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Nickovtyme
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07-29-2004

Thursday, September 11, 2008 - 7:54 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Nickovtyme a private message Print Post    
sleeping with allergies and bad sinus drainage give me sore throats.

Wargod
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07-16-2001

Thursday, September 11, 2008 - 9:24 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Wargod a private message Print Post    
I'd love a morning where no one wakes up with a sore throat around here (everyone has allergies, Darren and Kota worse off.) The air is always so dry, summer and winter, that it's pretty normal. We've tried using the humidifier but with Kota's breathing that has always made her even worse.

I would go to the dr to check it out though just to be sure.

Juju2bigdog
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10-27-2000

Thursday, September 11, 2008 - 10:25 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Juju2bigdog a private message Print Post    
Go to the doc, Julieboo, and let us know it is not throat cancer. Which it won't be, but if it is persistent, go check.

Rissa
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03-20-2006

Friday, September 12, 2008 - 6:02 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Rissa a private message Print Post    
That IS interesting Dogdoc, didn't know that. My 19yr old dd just had nasal surgery yesterday for a deviated septum and was saying that her nose goes from being completely closed to the left side letting air through to completely closed to the left side letting air through .... etc. So I guess thats what is happening? When it is alternating to the right side, it's blocked. Kind cool. LOLOL

Ophiliasgrandma
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09-04-2001

Friday, September 12, 2008 - 6:39 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Ophiliasgrandma a private message Print Post    
I take a medication that dries my mouth badly during the night. This is the product that I use around midnight each night which takes care of the dry mouth. I love it when a product works immediately and you know its working.


Julieboo
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02-05-2002

Saturday, September 13, 2008 - 3:52 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Julieboo a private message Print Post    
WHAT THE HECK is this ebay listing?? (I was searching for an adult octopus costume and this came up). What is an adult baby play set??? Is it something kinky? I don't understand it??? It talks about a diaper shirt and little boy outfit, yet it comes in adult sizes??? Anyone have a clue??

LINK

Mak1
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08-12-2002

Saturday, September 13, 2008 - 7:02 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mak1 a private message Print Post    
Well Julieboo, I spent some time looking at her store and reading comments. It looks like she adapts baby clothing patterns for adults to wear. Why? I can't answer that one. The adult onesies freaked me out!

Pamy
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01-02-2002

Saturday, September 13, 2008 - 8:48 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Pamy a private message Print Post    
it is a fetish, one I will never understand.

Julieboo
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02-05-2002

Saturday, September 13, 2008 - 8:52 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Julieboo a private message Print Post    
Oh Lord, why did I go there? I am now SO FREAKED OUT!! This lady has sold a whole lot and it seems this is the only stuff she sells!!! Some of the descriptions freak me out--such as "Measurements are best when taken over diapers." and "has snap crotch for easy diaper changes." YIKES!!!!

ETA--WHY did I look at her feedback??

awesome best onsies I have evert bought it fits great and my fiancee & I love it

I love it to bits, it is so cute and babyish. I will wear with happiness


Mameblanche
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08-24-2002

Saturday, September 13, 2008 - 9:24 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mameblanche a private message Print Post    
There's weird and then there's WEIRD. LOL

Jimmer
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08-30-2000

Saturday, September 13, 2008 - 10:43 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Jimmer a private message Print Post    
CSI had an episode about this fetish. It was quite shocking.

Pamy
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01-02-2002

Saturday, September 13, 2008 - 10:53 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Pamy a private message Print Post    
Julie, watch your email get flooded with diaper ads since ya clicked on that auction! LOL j/k

yeah, I would imagine that men that like to be diapered and powdered have some deep seeded mommy issues

Julieboo
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02-05-2002

Saturday, September 13, 2008 - 11:02 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Julieboo a private message Print Post    
There must be something about men/boys cuz she specifically says "little boy" and underlines it on many of her things... So weird and what would a mom do to her son to make him have these bizarro mommy issues???

Mak1
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08-12-2002

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Grumpy
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02-08-2004

Saturday, September 13, 2008 - 5:43 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Grumpy a private message Print Post    
Jimmer, I saw that one too. He was like an all powerful boss, to a baby! What I want to know is How do you tell your spouse or anyone? And why do they go along with this "issue"?

Grumpy
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02-08-2004

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Pamy
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01-02-2002

Saturday, September 13, 2008 - 7:43 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Pamy a private message Print Post    
Grumpy, that's what I have wondered. I was thinking that maybe they meet thru private parties or something like that.

