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Spitfire
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07-18-2002

Wednesday, March 12, 2008 - 4:12 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Spitfire a private message Print Post    
If you could go back in time a give yourself 5 pieces of advice that you feel you would have somehow benefited from, what would they be?

Spitfire
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07-18-2002

Wednesday, March 12, 2008 - 4:13 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Spitfire a private message Print Post    
1. Don't ever start smoking. It's so hard to quit and not worth the risk. Smarten up girl!

2. Take school more seriously. You really can do better if you put your mind to it. Don't just assume you won't "get it."

3. Don't stress about child birth. You love it and think it was the best part of pregnancy.

4. Enjoy being young more. Don't think so much about what your life will be like and enjoy the now.

5. Make a move on the guy you always wondered about. Even though you are happily married you will still wonder; knowing full well that it wouldn't have been the right choice for you.

Julieboo
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02-05-2002

Wednesday, March 12, 2008 - 4:24 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Julieboo a private message Print Post    
1. Invest in your 401 as soon as you can. Don't keep thinking you are going to be getting a different job soon.

2. Save your $$$. Invest it. Don't live in an apartment. Buy a place or live at home longer...

3. Stay out of the sun. It is no place for a redhead to be. Tans are not that worth it!!! (Especially when you are not 20 anymore!!) And use sunscreen. Always!

Hmm these 3 will have to do for now. Will be back later when I have thought more about it...

Cinnamongirl
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01-10-2001

Wednesday, March 12, 2008 - 4:28 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Cinnamongirl a private message Print Post    
1. Don't put off having kids. (while I agree with your #3 Spitfire, I'm not sure it was the "best" part..LOL)

2. Don't let men walk all over you! Respect yourself!! You deserve better!

3. Don't worry so much (it adds wrinkles!)

4. Drink more water! actually...drink water. period! (I don't know why, I try, I do, but I just can't get thru a glass of it..blah)

5. Watch Alias

Holly
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06-19-2005

Wednesday, March 12, 2008 - 4:33 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Holly a private message Print Post    
Great idea for a thread, Spitfire!

1. Don't take that first cigarette. The cost is more than you'd ever imagine.

2. Learn to respect your body by learning to eat well. Sugar addiction is almost as bad as a nicotine addiction.

3. Start handling your own finances in your twenties. Don't wait until mid-life to think about investing. Learn more about making the most of your money. Use your smarts!

4. Know your value. Know you deserve better!

5. Do NOT move to Florida (or he who waits there.) Australia (and he who waits there) is the far better choice.

Denecee
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09-05-2002

Wednesday, March 12, 2008 - 4:39 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Denecee a private message Print Post    
1. to my 2nd grade self, "don't worry, you aren't ugly"
2. to my 7th grade self, "take more than 5 pads with you to church camp and don't wear them in the pool"
3. to my 10th grade self, "enjoy school, it will be over before you know it"
4. to my 11th grade self, "take an accounting class, you will love it and you will be good at it"
5. to my 23 yr old self, "don't worry about the mess the kids are making, you just love on them babies who will be grown before you know it"

Nickovtyme
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07-29-2004

Wednesday, March 12, 2008 - 4:49 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Nickovtyme a private message Print Post    
Ok...I'll play.

1. Don't start smoking...seems to be a common theme.

2. Don't be so shy around girls...you'll regret it when you're older. In fact, have more confidence in all aspects of you're life.

3. Start living healthy now...exercise and all that stuff...so when you're in you mid 30's you won't feel so run down. Plus you'll look better.

4. Don't care what other people think.

5. Learn to forgive others sooner...don't wait till the late 20's.

Escapee
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06-15-2004

Wednesday, March 12, 2008 - 5:04 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Escapee a private message Print Post    
1. Don't date that guy or that guy. It ends badly and messy both times.

2. Play volleyball your senior year and spend a lot of time with your friends because one day you all be in different parts of the world and you'll be sorry you spent time with a stupid boy instead of them.

3. Apply for every scholarship under the sun like your English teach told you to, join CSA and then Go to college immediately after high school and don't give up on it.

4. Don't trade in your jeep, you'll be sorry.

5. Ride your horse every chance you get. Get involved in High School Rodeo and take your ag classes more seriously.

Yesitsme
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08-24-2004

Wednesday, March 12, 2008 - 5:16 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Yesitsme a private message Print Post    
1. Try things. Failure is not as bad as it is cracked up to be.
2. Realize that most things we worry about just aren't that important in the scheme of things, so don't waste time doing it.
3. Just because someone has an opinion about you or anything else, does not mean they are right. Even smart people can be wrong. And being wrong is OK....as long as you eventually acknowledge it.
4. There is almost always more than one option. And because you start off in one direction, doesn't mean you can't switch your course.
5. Hang out with people who enjoy life. And don't let the duds ruin a minute of yours.... but still treat them with kindness and humor. They have a tough road.

Skootz
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07-23-2003

Wednesday, March 12, 2008 - 6:23 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Skootz a private message Print Post    
1. Tell my deepest darkest secret to my mom
2. Don't smoke
3. Be more secure in what I do...try new things
4. Be more patient when dating - pick the right men..instead of settling for the wrongs ones.
5. Spend more time with my Daddy (r.i.p. daddy)

Beckie03
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07-05-2007

Wednesday, March 12, 2008 - 9:32 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Beckie03 a private message Print Post    
1. learn to love yourself
2. don't go down the street...it's not worth it
3. she always catches you in a lie...don't do it
4. they just want sex...they won't give you the love that you want

i'm still young...harder for me to go back. but i've been through a lot...so yah. that's it for now...

