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Oldtex
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03-06-2006

Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 9:12 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Oldtex a private message Print Post    
Thanks Kitt. I just checked again and for me it's still closed. No biggie. But when I want to post in my folder, and it's gone, well that's just sad.

But I do understand that the Mods need to clean house every now and then.

Kitt
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09-06-2000

Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 9:19 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Kitt a private message Print Post    
Weird it's letting me and not you, but anyway I started a new one :-). Happy posting!

Oldtex
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03-06-2006

Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 9:36 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Oldtex a private message Print Post    
Thanks Kitt. Checked and it's still closed to me.

Yea, that is weird. But so am I.

Karuuna
Board Administrator

08-31-2000

Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 7:55 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Karuuna a private message Print Post    
Oldtex, you made need to a do a 'hard refresh' to get that thread to load properly for you. It seems to be working fine.

Rosie
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11-12-2003

Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 11:57 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Rosie a private message Print Post    
What can I buy to put in the bathwater to make my skin softer? My skin is just like an alley - gator.

Kitt
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09-06-2000

Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 12:10 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Kitt a private message Print Post    
A moisturising bubble bath? But I think one thing that really dries your skin is a long hot bath itself - even if you put softening stuff in it. If you have to have a bath, and lets face it, sometimes you have to afterwards just smother yourself with a rich lotion, that's what I do.

Beekindpleez
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07-18-2006

Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 12:12 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Beekindpleez a private message Print Post    
Bath salts work wonders.

Rosie
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11-12-2003

Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 12:17 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Rosie a private message Print Post    
I don't like baths but thought it might help if I put something in the water.

Okey dokey, I will look for moisturising bubble bath and bath salts.

Thank you.

Sugar
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08-15-2000

Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 12:38 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Sugar a private message Print Post    
Drinking lots of water is supposed to be very good for your skin and help keep it hydrated.

Twinkie
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09-24-2002

Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 1:28 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Twinkie a private message Print Post    
Put baby oil in the water.

Julieboo
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02-05-2002

Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 2:59 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Julieboo a private message Print Post    
Take fewer (or at least shorter) showers/baths. Water is the number one thing that dries skin out. And take as cool of a shower as ya can, the hotter the water, the drier your skin. Also try to not use soap! If you feel you need to, then use something like cetaphil. Hope that helps. (FWIW, I have very irish celtic skin, very prone to getting dry) so all this advice is from my dermatologist.)

Julieboo
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02-05-2002

Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 2:59 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Julieboo a private message Print Post    
Take fewer (or at least shorter) showers/baths. Water is the number one thing that dries skin out. And take as cool of a shower as ya can, the hotter the water, the drier your skin. Also try to not use soap! If you feel you need to, then use something like cetaphil. Hope that helps. (FWIW, I have very irish celtic skin, very prone to getting dry-- so all this advice is from my dermatologist.)

Karuuna
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08-31-2000

Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 4:47 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Karuuna a private message Print Post    
Rosie, you can use plain old baby oil in your bath if you like. Lots cheaper and works great. When you get out of the bath, instead of drying off with a towel right away, rub that baby oil in.

Or if you don't want the oil in the bath tub, put it on when you get out.

Never had dry skin till I moved to Colorado, but baby oil has done better, cheaper than any moisturizer. Nivea is really really good too, but still not as inexpensive.

Maplsyrp
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02-10-2009

Friday, August 07, 2009 - 12:18 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Maplsyrp a private message Print Post    
Bath & Body Works lotion right after your bath. My dry skin is gone since I started using it. They have a web site if there is not a store in your area.

Rosie
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11-12-2003

Saturday, August 08, 2009 - 10:50 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Rosie a private message Print Post    
Thanks everyone. I have read your helpful hints and have purchased all of the goodies.

