Abby7 | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 07:42 pm     Spree, i don't have to read your lips. I read your original post that started this thread. From that I asked you a few question that you have not answered. one being: why do you think that if a man gives another man a compliment that might make him bi-sexual. I am also curious about your backround. Where were you brought up and how did your parents bring you up regarding HUMANS? |
Azriel | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 07:42 pm     It just has a feeling like you want to 'out' someone. That's a personal choice and even if you suspect something, it's that person's choice to reveal it or not. We could start a is Tonya bi, is Chiara bi, is Roddy bi , is Josh bi, is Dani bi thread, too. They have all complimented members of the same sex in the house. It just seems like pointless speculation. |
Spree17 | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 07:46 pm     abby I mearly asked if anyone else thought it was a possibility based on all gerrys comments and then marcys comments about him in the shower. Many guys will compliment each other. Not many straight guys will tell another straight guy in seriousness that they look really stunning or sexy today. I didnt know I was avoiding responsibility for anything.I do not think Gerry is bad if he is bi or not. You really should take a look in the mirror before you go on your next witch hunt. Between the 2 of us I have a feeling you have a lot more trouble accepting people of other sexualitys than i do. Next time your pc club meets let me know. We can accuse people of being homo phobes together. |
Abby7 | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 07:46 pm     Spree, I can't tell you how many times i have seen a woman and admired her beauty. if anyone i mentioned that to were ever to question my sexuality,....well, all I can say is how sorry i feel for that person. |
Abby7 | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 07:52 pm     spree, i am not on a witch hunt. i feel sad for you. who started this thread and why? you started the thread..i responded. why did you honetly start the thread....you know why. you are not so innocent. why did you start this thread? honestly. |
Spree17 | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 07:53 pm     abby this is my last post to you. You have earned your politically correct points tonight. I didnt imply somebody said it had a negative implication as you post . I said somebody said it had a negative implication. You know why I said it?Because I can read. If you read the last 20-30 posts you will see who said it. This is all hillarious. I'm 100% for gay rights. Have a close gay friend for the last 8 years and you want to paint me as a homophobe? Unreal. You really protest a bit too much. You might be projecting your own feelings. |
Jimmer | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 07:58 pm     I think most straight guys will compliment another guy by saying something like "Nice suit" or "That beard really suits you". It's not impossible but they would not say "You look stunning/sexy today" unless they really wanted to get something out of it. In Gerry's case he's probably just trying to score points with Marc. |
Rain | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 08:00 pm     sanfranjoshfan, what's wrong with farmers? Why are straight couples in San Francisco considered to look "out of place". Isn't that bigoted of the gays who are in the majority? I find it odd that people who protest against bigotry then go and act bigoted against other people. Straight people shouldn't be considered out of place by gays any more than gays should be considered out of place by straights. I think the whole thing about Gerry is a non-issue. Gerry doesn't do anything in that house that anyone else hasn't done. In fact, the opposite--he has refrained, for the most part, from bashing others, whereupon the rest have bashed, condemmed, and belittled Gerry at every chance they get. Gerry can't even give people a compliment! |
Abby7 | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 08:02 pm     spree, fine. i don't know what you are talking about me being pc. think what you want. i only mentioned your name in ths thread is because YOU started the thread. then, somehow, the whole...my best friend is...blah. blah. blah. spree, this has nothing to do with pc or whatever you think i just responded to your first opinion. my question was never answered. imo, you seemed to think because gerry has overly complimented mar meant he MAY by bi-sexual. then my opinion started.. that's it. i'm not being pc in any way. i read your FIRST question and responded. you have not responded to my questions to you...where/how wereyou brought up? |
Spree17 | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 08:11 pm     abby I told you I grew up in NY. I was brought up by my parents. Does that fit your homophobe criteria? If I speak slower will it help you? I never said my best friend. I said My good friend and business partner. I also told you it wasnt only Gerry comments that made me wonder but marcy himself saying he didnt feel good about Gerry looking at him in the shower. This thread is ridiculous because of your witchunt so I'm going to end it here. I'm a homophobe. Abby has caught me. Please give abby her reward points. Abby I bow before you. I just couldnt hide my true colors from you. You are almost as good as the croc hunter. maybe they will make a movie about you also. |
