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Pamy
Member
01-02-2002
| Friday, August 22, 2008 - 5:19 pm
prayers going out to Merrysea and her family. I am so sorry for your loss.
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Whoami
Member
08-03-2001
| Friday, August 22, 2008 - 5:39 pm
{{{{Lindaceles and Merrysea}}}} Huge prayers going out to your entire family. Our family has the same history. Though I wouldn't mind going into details, that's a story for another time. Cause right now this is about your family, not mine. Just know that we are all thinking about you.
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Ophiliasgrandma
Member
09-04-2001
| Friday, August 22, 2008 - 6:06 pm
37 year old Jennifer, my very best friend's DD, has found a lump in her breast. Is starting the 'what is it' procedures tomorrow. Please make it your prayer that it is just a garden variety benign lump.
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Karuuna
Board Administrator
08-31-2000
| Friday, August 22, 2008 - 6:16 pm
(((Merry & Linda)))) What a heartbreak! I'll keep them all in my prayers. Ophiliasgrandma, that's a horrible process as I recall. I'll pray for peaceful thoughts for her and a good outcome!
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Ginger1218
Member
08-31-2001
| Friday, August 22, 2008 - 6:20 pm
prayers for all in need
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Kearie
Member
07-21-2005
| Friday, August 22, 2008 - 6:49 pm
Prayers for Merry and her family for peace and comfort in this time of sorrow. Prays for Jennifer's daughter for peace of mind. Praying for the best possible outcome.
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Mameblanche
Member
08-24-2002
| Friday, August 22, 2008 - 7:01 pm
((((((((((FOR ALL IN NEED)))))))))))
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Mamie316
Member
07-08-2003
| Friday, August 22, 2008 - 7:23 pm
Oh Merry, that's just heartbreaking. My prayers for Linda and her son and family. I'm asking that you keep my friend Sam and her daughter Rhyanna in your prayers. Rhyanna is one of my daycare children. Her husband (Rhyanna's dad) had a minor stroke and while he's in the hospital, she's found out that all the times he's told her he was going to the lawyers to negotiate a settlement with work because he got hurt at work, he's been lying and having an affair. She's at such a loss. He's been supporting the other family with the money that she's made working while he's at home. It's just heartbreaking. Please pray that she finds strength.
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Jimmer
Moderator
08-30-2000
| Friday, August 22, 2008 - 7:33 pm
Merry, I'm so sorry that you and your family have to deal with such an overwhelming loss. I hope things go well for Jennifer and that Sam and Rhyanna find a way to get through their situation. I'll be thinking of everyone.
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Ladytex
Member
09-27-2001
| Friday, August 22, 2008 - 7:35 pm
Prayers for all in need.
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Ophiliasgrandma
Member
09-04-2001
| Saturday, August 23, 2008 - 6:26 am
Mamie, I prayer your friend Sam finds her way through this horrible mess with the least possible damage to her and her children. It all sounds so awful.
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Earthmother
Member
07-14-2002
| Saturday, August 23, 2008 - 6:32 am
My prayers to all of you and those who are in peril.
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Mameblanche
Member
08-24-2002
| Saturday, August 23, 2008 - 9:33 am
((((((for all in need))))))))
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Cynny
Member
06-21-2001
| Saturday, August 23, 2008 - 11:32 pm
My prayers to you, Merrysea and Linda, for strength and comfort and peace. My heart goes out to you. Prayers, as well, for Jennifer and Sam and anyone else in need.
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Watching2
Member
07-07-2001
| Sunday, August 24, 2008 - 12:44 am
Thoughts and prayers for all in need.
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Mameblanche
Member
08-24-2002
| Sunday, August 24, 2008 - 4:54 pm
((((((Merrysea & Family))))))((((((Mamie & Friends)))))) ((((((OG & Friends))))))
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Skootz
Member
07-23-2003
| Sunday, August 24, 2008 - 6:32 pm
Prayers for all in need
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Seamonkey
Moderator
09-07-2000
| Sunday, August 24, 2008 - 8:27 pm
Prayers for all who need them and their families.
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Oldtex
Member
03-06-2006
| Monday, August 25, 2008 - 9:19 pm
A very good friend, Susan, lost her 90 yr old mother this past weekend. She was the sweetiest lady and was one of those people that always gave me a hug and thanked me for being a good friend to her only daughter. This is really tough. Susan is my age, married with 3 grown children and 2 grandchildren. Without going into too much, Susan is married to an alcoholic bipolar. Her husband blames Susan for everything wrong in his life (and there is a lot). Susan was also the main caregiver to her mom, even though she has 2 brothers living in the same town as Susan and mom. The brothers never visited their mom, never took her to doc appts, absolutely nothing! But, they sure want mom's money and are trying to cut out Susan from any access. Luckily Susan's daughter's father-in-law was mom's attorney. And I think he will do all he can to make sure that Susan get's everything her mom wanted her to have. Everything is to be split in 3rds, she did have a will. She also had pre-arranged her furneral (grave-side only) but it was not "paid for" and the cost is $11,000.00! My mom, who we buried only 3 months ago, had full services and only (only is relative) about $7,000.00. We used an independently owned furneral home. Susan's mother went to one of the large furneral homes (part of the HUGE conglomerate (sp?) that most furneral homes are owned by in the US. I just feel so sorry for the whole family, it's really falling apart, but has been for years. So Sad! I'm sorry for rambling, but Susan and I have been friends since the 60's and I want to help. But all I can really do is just listen. Susan really needs lots and lots of prayers and good thoughts sent her way. The furneral is Wednesday and I pray all will go OK with her very disfunctional family. So different than what I'm familiar with.
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Oldtex
Member
03-06-2006
| Monday, August 25, 2008 - 9:20 pm
sorry for all the typos - but I'm not going to correct them now!
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Wargod
Moderator
07-16-2001
| Monday, August 25, 2008 - 10:48 pm
Lots of prayers for your friend and her family, Oldtex!
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Cynny
Member
06-21-2001
| Monday, August 25, 2008 - 11:57 pm
Oldtex, I am sending prayers for your friend and her family. Even the most functional families seem to go crazy at times like this, and for the ones who already have difficulties it is so much harder. Adding so much tension to such a devastating loss just seems so cruel. I am also sending prayers for you because watching a friend you love hurting so much must be painful.
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Ophiliasgrandma
Member
09-04-2001
| Tuesday, August 26, 2008 - 8:07 am
Thank you all for your prayers for Jennifer. The lump turned out to be a cyst with a few other small ones also seen on the ultrasound.
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Mameblanche
Member
08-24-2002
| Tuesday, August 26, 2008 - 9:54 am
((((OT & friends)))) Thank heaven's OG! What a relief, eh?! 
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Ophiliasgrandma
Member
09-04-2001
| Tuesday, August 26, 2008 - 10:45 am
You bet it was, Mame. The girl is very lean with enormous natural breasts. She has had her family now and may go for a breast reduction...it would do her a world of good. My oldest DD had a breast reduction after she thought she was through having kids, but had another one later. She was pretty sad she couldn't nurse, but he's a big strapping 18 year old now...no health issues and the best son anyone could ever hope to have.
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