Battlestar | Tuesday, August 20, 2002 - 12:31 am     chiara seems to be the perennial victim in all of her relationships. She seems to sabotage them all in one way or the other. She gets jealous if the man pays any attention to another woman, but is agressively flirtatious with other available men infront of her 'mate' and then crys 'double standard' if he objects. She baits him with detailed descriptions of her past conquests and displays over the top sexual behavior for all and everyone to see. She seems to expect and need confrontation/ or disapproval of her behavior. |
Ryanc2002 | Tuesday, August 20, 2002 - 12:33 am     Aww screw this. I'm turning on the Amy and Marcie show. |
Moedog | Tuesday, August 20, 2002 - 12:33 am     I sincerely hope Chiara gets help and stops her pattern of looking for losers/users/abusers. She needs a whole lot of therapy. No doubt she'll still be hoping for a relationship with Roddy outside of the house since he left the door open (for continued abuse). |
Trillian | Tuesday, August 20, 2002 - 12:41 am     Chiara needs a team of therapists. She seems so young to be so screwed up. I have to think her parents are part of the problem - haven't they tried to help her?! |
Kalekona | Tuesday, August 20, 2002 - 12:42 am     i think roddy was very honest in his talk with chiara- he would make me crasy with his way of expressing it but he was right in most things he said they way she treated him was disrespectful and did make him look like a milktoast. I think he held it in until he couldn't take it anymore after last night. But I think he was pretty harsh in his delivery. Chiara just said that it wasn't the first time she had heard the same thing said to her. I is a fault in her character. That said I wouldn't be in a relationship with him if you gave ME the 500,000! |
Bbrules4ever | Tuesday, August 20, 2002 - 12:42 am     chiara said she doesnt have a close relationship with her mom.....she doesnt call her "mom" she calls her by her first name |
Moedog | Tuesday, August 20, 2002 - 12:43 am     Thinking of the letter Chiara got from her mother... that was a small insight. |
Battlestar | Tuesday, August 20, 2002 - 12:45 am     Negative Attention. She always wants to be the center of attention--and if she can't have positive attention she act up and get negative attention |
Oregonfire | Tuesday, August 20, 2002 - 12:49 am     Well, considering that she's been the focus of a lot of nit-picking this evening, first from Roddy and just now from Dani, Chiara seems to be holding up pretty well. I'm going to miss her presence in the house. Hello, my name is Oregonfire and I'm a Chiara fan! <standing up proudly in these last few days> |
Ryanc2002 | Tuesday, August 20, 2002 - 12:50 am     Oregonfire - The first step is admitting that you have a problem. ;) |
Battlestar | Tuesday, August 20, 2002 - 12:53 am     she said her girlfriend's nickname for her is 'Co-dependent' |
Battlestar | Tuesday, August 20, 2002 - 12:56 am     ---somebody should guard the lizards---we might see some 'Fatal Attraction' behavior in the next 2 days |
Earthmother | Tuesday, August 20, 2002 - 12:58 am     Is she holding up well or does she really not get it? He gave her a watered down version of this speel yesterday and she's still kissing all over him and allowed him to sleep with her last night. I would have said "not a chance buddy." If in an hour she is still all over him and he sleeps in her bed tonight then she is dense and he is a dog for giving her false hope by climbing into bed with her. If he really feels this way then he should be a man and tell her he can't sleep with her anymore, it wouldn't be right. |
Trillian | Tuesday, August 20, 2002 - 12:59 am     Bb rules, that's so sad. I remember she said her mom had told her "Don't think your dad and I don't know you have a coke habit." (which she denied). Now, if I suspected that of my daughter, that sort of indignant, personally offended tone would never occur to me. I can understand heartbroken, worried to death, even angry, but her mom's response (if that description is accurate) was very cold. Maybe part of why she's so starved for any attention and willing to do self-destructive things to get it? |
Oregonfire | Tuesday, August 20, 2002 - 01:15 am     Pffft, Ryan! The some "I Was a Teenage Dirtbag" was made for you! (Just kidding! A great song, BTW) I guess I don't understand the gloom-and-doom predictions for Chiara. Yes, she's got some problems, but I'm glad to see her somewhat happy-go-lucky these last few days. I've known some truly messed up and unhappy people, and she doesn't even come close in the screwed up department in comparison. |
