Does Danielle have the remotest clue how she comes across in the Diary Room?
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Yuhuru

Sunday, July 28, 2002 - 09:28 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Back to the thread topic...
I don't think many (with the exception of Will who was using the DR as his audition stage) thinks about how they come across in the DR. I thought it was the room where they can blow off steam, release. I'm sure it's difficult being sweet as pie to people's faces & secretly despising them. She seems very focused on winning and she seems very judgemental so I'm sure she needs a place to let it all hang out.

I don't think it will hurt her in the end (if she makes it) I don't think she cares about future friendships with these people. She cares about the money. Will said nasty/mean stuff on a regular basis and he still won.

The jury will vote based on the same twisted, odd, crazy thinking that they used when they played the game. So there's no telling how it will go down. I think it's worth the risk(meanness in the DR) if it means you can walk out of the DR with your game face on.

By the way, I'm not a Dani fan. And sadly, I'm not a fan of any of them yet.

Niceguy

Sunday, July 28, 2002 - 09:38 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Hi Sheila 494, its interesting that we're confused to be the same person even though we've never met. Jasons_First, rest assured that the Niceguy is a different entity. I've opened this hornet's nest so I should come back in and discuss it some more. Dani's behavior goes beyond competitive. That's what disturbing and creepy about her. She's not playing this 'game' like a man but like a brat. She's unconsciously revealed as much in one of the pre-entry interviews that she wants to go back to her 'childhood'. She's tries to run to the opposing sides and play them against each other but when she's busted she's either going to play dumb or become loudly indignant like she did with Lori. Its her decision to play like she doesn't have all her marbles. No one here has any control over her. I find her style distasteful, yes. I still believe that her DR summaries are going to cost her(if she gets that far). We'll all see, I guess.

Sheila494

Sunday, July 28, 2002 - 10:42 am EditMoveDeleteIP
hi niceguy..i am in total agreement with your observations about danielle..couldnt have said it better.

Niceguy

Sunday, July 28, 2002 - 10:53 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Here's to Danielle's early eviction.


{Wine glasses clink-clink}

Minnietlm63

Sunday, July 28, 2002 - 11:00 am EditMoveDeleteIP
I don't like any of the HG except Jason. I had liked Dani until I saw her behavior last night in the HRD with Chi and Marc. I am just disgusted with how immature and hateful they are talking about Gerry. They act as if they are free from flaws and are "holier than thou". Their little production last night made my stomach turn and ached for Gerry and his family. They haven't even given this guy a chance (and I'm not really a Gerry fan). He is a human being that does deserve to be treated as such. I'm so sick of them making fun of him working out, swimming, etc.... At least he is doing something and working at it. He has really come out the winner in all this even if he doesn't win the money. I hope the HG view the tapes and are completely embarrassed by their behavior. And Dani is in no position to be talking about Tonya's mothering skills, or lack thereof, after her behavior last night. What a wonderful example she is setting for HER children.

Maris

Sunday, July 28, 2002 - 06:14 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
A truly perfect Dani moment today on the live feeds. Marcellas, Dani, Jason and Amy are in the HRD and they are talking about the upcoming dinner. Dani is asking what sort of food they are getting. Amy says "I am getting Halibut" she said more but essentially it was I am getting Halibut. Dani sees her moment...."Amy I thought you and Marcellas were getting the dinner together, you said I am getting Halibut". To which our Amy said I am getting Halibut, Marcellas what did you order as an entree and Marcellas said I ordered shrimp.

It was a perfect moment. Dani thought she could point out to Marcellas and Jason just how selfish and self centered Amy was. OOPS!!!

Earthmother

Sunday, July 28, 2002 - 06:28 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Jason told Dani/Marc and Amy to stop talking mean about Gerry because his family might be watching. I say give this kid the money and send the rest of them home.
Dani, add this to your list of what's ghetto:

"It's ghetto to make fun of an older gentleman who hasn't said anything nasty or done anything mean to you."

Chiparock

Sunday, July 28, 2002 - 06:47 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
LOL, Earthmother -- you hit the nail on the head. Danielle's behavior exhibits a lack of class, especially compared to her "whipping boy" Gerry, who accepts being ostracized, criticized, and mocked and simply rolls with the punches.

Niceguy

Sunday, July 28, 2002 - 08:20 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Its all about Danielle and now its becoming more apparent to Jason. She didn't get to go on the dinner so even though Amy is on her way out she has to try and drive a wedge between Marc and Amy. She was disappointed earlier that in the America's Choice privacy prize she came in dead last. Is it any wonder? Gerry is a grown up, he's dealt with a number of Danielle's I'm sure.