Abby7 | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 08:13 pm     ...and Spree, my question for asking where/how were you brought up...has nothing to do with being pc. it's just that in my area it means nothing if a man compliments another man or if a woman compliments another woman. that's just how we were brought up...i think it's called manners. i was brought up with good manners. i also have high self-esteem and so does my husband. if my husband and i met a couple we know for dinner, let's say, and my husband says to "our male" friend...you really look good...I AM NOT GOING TO RUN TO MY LAWYER AND ACCUSE MY HUSBAND OF BEING BI-SEXUAL. I know how you are going to tell my about all your "friends"...but, spree, that is not the issue here. my question to you is why did you start this thread in the first place? |
Abby7 | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 08:21 pm     ...and Spree, my question for asking where/how were you brought up...has nothing to do with being pc. it's just that in my area it means nothing if a man compliments another man or if a woman compliments another woman. that's just how we were brought up...i think it's called manners. i was brought up with good manners. i also have high self-esteem and so does my husband. if my husband and i met a couple we know for dinner, let's say, and my husband says to "our male" friend...you really look good...I AM NOT GOING TO RUN TO MY LAWYER AND ACCUSE MY HUSBAND OF BEING BI-SEXUAL. I know how you are going to tell my about all your "friends"...but, spree, that is not the issue here. my question to you is why did you start this thread in the first place? |
Jimmer | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 08:21 pm     This is ridiculous. Abby, Why don't you just tell us why he started the thread? You've certainly implied that you know why. |
Spree17 | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 08:21 pm     abby i'm going to type really slow so maybe you can read my answer for the 3rd or 4th time. based on the comments gerry was making and the fact that marcy said that Gerry was looking at him in the shower I was curious if anyone thought he might like men as well as women. Thats at least the 3rd time I have answered your question. The funny thing is we all were able to discuss this topic respectfull all day until 90 minutes ago. san fran who said he was gay had no problem with it but you do. Once again I admit you have discovered me. I'm the worlds biggest homophobe and you should get all the points you deserve for showing my true colors. Last but not least I mention a good friend and ex business partner who happens to be gay. not a best friend, not multiple friends so maybe you should try to be a bit more honest in the future since my own words are right there for everyone to see. Now I'm going to go back to my homophobe life. Wow I think I just saw another gay person. I better go get him. For the rest of the posters I appologize for wasting so much time and for the sarcasm. Its just feels pretty ridiculous to be on this end of the witchunt. |
Abby7 | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 08:25 pm     OH HOLD ON...this iS BAD. THAT last message of "mine" was not all mine. i swear. that message of Abby7 from 8:21p.m. i didn't write or type or have anything to do with the 2nd or 3rd paragraphs. honest. i swear. if you read my posts i wil hold to what i post. there is something going on with mistakes? i did not write/post those last 2 paragraphs? can someone tell me how to report this? |
Abby7 | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 08:27 pm     sorry, i am too upset right now about re-reading some of my above-posts. i did not type those last 2 paragraphs of that post..honest. you have to believe me because the previous posts that i did post (actually i haven't re-read them so dont know for sure)..i posted, i think. |
Abby7 | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 08:36 pm     spree, i don't know what happen to the above 2 paragraphs that happen above. however, it doesn't matter....you won't answer my original questions (you know what they are)...so now can i ask you this: does it matter whether or not you have gay friends or not? no one cares here who your friends are....and it doesn't make any difference in your opinion. \ also, USUALLY, it would not make a difference in how a person was raised or educated (maybe) in why you would ask the question you did. however, you DID ask that question. why? do you think it had anything to do with your level of education or how you were raised...that's my question. You asked the question..I'm just wondering why do you think you would ask such a question? Just out of the blue or are you.....? |
Brynah | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 08:38 pm     May I suggest the "Cool Down Zen Thread"? |
Spree17 | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 08:42 pm     abby I'm not going to waste anymore of everyones time. i answered your questions atleast 4 times now. I'm a homophobe ok? You caught me. Move on |
Jimmer | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 08:46 pm     I just don't get it. What answers are you looking for Abby??? |
Abby7 | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 09:01 pm     yes, i just posted in the wrong threat do delete this thread. i wish i had never responded to spree's thread. i'm sure she was so innocent in posint it? |
Moderator | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 09:02 pm     This thread is closed for a cool-down period. Perhaps it would be a good idea for some deep breathing. (K) |