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GJC
User ID: 0220464
Jul 20th 5:06 AM
Cassandra,

It's too early to tell how it will all turn out but having followed the show fairly closely the last few weeks I think you're the only one there with any sense whatsoever. Aack!

For the most part, they all seem like nice people but common sense wasn't part of the initial criteria, it seems. KUDOS to you for working with Will and helping him to realize where his social faults lie. KUDOS to you for understanding people are people. No one, despite race, education, etc., is more ''worthy'' than the next except through understanding and caring and love for one another.

I wish you the best and hope you WIN. And if you don't win this silly BB game, you won more than a fan or two or a hundred thousand watching. You're pure class.

{WASP},
GJC
Debra
User ID: 9036243
Jul 20th 10:20 AM
Hello Cassandra,
Just wanted to let you know you are doing a good job. You remind me of my best friend. Articulate,
educated, and intelligent. I'd love to see you angry or in the company of a childhood friend.

Save yourself some money and time unless you just
enjoy going to the salon. You can get the same hair style by wrapping your hair in balls and drying. You can also braid your locks together and
let them dry for the crinkle look. With locks you
never have a bad hair day. When all else fails, you can always wear a ponytail.

You are not at work. Wet your hair in the shower and relax.

Good Luck!!!
A fan and Sister with locks.
Virginia R.
User ID: 9502963
Jul 20th 2:03 PM
"Cassie" my dear. As this third week in the house rolls up, here's hoping the best for you, some peace and quiet now that Will is gone hopefully, and the house can be calm. You did your best to help others which is so kind and patient of you. Appreciate you. Lots of luck in your remaining days in the house and in your life. SMILE
Elizabeth
User ID: 0631424
Jul 21st 11:04 PM
Cassandra---
Just wanted to say that you've been presenting a wonderful example to all of America for how a person should deal with things in today's society. You've really handled yourself with class, while still managing to speak your mind when necessary. Hope all continues to go well for you in the house.
Jan
User ID: 0631424
Jul 22nd 10:17 AM
Cassandra, I think you are Oprah material! I Love your outlook on life!! I hope for you, that Oprah gets you on the show to discuss your refreshing views!! If anyone needs to write a book, it is you. The world needs it!! Good luck in all your endeavors!!
Patty
User ID: 9189423
Jul 22nd 10:32 AM
Cassandra,

Thank you for showing the world how you should act. I truly hope you win because you have shown such grace and style to everyone there. I know everyone wants to win the money but you have done so with great dignity and respect for the others. Good luck to you.
OFM
User ID: 9398453
Jul 22nd 9:10 PM
Hey Cassandra!

I just wanna say that you were wayyyyyyy cool on the show.When we talk about keeping it real and being very decent.It was you.......all you and only you.You go Cassie!You need your own talk show or something!

Peace out and good luck in your life.God Bless You Cassandra,

A brother.A fan.

Onyeabo
Elgo
User ID: 1112324
Jul 22nd 11:22 PM
Cassandra,

I enjoy watching you on BB and wish they would have you on screen more (unlike Jordan's irratating behavior and Brittany cuddling...). I am praying you win. You outshine the others with your confidence, kind & gentle nature, strong spiritual beliefs, patience for other's fraigle human behavior, ability to deal with difficult issues with respectful grace, style and dignity. I would feel honored to have you as my daughter or friend. You truly are a wonderful person who shows America how they should deal with things in today's society. However, I disagree with your statement to Will about getting in a "White Woman's" face. I wish you had left skin pigmentation out of the statement. He should not get in anyone's face! Anyway, I am sure you can relax now that Will is gone. It had to be a trial trying to deal with him 24 hours a day with no real escape from the havoc he caused.

I would be honored to have an email response from you. Good luck and God bless. I will pray for your healh and happiness. Elgoproverbs1620@aol.com
Zoe
User ID: 1550764
Jul 24th 6:11 AM
You are all about class. You have integrity warmth and the public is precieving you in a awesome manner. I hope you or George wins. If I had to be secluded with 10 people I would hope one was like you so I would and could have an intelligent conversation with.
Jamie
User ID: 0694274
Jul 26th 1:40 AM
You have to be the most honest, nicest person I've ever seen on TV, wish you the best!!
Michelle
User ID: 9579203
Jul 26th 4:45 PM
Cassandra,
I, too, hope you win. In my opinion you are the most intelligent, grounded, and dignified person in the house. I feel for you being imprisoned with a bunch of immature, game-playing kids! I respect the way you interacted with Will to get him to tone down his attitude. I must admit, I was taken aback with your comment to the houseguests in the living room after Will's banishment about "getting in a white woman's face". What was that all about?