Kirabira

Monday, July 29, 2002 - 10:07 am EditMoveDeleteIP
ok, the problem with what Lori did was that Dani and others were trying to decide how to NICELY and non-confrontationally talk to gerry about this. Lori just was way out of line and made the situation worse and showed no real respect for gerry or his feelings in what she did. If she really cared about G she would have helped dani come up with a way to talk to G -which was the advise she was asking for instead of twisting what was going on and trying to make it seem like dani was bad mouthing him.
And- your hair should be totally cleaner than someones hands after using the potty! who doesnt know that they should wash their hands after that???? her view on how not washing hands was ok was way wacko too.

Earthmother

Monday, July 29, 2002 - 10:23 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Kirabira: She was bad-mouthing him. If you say "Guys help me find a way to approach Gerry because he is not washing his hands after going to the bathroom" and the conversation then goes into ways to do this that it one thing. Saying "that guy is just nasty and I can't believe he fixed my food without washing his hands" and then the discussion becomes a b**** about Gerry fest (which it did) then finding a way to tell him was not her motive for the conversation.

Jake

Monday, July 29, 2002 - 10:45 am EditMoveDeleteIP
I disagree, Kirabira. The decision of how Dani should approach Gerry SHOULD have been made WAY before she called in the whole household to inflame them against Gerry. They were NOT trying to figure out how to approach Gerry, they were gossiping about and bashing him, plain and simple.

Granted, Lori was a bit manic in her delivery to him, but her point was solid. Nobody had approached Gerry, and it didn't seem as if any of them were planning to. They just wanted to sit around and talk trash about him.

Lori didn't twist anything. Dani (and the others) WERE bad-mouthing him.

Jake

Monday, July 29, 2002 - 10:46 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Ooops... Earthmother beat me to it. Sorry to be redundant.

Pcakes2

Monday, July 29, 2002 - 11:03 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Maybe I missed something, and y'all are probably going to jump down my throught for this, BUT...
I saw Gerry not wash his hands after using the bathroom. I also saw Gerry handling food after he had used the restroom. Besides being just plain gross, it is a possible health hazard to the entire house. Maybe Dani didn't handle the situation correctly, but that's not the problem.
He didn't wash his hands! ICK!

Jasons_First

Monday, July 29, 2002 - 11:07 am EditMoveDeleteIP
I'll bet the only people on here that got mad when Dani and the others were talking about the "hand washing thing" are people who probably share Gerry's habits. LOL! Not one person who's anti-Dani said she had a valid point about hygiene. I wouldn't want him touching my food, either. If I were in the house, I'd be the cook because I don't trust others when it comes to hygiene. I don't get anal about many things but someone not washing their hands and touching my food is disgusting. Probably why I only eat out once a year. :)

Deirpg

Monday, July 29, 2002 - 11:37 am EditMoveDeleteIP
I agree that it was pretty disgusting when the HGs discovered that Gerry wasn't washing his hands, but was it necessary to totally embarass him in front of the whole house? Some may say that this was Lori's fault, but I would disagree. If the other HGs had any sense or maturity, they would have approached Gerry and tackled the problem one-on-one. Instead, they chose to discuss it behind his back. I was totally supporting Lori during that episode. She was the only HG who confronted the problem. Granted, she could have done it in a much calmer and private manner, but good for her for sticking up for him.

Sobaditsgood

Monday, July 29, 2002 - 11:44 am EditMoveDeleteIP
I haven't read about this on the LF from last night or seen it referenced elsewhere - what 'production' involving Danielle (and I presume it was about Gerry) are you talking about that you hope his family doesn't see? Was she doing one of her impersonations or something? I get the gist that Danielle and Marc (and Amy? and Jason until he said they should stop? I dunno, I'm asking...) were sitting around trashing Gerry but what exactly was said, anything different than the usual mutterings behind his back?

And how did the others respond when Jason said they should stop talking about Gerry out of consideration to his family?

Minnietlm63

Monday, July 29, 2002 - 12:21 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Pcakes, other HG have been caught not washing their hands after going to the bathroom and handling things. Do you always see Chi and Lisa wash after popping zits on the guys? Do you see everyone who has handled the lizards wash afterwards? As a matter of fact, they had the lizards crawling around on the food prep counter. Chi sits on it and props her feet on it. I have yet to see anyone clean it after doing these things. Do the 2 couples wash after groping one another? The others are not free from poor hygeine. I agree that Gerry does some things that are not so sanitary, but so have the others.

Sobad, I saw the performance that Dani, Chi and Marc gave the night they were bashing Gerry. I will not repeat what horrible things were said because they are just beyond gross. They went way over the top and Dani was the worst of them all. They made fun of Gerry having stomach probs and hemrhoids (sp?) and his hem cream and the hottub ring and so and so on. It sounds all innocent but I can assure you that it was downright vile. They all cackled and laughed like a bunch of little pre-teens.

Jason is the only one that had called them on it and asked that they be kind, yet no one responds after he says these things. Maybe because they know he's right or maybe they just don't give a d***. I was not anti-Dani before, however my opinion of her changed drastically after seeing her the other night. She says that she tells her children not to make fun of people, yet she parades around bashing another person on national TV/internet.

