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Dlkuhn4
Member
07-14-2002
| Monday, February 22, 2010 - 4:30 pm
Some girl never grow up from HS. A lot of times we say girls are just mean in hS because they haven't grown up but it's really not true. I have seen so many people who act the same way when they get around their hS friends. The mean girls still talk about other girls. Alot of people dream about going back t school and and telling off the ones who hurt them in school and it really doesn't do any good because they still still don't think they did anything wrong. I see people I knew in school on facebook and they are still laughing or talking down about people.
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Sia
Member
03-10-2002
| Tuesday, February 23, 2010 - 4:16 pm
Hello, Dlkuhn. I don't think you & I have met before; nice to meet you. When I read your post it made me think: I didn't enjoy my h.s. experience, so maybe that's why I've never tried facebook, twitter or myspace. I guess if I joined one of them I'm afraid ppl would still be mean to me. I much prefer the clubhouse, where ppl haven't judged me based upon my looks.
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Brenda1966
Member
07-03-2002
| Tuesday, February 23, 2010 - 5:00 pm
I'm sorry Sia! On Facebook, you just friend people who are your real friends. So, no one to be mean to you. And then if there's anyone from your past you can find them and chat with them if you like, or not. I have not seen people on FB being mean to each other or talking bad about others. But mostly my friends are other moms, and we post about our kids or movies we've seen or fun things we're doing. Not HS-ish at all!
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Mamie316
Member
07-08-2003
| Tuesday, February 23, 2010 - 5:54 pm
I only am friends with those I was friends in high school with. I have to say though that I had a really good high school experience, I was a cheerleader, etc. but there were some that I would not even want to talk to now. A friend of mine recently married someone that we went to high school with and was sent a friend invite with someone that totally ignored her until she married this guy. She said if I wasn't good enough before, I'm still not good enough now. Forget her!
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Rosie
Member
11-12-2003
| Wednesday, February 24, 2010 - 2:26 pm
From TVLand: The Cheerleaders’ party spirals out of control and John (The Troublemaker) pushes everyone to the breaking point. By the end of the night, one of the classmates leaves the reunion for good.
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Mamie316
Member
07-08-2003
| Wednesday, February 24, 2010 - 2:32 pm
I have a feeling it won't be John that leaves.
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Rosie
Member
11-12-2003
| Wednesday, February 24, 2010 - 2:43 pm
LOL Mamie. I was thinking the same thing.
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Laura11103
Member
08-13-2002
| Wednesday, February 24, 2010 - 3:08 pm
I am loving Joe and Rachelle... they seem definitely for real, I bet they will last outside the resort. I wasn't impressed with Joe's looks in the beginning but now I think he's absolutely gorgeous... and he was so cool with her ex husband, he was obviously nervous but she's totally worth it to him...go Rachelle!
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Ahnicka
Member
08-08-2007
| Wednesday, February 24, 2010 - 5:41 pm
Does anyone know why the cheerleaders are referred to and spelled as the CheerleadIRRS or the IRRS? I don't get it. Does it stand for something or mean something? I must have missed that part.
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Dlkuhn4
Member
07-14-2002
| Wednesday, February 24, 2010 - 8:30 pm
I'm sorry to say that there are some people on facebook and myspace who were friends in school and they talk about people from school and laugh that they got fat, etc. I am friends with people that I was friends with in school or other Mom's that I know now so I don't have the HS drama going on on my page. But believe me it's out there. I was looking at pictures of my very beautiful friend and there were people posting comments to her about how old she looked and fat. These are people who she wanted to be friends with in school but they didn't have the time for her. You can't tell her to delete them because she feels like she is a part of the crowd now. It's very sad. You really should try facebook because has long as you friend your Real friends and family it is a fun way to stay in touch.
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Dlkuhn4
Member
07-14-2002
| Wednesday, February 24, 2010 - 8:30 pm
Sia nice to meet you too!! 
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Babyjaxmom
Member
10-20-2002
| Wednesday, February 24, 2010 - 8:37 pm
Sorry to hear that, Dlkuhn4. I have friends on Facebook and have been to lots of reunions since I graduated from hs. I graduated in 1973, so it's been a while, but after the first 10 years or so most people get over the petty hs stuff and now we're all just glad to still be around after nearly 37 years! I haven't seen that meanness on FB. If people are mean, they deserve to be blocked (and need to grow the heck up!).
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Dlkuhn4
Member
07-14-2002
| Wednesday, February 24, 2010 - 8:57 pm
Yes I agree and that is why I don't have that problem on my facebook. It's just some people never grow up and some people never stop wanting to be a part of the in crowd. I guess that's how they come up with people to go on these shows. I have never had any problems and I am thankful. I am just saying that it is out there. I have never been to my reunion but it's because I live to far away. My class is 86
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Mamie316
Member
07-08-2003
| Thursday, February 25, 2010 - 10:11 am
Well it was John! I'll be! I was impressed with Justin for stepping up and getting him out of there. The wedding was really sweet. It will be interesting to see what happens next week.
