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Archive through December 24, 2006

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Jasper
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09-14-2000

Tuesday, December 12, 2006 - 7:47 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Jasper a private message Print Post    
I still got the feeling that the mom ruled the roost. The kids seemed floored when dad participated or said anything with tatoo mom. And the dad was right when he repeatedly said to the mom that they would talk about the alcohol later. She was totally directing her comments at the kids versus him and she should have waited for some privacy. As well I thought she was a real "pita" when she came home and everyone had made such an effort to make her dinner etc and she didn't even acknowledge it. Sorry but that mom appeared to be the alpha person in that household, the dad may have been thrilled to one up her and get the pool/boat, cause finally someone listened to him. Alyce kept saying we don't want that, we don't need that. I think she was the only one who didn't want or need them.

Chiliwilli
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09-04-2006

Wednesday, December 13, 2006 - 2:06 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Chiliwilli a private message Print Post    
I hope he gets a nice boat. $20,000 isn't that much for a boat but I guess it depends on what kind. I don't remember where they lived. How could she not want a boat? I'd be the one putting an ad in the lonely hearts column saying must have boat, please send pics for the boat.

Lexie_girl
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07-30-2004

Saturday, December 16, 2006 - 5:39 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Lexie_girl a private message Print Post    
Did anyone catch this epi last night? While the previews showed that Florida Mom's marriage is obviously going to be on the rocks next week, I think Baltimore Dad needs counseling or his marriage could end up on the skids too.



Juju2bigdog
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10-27-2000

Saturday, December 16, 2006 - 6:17 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Juju2bigdog a private message Print Post    
I saw it, Lexie-girl. I am looking for Buffalo dad (I think you meant Buffalo, not Baltimore, they did go to breakfast at Niagara Falls) to have an epiphany and start loving on his kids.

I have not watched this show in forever and forgot it is a two-week episode, which is probably why I quit watching it in the first place. I sent myself a reminder to watch it next week.

Lexie_girl
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07-30-2004

Saturday, December 16, 2006 - 6:54 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Lexie_girl a private message Print Post    
Yeah... Buffalo. He better have an epiphany soon.



Lexie_girl
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07-30-2004

Friday, December 22, 2006 - 6:20 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Lexie_girl a private message Print Post    
Bumping... second part is tonight.


Seamonkey
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09-07-2000

Friday, December 22, 2006 - 7:56 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Seamonkey a private message Print Post    


Suz
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10-13-2005

Saturday, December 23, 2006 - 12:45 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Suz a private message Print Post    
I thought is was a good one tonight.

Lexie_girl
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07-30-2004

Saturday, December 23, 2006 - 8:56 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Lexie_girl a private message Print Post    
Well, Buffalo dad had his epiphany. What I liked about this one was that even though they were from two different lifestyles, it didn't play at all into the show. Hopefully, Henrietta and Marco can work things out.

BTW, what was Henrietta thinking about having Buffalo family give $3,500 to the mayor?


Suz
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10-13-2005

Saturday, December 23, 2006 - 11:12 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Suz a private message Print Post    
I was so tired last night, I typed is instead of it....

I didn't understand why Henrietta would have them give money to the mayor. She could have given it to the kids for college or any number of things useful to the family.

I wonder if they have to use the money just as they were told.

Seamonkey
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09-07-2000

Saturday, December 23, 2006 - 5:57 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Seamonkey a private message Print Post    
I really didn't get her donation the the MAYOR, or church but that is better than the mayor.. maybe there was some reason not stated that she'd talked to the husband about, some fund to help their neighborhood? And even the detailed directions on redoing their home, though at least that wouldn't hurt the place.

Now as for the spa or the trip to Italy, well maybe mom will calm down and instead of saying "we don't DO Italy" be like Mary and David and end up saying wow.. maybe we CAN do Italy.

Or go to the spa with her daughter, who was looking sad. But in general, that money distribution was sucky and didn't seem to represent the woman who wrote it up, the woman who worked her butt off to help the kids and dad..

I wonder, too.

Chiliwilli
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09-04-2006

Saturday, December 23, 2006 - 7:07 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Chiliwilli a private message Print Post    
I didn't see the first ep so don't have that background to refer to. I don't think they should be allowed to designate any money for religious or any other kind of donations. The family will take care of that on their own and in their own way. I don't understand why she left out the boys. Does anyone know anything? She seemed to be very concerned about the boy/father relationship. This indicated some kind of concern for them but why would she leave them out and give the girl a spa day with her mom and $400 for Victoria Secrets? How old was that girl?

Seamonkey
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09-07-2000

Saturday, December 23, 2006 - 8:46 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Seamonkey a private message Print Post    
It wasn't so much the stuff for the girl, though that was odd, but leaving out the boys and the money for the mayor? And the whole thing was off.. I could have seen it with some of the wives on this show but she seemed to have connected with them so well..

