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Karuuna
Board Administrator

08-31-2000

Thursday, July 24, 2008 - 7:00 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Karuuna a private message Print Post    
((( Watching ))) I am so sorry for your loss.

Serenity
Member

06-28-2005

Thursday, July 24, 2008 - 7:16 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Serenity a private message Print Post    
Watching -Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.

Kady
Member

07-30-2000

Thursday, July 24, 2008 - 7:23 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Kady a private message Print Post    
i am so sorry for your loss. bless you and your family.

Mameblanche
Member

08-24-2002

Thursday, July 24, 2008 - 7:27 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mameblanche a private message Print Post    
(((((((Watching and family))))))))
Condolences to you and your family over the passing of your beloved father.

Heyltslori
Moderator

09-15-2001

Thursday, July 24, 2008 - 7:54 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Heyltslori a private message Print Post    
Oh Watching, I am so so sorry.

Gilda
Member

08-21-2006

Thursday, July 24, 2008 - 8:07 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Gilda a private message Print Post    
My heartfelt sympathies to you and your family on the loss of your beloved father.

Oldtex
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03-06-2006

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Thoughts and prayers for you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss.

Urgrace
Member

08-19-2000

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Watching, what a wonderful, loving daughter you are. God bless you and comfort you at this time.

Skootz
Member

07-23-2003

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(((((((((((Watching))))))))))))

I am so sorry for your loss of your dear father, esp. so soon after the loss of your mom.

May God watch over and give you and your family at this time.



Cablejockey
Member

12-27-2001

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So sorry to read that you have been going thru so much these past months. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family over the loss of your father.

Scooterrific
Member

07-08-2005

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((((((((((((((((((Watching))))))))))))))))))))))}

Texannie
Member

07-16-2001

Friday, July 25, 2008 - 5:56 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Texannie a private message Print Post    
Watching, I am so very sorry for your loss.

Mocha
Member

08-12-2001

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(((Watching)))))

Vacanick
Member

07-12-2004

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I've been following your posts Sue & I am so sorry to hear of your dad's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!

Txkaykay
Member

07-27-2006

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(((Watching))) My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Beekindpleez
Member

07-18-2006

Friday, July 25, 2008 - 2:34 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Beekindpleez a private message Print Post    
Watching...Sue...Sincere condolences to you and your family. May you find strength and comfort in the days ahead. We will be keeping you in our prayers.

Zeno39
Member

11-09-2002

Friday, July 25, 2008 - 11:44 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Zeno39 a private message Print Post    
Condolences to anyone who has had to use this thread!!

I found out for sure last night that they can't do anything else for my sister who is dying of cancer. Over 6 years ago, they operated on her for colon cancer and told her that they had gotten it all. She went through chemo and radiation. They gave her good news, saying that she was fine. Then lately she had been feeling bad and after all the tests they did, and everything, she is dying of cancer. It is back in her colon, has spread to her lungs and pelvic area, and possibly in her bones. They are trying her on a new chemo pill to buy her some time. In other words, she is dying. My heart is broken, because I thought she had this beat. I will be going to see her soon. She is to let me know after her next doc appt. when to come. The reason for not going now is because of my own health. I don't get around very well any more, and use a wheelchair for distance(I cannot walk far before collapsing). I hate myself for not being able to be there to help her. Right now, she sleeps most of the time, and I call her every day. She always sounds drowsy. Her husband is in a state of denial, which makes it hard on her. She seems to take this better than I thought she would, but his denial is going to make it much harder on her and for me, when I get there. He is hard to talk to, once he makes up his mind. I do dread that part, when I get there. I know it is going to cause tension, which we don't need. So I am dreading that part of it. I just want to be with her and make her comfortable without a lot of fussing (which I am sure will happen). He is going to make it so hard. I can tell by talking to him on the phone. He is going to have to accept this, and try as we are trying, to not get her upset. She doesn't need that. I just want you all to say a few prayers for us, if you don't mind, and a special prayer for her. She deserves it. Thanks for listening. I am sorry to bother you all with this, but I am really upset. I can't help it. She is all I have left besides my aunt, and her son, my cousin. Thanks again!

Zeno39
Member

11-09-2002

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I am sorry that I meant to say that she is all I have left out of my immediate original family. Does that make sense?

Cynny
Member

06-21-2001

Friday, July 25, 2008 - 11:54 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Cynny a private message Print Post    
((((((((((Zeno)))))))))) My prayers are with you and your sister and all of your family. You should never say you are sorry to bother anyone here. We all have benefitted from the prayers of the wonderful people here, even those of us who have never asked.

My sister is also fighting a battle with cancer. She has had three surgeries, two last year and one last month for tumors in the anal area. They told her they don't want to do the chemo and radiation because of damage that could affect her bodily functions. She keeps a lot to herself and I don't know if this was a decision by her or her doctor. I'm going to visit next month and hope to find more answers when we are face to face.

The relationship between sisters is so special. My heart breaks for you, Zeno, for the fear and sorrow I know you are feeling. I will pray for comfort and strength for you both. Please don't be afraid to come here to ask for prayers or just a little love whenever you want or need to. There is always someone here with a giving and loving heart to lift you up.

Biscottiii
Member

05-29-2004

Saturday, July 26, 2008 - 12:26 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Biscottiii a private message Print Post    
((Zeno and Sister)) Cynny was so right when she said "The relationship between sisters is so special. "

This must be unbearable. I hope that when you are able to visit you can give some comfort.

Biscottiii
Member

05-29-2004

Saturday, July 26, 2008 - 12:53 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Biscottiii a private message Print Post    
((Watching and Family)) I'm just so sorry this happened, especially after the loss of your beloved Mom!

A few years ago my Mom, in her nursing home, was holding the hand of her dear roommate. A gentle woman, our whole family was just delighted to know her. So tiny and frail, but they put Mom's newest grandbaby in her lap to hold and she was just beaming.

Later, when the end was coming on, Mom was holding her hand all the time as the Staff was coming and going to try and keep her comfortable. The Nurse leaned over and whispered something in Sylvia's ear. Immediately, Sylvia smiled and was gone.

Later, my Mom approached the Nurse and asked what she had whispered. After all the hours of vigil, it happened so fast and Sylvia had slipped away so peacefully. The Nurse told Mom that she had told her:

"When you step through that Door, everything is just so beautiful!"

Sue, I can imagine that when your Dad stepped through that Door, your Mom was standing there with her arms stretched wide to welcome him home. So it must be a truly beautiful and peaceful place where he can be happy again.

Again, I'm so sorry for your loss!

Zeno39
Member

11-09-2002

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Cynny and Biscottii, thank you so much for those kind words!! I appreciate it more than you know. I think I have just needed to hear words to that effect, as a form of comfort. Cynny, my thoughts are with you also and your sister.

Biscottiii
Member

05-29-2004

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Yes, Hugs to ((Cynny and Sister)) from me, too!

I hope you will be able to get more answers when you can see your Sister. And be able to share memories and old stories, things only Sisters can share.

Hukdonreality
Member

09-29-2003

Saturday, July 26, 2008 - 4:51 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Hukdonreality a private message Print Post    
Zeno, you and your sister are in my thoughts. Don't concern yourself over her dh's actions. His way of dealing with it is by not dealing with it. We all face things in different ways. Your sister knows him and how he is acting. She will not hold it against you if you and he don't see eye to eye. For her, your being there, whether by telephone or in person, is what matters. Take care and as I always remind people facing such tragedy...stay strong and be brave.

Mameblanche
Member

08-24-2002

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((((((Zeno & Sister)))))))
((((((Cynny & Sister)))))))