TVCH FORUMS HOME . JOIN . FAN CLUBS . DONATE . CONTACT . CHAT  
                  Quick Links   TOPICS . TREE-VIEW . SEARCH . HELP! . NEWS . PROFILE
Archive through December 13, 2010

Reality TVClubHouse Discussions: General Discussions ARCHIVES: September 2010 ~ December 2010: Free Expression: Right now: Archive through December 13, 2010 users admin

Author Message
Naja
Member

06-28-2003

Thursday, December 09, 2010 - 10:07 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Naja a private message Print Post    
RN, whoa, you never saw a mood level swing until you just saw DH after he finally got to eat a meal. He's back to his wonderful self :-)

Juju2bigdog
Member

10-27-2000

Thursday, December 09, 2010 - 7:56 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Juju2bigdog a private message Print Post    
I get that way too, Naja. The VERY worst thing was having to go to work while I was doing a pre-scope fast. I watched every morsel that went into somebody else's mouth. LOL. And got crabbier and crabbier.

Karen
Member

09-06-2004

Thursday, December 09, 2010 - 10:32 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Karen a private message Print Post    
RN, Don and I haven't spoken in 24 hours because when he asked me last night what was wrong, I told him he's been in a bad mood for a week (true). He took it as a personal attack, had a temper tantrum, and turned everything all around saying that I'm the same as his employer, telling him how shitty he is all the time without seeing any of the good he does. Um, OK? I was just asking you to please at least try to pretend. Just a little bit.

Jimmer
Moderator

08-30-2000

Friday, December 10, 2010 - 6:49 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Jimmer a private message Print Post    
RN, I've been married a long time and these things happen when there is stress. You've both been doing great and I hope you can work things out soon.

Mak1
Member

08-11-2002

Friday, December 10, 2010 - 7:35 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mak1 a private message Print Post    
RN, ((((Karen and Donners)))), I agree with everything Jimmer said.

Hukdonreality
Member

09-29-2003

Friday, December 10, 2010 - 9:07 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Hukdonreality a private message Print Post    
RN, I agree with Jimmer and Mak, you've been under a ridiculous amount of stress for a ridiculous amount of time! Might be time for someone close to you to go sit with Nyana for an evening, and you two go out for a leisurely meal and a few glasses of wine or something.

You'll be o.k., just remember to be kind to one another knowing you're each experiencing your own stresses.

Scooterrific
Member

07-08-2005

Friday, December 10, 2010 - 9:24 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Scooterrific a private message Print Post    
RN What everyone is saying is so true....and to add to what Hukd said...everyone also deals with stress a different way. Believe me, I know!

Dfennessey
Member

07-25-2004

Friday, December 10, 2010 - 9:27 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Dfennessey a private message Print Post    
RN Scoot you are not kidding about people dealing with stress differently.

Merrysea
Moderator

08-13-2004

Friday, December 10, 2010 - 9:28 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Merrysea a private message Print Post    
RN, (((Karen))), having a baby adds stress to any marriage. Going through what you and Don have been through increases that stress a thousandfold (or more!). Then you add the Christmas season on top of that ... It's even stressful to realize that you're feeling stressed when you think you are supposed to be feeling happy! Everyone deals with this in their own way.

ETA: It took me so long to post that Scoot said what I was saying before I said it!

Scooterrific
Member

07-08-2005

Friday, December 10, 2010 - 9:32 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Scooterrific a private message Print Post    
RN Dfennessey...My hubby told me last night that I'm a rock...he said he couldn't believe I've handled all I've been going through and continued to manage the house/work/school activities and kept my sanity.

Escapee
Member

06-15-2004

Friday, December 10, 2010 - 9:48 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Escapee a private message Print Post    
RN: Often it is those routine things that help us keep our sanity. I am the same way. Karen and Don need to schedule a couples massage.

Karen
Member

09-06-2004

Friday, December 10, 2010 - 1:06 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Karen a private message Print Post    
RN, thanks everyone. We worked it out last night. We rarely fight, and this was really just a bickering, of course fed into by stress, and had nothing to do with anything we were actually bickering about. We just needed those 24 hours in silence, I think, lol. We're both good. And Miss Nyner is awesome.