Lexie_girl
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07-30-2004

Saturday, December 23, 2006 - 9:38 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Lexie_girl a private message Print Post    
Henrietta's distribution of the money may have been one of the more bizarre distributions I've seen on this show, and I've seen some doozies.

The husband was obviously pleased with the $10,000 for bills. I'm wondering if he said they wanted to renovate the house and Henrietta took it too far by saying what type and color of flooring (and paint color) she wanted in the house?



Puzzled
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08-27-2001

Saturday, December 23, 2006 - 11:38 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Puzzled a private message Print Post    
On another forum Henrietta said that she did leave money for the boys, but FOX edited that out, and she gave money to the church to help the family get a tax deduction because they'd have to pay taxes on the $50K.

She said that they had an Art Deco or something house and with the changes to hardwood floors they could double its worth.

I don't remember what she said about the donation to the Mayor--that was sort of weird.

Twinkie
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09-24-2002

Saturday, December 23, 2006 - 11:45 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Twinkie a private message Print Post    
I'm in Buffalo and trust me, Mayor Brown does NOT need donations. That was the strangest thing!

Seamonkey
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09-07-2000

Sunday, December 24, 2006 - 12:19 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Seamonkey a private message Print Post    
Makes me wonder just how many of them are "edited"...

Lexie_girl
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07-30-2004

Sunday, December 24, 2006 - 6:47 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Lexie_girl a private message Print Post    
Who wouldn't like $15,000 to $20,000 to renovate their house? I think what set Buffalo mom off was Henrietta picking the colors (white paint, white ceramic tile with black grout for the bathroom, etc.) I do not disagree with her at all for giving money for renovations, I just didn't think it was her place to pick out the colors. But, I will never understand $3,500 to Mayor Brown.

I actually liked both of these families and was pleased with how everything turned out.



Chiliwilli
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09-04-2006

Sunday, December 24, 2006 - 7:01 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Chiliwilli a private message Print Post    
Fox edited the letter the woman wrote to the mom of the boys taking out money for the boys? I dunno. Since these were handwritten letters from one woman to the other, I don't see how Fox could edit it out.

Lexie_girl
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07-30-2004

Sunday, December 24, 2006 - 8:47 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Lexie_girl a private message Print Post    
Well, I just came off the Trading Spouses board (where both Marla and Henrietta posted) and it appears that Henrietta left Marla's boys $900 to go to rap concerts.


Twinkie
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09-24-2002

Sunday, December 24, 2006 - 1:32 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Twinkie a private message Print Post    
For what??? Boy, they are going to need that $900 for travel because I've been in Buffalo 11 years and I've heard of exactly 2 rap concerts here. LOL

Seamonkey
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09-07-2000

Sunday, December 24, 2006 - 2:44 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Seamonkey a private message Print Post    
I'm sure they could find something in the state of NY though.

Cindy
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09-20-2005

Sunday, December 24, 2006 - 3:21 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Cindy a private message Print Post    
I was wondering if one of the boys had political aspirations or supported this mayor and the rest of the family have him a hard time about it. That's all I could think of. Maybe it was her voice on behalf of this child??

Chiliwilli
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09-04-2006

Sunday, December 24, 2006 - 4:10 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Chiliwilli a private message Print Post    
I would be mad if someone left my son $900 to attend rap concerts too. But on the show she was ranting because the other mom hadn't left her boys anything. Why the rant? How old was her daughter?

Lexie_girl
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07-30-2004

Sunday, December 24, 2006 - 4:30 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Lexie_girl a private message Print Post    
Chili, from what I gathered from reading Marla's posts on the TS site, I think she expected Henrietta to leave more to the boys' college funds than a mere $900 to attend rap concerts. Also, Marco told Marla he wanted to attend culinary school in New York, which is why Marla put in the letter he was to attend culinary school in Miami to keep him close to the family.

On the other hand, Henrietta posted that the reason she left so much money for renovations was so the family could increase the value of the house by $40,000 to $50,000 and sell it to upgrade. Unfortunately, as someone pointed out, if the house is overly-renovated, even if the value of the property itself increases, the property value of the area may not warrant it and then you have to wait until the area "catches up" in value before you can get what you want for the house. (The exact same thing happened to the previous owner of the house next door to me -- she made so many renovations and put an addition on to her house -- she tried to sell her house for double what I paid for mine. Eventually she gave up after the house was on the market for almost two years (and this is an area where houses don't stay on the market for more than a week) and came way down on the price to the point where the new homeowners paid less per SQ that I paid for my house, and their house is almost twice the size of my house.