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Beachcomber
Member
08-26-2003
| Friday, August 08, 2008 - 6:26 am
That is great news Mame! We had a scare last night with my mother-in-law. The NH called and said she fell and broke her hip and the ambulance was taking her to the hospital. After an emotional night, we learned from the hospital that her hip is not broken and she is just fine and going back to the NH today. Thank the Lord! I think it scared the NH nurse so bad when they saw her on the floor and her crying that they just assumed it was broken and told us that. I am worried about my DH with this emotional rollercoaster that we are all riding nowadays, his color was not good when he got off the phone last night and I am trying my best to reassure and coddle him these days. He was back to normal after an hour, but the shock/anger/sadness cycle that he goes through after these calls is not good for a 58 year old man with a high stress job. Say a prayer for all of us to learn to keep an even keel during these ups and downs. Sue, thanks so much for the sweet email. You are an angel! Have a great time this weekend and don't forget your weed killer!
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Ophiliasgrandma
Member
09-04-2001
| Friday, August 08, 2008 - 6:51 am
When I was riding that coaster when my mom went through the last year of her life, I have to say the ride was sure good for one thing...weight loss.
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Mamie316
Member
07-08-2003
| Friday, August 08, 2008 - 7:38 am
((Beach)) It does seem like riding on a rollercoaster at times, doesn't it? I pray that you both find the strength.
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Mameblanche
Member
08-24-2002
| Friday, August 08, 2008 - 10:48 am
Hiya BC, OG, & Mamie! Mom was so happy to be back 'home' yesterday, I was thrilled for her. She practically inhaled a bowl of soup, but that was it, the rest of the meal was a losing battle. She keeps asking for smoked meat sandwiches, but she's on pureed food, due to swallowing issues, so that's not gonna happen. She's really not happy with the pureed stuff. But that's the way it has to be now. And it's been like that for a little while now. Just called the nurse who said that mom's feeling refreshed after a shower, and she's in good spirits. BC - I suggest that you and your DH get involved in the Family Council at your MIL's NH, if there is one. Family members support one another and it's not such an isolating feeling anymore, as it's a network of people going through the same thing. And I am soooooooooooo glad your MIL didn't break her hip, in most cases, that's the begining of the end for Seniors. Do keep us posted and let him know that we care, and in any case WE are here for both of you.
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Beachcomber
Member
08-26-2003
| Saturday, August 09, 2008 - 10:18 am
Mamie, OG, and Mame - thank y'all so much for the support and advice, it really does mean alot to me. And OG, I've got about 15 lbs. that can be banished, so I will look for that silver lining! Mame, we will definitely look into any groups. That would be great at the NH to meet other family members. MIL went out walking yesterday around the grounds with a caretaker and was picking up little bits of trash just like she did at home cleaning up the yard. That is a good sign of her mobility. I got to meet her dear friend who lives in the assisted living part of the NH and she is an absolute hoot! She was flirting like crazy with my DH and when I thanked her for coming by each day to check on my MIL, she looked at me all indignant and said "she is my friend and has been for over 50 years, why wouldn't I come by to see her every day?" We had a good chuckle talking with her. She will definitely keep my MIL entertained.
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Mamie316
Member
07-08-2003
| Saturday, August 09, 2008 - 2:20 pm
Mame, when I can't have a certain food, I'd crave it too! I'm glad that she's back "home" and happy about it.
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Mameblanche
Member
08-24-2002
| Saturday, August 09, 2008 - 7:40 pm
Mamie, re: the smoked meat sandwiches... when she said she wanted them at the hospital I had to literally get the nurse to explain to DH WHY she can't have it. Cuz he was ready to go downstairs to the deli (there's one in the food court at the hospital) to buy the sandwich for her and he wouldn't listen to me that she can't have it. His logic was that if she craved it she might EAT it. Which makes perfect sense, eh? Once the nurse got hold of him, he listened to her and didn't go downstairs and buy it. But it was so sad for both of us... I'd love nothing better than to see her chomp away on a smoked meat sandwich, but it's apparently not the best thing for her since she has swallowing/coughing/choking issues. I am planning to ask the dietician what she can have for her b'day next month as I'm hoping to throw a 93rd b'day party for her at the NH.
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Mameblanche
Member
08-24-2002
| Saturday, August 09, 2008 - 7:43 pm
BC, LOL @ your MIL's dear old pal! Yep, a real hoot, that's for sure, and a great way to keep up your MIL's spirits. Keep us posted as to whether they have a Family Council, and if they do, your first meeting with them etc. 
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Biloxibelle
Member
12-21-2001
| Thursday, August 28, 2008 - 6:43 pm
Hey all. I haven't posted up here in a long time. Between my dad and starting a new job I am exhausted. As of tomorrow it will be two weeks since I brought dad home from rehab. The first week was good, he was up and around on his walker. Last Friday his hip/leg started hurting and just got worse and worse until he is now back in a wheelchair, he can't put any weight on that leg at all. The ortho doc was finally able to see him today. The x-ray looked fine. He scheduled a bone scan for tomorrow to see if there is an infection in the bone or another break deep within the bone. Another thing. Some of you may remember we live on the coast of Mississippi. The gulf is actually at the end of our street. We are keeping a close eye on this storm. Under normal circumstances we would leave with anything a cat 2 or higher. This time with my dad we will be unable to, since he is unable to travel. Kevin is going to be taking Stephanie and Trey, along with his family out of here on either Friday night or Saturday morning. Gene and I are going to have to stay here with dad and ride it out if it hits here (Kevin is unaware of that fact and we would have a huge fight on our hands if he knew it, so it is best he doesn't know for now. Trey and Kevin's wife know and will tell him when they safely out of town). Other then some roof damage and flooding our house held up okay through Katrina. We will be boarding up all the windows, cutting down some trees that are close to the house, getting gas, setting up the generators and getting some supplies in this weekend. Anyway, if you get a chance can you say a small prayer that if this storm hits anywhere along the Mississippi/Louisiana coast that it's not too bad and we make through okay.