Rose
User ID: 9405543
Jul 30th 10:11 AM
Cassandra,
I sure hope that the young girls learn from you,
You are such a LADY. I love watching you, I could even learn a thing or two from you.
You walk proud, You talk with honesty and listen with your heart.I think you would be so wonderful working with children. We need more Cassandra's in the world, Thank you for reminding me, being and acting like a Lady is so important.
I loved what you said to Will, You told him that he could be a good role model if he would have shown his good side. You always try to see peoples good side first.
Someone in one of these letter mentioned Oprah.
If she doesnt have you on her show she is crazy,
I would love to see you on her show. And Rosie Odonalds show . I just would like to see more of you after BB.
Best wishes to you.
Rose
Joyce
User ID: 2066234
Jul 30th 4:48 PM
Cassandra,
I too admire your class, style and good sense of self. I wish I had your patience. I'm glad to say that I do have friends who have qualities similiar to what we have seen from you. They are good people who deal well with day to day life, it's ups and downs, and don't become wild, whinning and childish.
Thanks for reminding people that not everyone is self centered and selfish.
I've enjoyed meeting you through Big Brother. I realize we see only a snippit of Cassandra, and I believe you have charmed those who have seen the program.
I hope your life is happy and healthy and all you wish and strive for it to become.
ThrillRide1
User ID: 7775003
Jul 30th 7:53 PM
Cass for Congress...Think about it.
Jeanette
User ID: 2080414
Jul 31st 0:10 AM
We believe in you. Go all the way Cass and show the world what being a "real" human being is all about. Your grace and insight has reminded me to listen more than speak. And your kind spirit in the house has rekindled mine. Thanks for that gift. jeanettemarie@mindspring.com
Linda
User ID: 2003384
Jul 31st 2:21 PM
You have my vote for common sense and patience. You are the only one in the house I could stand to be around for long. I enjoy the variety of personalities but I don't have to live with them. Good Luck!!!
Nancy
User ID: 0456964
Jul 31st 7:13 PM
Just wanted to let you know that I think you are full of class!!! I look up to you so much and wish that the world was full of more people like you!! Good luck on the show!! You are a true lady!!! : )
redx
User ID: 1898874
Jul 31st 8:09 PM
I agree with all that has been said about your grace and class and intelligence. I adore you, Cass! If I were in that house you and I would be tight friends. I guess the only thing I wanted to add to all of the comments that others have made about you is that you are BEAUTIFUL. I mean not only on the inside, but also on the outside. How on earth have you managed to stay single so long?

You are the best, my friend, the best.

Kara
User ID: 0136334
Aug 1st 11:18 AM
Cass, you are a phenomenal woman! In the house you are the voice of wisdom, level headed-ness, and understanding. Blessed are the peacemakers.
May all your dreams come true!
Khristy
User ID: 0213374
Aug 2nd 1:25 PM
Cassandra - you are such an awesome woman! We are the same age yet your wisdom far exceeds mine!! You and my husband are so similar - sometimes listening to you - sounds like you guys may be twins :)

Thanks for being level headed, sincere, intelligent and everything that you are. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that CBS does a good job editing you making it possible for the tv viewers to see the wonderful person that you are.
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GJC
User ID: 0220464
Jul 20th 5:06 AM
Cassandra,

It's too early to tell how it will all turn out but having followed the show fairly closely the last few weeks I think you're the only one there with any sense whatsoever. Aack!

For the most part, they all seem like nice people but common sense wasn't part of the initial criteria, it seems. KUDOS to you for working with Will and helping him to realize where his social faults lie. KUDOS to you for understanding people are people. No one, despite race, education, etc., is more ''worthy'' than the next except through understanding and caring and love for one another.

I wish you the best and hope you WIN. And if you don't win this silly BB game, you won more than a fan or two or a hundred thousand watching. You're pure class.

