I feel bad for Cassandra

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John

Thursday, October 05, 2000 - 02:40 pm Click here to edit this post

Although I imagine she wanted to just kind of fade out of sight, I feel bad that no one seems to mention her much. No one seems to say they'll want to keep in contact with her. I'd like to know if Karen is truly mad at her as Cass sometimes specualated and why if so. She was nice enough to offer to put up anyone who wanted to drop by. I suspect Mega and George would keep in touch with her out of anyone, but I wonder if even Eddie living in the same city as her will ever just call up or come over. I would much rather stay in touch with her than I would Mega, Jordan, Josh, or Eddie.

Doc99

Thursday, October 05, 2000 - 04:04 pm Click here to edit this post

I think that when people heard that she hadn't watched any of the tapes or rest of the show they probably decided she wasn't interested. She had said she "didn't want to ruin the experience" and that experience was all inside the house. Just a thought.

Ocean_Islands

Thursday, October 05, 2000 - 06:52 pm Click here to edit this post

Ignorance is bliss only for the ignorant one. For us, it's just boring.

Marysafan

Friday, October 06, 2000 - 07:49 am Click here to edit this post

I think that Curtis will definitely keep in touch with Cassandra. Truthfully, other than having shared this experience...what other basis is there for a continued relationship? She had much more to offer the houseguests than they had to offer her (IMHO).

Karuuna

Friday, October 06, 2000 - 09:03 am Click here to edit this post

It is interesting to me that most have not mentioned her once they got out of the house. After all, it was Cassandra they requested when they had a chance to have one of the previous house guests visit. They apparently trusted her the most to give them accurate, but not hurtful, information. Of course, we'll probably never know what might have happened after they were reunited. Maybe they do just feel like Cassandra would like to move on with her life, and are trying to respect that?

Riviere76

Friday, October 06, 2000 - 09:59 am Click here to edit this post

The HGs had no way of knowing Cassandra didn't want to see 1 tape after leaving, they assumed she'd be a wealth of info since she was the most recent banishee. She told them upfront that she hadn't seen any tapes, a blow to fame seeking George & Jamie who were eager for news about how well they were doing. Even if Cass had read some of these boards, she'd never repeat hurtful posts about them, and they had many. I always admired Cass for just wanting her life back. She never really 'clicked' with anyone, many of her nights spent trying to get away from the love bed, the noisy drunken partying, and silliness, that's the thing that makes me feel bad for her, everything she had to put up with being a reserved, mature person surrounded by immature kiddies and a clown going through his second childhood. I wouldn't want to remain close with the HGs either. Aside from the shared experience of doing BB together, can't see why Cass would feel a friends4ever bond with any of them. Maybe Cass feels kinda like me about moving on, if I had to spend 60 days in a jail, I don't think I'd want future contact with my fellow inmates, not the ones who acted like jerks anyway.

Judy

Friday, October 06, 2000 - 10:12 am Click here to edit this post

True, I don't think she will be pals with any of them, but I think that once things settle down they will stay in touch. Basically the friendly - "Hey, I am in town for a couple days, wanna meet for a drink?" type e-mail , X-mas card relationship. Nothing wrong with that - esp. since that is obviously the way she wants it to be:)

Fruitbat

Friday, October 06, 2000 - 10:29 am Click here to edit this post

Judy...I am following you around this moring agreeing with all that you say. Yep on this one too! :)

John

Friday, October 06, 2000 - 10:38 am Click here to edit this post

Another reason I'd want to keep in contact with her is just out of curiosity to see what she is like on the outside. Did anyone else notice that the moment she went out the gate she seemed to transform from her stately manner to fun? Plus, I still get a laugh out of her audition tape where she said she'd have everyone wrapped around her finger. Where was that person? Only time we really saw that was the vegetable peeling incident (and Jamie was the one who started that, but that's another discussion).

Judy

Friday, October 06, 2000 - 11:09 am Click here to edit this post

lol fruitbat, Is it what I am saying or my chiquita banana type headgear I've got on today:)?

Katie

Friday, October 06, 2000 - 11:17 am Click here to edit this post

Got this message from her cousin Tony this morning.

Hello all. I just wanted to let you know that Cassandra is back home but she's trying to get some much needed rest. Flying back and forth from NY to LA with not much sleep has caught up to her. She will be posting a message on the board sometime today. We are arranging the chat session in the next couple of days. Thanks.

U__DA__MAN (Tony)

Fruitbat

Friday, October 06, 2000 - 11:31 am Click here to edit this post

Thanks Katie.

No Judy, I actually think the head gear is over the top, but I am loving your shoes!