Don't you see how it could happen out of frustration? I guess not, but the question was asked and I answered. I do hope the truth, as I see it, does not offend anyone.

Trulyscrumtious

Thursday, September 19, 2002 - 08:03 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Well, I can't speak for anyone else, but after reading this thread I went there to see what the hoopla was all about. Now, it's been said (mostly by my hubby), that I get too emotionally involved in other peoples lives. I guess he's right (both in real life and with BB), I cried for Amy when she was being harangued by Marcellas and on a number of other occasions as well that I won't go into here.

I cried for her because yes, she is my favorite. And when I care about somebody I care when they are hurting and I hurt too. I never shed one single solitary tear for Danielle, because NO, she has not been my favorite person in the house. Well that changed (no I don't mean she's a fave now, just that these awful messages almost brought ME to tears, she is a human being after all, I think many people have forgotten that) when I read the absolutely AWFUL things written to and about her at that site. How people can be so downright cruel for no other reason than they CAN be is beyond me.

My husband tells me I should not be surprised and I should know better. That I get myself all upset and emotional over nasty things said in the house, and that if a bunch of people sitting on the internet in front of Live Feeds 24/7 have no qualms about doing this kinda thing...then how can I expect a bunch of nameless, faceless people, sitting all safe and sound behind their computers to have better manners. Hubby may have a point, but it's still a sad state of affairs, in my opinion anyway.

So congratulations Dani haters who signed such nasty and CRUEL things in her Guestbook. You took a person who could give two shakes of a lambs tail about her and got her to post a note of encouragement to Dani telling her to ignore people who would stoop to calling her such vile things.

Job well done.

Bbholden

Thursday, September 19, 2002 - 08:04 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Tabby and Good, what goes around should come around to me eventually...hehe Just waiting for when the Bong gets along to me.

Bbholden

Thursday, September 19, 2002 - 08:08 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Truly, why are you here congratulating the Dani Haters... Are there some here in this thread that I don't know about? Shouldn't you be doing the congratulating over in the place where they are?? Just asking. I sure don't hate her.. I think she was the perfect player for this game of lying cheating and backstabbing. She's going to win and that's the way the game is played. That's not hating her.. that's saying she played the game better then the rest.

Trulyscrumtious

Thursday, September 19, 2002 - 08:14 am EditMoveDeleteIP
I just wanted to add that this is in no way a slam to those of you who post HERE critiquing her behaviour in the house and offering up opinions. That's what THIS place is here for.

Just as THAT place is there for Dani FANS. Haters have no business going there and posting such garbage. My god...Gotta gripe? Send her an e-mail and leave her fans have the place that they built for her. The whole world is in no great need of knowing you think she is a c*** and should have her children taken away from her.

Trulyscrumtious

Thursday, September 19, 2002 - 08:15 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Oh lord, you've completely misunderstood my whole point... *sigh*

Trulyscrumtious

Thursday, September 19, 2002 - 08:20 am EditMoveDeleteIP
I don't think I can express myself any better than I did. I'm sorry if you feel I was directing anything to anyone here. I was not. I was simply explaining how going there and reading those messages (what this thread is about) made me feel. The end result of how I felt was that last paragraph. The one where you think I'm actually congratulating people here.

I'm simply addressing the haters as a whole (actually, just the haters who stoop to such disgusting behaviour), as I thought that was what this thread was all about. If I'm mistaken, I apologize to anyone I may have inadvertently offended.

Lisad

Thursday, September 19, 2002 - 08:33 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Ummm... About Gerry bashing... Actually, from my perception point Dani bashed Gerry less than other HGs.

Marci, Chiara, Amy, especially Lisa. Doesn't anyone remember Amy & Marci before Amy's eviction? We all know Marci was mean - but gosh, Amy sure was also. Big time. And Lisa's comments about Gerry & Pedaphile, etc? And her Goodbye statement to Gerry? That was quite nasty and unneeded.

Lisad

Thursday, September 19, 2002 - 08:36 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Truly - Don't worry about it. No way in heck your post was offensive, etc. If someone doesn't understand how uncool it is to post hateful evil things on that board - then something is wrong with them. Glass houses.

Itsallgood

Thursday, September 19, 2002 - 08:40 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Truly, I understood your post completely and I agree. I would never do that no matter how much I hated what someone has done. But it is the internet and no one can control the internet. Sad, but it takes all kinds to make a world.

