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Happymom
Member
01-20-2003
| Monday, December 21, 2009 - 2:24 pm
I missed it. Why is she not on good terms with her parents?
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Rissa
Member
03-19-2006
| Monday, December 21, 2009 - 2:34 pm
The rumours are that she isn't close with her parents and I believe it goes back to the birth of the six when the parents church group donated cribs, etc and Kate (rumour only) wouldn't take them unless they matched. Kate herself says she does talk to her parents often (phone and email, not sure where they live but it doesn't seem to be within driving distance) and they are close but it's the type of relationship that flourishes better at a bit of a distance. She has made cryptic remarks about some grandparents just not being as interested in being hands-on as much as others. As with most stories I would put money on the truth being somewhere in the middle.
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Mgmriver
Member
04-27-2009
| Monday, December 21, 2009 - 2:50 pm
From what we saw on the show Kate doesn't seem to be on good terms with a lot of family members. She also didn't appear to have close friends. She may not be the type that needed friends and family since she was married and had all those kids to worry about. Maybe this will change now that she's single. I imagine she'll need to socialize, just to keep her sanity. It was different when she was married but now alone she'll definitely need to make new friends and maybe give her family another try.
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Vacanick
Member
07-12-2004
| Monday, December 21, 2009 - 3:09 pm
She did mention being lonely and how difficult it was to going through this experience alone. I think she handled herself well last night.
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Seamonkey
Moderator
09-07-2000
| Monday, December 21, 2009 - 3:23 pm
I thought one issue was in not wanting to take used cribs, which isn't recommended anyway.. And also thought one issue was over whether they "reduced" the number of fetuses.. they started with seven and one didn't survive but Kate and Jon didn't want to "reduce"/kill off a fetus or two or three and some in the family didn't "agree" with that decision. Also as I recall some family members (perhaps Jon's mom) didn't want to be filmed. Jon also mentioned that his mom was busy with his stepdad. I guess I missed whatever was on last night.
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Texannie
Member
07-16-2001
| Monday, December 21, 2009 - 5:10 pm
I also thought the estrangement was due to her parents suggesting fetal reduction. I remember Jon saying that about his mom too. I imagine it would be hard to be friends with Kate if you didn't want the media following you around and hard for Kate to trust the motive of someone wanting to befriend her. We have all seen how people seeking the public eye have attached themselves to jon.
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Kittyab
Member
07-15-2005
| Tuesday, December 22, 2009 - 8:42 am
What I got from the show was her parents had a different opinion on how to care for the kids. I got that from my mother and I flat out told her that Alison is my child and she is doing fine. Back off. My father is just not interested in her.
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Ahnicka
Member
08-08-2007
| Tuesday, December 22, 2009 - 9:45 am
The car he was trying to get still doesn't look big enough for the kids, but good for Jon, at least he tried to downsize! Jon Gosselin -- Failed Used Car Salesman The same day Jon Gosselin's divorce was finalized -- and he was hit with huge child support payments -- we've learned he tried (and failed) to pad his wallet by trading in his beloved BMW for a profit. TMZ spoke to an employee at Auto Exchange USA in Lancaster, PA, who told us Jon showed up at the car lot on Friday and wanted to trade his 2005 BMW M3 for a 2008 Subaru STI (pictured above) PLUS around $4,000 in cash. We're told Jon's car wasn't worth nearly as much as he thought it was -- so he ended up leaving the lot without ever making a trade. Ironically, this is the same car lot where Stephanie Santoro used to work -- the babysitter Jon allegedly hooked up with a while back. I don't know how to bring pictures over, sorry. But here's the link: http://www.tmz.com/2009/12/22/jon-gosselin-kate-sell-car-bmw-divorce-sales-subaru-stephanie-santoro/
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Marameko
Member
07-15-2002
| Tuesday, December 22, 2009 - 10:28 am
How funny........I know it is not nice to laugh at the misfortune of others but I can't help it. I wonder if the apartment in NYC is paid for.....Perhaps he can sublet it !
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Seamonkey
Moderator
09-07-2000
| Tuesday, December 22, 2009 - 10:32 am
If Jon had the big fanbase he seemed to think he had awhile back, he could raffle off the BMW.. guess he's just too naive to realize that a new car usually takes a steep drop in "worth" the minute you drive off the lot.
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Kittyab
Member
07-15-2005
| Tuesday, December 22, 2009 - 12:49 pm
I would like to add, I wouldnt take a used crib. They are not safe. Look at the recent recall's. I dont blame her for not wanting used on certain things.
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Tntitanfan
Member
08-03-2001
| Tuesday, December 22, 2009 - 4:27 pm
I don't have kids, so I can't say from experience, but surely families that have three or four kids don't buy a new crib for each one? Or do they?
