Mollywood | Friday, August 30, 2002 - 02:19 pm     uh oh...there is trouble in the holy land. danielle getting on jasons nerves..finall!! she is so bossy..i think lisa knows this, and now ja..this could be a turning point. |
Bluie | Friday, August 30, 2002 - 03:02 pm     JMO Kendalia and I'm sticking too it  |
Sonia | Friday, August 30, 2002 - 05:59 pm     "25 is way too old to be a virgin. It's kind of a way to avoid intimacy." Hum? Simply personnal choice maybe? Just my opinion. |
Spygirl | Friday, August 30, 2002 - 08:37 pm     There are much more enjoyable ways to avoid intimacy out there if that was one's intention. In fact, having a lot of sex is one of them This is not Jason's intention. |
Ellenkats | Friday, August 30, 2002 - 09:31 pm     Bluie -- Nothing wrong with 25 year old virgins. I waited for marriage too -- age 24. Why is it so difficult to accept that someone's belief system might really be important to them? Why be insulting and assume it be about some hangup or inability to have normal relationships? You seem far more bothered by Jason's choices than he is, imo. Go Jason!!!! |
Jaysgal | Saturday, August 31, 2002 - 03:15 pm     Jason is now bashing people? Oh my God! I've lost my respect for Jason completely. He must have been an actor, just as I thought. I think that my biggest respect is for Roddy now, despite his mind game. I cannot believe that this is becoming another Will game (i.e., I am now supporting the guy I disliked the most besides Danielle). |
Cindyluvsroddy | Saturday, August 31, 2002 - 03:31 pm     isnt this funny, the very people who make post after post about anything negative about Roddy, are the ones in here telling posters they shouldnt say negative things about jason ... that is very hypocritical ... jason is fair game just like Roddy is .. oh! and dont get me wrong, im rooting for Roddy and jason .. just trying to be fair is all .. |
Theo17 | Saturday, August 31, 2002 - 03:34 pm     I like jason a lot. Who is Jason bashing and does the person deserve it? What did he say. I would like amy and jason as the 2 winners. |
Ocean_Islands | Saturday, August 31, 2002 - 03:38 pm     The above statements (Bluie) are so wrong. If he hasn't been in love with anyone, why should he lose his virginity if he doesn't want to? It doesn't matter what age he is. It's one thing if he hasn't been in love for a particular reason. But we don't know anything about that. |
Cindyluvsroddy | Saturday, August 31, 2002 - 03:43 pm     if Bluie wants to make a statement about his opinions on jason let him ... after all the wacko things i have read about roddy .. jason is fair game ... ****lets be fair in our smear lol*** |
Spygirl | Saturday, August 31, 2002 - 06:45 pm     Ummm...Cindy. Back off just a tad, honey. Just as people can say their opinions that are on the NEGATIVE, we can say things to DEFEND houseguests. You've clearly established that Jason is fair game, no need to continue spamming your mantra  |
Silklily | Saturday, August 31, 2002 - 08:10 pm     "25 is too old to be a virgin" I do not understand people who pass such judgements on people. I was 24 when I lost to my virginity to my husband on our wedding night. I had plenty of boyfriends - some serious and some not - and I was very close emotionally with them. So I was not avoiding intimate, personal relationships. I just chose not to unite my body and soul with someone that was not going to be joined with me forever. If you think I am strange, you should know my friend who got married last November. She was 40 at the time and a virgin on her wedding night. And for those who think something was wrong with her - not true. She is gorgeous (looks like Gloria Estavan (sp?)) and funny and sweet. Some people in the world do not see sex as something to just give away. P.S. I am proud of Jason for his example to others. |
Cindyluvsroddy | Saturday, August 31, 2002 - 11:27 pm     spygirl - relax ... i feel a chill in here no need to get nasty |
Spygirl | Sunday, September 01, 2002 - 12:19 am     I wasn't being nasty in the least, Cindy. I was being sincere |
Maris | Sunday, September 01, 2002 - 12:23 am     All these smileys remind me of the HGs. OUCH |
Cindyluvsroddy | Sunday, September 01, 2002 - 12:25 am     lol Maris - i was being sincere |
Moderator | Sunday, September 01, 2002 - 12:29 am     Everyone - please remember that it is not your job to complain about or police what other people are posting. Share your opinion about the houseguests, let the mods take care of the rest. Thanks, and here's another smiley for ya.  |
Bluie | Sunday, September 01, 2002 - 01:18 am     Lol, If somebody wants to be a 25 year old virgin, more power to them . It's just my personal opinion for myself that it's too old. I just don't think it means someone is somehow so much more evolved than others or nicer. By avoiding intimacy, I meant that by staying a virgin you are delaying entrance into adulthood. Yes you can have great relationships but you really aren't being completely intimate with a person. My life experience just tells me I'm glad I didn't get married without some other relationships before it. You'd have to be pretty lucky to find just the right one first time around. . (I've been happily married for a long time BTW ) Bottom line is , I just don't like Jason because he comes off a little phony, not alot, just enough to make me cringe. One positive I'd have to say about Jason is he doesn't shove it(his organized Christian belief system) down people's throats. CindyluvsRoddy ~ I'm a she not a he Keep attacking my post, I probably just didn't get my true intention across in it. At the time I was still miffed at Jason for kicking out Gerry. lol  |
Cindyluvsroddy | Sunday, September 01, 2002 - 10:20 am     Bluie - I agree with you on some of those thoughts on jason but i still kinda like jason though sorry about the he/she thing lol |
Ladytex | Sunday, September 01, 2002 - 10:31 am     I don't think that there is anything wrong with saving yourself for marriage. I think that is such a precious gift to be able to give your loved one. It's not about delaying adulthood, for if that were the case, we surely have too many teenage adults running around. For those that feel otherwise, that's great for you, but I admire anyone that takes this stand and sticks to it. |
Cindyluvsroddy | Sunday, September 01, 2002 - 10:37 am     i think ones own sex life is their business ... if someone chooses not to have sex until they r married .. their choice .. but i dont applaud that it is something so "wonderful" i just look at it as their own private choice ... and if someone chooses to have sex before marriage - their choice - and that choice doesnt mean you have to be ashamed in the least ... sex is healthy, fun, and good for the sole |
Earthmother | Sunday, September 01, 2002 - 10:41 am     This new idea (and I say new because anything that happens in the past 40 years is new to me)that sex is necessary for a person to be intimate makes me shake my head. To give yourself to a person you don't love IMO is truly giving yourself away without much thought of yourself. Sex without love is not intimacy it's just gratification of the body. To be truly intimate with someone comes from what is in your heart not what is between your legs. |
Theo17 | Sunday, September 01, 2002 - 10:43 am     Moderator AMEN!~ |
Jimmer | Sunday, September 01, 2002 - 10:44 am     It’s not like Jason waves his virginity like a flag (pardon the imagery), the way Brittany did in BB1. Also, he doesn’t go on and on about his Christian beliefs. As long as he’s not hung up over it, other people probably shouldn’t place too much emphasis on it either. Based on his comments, it’s a personal decision and not one that he is even expecting from a future girlfriend or bride. |
Cindyluvsroddy | Sunday, September 01, 2002 - 10:44 am     Earthmother that idea may work in your life .. nothing wrong with that it just doesn't work in in others .. people have different thoughts and attitudes on sex ... one idea isnt better or worse than others it is just different .. |