You said it well!

JMO

Trulyscrumtious

Thursday, September 19, 2002 - 08:48 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Thank you Lisa and Itsallgood, I was worried there. worried

Bbholden

Thursday, September 19, 2002 - 08:50 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Truly, you didn't say a thing wrong.. I was just making a comment that didn't go over so well. Lisad... calm down... you are backhandedly slamming me and Can't we just discuss and debate in good fellowship without the slurs and putdowns? I don't see how your slam was any better than the slams posted to or about Dani... just maybe not so vulgar.. but a slam is a slam all the same. Come on... let's be friends... or at least let's give one another mutual respect.

Truly, I just love your posts... I love your comments, and your sense of humour... somehow today you and I misread each other... and it's not so bad.... I'm sorry if I caused you to have to feel bad... and I know you didn't try to make me feel bad... Now let's kick Lisad in the butt and make her join us in a cyber cup of java.

Gramma

Thursday, September 19, 2002 - 09:04 am EditMoveDeleteIP
I sometimes liken folks who post on the internet to folks who drive in heavy traffic.

While feeling anonymous, drivers will honk, flip the bird, yell nasty remarks at other drivers, or just mumble to themselves and their passengers about that a$$hole up there or that idiot in front etc etc. They'll sit in their bumper-to-bumper lane glaring straight ahead, madly determined that they won't let any jerk that's waiting in that clogged merge lane squeeze in front of them..

but maybe you're that "jerk" that's waiting in the clogged merge lane. And maybe you manage to make eye contact with that determined angry driver and in doing so, with a little smile on your face and a plea in your eyes, you manage to instantly snap themselves back into being the civilized human being they really want to be (or at least want to be perceived as?).. and voila'.. they hold back and let you merge in.

OR.. You've just called the driver in front of you an a$$hole and have managed to zip into the passing lane to pass them. You're about to flip them the bird and suddenly realize it's your mothers best friend that always brought you warm cookies when she came visiting. Oops! Reality check time!

Well.. the internet affords some the same feelings of anominity (sp?) that a car can give to some. They feel free to be as uncivil and as mean as their heart desires without fear of repercussion. Perhaps they feel unfairly underestimated in their real lives and the internet is their chance to get back at the world. The nastiest are often the individuals who in R/L are the saddest and most insecure.

It's my sincere hope that Danille and her family (as well as all the other HGs who have been ripped a new one on the boards and in guestbooks) are savvy enough to realize that such is the case with many cyber-personalities. My hope is that they'll be able to consider the source and rise above it.

Cyber trolls and hateful alter-egos are the bain of the internet. It helps to realize that not ALL folks who have a presence on the internet are so flawed. There's good in all of us, it's just taking a nap in some and needd to be awakened. That's my opinion and I've held to it for many years.

I do wish more folks could lighten up and release the hate from their hearts. They'd be much happier folks if they did.

"Angels can fly because they take themselves lightly"

Crazydog

Thursday, September 19, 2002 - 09:14 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Some of the comments posted on that Dani sight are downright nasty and uncalled for. But I saw some there that criticized her game play and said they didn't like the way she conducted herself. To me there is a big difference between the messages that are unncessarily cruel and the ones that express disappointment with her. I see nothing wrong with people there expressing their opinions respectfully. I agree with the sentiment above that she should get an accurate picture of how she was perceived. People that put themselves in the public eye especially on a show like this should understand that not everyone is going to like her. I agree that the cruel messages are wrong, but I think the Dani fans are complaining about anyone posting any negative comments at all, even the ones which simply say they didn't like her gameplay.

Sheila494

Thursday, September 19, 2002 - 12:38 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
dani bought it all on herself..people everywhere hate her..she has more haters than fans..so what does that tell all you dani lovers?

Lisad

Thursday, September 19, 2002 - 12:47 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Sheila - you admitted going to that site and posting something nasty and are quite proud of it. I haven't been there to see what you wrote to see the level you went to. But now you are here egging on "Dani Lovers" and taking yet another intentional jab at people who are rooting for Dani or the D&J alliance.

What is the rush you get in this nastiness? I'm curious as to what the big high is for you in doing this and behaving this way.