My feet are so dry that even my GS told me yesterday that I needed a pedicure. Bless his heart. lol

Maplsyrp
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02-10-2009

Tuesday, August 11, 2009 - 12:21 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Maplsyrp a private message Print Post    
Rosie, try (also from Bath & Body Works),True Blue Spa Shea it isn't so foot cream and heel of approval. It helps my feet stay smoother longer after my pedicure. The guy that does my pedicure asked if I was seeing someone else. haha

Teachmichigan
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07-22-2001

Tuesday, August 11, 2009 - 6:25 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Teachmichigan a private message Print Post    
This is a shameless plug for a good friend, but her shea souffle is FANTASTIC for feet or any other dry part of you body. You can see her web site by clicking HERE. I used this myself (although it was a non-scented version) and it takes just a tiny bit to make a huge difference.

Dahli
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11-27-2000

Friday, August 28, 2009 - 8:26 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Dahli a private message Print Post    
coconut oil from the health food store both externally and internally will make a world of difference for dry skin....

Rissa
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03-20-2006

Sunday, August 30, 2009 - 6:15 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Rissa a private message Print Post    
I heard this somewhere, can't remember where but it really seems to work for dry feet. Rub your (clean) feet with an OXY pad, the salicylic acid (did I spell that correctly?) is an exfoilant, then put on a generous amount of your lotion of choice (peppermint is supposed to be good for feet) and put on socks..... sleep and wake up to great feet. It annoys me to sleep in socks so I do this routine in the am and it really does seem to work great, especially if you use a pumice before and do the whole pedicure process. Plus your feet slide around in your socks which is a little thrill all on it's own. LOL

Kitt
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09-06-2000

Monday, August 31, 2009 - 7:59 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Kitt a private message Print Post    
Does anybody know anything about divorce? NOT for me, I hasten to add!

My friend lives in Washington, which is a community property state. Her husband left the house in January and moved into a house he owned (that he had been renting) before they were married. Since then my friend has been paying the mortgage on their joint home, and has had to rent out two rooms in the house to get enough income to survive there.

The mortgage on the house is more than the price of the house if they were to sell today (I don't know by how much), so they jointly decided not to sell right now, hoping they could sell it for more in a year or two.

My concern is that she's paying all the mortgage right now, and has been since January, the house price is rising, and in a year or two, whenever they do sell, he's going to expect half the value of the house at that time in the settlement. That doesn't seem right because she'll have put all that extra money into the house.

Does anyone know if there's anything she should do to protect her stake in the house? For instance should she get a valuation of the house now and put it in writing? He's not being cooperative so preferably it needs to be something she can do by herself. It just feels like she's being far too accommodating and in the end he benefits financially and she does not.

Merrysea
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08-13-2004

Monday, August 31, 2009 - 9:21 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Merrysea a private message Print Post    
Kitt, she should talk to her lawyer about it to find out how to best protect herself and her assets.

Dipo
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04-23-2002

Tuesday, September 01, 2009 - 12:32 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Dipo a private message Print Post    
Definitely talk to a lawyer, and it wouldn't hurt to get a valuation from when he moved out and then keep track of everything she is paying for without him. Hopefully she will be able to deduct that from his share when they sell.

Kitt
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09-06-2000

Tuesday, September 01, 2009 - 12:35 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Kitt a private message Print Post    
Thanks. She's talked to a lawyer in general terms, but the cost per hour is huge, so she doesn't want to use her too much. I'm pushing her to get a valuation done, and I'll mention writing down costs. Thank you very much for the help.

Rosie
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11-12-2003

Monday, September 21, 2009 - 10:04 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Rosie a private message Print Post    
My electric and hand held can openers are both kaput.

Can you recommend one that you use and that actually works?

TIA


Rissa
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03-20-2006

Monday, September 21, 2009 - 10:42 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Rissa a private message Print Post    
As far as hand-helds go, I haven't found better than my Starfrit. The oversized rubber grip is really comfortable and it never gives me a problem and it's fairly inexpensive ($10). Haven't used an electric since our move here... kitchen design would make is awkward so can't help there.