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Colordeagua
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10-25-2003

Saturday, April 03, 2010 - 2:33 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Colordeagua a private message Print Post    
Shoot. I recorded the program, but I've already dumped it.

Goddessatlaw
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07-19-2002

Saturday, April 03, 2010 - 2:35 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Goddessatlaw a private message Print Post    
Cricket, I think Christine Marie was on her paternal grandmother's side, but that's only from the brief mental snapshot I have of the scroll she was presented with at the beginning of the show.

Colordeagua
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10-25-2003

Saturday, April 03, 2010 - 2:39 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Colordeagua a private message Print Post    
I have some contact with some cousins. Of five grandchildren on my mother's side, I'm the oldest. Of 20 on my father's side, I'm the youngest. Some of my cousins are really old. (!!!)

Something sort of related to geneology. I have a photo of my Dad in Cheltenham, England during WWII. For a while he was billeted in a private home there. Photo is of the homeowners and my Dad is holding their infant son. I wasn't totally without info about the people in the picture. So with the help of the internet, a few years ago I made contact with that infant. He's just a few years older than me.

Twiggyish
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08-14-2000

Saturday, April 03, 2010 - 5:23 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Twiggyish a private message Print Post    
I missed this episode with Brooke.

Aurora
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11-24-2006

Saturday, April 03, 2010 - 5:59 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Aurora a private message Print Post    
You can watch it online, Twiggyish.

http://www.nbc.com/who-do-you-think-you-are/bios/brookeS.shtml?sssdmh=dm13.241427&o_iid=43282&o_lid=43282

Riviere
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09-09-2000

Sunday, April 04, 2010 - 1:40 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Riviere a private message Print Post    
Finally got to watch the Brooke Shields episode! Yes, her father's line was traced back to Italy and France nobility. Her mother's line was more obscure. That's usually how it goes in genealogy where an "important line" marries into an unknown family making us "mutts" of lopsided heritage...
She was very intuitive to have studied French but also in awe of the royal links, she reminded me of myself not jumping up & down to learn she had nobility ~ but quietly digest it. True, she has few kin to share with but I'm an orphan who just wanted to know my ancestry, curiosity? It is always good for distant cousins and their own descendants to start...
Wish the show went on forever ~ family trees never end!

Grooch
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06-16-2006

Sunday, April 04, 2010 - 2:23 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Grooch a private message Print Post    
What is the difference between a cousin once removed and a second cousin? What would be a fifth cousin?

These terms always confuse me.

Aurora
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11-24-2006

Sunday, April 04, 2010 - 6:17 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Aurora a private message Print Post    
A cousin once removed is children of cousins. A second cousin is what you call children of your cousin. Fifth cousins share the same great-great-great-great grandparents as you.

http://www.genealogy.com/16_cousn.html



My mother was a real stickler about this. So many people use the terms incorrectly that I've given up trying to explain the difference in the real world. I'm happy for the chance to explain it here. :-)

Julieboo
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02-05-2002

Sunday, April 04, 2010 - 6:35 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Julieboo a private message Print Post    
Aurora, isn't this:

A cousin once removed is children of cousins. A second cousin is what you call children of your cousin.

saying that both a cousin once removed AND a second cousin are the same thing??

A cousin once removed is children of cousins.
A second cousin is what you call children of your cousin.

Aurora
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11-24-2006

Sunday, April 04, 2010 - 6:47 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Aurora a private message Print Post    
Look at it like this. Your children and the children of your brothers and sisters are cousins once removed. They share the same grandparents.

You and your cousins share the same great grandparents, so you are second cousin.

The words "once removed" mean that there is a difference of one generation. For example, your mother's first cousin is your first cousin, once removed. This is because your mother's first cousin is one generation younger than your grandparents and you are two generations younger than your grandparents. This one-generation difference equals "once removed".

Rissa
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03-19-2006

Sunday, April 04, 2010 - 7:27 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Rissa a private message Print Post    
Didn't enjoy this one (Shields). I love the stories and the emotional connections. Just listing off a bunch of famous kin does nothing for me.

Colordeagua
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10-25-2003

Sunday, April 04, 2010 - 7:51 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Colordeagua a private message Print Post    
A cousin once removed is children of cousins. A second cousin is what you call children of your cousin. Fifth cousins share the same great-great-great-great grandparents as you.

I think Aurora's first explanation is simpler. Cousins once removed is the relationship between children of cousins (first cousins).

Second cousins is the relationship between you and your parents' cousins or you and children of your cousins. (That's how I'm related to Greg Mortenson, author and subject of the books "Three Cups of Tea" and "Stones Into Schools" and nominee for 2009 Nobel Peace Prize.)