{WASP},
GJC
Khristy
User ID: 0213374
Aug 2nd 1:25 PM
Cassandra - you are such an awesome woman! We are the same age yet your wisdom far exceeds mine!! You and my husband are so similar - sometimes listening to you - sounds like you guys may be twins :)

Thanks for being level headed, sincere, intelligent and everything that you are. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that CBS does a good job editing you making it possible for the tv viewers to see the wonderful person that you are.
I WISH Cass Wins!!!!
User ID: 9697893
Aug 3rd 4:06 PM
Hello Cassandra!

I am one of your youngest and biggest fans! You truly are one of the most remarkable people I have ever had the chance to see, anywhere. I admire your work with the UN and I hope the best for you in your future endeavors. You are my favorite houseguest, and I hope you come out with the $500,000.000. If you don't, I will be very angry, and I will raise hell! hehe. Thank you for being a wonderful rolemodel in a day and age of Jordan's and Karen's, oh yeah, and Eddie's! Whatcha have against him anyway? lol Bye!
=D

~Melissa

Jake

Tuesday, August 08, 2000 - 01:36 am Click here to edit this post

Cassandra,

I am with everyone else here in admiring your poise, class, equanamity, fairness, logic, control, objectiveness and maturity. It's hard to say anything original, but suffice it to say, you are ADMIRED.

What I'd also like to say (especially to those who say, "She's 30something.. why isn't she married?") is don't sweat it hon.

I was listening to the show tonite where Karen asked how long it had been since you've dated last, and you replied to the tune of, "There isn't anyone around me that I've said Hey... I want to date HIM." You'd rather say, "Get away from me" or something like that. Cassandra... I understand EXACTLY what that feels like! There was a period recently where I didn't date for 4 years. There was absolutely NOBODY who interested me in my immediate physical circle. I had relegated myself (in my late 30s) to probably spending the rest of my life alone. So be it. I wasn't about to "settle" just to be married, or to have a boyfriend.

But, one day, I met somebody on the internet. I wasn't looking for anyone, I wasn't looking for romance. We formed a friendship that grew from there. With much money sunk into long distance phonecalls and cross-country (VA/CA) plane trips *lol* we decided to marry. I was 41 at the time, and first time married.

So, Cassandra... to be 37 and not married.. not a big deal! When that person comes along for you, it will happen. I think my marriage having come at a time when I knew what I wanted in life, and what kind of person I wanted to spend it with is a much stronger marriage than many that are formed right out of school. So take your time, girl... I know you will! *smiles*

Oh, and no matter how serious and dedicated and goal-oriented you are... take some time out for yourself.. and treat yourself to some fun. You have a beautiful smile when you choose to smile. I'd sure like to see it on your face more often. You are already respected and admired, now allow yourself to have some fun... you might find that you'd enjoy it! Best of luck to you, Cassandra.. I'm pulling for you to WIN!!!

PS: If you ever are interested in emailing, I can be reached at jjjohns@jps.net and I would really enjoy pursuing some thoughts you've provoked by different things you've said in the house.

Palladin

Tuesday, August 15, 2000 - 09:13 am Click here to edit this post

Cassandra:
You are the classiest lady I've seen for a long time!
The only thing I don't understand is how CBS messed up by putting both you and Curtis on the show.
Surely they didn't recognize the great character that you both have, but then again, how could they?

Chris

Thursday, September 07, 2000 - 11:33 am Click here to edit this post

Cassandra, you have been one of my favorites to win, and I still think you would be the most interesting person of the 10 houseguests to know. When you smile, it makes me want to smile too.

Yesterday you were nominated along with Curtis and Eddy. At first I thought that I would not vote for any of you, and just abstain from voting on this round.

Then I got to thinking about my rationale for voting the last round, when everyone but Jamie was nominated. I nominated George because of his relentless harrassment of Josh, Brittany because of her neediness, and Eddy because of a racist joke he told early on in the show. Eddy had since proven to me that he had a good heart, and I think he has a soft spot for you. Though I don't consider him a racist, what he said was very insensitive, and a nasty blunder on a show that has turned into a personality contest. I voted for him just because I had decided that I would when he told that joke.

Today I decided that I would vote this week, for you. What you said in the Red Room a few weeks ago about square dancing being offensive to you because of your upbringing has been nagging at me. If there had been a challenge to learn an african-american dance, and a white person had expressed such an objection, s/he would have been tarred and feathered for racism. I'm afraid I have to hold you to the same standard as I had for Eddy. I was raised to believe that "what is good for the goose, is good for the gander". Holding a different standard for someone because of their race is racist, regardless of what race the person is. Just as I felt I had to nominate Eddy for his joke, I also have to vote for you because of that remark. But just like Eddy, my vote for you is a one time thing. If you survive, I will not vote for you again.