Ryanc2002 | Tuesday, August 20, 2002 - 01:18 am     Oregonfire - Didn't you know we're all professional psychiatrists? |
Marcieb | Tuesday, August 20, 2002 - 04:11 am     -- "Yes, she's got some problems, but I'm glad to see her somewhat happy-go-lucky these last few days. I've known some truly messed up and unhappy people, and she doesn't even come close in the screwed up department in comparison." RIGHT AWWWN! At least SHE doesn't have a camoflage outfit for her doggie to wear to this year's dove hunt!!! Amy spoke yesterday of getting outfits made for Bucky [poor, poor Bucky] but just hearing her talk about his camo one is sending me right over the edge! [I realize this is OT, but please just let me vent here for this one second.] |
Missy2 | Tuesday, August 20, 2002 - 05:12 am     I really feel for chiara. Its going to be tough watching this stuff when she gets out, and hopefully some good will come out of it. Hopefully kiki will realize that she was used and now she will continue playing the girl power thing! |
Twiggyish | Tuesday, August 20, 2002 - 06:08 am     There goes Daddy Roddy again. So, HIMSELF never embarrassed Chiara?? He's Mr. Perfect? If she ever decides to get serious in a relationship, her mate, is going to have to accept her. She isn't going to change anytime soon. Otherwise, she'll never be happy. |
Maris | Tuesday, August 20, 2002 - 06:57 am     If I has been her I would have just slugged the guy. I couldnt believe when Roddy told Chiara that his behavior had been "awesome" considering the way she treated him. What was wrong with that girl to just sit there and listen. |
Goddessatlaw | Tuesday, August 20, 2002 - 07:01 am     Hey, Maris, she was getting her 'tenshun, which is what it's all about. Why should she complain? I think these two richly deserve each other. |
Bogey | Tuesday, August 20, 2002 - 07:06 am     I would be embarassed if my significant other acted like Chiara, HOWEVER, she has never pretended to be anything other than...what she is, so if Roddy didn't like that, why was he attracted to her? I don't like her, but I don't think she should feel bad about embarassing Roddy |
Minnyace01 | Tuesday, August 20, 2002 - 07:14 am     Just my two cents worth here - I think that Roddy does have some true feelings for Chiara. Everything that he told her last night were things that he had been trying to tell her earlier. They both now know where the other stands. All Roddy wants Chiara to do is to grow up a little bit, and in her actions with others, to treat him with more respect. You can't blame him for that. Can you imagine his friends and family if he brings her home (and don't think that he doesn't want to do that)? He wants her to show him that she does care about him and his feelings. This was a discussion that needed to occur if they were going to be a couple when they get out of the house. They both have a couple of days left to see if they still have feelings for each other. If she wants to be with him bad enough, she will do what he wants. He's not asking for that much, just the same things that any other male wants out of their girlfriend. It should be an interesting couple of days in the house for the pair, topped off by their champaigne hammock time on Wednesday night. After that everyone should know where they stand. Just a hunch - that if Roddy is voted out as it now looks, that when Chiara is voted out, he may be there to meet her. |
Lurknomore | Tuesday, August 20, 2002 - 07:15 am     must everything good go on in the house any night I feel a need to sleep? They really need to replay highlights for the east coast people...who am I kidding like they care HA. I think I need to bring back my things I need to complain about thread. I missed all of this, needless to say. |
Maris | Tuesday, August 20, 2002 - 07:20 am     Bogey has it right, if he had all these problems with her behavior then why was he attracted to her? Why did he play her like a fiddle until the two of them were up for eviction? Roddy is doing everything he can to provoke a blow up with this girl just as he did with Josh. When you look at everything he said to her it was as if he was pushing every button he could think of and hoping that she would blow. Chiara just smiled at him and asked him questions. Lets see What Roddy does today. I am betting the next thing he does is instigate a Chiara/Amy blow up. |