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Mamie316
Member
07-08-2003
| Thursday, August 28, 2008 - 7:53 pm
My prayers to you, Biloxi!
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Mameblanche
Member
08-24-2002
| Thursday, August 28, 2008 - 8:18 pm
((((((((Belle & Family)))))))))) I believe you have my number... call me anytime you need to talk, hon! xoxoxoxoxoxo Please stay SAFE!!! Is there NO WAY you can get your dad to travel? If he can get to a doctor's appointment, then MAYBE the doctor might have some suggestions... I hate that you are taking such a risk. But I know that you will use experience from the last time, and common sense, and you will do the best you can with the situation. Stay in touch with us, when you can.
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Oldtex
Member
03-06-2006
| Thursday, August 28, 2008 - 8:48 pm
My prayers are with you and your family. I'm also praying that this storm will cause no harm to anyone or their property. Please be safe.
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Biscottiii
Member
05-29-2004
| Friday, August 29, 2008 - 1:47 am
Hang in there Biloxibelle & Gene & Dad! I've been watching that storm (from up here in the NW). Pretty scarey. Sending positive vibes in your direction! Good luck.
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Ophiliasgrandma
Member
09-04-2001
| Friday, August 29, 2008 - 6:48 am
BB, after he sees the doctor just keep on driving north. What's he going to do about it but complain, but you'll all be out of harms way.
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Mocha
Member
08-12-2001
| Friday, August 29, 2008 - 7:50 am
(((Biloxi)))
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Mameblanche
Member
08-24-2002
| Friday, August 29, 2008 - 7:52 am
Ditto what OG said!!!!
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Racsan
Member
04-09-2004
| Friday, August 29, 2008 - 10:45 am
Unable to travel might mean he is physically unable to tolerate long distance riding in a car which could put him at a greater risk of death than the incoming hurricane.
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Mameblanche
Member
08-24-2002
| Friday, August 29, 2008 - 11:03 am
Racsan, you have an excellent point - but I meant, of course, only IF the doctor says her dad is able to travel, and hopefully gives him pain pills or whatever necessary medication to ease things along.
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Racsan
Member
04-09-2004
| Friday, August 29, 2008 - 11:38 am
Just thought maybe people who were encouraging her to keep on driving didn't notice where she said her dad is unable to travel. My sister can go to the doctor, but it takes a lot out of her. But she is unable to travel, and if in the event of a probably hurricane would opt to take her chances at home rather than her chances traveling.
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Mameblanche
Member
08-24-2002
| Friday, August 29, 2008 - 11:50 am
Gotcha, but I figured that it was a subjective remark, by Biloxibelle, that because her dad was limited in his movements, and in pain, she was understandably (sp) hesitant to put him through this. That's why I was suggesting that when he has his doctor's appointment, she get the doctors input on this. Chances are he'll agree with her to be cautious and stay home, but we don't know that for sure. I think that Belle is very lucky to have all of us cyberpals rootin' for her and her family, each in our own way. Cuz the bottom line, Racsan, is that both of us are concerned and want the best for them. And that's always a good thing. ETA, I wasn't encouraging her to keep on driving, I was encouraging her to get the doctor's input on what's best for her dad. (HOPEFULLY to get the hell out of Dodge, so to speak.) But mainly for the doctor to give his professional opinion before they make a final decision.
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Racsan
Member
04-09-2004
| Friday, August 29, 2008 - 12:16 pm
And I said unable to travel MIGHT mean..... Nobody is blaming anybody here for anything. Just added a different perspective to the table.
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Mameblanche
Member
08-24-2002
| Friday, August 29, 2008 - 1:53 pm
Your opinion and perspective are truly appreciated here... didn't mean to imply otherwise Racsan. Just been busy with computer stuff today and my brain is at half-mast.
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Biloxibelle
Member
12-21-2001
| Friday, August 29, 2008 - 3:17 pm
(((Thank You))) so much my TVCH friends. Joycie, yes I still have your phone number and thank you. I will get in contact with you if I lose internet connection, providing my cell stays up and running. No sadly there is no way dad can travel. At this point he can barely make to the bathroom. I am noticing more and more confusion now too. Gene took him to his bone scan today. I talked to the doctors nurse just a few minutes ago. Whatever is going on is not orthopedic. With the long weekend coming on she couldn't offer anything more then if it gets worse to go to the ER. Grrrrrrr I could have done that 6 days ago! As of right now it looks like the storm is moving farther west from how it looked yesterday. That will keep us safer. Although it won't help the people of Louisiana and Texas. I will keep you updated as I find out what is happening. Again thank you each and everyone of you.
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Mameblanche
Member
08-24-2002
| Friday, August 29, 2008 - 3:47 pm
Thanks for checking in, Belle! I am so sorry that your dad is in such decline... Sucks that the doc's nurse was so bloody useless! I just hope they can figure out what is really going on with your dad, if it's ISN'T orthopaedic... But it seems like y'all are a bit more hopeful on the storm-front, that the worst of it may bypass you guys. I sure hope so! You have ENOUGH on your plate, IMHO. And you know I am here ANYTIME for you, my friend.
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Ophiliasgrandma
Member
09-04-2001
| Saturday, August 30, 2008 - 12:30 pm
Shoo, Gustav, stay away from our TVCH friends! Belle, I'm so sorry you have such stress in your life right now. I'm praying that your father shows some improvement right away and that he be out of pain and comfortable.
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