I would love to know why some men like it but am afraid to google and click on sites for fear it will lead to spam etc

Grumpy
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02-08-2004

Saturday, September 13, 2008 - 9:14 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Grumpy a private message Print Post    
Pamy, yes, they meet at private parties. BYOB - Bring Your Own Bottle. just kidding.

Pamy
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01-02-2002

Sunday, September 14, 2008 - 1:33 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Pamy a private message Print Post    
Need help. My friend's mom passed away. My friend's house was held in her mom's trust, there is still 190,000 loan out on home. My friend nor her mom's estate has the money to pay off the loan.

We can do paperwork to get the home in my friend's name (trust states it goes to her) but the prob/question we have is what about the loan?

My friend has been paying loan from her acct even though the loan is in her mom's name (or moms trust's name). Can she call loan co and say mom died and she wants to take over loan??

What if she wont qualify for a 190,000 loan??

Does proving she paid from her cking acct all these years help at all???

I think loan co must be notified cuz Trust states that all of moms debts must be paid before the kids get any money from the Trust/estate. There is no other real assests that could be sold to pay off home loan.

advice? answers? I am trying to get heads up before we have to call loan co and ask their policy. My friend is not doing well and the thought she could lose her home is pushing her into depression. TIA!

Kitt
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09-06-2000

Sunday, September 14, 2008 - 1:54 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Kitt a private message Print Post    
Sorry I have no expertise to help you, Pamy, but is the loan held by a local bank where your friend could go in and speak to them? I would think if she can see someone face to face it might help. Hope someone here can help you more.

Hukdonreality
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09-29-2003

Sunday, September 14, 2008 - 2:06 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Hukdonreality a private message Print Post    
Pamy, when my Uncle died last December, I was the trustee. He also owed money on his house, and the bank wanted me to put the house into my name, then sell it (because we didn't really want a house in Michigan when we live in New York). I did not want the responsibility of paying the monthly loan while we prepared it for sale. Initially, the only option was to let the bank repossess. Then my Uncle's friend (a lifetime neighbor) said that HE would assume the loan, and we were thrilled. However, Countrywide Mortgage had other ideas and nixed that thought.

Well, after nine months, Countrywide finally figured out that the ONLY way they would get any money at all, was to transfer the loan directly into the neighbor's name. As the trustee, she has the "right" to pay bills, but they are NOT her responsibility. That's where Countrywide went wrong with me! I am just a niece, and could not be held liable for my Uncle's financial obligations.

It's a long drawn-out process, but it CAN be done. Your friend has to be very certain she can pay the loan before she tries to wheel and deal with a mortgage company. They will still need her to go through the loan process, even though it was hers through the trust. At least, that's they way it all worked for us. Trusts suck, IMO. Maybe not for everyone, but it sure wasn't very good for our family!

She should find herself a trustworthy lawyer to administer the trust. If she accepts the house, she also accepts all other assets. She will have to sell those assets to pay the bills owed, as best I understand. We wound up taking personal items, and left everything else to the mortgage company. That way, by not accepting the trust, we were able to keep his life insurance policies to pay for his funeral. She should have the lawyer read through the trust, because more than likely, the funeral expenses are covered and she would be able to use the life insurance as we were. Crazy and confusing...she really needs a good lawyer before she makes any decisions.

Ophiliasgrandma
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09-04-2001

Sunday, September 14, 2008 - 2:07 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Ophiliasgrandma a private message Print Post    
One word from here: Attorney

Seamonkey
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09-07-2000

Sunday, September 14, 2008 - 2:11 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Seamonkey a private message Print Post    
I agree, get an attorney who deals in trusts.

Hukdonreality
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09-29-2003

Sunday, September 14, 2008 - 2:14 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Hukdonreality a private message Print Post    
Pamy, one other very important thing. Tell your friend NOT to pay any bills at all. NONE! The mortgage company can not make her pay, nor can credit card companies or utility companies. I paid 2 months of mortgage payments before I hired my attorney, and he said to stop immediately! Here it is, 9 months later, and the house is still there. The banks don't really want the hassle of repossession, so nothing will happen overnight if that's what concerns her.

Rissa
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03-20-2006

Sunday, September 14, 2008 - 2:17 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Rissa a private message Print Post    
Huk said: "If she accepts the house, she also accepts all other assets."

Very important point and add to it that you take the debt as well. My mom was sole benificiary to her mother's will which included a home as well as a good sized debt from the nursing home she spent a year at after breaking a hip. IF IF IF my mother had accepted the home (which had a small mortgage left on it) then she also would have been on the hook for all other debt. At the end of the day, the debt was more so mom just walked away and let the gov't take the home. Not sure how it would work with no will but a lawyer should definately be the first phone call.