Dfennessey
Member

07-25-2004

Friday, December 10, 2010 - 1:07 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Dfennessey a private message Print Post    
RN Glad to hear that all is good now. Send Nyner our best

Jimmer
Moderator

08-30-2000

Friday, December 10, 2010 - 1:18 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Jimmer a private message Print Post    
RN, That's good to hear!

Mak1
Member

08-11-2002

Friday, December 10, 2010 - 1:26 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mak1 a private message Print Post    
RN, I think we all figured that was it, but it sure is nice to have you confirm it. It sounds like some stress was released so maybe now you can both relax just a bit more. Let the awesomeness continue!

Tishala
Member

08-01-2000

Friday, December 10, 2010 - 2:38 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Tishala a private message Print Post    
RN I just love Coke Zero.

Texasdeb
Member

05-23-2003

Friday, December 10, 2010 - 4:55 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Texasdeb a private message Print Post    
RN, I'm glad my work wk is over & I'm sitting here already in PJs!

Jimmer
Moderator

08-30-2000

Friday, December 10, 2010 - 6:03 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Jimmer a private message Print Post    
RN, That must be a good feeling!

Goddessatlaw
Member

07-19-2002

Friday, December 10, 2010 - 6:04 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Goddessatlaw a private message Print Post    
RN I'm wishing we'd get some of that blizzard action here in Indy but it's not going to happen. We'll just get rain followed by a bit of snow and then right into the sub-zero locker. None of the fun stuff.

Serate
Member

08-21-2001

Friday, December 10, 2010 - 6:30 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Serate a private message Print Post    
RN GAL SHUSH! If we start to get major snow in Louisville I'll instruct it to head North! Bad enough to have to deal with the bitter cold but to add a bunch of snow to the mess, YUCK! People down here just don't know how to drive in any amount of snow & I worry about my hubby driving do/from work. They don't know how to drive in rain either, but that's another story.

Goddessatlaw
Member

07-19-2002

Friday, December 10, 2010 - 6:36 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Goddessatlaw a private message Print Post    
RN they're the same up here, Serate - even though we have snow and ice all the time, they drive like it's 60 degrees, dry and sunny.

Tishala
Member

08-01-2000

Friday, December 10, 2010 - 6:42 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Tishala a private message Print Post    
RN I'm in shock. I just found out that the guy who killed Hollywood publicist Ronnie Chasen, and then committed suicide when the police went to his place to interview him, is someone I knew! Wow.

Goddessatlaw
Member

07-19-2002

Friday, December 10, 2010 - 7:25 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Goddessatlaw a private message Print Post    
RN oh dear, but do tell Tishala!!

Tishala
Member

08-01-2000

Friday, December 10, 2010 - 9:06 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Tishala a private message Print Post    
RN, GAL it was during my unyears when i was at a homeless shelter and he was an OK guy. I talked to him quite a lot, which wasn't true of the other people I was around, and I knew that he'd been in prison twice for stuff. He had two strikes and said that he'd kill himself before he'd ever go to prison again (I've also read accounts that he'd said that to people in the building where he was living, so he must have told it to a lot of people) because three strikes in CA means life in prison. Anyhow, he'd grown up either in foster care or in a juvenile facility in NY somewhere and had done drugs, but didn't, to my knowledge, when I knew him. Last I heard, though--and this was probably 3 years ago--he'd started smoking crack again. I read news reports that he was unstable, which may be true, but if it is, it's because of the drugs.

Texasdeb
Member

05-23-2003

Monday, December 13, 2010 - 10:06 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Texasdeb a private message Print Post    
RN - I'm at the office working with the worst cold! I'm miserable! Nose is running so fast I can't catch it, eyes are itchy & watery, throat is scratchy, and I think I have a low grade fever. I took some alergy meds this morn. and they didn't work so I will take me some day quil as soon as 4 hrs is up. I took all of my Nyquil yesterday trying to fight this crap off so I have to stop at the drug store & get more on the way home at the end of the day.