Does anyone know of any websites devoted to Gerry?

Earthmother

Monday, July 29, 2002 - 01:06 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
I am not pro-Gerry or anti-Danielle, but I call it as I see it. If you want to be treated with respect then you need to earn it. I have no respect for most of these people simply because they haven't earned it (at least from me). I think Jason and Gerry have earned my respect simply because they have not pointed out to others loudly and rudly or behind their backs personal things that should be done privately. If you have a problem then take it to the person you have it with and solve it. If you are trashing another person openly that is the worst form of disrespect of another human being and I don't have to like you for it. It is typical little kid behavior. If I can't find a better reason to slam this kid then I'll make fun of his mother, I'll talk about his ugly clothes, I'll make fun of the way he walks, they're fat, they're bony, on an on. It's one thing to say "I don't trust that guy he said Blah, Blah, Blah and quite another to find one thing they have done that you don't like and continue to make fun of their appearance or some other personal thing about them. Ever since the hand washing episode the hgs as well as many posters are on Gerry watch and continually report how unclean he is, however I see a lot of unclean behavior that is ignored because it's not Gerry doing it or no one is really paying attention. Just the other day a poster said "I can't believe it Gerry never takes a shower"..hmmmm that's funny I've seen him take more in the early ams than I've seen a few of them take, so what feeds are you watching? Danielle is the biggest offender of this kind of bashing and just wait till someone says, "that girl is nasty." Personally I think her ghetto jokes are racist.

Niceguy

Tuesday, July 30, 2002 - 07:18 am EditMoveDeleteIP
I'd like to know what Monica and Cassandra(if they're following some of the live feed)feel about Dani. I'm sure they're pulling for her but they must have some reservations.

Bmh

Tuesday, July 30, 2002 - 08:06 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Earthmother..I agree Jason is a very nice kid and is not mean to anyone..but Gerry is a differnt story..this guy is almost as bad as Josh..when he is around Marcie and Amy he tells them Josh needs to go..and then he goes to Josh and agrees to what Josh wants..I pity Gerry..because he must not have alot of self-respect because one minute Josh is being extremely cruel to him and the next minute they are best friends..I just cant accept that from Gerry..he disgusts me if he is trying to be Josh's friend after the horible things Josh has said..Gerry will do whatever to stay in the game..he will switch sides and be in alliances with people that hate him just so he can get farther..I rather walk out with my dignity than stoop low enough to form a alliance with Josh..he is a snake and should have been dealt with a long time ago

Sorry to get a little off topic..but I needed to vent about Gerry lol

And as for Danielle I still dont know why you guys are hating on her she made one mistake nobody is perfect..she is geniuenely a nice person and is just trying to make things iteresting and is actually playing the game unlike others..just my opinion

Fluff

Tuesday, July 30, 2002 - 08:26 am EditMoveDeleteIP
I agree with Bmh.
Besides, not washing your hands when coming out of the bathroom and then cooking food is just totally nasty, considering that everyone else was going to eat the food he prepared. Why should Danielle be the villain for pointing it out? She had a right to tell everyone else if they were eating it.

Crossfire

Tuesday, July 30, 2002 - 08:34 am EditMoveDeleteIP
I think when they stop plopping their butts and bare feet on the food preparation counter they can have something to say to Gerry.

Until then, the complaints they and anyone else makes are just for the sake of being nasty to him.

Mrdisguise

Tuesday, July 30, 2002 - 08:41 am EditMoveDeleteIP
I think that Danielle is a typical bytch. Josh said that Marcellas needs to be voted out first blah blah because Josh is scared of Marcellas.

If I was inside the house, I would be scared of danielle.

Eric early on said that he trusts Marcellas more than Danielle.

Danielle seems more aggressive, intelligent, sneaky and conniving than Marcellas.

Earthmother

Tuesday, July 30, 2002 - 08:44 am EditMoveDeleteIP
That's true Crossfire. Saying "Josh needs to go" is not the same as saying "Josh is a dirty little ***** who smells up the house. He is ***** ugly and has a big **** that is making us all sick." Those are the kind of personal attacks I'm talking about. When Dani says "Tanya is a bad mother" is a personal attack. If she said I have some problems with Tanya as a person (enough said) so I voted my gut, that's appropriate.

Earthmother

Tuesday, July 30, 2002 - 08:51 am EditMoveDeleteIP
By the way for the person who said that those of us defending Gerry were less than clean ourselves: Making assumptions like that are exactly the reason these hgs are not respected. (Had to moderate myself)because I do have self-respect..I am not defending Gerry but I am admonishing the classless behavior of those who bash on a personal level. IMO sitting on a food counter while on your period is as dirty as you can get.

Fluff

Tuesday, July 30, 2002 - 08:57 am EditMoveDeleteIP
Uggggh! They are all gross! Well, Marcellas can't possibly be as nasty as they are considering he's a neat freak, right?