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Eeyoreslament
Member

07-20-2003

Wednesday, February 06, 2008 - 3:06 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Eeyoreslament a private message Print Post    
Keeners.

Moderator
Moderator

06-30-2002

Saturday, March 22, 2008 - 7:11 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Moderator a private message Print Post    
We would like to advise members that attacking other members by Email or the TVCH Personal Message feature can be cause for immediate cancellation of the offender's account.

We are doing our very best to provide a safe environment for our members, and will not tolerate harassment.

Furthermore, we recommend that any member being harassed by another member, immediately forward that Email to moderator@tvclubhouse.com so we can take action.

Thank you!


Ophiliasgrandma
Member

09-04-2001

Saturday, March 22, 2008 - 7:30 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Ophiliasgrandma a private message Print Post    
Whoever it is, shame on them!

Eeyoreslament
Member

07-20-2003

Saturday, March 22, 2008 - 12:01 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Eeyoreslament a private message Print Post    
I've had several people do it to me, OG; it's more common than you'd think.

Ophiliasgrandma
Member

09-04-2001

Saturday, March 22, 2008 - 12:02 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Ophiliasgrandma a private message Print Post    
I've had just one, but we've mended our fences.

Twiggyish
Member

08-14-2000

Saturday, March 22, 2008 - 12:16 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Twiggyish a private message Print Post    
Yikes!!! I really hate that this has happened.

Pamy
Member

01-02-2002

Saturday, March 22, 2008 - 3:34 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Pamy a private message Print Post    
some ppl just have nothing better to do than critize others. Shame on them

Mameblanche
Member

08-24-2002

Monday, March 24, 2008 - 8:36 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mameblanche a private message Print Post    
ITA Eeyore! :-(

Babyruth
Member

07-19-2001

Monday, March 24, 2008 - 9:20 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Babyruth a private message Print Post    
A few years back this happened to me quite a bit (anti-gay hate stuff). Easy as it should be to just shake it off, it's not easy. My comfort level here has never been the same. It's sad to know there's so much nastiness around.

Eeyoreslament
Member

07-20-2003

Monday, March 24, 2008 - 10:30 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Eeyoreslament a private message Print Post    
I'm sorry you had to deal with that Babyruth. That is the worst.

Twinkie
Member

09-24-2002

Monday, March 24, 2008 - 10:41 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Twinkie a private message Print Post    
Babyruth, that is horrible. You are such a sweetheart I don't know how anyone could be mean to you. Shame on them.

Mameblanche
Member

08-24-2002

Monday, March 24, 2008 - 11:09 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mameblanche a private message Print Post    
((((((BR))))))

Escapee
Member

06-15-2004

Monday, March 24, 2008 - 11:15 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Escapee a private message Print Post    
That is quite shocking to me. Love and hugs to all who have been abused.

Babyruth
Member

07-19-2001

Monday, March 24, 2008 - 11:32 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Babyruth a private message Print Post    
Oh, thanks you guys. I'm ok, it's been over with for awhile now.

Jbean
Member

01-05-2002

Monday, March 24, 2008 - 3:42 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Jbean a private message Print Post    
WOW, what an eye-opener!

Whoami
Member

08-03-2001

Monday, March 24, 2008 - 4:59 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Whoami a private message Print Post    
Well, thank goodness it didn't effect your comfort level enough to keep you away. Just think, you could have never known what it was like to get Twinked, even if we still don't know WhoTwinkedBR!!

On the serious side, ITA that is is so sad there is still so much nastiness around in this world.

Rissa
Member

03-20-2006

Monday, March 24, 2008 - 5:24 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Rissa a private message Print Post    
WOW, ITA with *shocking* and an *eye opener*. Babyruth and OG, so sorry you had to go through attacks. I love this site because it seems to be above crap like that. Thank goodness the majority of the posters here want to communicate and be part of a community not battle their belief systems to the death.

Karuuna
Board Administrator

08-31-2000

Monday, March 24, 2008 - 5:34 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Karuuna a private message Print Post    
If I could just remind everyone, unless you report any kind of Email harassment to us, we can't do anything about it. So please, if this does happen to you, let us know!

Moderator
Moderator

06-30-2002

Monday, July 28, 2008 - 2:16 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Moderator a private message Print Post    
Abusive Personal Messages or Emails

Although this is fortunately uncommon, people occasionally receive abusive PMs and emails from TVCH Members or people who happen to be reading the board. We understand how terribly distressing these emails can be and we will do everything possible to ensure that the situation is resolved. Harassing another Member is against the rules and will lead to a suspension of posting privileges.


There are some steps that Members may take to help prevent this problem before it occurs:

1. Update your profile to hide your email address. Click the link to "Edit Profile" that is shown near the top right corner of every TVCH screen. Scroll down to Preferences and place a check mark in the box next to "Do not display my real e-mail address with my profile". This will ensure that no one at TVCH will be able to see your email address and people will only be able to send you PMs using the board software (which will mean that the source is clearly identifiable). Only share your email address with friends that you know and trust.

2. Never publicly post your email address on the board. Posting your address on the board also makes it available to spammers using spam search engines to harvest email addresses.


If you do receive an abusive PM or abusive email that appears to be from another TVCH Member:

Please note that in order to help you, we need your cooperation and willingness to work with us and take appropriate steps to solve the problem.

Please forward the entire email (including headers) to the TVCH Moderator account. We will take appropriate steps to track the perpetrator and we will also advise you about steps that you may take to prevent the receipt of further emails.

Please do not discuss the emails on the board. Discussing the emails on the board only makes a bad situation worse. It disrupts the board, it generates fear and it involves the public bashing of another Member or Members. Furthermore, it also gives the perpetrator the satisfaction of knowing that his or her emails are creating the disturbance and problem that he or she hoped they would create. Any such posts will be moderated and removed.

Please be assured that we will make every effort possible to ensure that the situation is resolved favorably. We have enormous empathy for anyone who is a victim of abusive emails and messages.

Finally, we don't want to create unwarranted concern and we must stress that these problems are extremely uncommon at TVCH. As always, please feel free to contact us if you have any questions or concerns.

Mocha
Member

08-12-2001

Monday, July 28, 2008 - 2:24 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mocha a private message Print Post    
how did i miss this whole conversation?? i wish someone would send me an email like this...

Texannie
Member

07-16-2001

Monday, July 28, 2008 - 3:19 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Texannie a private message Print Post    
i always feel so left out when these type of announcements are made!

Twiggyish
Member

08-14-2000

Monday, July 28, 2008 - 5:58 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Twiggyish a private message Print Post    
me, too!!

Karuuna
Board Administrator

08-31-2000

Monday, July 28, 2008 - 6:00 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Karuuna a private message Print Post    
LOL at all of you wishing you'd gotten some 'hate mail' so you could feel included!

Mocha
Member

08-12-2001

Monday, July 28, 2008 - 6:14 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mocha a private message Print Post    


Juju2bigdog
Member

10-27-2000

Monday, July 28, 2008 - 7:41 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Juju2bigdog a private message Print Post    
I missed the original part of this thread. BR, I agree you are one of the sweetest people here, and it pains me to hear that. Ditto, OG.