Swingers....and I Don't mean the Dancing Kind
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Jan

Tuesday, July 23, 2002 - 04:30 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
by the way, chia said that if she makes it 3 months, that will be the longest stretch she has had without sex in 10 years (since she was 15 I guess since she is 25 now)

Crossfire

Tuesday, July 23, 2002 - 04:32 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Impressive.

Delilah

Tuesday, July 23, 2002 - 04:32 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
uh oh, more fighting..... Delilah whistles and backs slowly out of the room hoping no one noticed her come in

Max

Tuesday, July 23, 2002 - 04:33 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
WHAT A SHOCK! People on this board have opinions! Some agree with Chiara & Roddy's views on sexual behaviour and some don't. THat's what this board is for.

It's not about bashing them for their views, it's about disagreeing or agreeing with them. Moderators here don't let us get away with bashing. For example, you will be hard pressed to find a post that says Chiara is a _____ (fill in your favorite degrading term) unless it's (a) not been around long enough to give a moderator the chance to edit or delete it, (b) simply not been noticed in the flood of messages--in which case a message in the questions to moderators thread will do the trick--, or (c) in a live feeds post where one of the other HGs actually said it, not one of the posters here.

In my experience, people on chat boards don't need reasons to rag on different views or put down anyone. They do it just fine for no reason at all.

Here, however, we get to have DISCUSSIONS where we can agree to disagree without attacking each other or slanerding the HGs. That's why many of us hang out here rather than other boards or chat rooms.

<climbing off my soap box now> :)

Keiffer

Tuesday, July 23, 2002 - 04:34 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Jan she was talking about a husband and wife. SHe was not talking about a relationship in the first two weeks of existince. What she was saying was that people that have been together, have a solid relationship, and who both consent could swing and it be alright. She admitted she has never done it in a relationship so far in her life, which would match up with her never being in a a very long term thing, or never being in a relationship in which the guy had the same views.

I am not a swinger, and would hate the idea of a GF or wife being with another man. I am sure most guys would feel the same. But if a person were to subscribe to her point of view then I would think you would need a strong relationship with a person you could trust before it could start. If a guy is is behaving questionably in the first two weeks then the same rule does not apply.

Willsfan

Tuesday, July 23, 2002 - 04:35 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Chiara is having a hard time playing the game without getting her feelings hurt so I think a lot of her talk is just that. Talk.

Physically she reminds me so much of my younger cousin. Especially that little smirk/smile. This doesn't mean she's my fav. HG this is just an observation.

Zachsmom

Tuesday, July 23, 2002 - 04:36 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
zachsmom sees delilah trying to run and shouts


DELILAHS HERE!!!!

Azriel

Tuesday, July 23, 2002 - 04:41 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Pen, that's a cool looking cat in your profile. Is it yours? I sent you an email :)

Maris

Tuesday, July 23, 2002 - 04:53 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
I agree wills a lot of what chi says is just talk and her example of a situation in which she would "swap" was not so outrageous. What she said was if she married and if she and her husband as a couple had good friends who were a couple and they all had a mutual attraction, she could see changing partners one time as a private thing. She was very clear that she wasnt into voyeurism and it was a special circumstance thing. I dont care for the girl but I could see what she was saying.

Keiffer

Tuesday, July 23, 2002 - 05:01 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Very sorry Jade. I will make a point in the future to not name any specific posters in my remarks, and I wll no longer point out how much I disagree with posters point of views as strongly as they oppose HG's. I really had no idea I was causing so much anxiety (or a need to vomit).

I apologize, and I will make an effort in the future to be less controversial.

Oregonfire

Tuesday, July 23, 2002 - 05:05 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Keiffer--I like what you have to say, don't stop now! Your two-paragraph post was excellent.

Goddessatlaw

Tuesday, July 23, 2002 - 05:07 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Keiffer: what just happened here? you just get spanked off the board? i don't see anything objectionable in your comments.

Jadeygurl39

Tuesday, July 23, 2002 - 05:08 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
No Keiffer go right ahead. I just would never point out my own opinions for fear of being ridiculed. I'm a newbie and guess I feel a bit intimidated but I wasn't about to sit back and watch this. I feel better now but hope it is not at the expense of you or anyone else's feelings.

Keiffer

Tuesday, July 23, 2002 - 05:13 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Goddess I had a post that gave about six quotes from ealier posters with specific negative things to say about Chiara's character. That was eliminated, as well as Jade's calling me out. I actually think that my first post in this thread came close to "bashing" other posters, and the one the was deleted was just justifying my argument in the first post. Either way, I stand corrected.

Squaredsc

Tuesday, July 23, 2002 - 05:15 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
lol zachsmom, i saw her too. i am leaving this alone, as i am not into swinging, but there's nothing wrong with it. 1

Squaredsc

Tuesday, July 23, 2002 - 05:16 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
da*n, i screwed it up again. i keep getting the file locking error. trying my laughing joker again. 1

Goddessatlaw

Tuesday, July 23, 2002 - 05:21 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
Well, live and learn. There it is. And, of course, admitting that you have a problem is the first step towards rehabilitation. KIDDING. I'm kidding, Keiffer. Frankly, I'm more for letting it all hang out, but have learned I actually like the limitations placed on this board. Makes people think more and blow off steam less.

Earthmother

Tuesday, July 23, 2002 - 05:37 pm EditMoveDeleteIP
I love to swing..my favorites are those long wooden ones cause your butt gets all smushed in those arched rubber ones..so what's the problem here? (probably slide people huh?)

Thefan

Wednesday, July 24, 2002 - 08:05 am EditMoveDeleteIP
My bum is a little big for swings anymore, but I loved them on the playgrounds as a child. I wish we had a huge beautiful tree in our backyard where our kids could play :)

Tabbyking

Wednesday, July 24, 2002 - 08:23 am EditMoveDeleteIP
ah, yes, those rounded rubber swings--that's where the word 'scuttlebutt' comes from !

although it's better than seeing people in shorts who have sat on the john for a long time and have a toilet seat impression on their thigh backs for half an hour! lol

Calamity

Wednesday, July 24, 2002 - 08:29 am EditMoveDeleteIP
lol Earthmother - a friend and I made an old tree-style swing for my backyard and I love it! Slides were great, too, but my favorite was that spinning carousel thing. Alas, I grew up in the country and only got to go to a playground a few times in my childhood. Sniff.

And I've resolved to stay away from the weight issues and PMS threads since those simply seem to cause miscommunication and I got tired of some people twisting my words. This place seems safer :) .

Earthmother

Wednesday, July 24, 2002 - 08:38 am EditMoveDeleteIP
OMG Tabbykitty those rubber butt hugging swings make those marks on your legs too..I wonder if people thought I had been sitting on the toilet when really I was only playing on the swings. I am a true swinger. Last year my son's Demolay group had a picnic and I was on the swings for probably 5 hours. I'm sure it was quite a picture late 40ish woman, sightly overweight, leering at little kids who were pleading with her for a turn.

Earthmother

Wednesday, July 24, 2002 - 08:45 am EditMoveDeleteIP
I loved those spinning things too Calamity. Isn't it funny how when you are a kid you want to do things that make you throw up. Now I sometimes I have vertigo and hate that feeling..Speaking of things making me want to throw up..Naw, don't think I'll go there..maybe I'll go to the park and swing instead