Maryk16

Friday, September 08, 2000 - 09:14 pm Click here to edit this post

Cassandra,

I am a 35 year-old Caucasian woman. I will never know what it is like to be African American. My sister, who was adopted is half African American and half East Indian. I know what it's like to see racism first hand. When I was in 5th grade, going to an all white Catholic school (except for my sister), a classmate called my sister a "n....." I punched her lights out!! Because of my experiences, I have definite opinions about white families raising black children. They can't fully embrace the African American culture and my sister was robbed of that in a way even though my parents tried.

I just want to say that there is racism out there, and a lot of it is subtle as you probably are aware of. I appreciate your willingness to bring this up to the public. We need to teach tolerance as a way of life. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us!

Jan

Monday, September 11, 2000 - 08:25 pm Click here to edit this post

Cassandra,

Your name along with several other house guests, has become a household name in my home. My two daughters (19 and 7) both have admired you as we watch Big Brother together. There are not many people other than you I would want as my children's TV role model.

Thank you for sharing a part of yourself with not only the other nine people in the BB house -- but in my house also.

Homer

Tuesday, September 12, 2000 - 11:37 am Click here to edit this post

Cassandra, you have my utmost admiration. Thank you for adding so much to the lifeblood of Big Brother. I was hoping you'd end up in the money, but if that's not to be, then I'll take this opportunity to wish you all the best that life has to offer. You'll be missed.

Babster

Tuesday, September 12, 2000 - 11:42 am Click here to edit this post

Dear Cassandra:

What can I say? This whole experience has been richer for the other houseguests and the viewers because of you. In my mind you were, by far, the most interesting person in that house. I wish you all the best in your life and hope that this experience will benefit you in all the wonderful ways you wish it. Your poise, grace and soft humor has been a shining example for all of us. Good luck in the future.

Gonnagetfired

Tuesday, September 12, 2000 - 12:19 pm Click here to edit this post

Cassandra,
If you are reading this, then you have been banished on Wednesday. I think that is unfortunate. You are one of the houseguests I most admire and respect. I think you conducted yourself in a excellent manner while you were in the Big Brother house. I can imagine that was not an easy environment to be in. The only other thing I could say is that your application video for Big Brother (where you say Money, money, money) showed a different side of you. I wish that you had revealed that humorous side more often during your time in the house. I bet you are really fun when you let your hair down! I wish you the best of luck in whatever you do in your post-BB life.

Michelle

p.s. - Love the Dreds!

Spot

Tuesday, September 12, 2000 - 12:25 pm Click here to edit this post

Dear Cassandra,

It must be strange receiving all of these "fan" letters from total strangers. Thank you, thank you for allowing all us, some stranger than others, to be a part of you life for the past 70-ish days. I can only echo all of the positive comments you have already received. I especially admire your mature outlook on the situation in which you were placed. So leave with your head held high and have a wonderful reunion with your family! Hooray for you!!

Sincerely (if only electronically!)
"Spot"

Midwestern

Tuesday, September 12, 2000 - 12:50 pm Click here to edit this post

Dear Cassandra,

You have been my favorite houseguest since the show started because you remind me of a former co-worker who I admire. I wish you weren't leaving the house, but I know you'll continue to be successful on the outside. I remember early in the show that you hoped this experience would open doors for you so you could use the media to promote issues related to world hunger (from the the live internet feeds...yes, people watched and paid attention!). I hope we see more of you in the future and I hope lots of doors open for you.
Good luck and I'll miss watching you!!

Lynnseamonkey

Tuesday, September 12, 2000 - 01:31 pm Click here to edit this post

Cassandra,
It looks like you may be leaving tonight (polls, your family going to LA, and your own instinctive
feelings).

Just know that your touch of class has been appreciated. If you leave tonight, I'll miss
you on the live feeds and the show.

I've also enjoyed the way you immediately took
to the pug. Your face lit up!!

And there have been other times when the playful
part of you had been more evident and I just smile.

I know you'll continue to have an interesting life and I wish you all success and happiness.