Ophiliasgrandma
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09-04-2001

Sunday, April 04, 2010 - 9:55 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Ophiliasgrandma a private message Print Post    
I thoroughly enjoyed Brook's episode. Imagine have a 'great' born in the Louvre...and all those beautiful buildings that belonged to her ancesters. Wow!

Goddessatlaw
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07-19-2002

Sunday, April 04, 2010 - 10:42 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Goddessatlaw a private message Print Post    
Your 1st cousin had a child. That child is your first cousin once removed. If that child has a child that is your 1st cousin 2x (2 generations) removed. You have a child and your cousin has a child - those two children are second cousins. If those two children have children, their children are 3rd cousins.

Kookliebird
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08-04-2005

Sunday, April 04, 2010 - 11:11 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Kookliebird a private message Print Post    
I didn't know that we would have to do math with this show!

Chieko
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11-20-2003

Sunday, April 04, 2010 - 12:07 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Chieko a private message Print Post    
GAL's explanation is right! Children of siblings are first cousins, their children are second cousins to each other, the children of the second cousins are third cousins to each other, ect. And the explanation of "removed" is correct that it is a difference in generations. My mother's first cousin is my first cousin once removed, and on we go.

Cricket
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08-05-2002

Sunday, April 04, 2010 - 1:03 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Cricket a private message Print Post    
Cricket, I think Christine Marie was on her paternal grandmother's side, but that's only from the brief mental snapshot I have of the scroll she was presented with at the beginning of the show.

Thanks, Goddess. It was very hard to see with the brief shot they gave of the lineage. It would seem then that Brooke does indeed come from French ancestry.

Twiggyish
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08-14-2000

Sunday, April 04, 2010 - 3:43 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Twiggyish a private message Print Post    
I think I understand..LOL In my family, my daughter calls my first cousins aunts and they introduce her as a niece. I know it confuses people, but my cousins and I were raised like sisters.

Goddessatlaw
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07-19-2002

Sunday, April 04, 2010 - 6:08 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Goddessatlaw a private message Print Post    
Growing up I remember being confused about my family relationships because my parents cousins and family friends were called aunt and uncle. I've always tried to steer away from that with my cousins kids and my friends kids to avoid passing on the confusion (although the natural tendency of the cousins' kids is to call me aunt). The southern "Miss" or "Mr." First Name is a nice in-between that shows respect for elders without a relational designation.

Riviere
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09-09-2000

Monday, April 05, 2010 - 6:51 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Riviere a private message Print Post    
Same here, my Mom wanted me to call her own dear First Cousins, my Aunts or Uncles... They were my First Cousins, once removed though... Their children were my 2nd cousins since we shared the grandparents... My hubby's mother insisted that her kids call Family Friends a more familiar name, too. Very confusing!!! Some of genealogy programs have a 'built in' calculator ~ handy! I was not too surprised to see the woman marrying my uncle was my Mom's 4th cousin making her dau my 5th cousin. I simply knew her as Aunt Betty per the marriage to Dad'a uncle... The lines never merged until I was borm and had to sort it all out! The gal I stay in touch with now is my 1st cousin once removed on Dad's side and 5th cousin on Mom's side because inlaws frequently married in those days! I say good ~ it is less work tracing a family tree whose main branches twist right back in like a pretzel. Our common ancestor of that line was born in 1700s NJ but as usual ~ nobody kept notes...

Mameblanche
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08-24-2002

Monday, April 05, 2010 - 9:15 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mameblanche a private message Print Post    
So my first cousins kids are my... what?

Goddessatlaw
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07-19-2002

Monday, April 05, 2010 - 9:49 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Goddessatlaw a private message Print Post    
First cousins once removed LOL.

Mameblanche
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08-24-2002

Monday, April 05, 2010 - 10:23 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mameblanche a private message Print Post    
Thanks GAL! I find the whole thing way too confusing.

Goddessatlaw
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07-19-2002

Saturday, April 10, 2010 - 8:38 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Goddessatlaw a private message Print Post    
In news of the "It's a Small World" vein, I had scheduled an interview of a WWII veteran for a Veteran's Remember project yesterday. To surprise him with a "thank you" gift for discussing his experiences (which were awesome, he was in the Battle of the Bulge and the push to Berlin, helped free and return home prisoners from a concentration camp, he even had photos of the children they pulled out of the camp), I did some genealogical research hoping to find a Revolutionary War veteran in his background to surprise him with. Well, I did in fact find that, and also found out that he and I are cousins - his 7th great grandfather is also my 8th great-grandfather.

What a charmed visit we had. This kind of weird happenstance occurs ALL THE TIME in genealogy.

Mamabatsy
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08-05-2005

Saturday, April 10, 2010 - 9:17 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mamabatsy a private message Print Post    
Yesterday morning I saw a bumper sticker that reminded me of all of you. It said:

Genealogists

Collect Dead Relatives

I thought it was cute because the first thing you see is the second line - shocking.