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Seamonkey
Moderator
09-07-2000
| Tuesday, December 22, 2009 - 6:53 pm
I would imagine that a crib you bought yourself, making sure it met current safety standards and subject to the amount and type of cleaning and maintenance that satisfied you, would be a different sort of "hand-me-down" than just taking someone else's used crib or carseat or whatever. And often those hand me downs come after a crib has been in a family a long time and thus it might not meet current standards.. lead paints used to be used, for instance and with someone's old crib even a recent one, who knows if they painted or stained it is some way that you just didn't want your kids chewing on that rail?
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Texannie
Member
07-16-2001
| Tuesday, December 22, 2009 - 7:15 pm
I know Salvation Army won't take cribs anymore.
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Happymom
Member
01-20-2003
| Tuesday, December 22, 2009 - 10:39 pm
Tnt, depends on the crib quality and how hard the baby is on the crib. I can see some boys being the sole users of a crib. Also, some cribs are much more well made than others. Our crib lasted for three girls. We gave it to a friend after that. They very much appreciated it. Some cribs won't last like that though. Also, some kids can be very hard on cribs. There are some things that as a mom I would never get as hand me downs, a crib from a stranger would be one of them. (car seats that have been in an accident are not to be used again either even if they seem fine) Some people may not realize that you really need that drop down mechanism to lower the one crib side. You don't want to have to lean way down with a newborn, it may make the baby feel not secure and have the startle reflex. This is hard to explain....anyway, you need to be able to raise and lower that one rail sometimes multiple times a day and that gets done everyday for maybe two years...per each kid. So, even though the wood part of the crib may be sturdy and paint safe and lead free, that mechanism must be safe or the side can drop down on its own and baby can fall out of the crib.
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Seamonkey
Moderator
09-07-2000
| Tuesday, December 22, 2009 - 11:25 pm
I was watching something on my DVR earlier and they were talking about recalls.. and that is another problem with used baby stuff.. did the former owner keep up with recalls?
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Kathyb
Member
05-17-2006
| Wednesday, December 23, 2009 - 6:08 am
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/34515634/ns/entertainment-gossip/ By Courtney Hazlett The Scoop msnbc.com updated 10:31 p.m. ET, Mon., Dec . 21, 2009 Jon Gosselin enjoys ‘shooting cans and stuff’ A few weeks ago, Jon Gosselin was part of a yoga photo shoot for Us Weekly. Since then, he’s been decidedly less Zen. Gosselin was spotted toting a gun on the property of the Wernersville, Penn., home he and Kate shared before their Dec. 18 divorce. Life & Style magazine has the back story to the sidearm. “Jon and his friends were taking turns shooting at some type of target for about an hour,” an eyewitness told the magazine. “He was using real bullets and hit the target a couple of times.” Gosselin has a permit for the gun, but was banned on Dec. 17 from having it near the home, which now belongs to Kate and their eight kids. “He enjoys shooting cans and stuff,” said the magazine source, who also adds that the kids weren’t around when Jon and his friends held target practice.
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Ophiliasgrandma
Member
09-04-2001
| Wednesday, December 23, 2009 - 7:24 am
Jon + Gun = Shudder
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Hukdonreality
Member
09-29-2003
| Wednesday, December 23, 2009 - 8:28 am
You can just leave the "Gun" part right out of that equation OG, lol! Jon = Shudder
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Kittyab
Member
07-15-2005
| Wednesday, December 23, 2009 - 9:26 am
Thats an expensive hobby he cant afford.
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Karuuna
Board Administrator
08-31-2000
| Wednesday, December 23, 2009 - 10:04 am
It's the drop down mechanism that just caused millions of cribs to be recalled.
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Panda
Member
07-15-2005
| Wednesday, December 23, 2009 - 10:57 am
The crib I used for my 1st son and now with the baby does not have a drop down side and we manage fine. I would only take a used crib from a close family member or best friend.
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Beekindpleez
Member
07-18-2006
| Wednesday, December 23, 2009 - 11:19 am
Seriously. This man continues to astonish me with his stupidity. Anyone who thinks he is a good influence on his children should reconsider that thought.
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Ahnicka
Member
08-08-2007
| Wednesday, December 23, 2009 - 11:48 am
A few weeks ago, Jon Gosselin was part of a yoga photo shoot for Us Weekly. Since then, he’s been decidedly less Zen. I'd forgotten about that, what happened to the whole yoga, and being zen thing? Also, what happened with Jon and Rabbi Schmuley? Is Jon no longer seeing him? I'm surprised we haven't heard anything more about him and the Rabbi.
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Kittyab
Member
07-15-2005
| Wednesday, December 23, 2009 - 12:18 pm
Panda, I agree, if you dont know the history of the used item (like a crib) I wouldnt use it for a baby. I dont blame Kate at all. She did bed rest for the whole pg why risk the baby in a potentially unsafe crib. I think this is one issue people need to stop blaming her for.
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