Egbok
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07-13-2000

Wednesday, March 12, 2008 - 9:46 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Egbok a private message Print Post    
1. Seek help to forgive those who hurt me emotionally and physically, sooner than later.

2. Follow my heart the first time around and trust in the person who made me laugh the most, the one I thoroughly enjoyed being with all the time, the one who showered me with adoration and so much love.

3. Do whatever it takes to complete a college degree and go for your post graduate degree!

4. Get involved with a sport or physical exercise that you enjoy and keep your body, mind and heart fit and happy.

5. Start saving money, even if it's a small amount at first, as soon as you possible can.


Eeyoreslament
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07-20-2003

Thursday, March 13, 2008 - 2:13 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Eeyoreslament a private message Print Post    
1. Listen more than you talk.

2. Let the guy know you like them. It rarely backfires.

3. Save your money, don't rely on loans or credit.

4. Expect nothing and you won't be disappointed.

5. You may be idealistic, but you aren't always right.

Beekindpleez
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07-18-2006

Thursday, March 13, 2008 - 2:21 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Beekindpleez a private message Print Post    
1. Love one another
2. Be kind to one another
3. Respect one another
4. Don't sweat the small stuff...and it's mostly small stuff
5. Cherish every day

Cherkitty
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03-11-2008

Thursday, March 13, 2008 - 11:45 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Cherkitty a private message Print Post    
1. Dont get those tattoos

2. Dont worry about being too skinny--- believe me, you will gain weight

3. Be patient about things, not everything needs to happen now

4. Invest Invest Invest!

5. Stop skipping school!!

Mocha
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08-12-2001

Thursday, March 13, 2008 - 12:24 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mocha a private message Print Post    
1. Finish college no matter what.

Hermione69
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07-24-2002

Thursday, March 13, 2008 - 12:30 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Hermione69 a private message Print Post    
1. Don't marry him.

Grooch
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06-16-2006

Thursday, March 13, 2008 - 12:32 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Grooch a private message Print Post    
1. Do what you want to do.

2. Listen to your mother's advice and take that into consideration of what you are going to do.

After that, I think you are pretty good to go. :-)

Scooterrific
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07-08-2005

Thursday, March 13, 2008 - 12:33 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Scooterrific a private message Print Post    
1. Make sure mom is totally asleep before sneaking out the bedroom window.

Grooch
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06-16-2006

Thursday, March 13, 2008 - 12:46 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Grooch a private message Print Post    
ROFL!

Scooter, I think my mother was worried I wasn't sneaking out that window and if she could, she would have been helping me get out. :0)

Hukdonreality
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09-29-2003

Thursday, March 13, 2008 - 1:05 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Hukdonreality a private message Print Post    
If you could go back in time a give yourself 5 pieces of advice that you feel you would have somehow benefited from, what would they be?

1. Make sure that every person I know would have had the opportunity to meet my very awesome Grandmother, and my Mom before she developed Alzheimer's

2. Don't start smoking

3. Be more decisive about a career, and begin it earlier in life

4. Get into real estate while young

5. Learn earlier to recognize false friends, so time isn't spent questioning myself. I'm actually a very good judge of character and should trust those instincts more.

Hermione69
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07-24-2002

Thursday, March 13, 2008 - 1:09 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Hermione69 a private message Print Post    
Learn earlier to recognize false friends, so time isn't spent questioning myself.

That's a good one, Hukdonreality.

Scooterrific
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07-08-2005

Thursday, March 13, 2008 - 1:18 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Scooterrific a private message Print Post    
2. Under the bed is not the best hiding place for empty beer cans and cigarette butts!

Dahli
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11-27-2000

Thursday, March 13, 2008 - 1:27 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Dahli a private message Print Post    
1/ Don't get sucked in by corporations and their attending advertising.
2/ Trust, love and cherish yourself
3/ Enjoy right now, stop stewing over yesterday or anticipating tomorrow.
4/ Start prevention a lot earlier on health issues including dental, don't believe what your doctor or dentist tells you without question
5/Accept and appreciate your parents for the human beings they are.

Brenda1966
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07-03-2002

Thursday, March 13, 2008 - 1:44 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Brenda1966 a private message Print Post    
1. Take good care of your teeth. They need to last you a lifetime and dental work is expensive and painful!
2. You can’t make anyone love you. If the guy is not interested, he’s not interested. Pick yourself up and move on. There are many interesting, kind people out there. Find someone who LOVES you for you!
3. Keep your sense of humor. Learn to laugh about life’s absurdities. Find the humor in everything. Laugh often.
4. Life is what you make it. Decide to be happy. Decide to have fun. Make sure you’re enjoying every day and appreciating the “now”. Saving for the future and a rainy day are wonderful too, but those days may never come, so enjoy today.
5. Invest in your education. Go to college. You will never regret being educated.

that's really advice for my daughter. For my former young self:
1. take good care of your teeth
2. don't fall for smooth, jerky, bad boys who drink too much, do drugs, and lie
3. Ignore the popular kids at school, these may be the best years of their life, but yours are ahead of you and while they long to go back to high school where they were king, you will find that adulthood is much more wonderful!
4. Stay away from those bad boys who do nothing but break your heart -- they are not worth investing in.
5. find someone nice to love, someone who appreciates you, because those guys are out there! Stay away from those bad boys... oops already said that.