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Rosie
Member
11-12-2003
| Thursday, February 25, 2010 - 10:38 am
Even after they managed to get John out of there, I still thought that John would sneak back in. Justin was great taking care of the Teacher's Pet and handling John. I couldn't believe that Teacher's Pet felt like confronting John while Justin was trying to calm John down and get him packed to leave. She was just stirring John up again. I was shocked that John grabbed Eric's crotch. I just don't know about Joe. His track record makes me wonder about how long this relationship with Rachelle will last. I realize they are both "in lust", but love?
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Ahnicka
Member
08-08-2007
| Thursday, February 25, 2010 - 11:39 am
I'm about 12 minutes into watching last night's episode and I notice that Marcel (The Prankster, Valley High guy) is noticeably absent during all of the drama. Did anyone see him there? Where'd he go? Last week's episode I think he was at the party.
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Babyjaxmom
Member
10-20-2002
| Thursday, February 25, 2010 - 2:59 pm
I just have to say that confronting John will he was so drunk was not only stupid but dangerous. She's lucky he didn't take a swing at her. You can't talk to someone who's out of their mind on drugs or alcohol. I actually feel sorry for John. He's angry and miserable. That's why he drinks so much. He's going to die alone and much sooner than he should if he doesn't sober up. And omg is Eric an ugly woman! Someone needs to teach him about makeup. He had on more eye makeup than Tammy Faye! Yikes! How cute are Tracey and Treda? I loved when they were reading the Hall Pass about spending an evening with the love of their lives and he goes, "And that would be you!" Too sweet!
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Sia
Member
03-10-2002
| Thursday, February 25, 2010 - 6:26 pm
Happy that the Valley guys stepped up (Justin in particular) & united w/ the Chaps to oust Toxic John! A "friend" of mine from college from our freshman year developed schizophrenia & never graduated. I introduced his widowed mother to my uncle over a year ago, & they are happily married. The son (college friend) blames me & his sister told me that he posted a lot of horrible things about me on facebook. He has apparently commented about my weight, etc. What can I do about it? It hurts my feelings, and the sister said he actually posted my full name. Worse yet, my husband is actually this guy's 3rd or 4th cousin!
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Rosie
Member
11-12-2003
| Thursday, February 25, 2010 - 7:34 pm
No idea what happened with Marcel. Heck, I was surprised to see Antanus and his girlfriend back for the T & T ceremony. Sia, sorry but can't help you out with facebook. You might try this facebook thread or contact facebook directly: ../9200/6435619.html"#DEE7EF"> | Willwillbee
Member
09-20-2001
| Sunday, February 28, 2010 - 3:44 am
I *think* it was facebook that someone was slandering people (including me) it was reported & removed before I got to see it but it was slandering online nics, not even real names. I'd suggest contacting facebook & file a formal complaint.
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Laura11103
Member
08-13-2002
| Monday, March 01, 2010 - 3:04 pm
Yeah Babyjaxmom that was ridiculous for her to try and confront John when he was in the bedroom already... they made it seem like Justin made John leave but obviously someone higher up must have made the decision that he went to far and was being kicked off... On another note - boy is Joe gorgeous lol... is it me or has he gotten better looking just being with Rachelle... oh and looks like the sh*t hits the fan when he proposes - his ex-girlfriend finally loses it... he's totally lost in his feelings for Rachelle that he seems to have forgotten her exitence... I do kinda feel sorry for her, she's a very sweet lady... but hey, he's a man in love... they're ancient history... thems the breaks...
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Rosie
Member
11-12-2003
| Wednesday, March 03, 2010 - 9:01 am
Finale tonight! Joe looks pretty good to me, Laura11103. Will Rachelle accept Joe's proposal? Who will go to the prom with Eric and Cyndi? I went over to TVLand and read Joe's blog. Had to laugh because he used the word "lust" too. Joe says this is not "lust" that it is "love". Do you think John might be allowed to attend the prom?
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Sia
Member
03-10-2002
| Wednesday, March 03, 2010 - 10:19 am
Thanks, Rosie, for the reminder about the finale. I've watched this season with interest. Imo, it would be risky for Rachelle to accept Joe's marriage proposal. I thought they barely knew each other in h.s.; they've only been really acquainted for a couple of weeks. Maybe it would be wise to try their relationship in the real world for a period of time before committing to an actual engagement. I hope the show doesn't pressure them into getting engaged for sheer entertainment value for the viewing audience. Imo, not only should John NOT attend the prom, he should never receive an invitation to a future reunion for Chap H.S.!! He's not going to change; I'd write him off.
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Babyjaxmom
Member
10-20-2002
| Wednesday, March 03, 2010 - 3:12 pm
He might if he'd quit drinking. I've known some drunks who were totally different (nice) people when they finally sobered up.
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Mamie316
Member
07-08-2003
| Wednesday, March 03, 2010 - 5:13 pm
John doesn't seem like he cares or would even think he has the problem, everyone else does. Now, I don't know if by watching this show, he might have changed, but I somehow doubt it. I hope so for his sake.
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