Crazydog | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 12:00 pm     I am hoping this thread does get moderated out because I think Spree has valid points and no one is bashing here. Surely people out there think the same so maybe this thread will quell rumors. Some of you might know that I am one of the biggest Gerry non-supporters out there. Having said that, I really don't think Gerry is bisexual. If he were interested in men, I am not sure why he wouldn't be more interested in seeing a naked Eric (beef) or Roddy (charm). I think he just sees people having conversations at the shower, and he just thinks it shows everyone is comfortable with each other. For some reason he is fixated on getting Marc to like him. During the Marc/Gerry hygiene discussion I saw Gerry once again tell Marc how happy he was to have saved him with the veto and that he could have left the game happy having done that for him. He wants Marc to like him. |
Sanfranjoshfan | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 12:08 pm     I just wonder....how many str8 guys there are on this board that never, ever, ever checked out another guy's goods in the showers in gym class. I know that str8 guys do that....they want to see if they "measure up" or not....but it sure don't make 'em gay! :-) You don't have to post your answer here, but think back, look into your hearts, and try and recall if you have ever looked at another man's penis in a public shower type situation. If you haven't, then I must surmise that you have seen ONLY your own manhood, right? If you have, then do not worry about being perceived as gay....it's a normal thing. Really! Just sayin'.... ;-) |
Crazydog | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 12:17 pm     Sanfran, I understand your point, but the original post also discussed Gerry's repeated comments to Marc that he is sexy and stunning. A straight man might tell his friend that he is good looking but I'm not so sure about "sexy". I still think this is one of Gerry's odd ways of trying to fit in with people and get them to like him. Didn't that weird blond kid try the same thing with Richard Hatch? |
Csnog | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 12:22 pm     Gerry is NOT gay. Enough said. He thinks if he compliments Marcie that Marcie will like him. Thats Alll Folks!!!! |
Cricket | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 12:41 pm     Puleeeze! No, Gerry is not gay! He's saying things like that to Marci because he thinks he saved his butt in the house and because Marci is black and gay, Gerry doesn't want to be perceived as being racist. He seems to be overdoing it a bit. Wait until he gets out and reads all the horribly nasty things Marci has said about him. He will be very upset! Too bad Dani doesn't get to him soon about Marci! |
Sanfranjoshfan | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 12:54 pm     Crazydog - Yes I know about the flattery that Gerry is pouring on Marce....my shower room comments were said tongue in cheek. :-) As for Gerry and his Marce flattering....if Gerry really has a lot of gay friends, or just worked with a lot in theater and show business, then maybe he just isn't what one would call a "typical" straight man, but rather one with a familiarity with gay men that are a lot like Marce....ones that crave attention and flattery. I would have to say that the gay exposure in show business is a lot more open than on the farm or in the office in other places. Just because he isn't afraid to compliment a gay man that CRAVES those types of compliments....it doesn't mean that he wants to bed the guy. JMO |
Bbdiva | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 01:15 pm     I don't believe Gerry is Bi-sexual at all. I do believe he is using the theory of I can kill more with kindness that bitterness. He tries to feed Maric giant ego by telling him how good he looks and how sweet his smile is. Just because he knows how to give a compliment does not mean he wants to be intimate with someone. But American society is so use to if a man tells someone how nice they look that they are attracted to them that we tend to think that is the only reason one gives commpliments. JMO |
Lovemarc | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 01:24 pm     While I believe that most people are bisexual to some extent, I have never given any consideration to Gerry...and to be honest, I don't want to think about it. |
Mrdisguise | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 05:45 pm     If I saw Gerry in the real world, I would have speculated that he is gay. He has an appreciation for attractive men and women. That's it. It doesn't mean that he wants to have sex with them. |
Spunky | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 05:50 pm     So if I say I love Lisa's body, would that make me bi??? Mmmmm and me all grown up with children...What was I thinking??? |
Hosewater | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 06:02 pm     Oops |
Hosewater | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 06:02 pm     Gerry looks at Lisa in the shower and it's "leering".... Eric, Josh, Jason, or Roddy looks at Lisa in the shower and it's "flirting"... Gerry ought to be looking at Chiara. She seems to like men looking at her body.
I AM NOT GAY! |
Willow_Woman | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 06:08 pm     Spunky, done the same thing many times. ("Oooweee look at that body.") Never thought anything about it. I'm certainly not gay nor bi. Too tired, I have 7 children. ;-) Hmmmm, I'm wondering if there is a double standard here. Woman can say it but men can't. Or, if the men do, they may be perceived as bi. How about when straight women walk down the street arm in arm, or hug each other, or etc. etc.? If men did that, would it be accepted? Interesting thread. |
Spree17 | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 06:12 pm     Lady thats just not how guys are. You wouldnt understand. Girls kiss their girl friends and dance with them. Guys are different. Girls can see a girls naked body and see it as attractive. A guy doesnt want to see another guys naked hairy butt. It doesnt make you bi but If I ever tell another man he is really sexy you can be sure i switched teams. LOL |
Sheila494 | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 06:22 pm     i think gerrys wife would be the only one who might know if hes gay or not..i really dont think it is right to make accusations about someone when you really dont know for sure if it is true. |
Spunky | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 06:27 pm     A movie giving an example of this strange fact (why physical closeness among women seems more natural) is The Sweetest Thing (Cameron Diaz). Personally I think two guys walking hand in hand look abnormal because we have this mental image of a man being "matcho" and would never do a "feminine" thing like that. But it's a fast changing world and what seemed abnormal yesterday it's quite normal nowadays... Go figure! |
Llkoolaid | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 06:29 pm     I think Gerry is just giving Marcellas what he craves, compliments and attention. Could it be that Gerry is very secure about his own sexuality and just doesn't worry about how he is percieved when he gives another man compliments. Why do we care? |
Sheila494 | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 06:30 pm     exactly right llkoolaid |
Spree17 | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 06:31 pm     nobody "accused" anyone. Its not a crime to be accused of anyway. Was just discussing based on comments he has made to marcy and marcy saying he lurks at him in the showers. Gerry has been married 3 times. I'm sure he is in to women. We were just discussing if he might also like marcy. Chill out. There isnt anything wrong with it if he does like marcy |
Molz | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 06:33 pm     well said hosewater comon kids..i'm married 25 years next month...but i love my girlfriends ..apprectiate them and am glad my husband likes them also....but no way,think of them in a sexual way. i think gerry has been very ostersized in this game if the camera was on me 24/7 it wouldn't be a prety sight. not bashing anyone , just my opinion |
Twiggyish | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 06:34 pm     I don't think we can decide his sexuality based on our observation or based on things he says. We do not know this man. Either way, it's his life. |
Sheila494 | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 06:35 pm     spree..if theres nothing wrong with it then why bring it up..maybe you should chill out. |
Llkoolaid | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 06:37 pm     I think Gerry is just looking for a friend and thought he had one in Marcellas. I feel so sorry for him. |
Spree17 | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 06:41 pm     sheila actually marcy brought it up. The pc police are the only ones that think the subject is taboo. There is nothing wrong with it. Do we only discuss topics that there is something wrong with? This topic was discussed very respectfully by many people until a few posters decided in the last hour that its not fare to discuss. |
Sheila494 | Sunday, August 18, 2002 - 06:45 pm     spree..im not going to argue with you..i made my final comment on the subject. |