Lynn Duncan (duncanetal@aol.com)

Keywestie

Tuesday, September 12, 2000 - 01:50 pm Click here to edit this post

Cass - Based on current polls and rumors of your family traveling to LA, it looks like you may be leaving the house. If so.... What a great addition you have been to Big Brother. You've been my favorite all along. I appreciate your diplomacy, your carefully chosen words of advice to your fellow houseguests and your witty moments. It was a pleasure to see you enjoying yourself on the live feeds even if a lot of it never came through on the broadcasts. You are one class act. I hope you had a blast and a rewarding experience. And, if you ever have concern about your representation of black America, everyone of all races can be proud of your behavior in the house. You Go Girl!

Len (roskey1@aol.com)

Katie

Tuesday, September 12, 2000 - 03:38 pm Click here to edit this post

Here is the email address for the family member who is flying to LA tomorrow.

(I removed the e-mail address here for the same reason I removed it from the thread in General Disc. Area see my post below - ryn)


He has said that he will take messages to her. Please only send the nice ones. She will see the mean ones soon enough.

Ryn

Wednesday, September 13, 2000 - 06:18 am Click here to edit this post

Katie, I have been mailing THESE posts to him, I prefered not to publish his e-mail on this board. He has also joined BBFC as of yesterday ;)

Nance

Wednesday, September 13, 2000 - 09:25 am Click here to edit this post

Cass you go girl, you have been such a lift to the BB show. You have so much grace,dignity and class. I had wished you'd be one of the top three winners,and I voted often to try to keep you in the house,it will be a sad day for the hgs to realize what a fine woman they have put up for nomination.You were up against the other 2 people many want to see continue to win the game.
Out of all the hgs I see you doing many great things...The very best to you! Nance jenmar4ever@home.com

Watweety

Wednesday, September 13, 2000 - 04:19 pm Click here to edit this post

Cassandra:

I also want to agree with all the other post here about what a classy lady you are. Thank you for going out of your way to allow America to see that women can be classy and independent.

I have heard alot of comments that people were suprised you did not make more public issue of how rude some where in the house. Yet, A classy woman never does! Thank you for gracing my tv for the last 2 months. If you are banished tonite as the polls are saying I will be saddened to see you go. You did have a great impact on the show.

Susan

Thoughtpolice

Wednesday, September 13, 2000 - 06:49 pm Click here to edit this post

Cassandra,

Throughout the weeks, I've envied your ability to act with dignity and maintain your poise while living with a group of HGs whose antics would try the patience of a saint.

I watched the show and feeds for hours on end (yes, I was an addict)and shook my head in admiration - how did you stay so calm, cool and collected? I'm older than you so it's not a matter of age - I would have lost my temper countless times.

I am incredibly disappointed that you have been banished. Without your presence, I fear the show will quickly degenerate into a reenactment of Animal House.

Thank you for sharing a bit of yourself for our enjoyment.

Kristy

Thursday, September 14, 2000 - 03:33 pm Click here to edit this post

Cass-

I truly respected the boundaries you set for yourself in the house. I feel you exhibited great strength and maturity and as a professional, intelligent, attractive woman in her 30's...you are a great role model! I am sorry you were banished, but I know you will go on to do great things with your life. Thanks for letting us get to know you.

Motoole

Tuesday, September 19, 2000 - 10:33 am Click here to edit this post

Cassandra,
My husband and I have been watching since the beginning and want you to know how much we appreciate your grace under pressure. You've set an excellent example to lots of folks out there, especially women. We rooted for you from the beginning and cheered you on consistently.
We are proud of you too!
Thanks for everything! M&M

Twiggyish

Tuesday, September 19, 2000 - 07:41 pm Click here to edit this post

Cass, you are one of my favorite people. There is a lot about you which reminds me of myself. I am reserved as well. May you have every success in life!

Pugrules

Tuesday, September 26, 2000 - 08:56 am Click here to edit this post

Cassandra,
I have the utmost admiration for the class and poise you have shown. You should be the happiest of any of the housemates with how you came across to the public; you are indeed a role model. Your diplomatic training certainly shines. I hope that your wisdom and maturity were an example that the others will want to follow.
Your exit interview with Julie was excellent. I am sure not many people could have left the house and immediately done an interview that was so eloquent. I was also pleased with what you chose to talk to the houseguests about when you went back in.
I heard you were from Havre de Grace. I am from Baltimore, but my company had an office in Havre de Grace. It's nice to see a hometown girl make good.
Good luck in your professional life. You can't help but be a winner.

peachey@bellatlantic.net