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Archive through November 03, 2007

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Merrysea
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08-13-2004

Sunday, October 21, 2007 - 9:20 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Merrysea a private message Print Post    
{{{Missy}}} I'm so glad you know what's right for you!

Mocha
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08-12-2001

Sunday, October 21, 2007 - 11:14 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mocha a private message Print Post    
hugs

Jimmer
Moderator

08-30-2000

Sunday, October 21, 2007 - 4:57 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Jimmer a private message Print Post    
That is wonderful Missy! All the best to you.

Seamonkey
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09-07-2000

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Twinkie
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09-24-2002

Sunday, October 21, 2007 - 5:23 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Twinkie a private message Print Post    
Missy, I know you are relieved this is over. I'm glad you are good with your decision.

Wargod
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07-16-2001

Sunday, October 21, 2007 - 9:51 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Wargod a private message Print Post    
{{{Missy}}}

Sunshyne4u
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06-17-2003

Sunday, October 21, 2007 - 11:21 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Sunshyne4u a private message Print Post    
thanks for getting back to us. Take care

Brenda1966
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07-03-2002

Monday, October 22, 2007 - 7:51 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Brenda1966 a private message Print Post    

Glad to hear you're feeling good about things Missy.

Hukdonreality
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09-29-2003

Monday, October 22, 2007 - 7:53 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Hukdonreality a private message Print Post    
I'm glad you are comfortable with your decision. Long time getting there, but that was the goal all along. Best wishes going out to you

Saxywildcat
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05-30-2005

Monday, October 22, 2007 - 1:29 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Saxywildcat a private message Print Post    
*HUGZ* MIssy

Cinnamongirl
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01-10-2001

Monday, October 29, 2007 - 7:45 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Cinnamongirl a private message Print Post    
Hope all is going okay with you Missy!

Twinkie
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09-24-2002

Thursday, November 01, 2007 - 5:43 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Twinkie a private message Print Post    
Missy, let us know how you are doing. We care!

Mocha
Member

08-12-2001

Friday, November 02, 2007 - 6:35 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mocha a private message Print Post    
Tgif Missy!!

Missy2
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07-31-2001

Friday, November 02, 2007 - 11:07 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Missy2 a private message Print Post    
I just want to thank everyone for their support. I really appreciate it. This was the most difficult decision I've ever made. In my heart I dream of a family but financially and relationship wise we are not prepared or right for it. TO be honest with everyone when I went to the clinic that Friday I went alone. I went thru all the preliminary stuff, I was there for well over two hours. I met with he counselor and I broke down. I told her i was totally confused and unsure and I cried a lot. I decided to wait two more weeks and left, I had till the end of November to do the procedure. I didn't mention it because I didn't want more debates starting.

AS soon as I left I was upset with myself because in my heart i know this is not right for US. and i don't feel good about doing it alone or doing it with him in the long run. I've seen him as a parent and he is not what I dream of for a father to my baby. Just the other day, mid sentence he asked me to find a girlfriend to share my stories with cuz he just isn't interested in hearing about what I was talking about! I guess it makes it okay because he ended it with, don't get offended I'm just not interested!?

SO I rescheduled and went this morning. this time he went with me and i really appreciated his support. He has his good points. the procedure did go well and everyone there was totally understanding. i wasn't going to mention all this but thought sharing it may be helpful to others who have been in my position or maybe in my position. it was really hard today. plus there are so many babies in my life right now! friends prego everywhere :-(

its also difficult cuz I'm 32 years old and need 2 face the fact that I'm in a relationship that is not working. there are good and bad but i don't know. I'm scheduled to start counselling soon. it'll be worth every penny. sorry if this message is a mess I'm typing on a laptop. ugh!

PLEASE HAVE A GOOD WEEKEND. I'M RESTING AND RELAXING

Jimmer
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08-30-2000

Friday, November 02, 2007 - 11:18 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Jimmer a private message Print Post    
Wishing you all the best Missy! I know you gave this a great deal of thought and I'm glad you are getting some rest.

Mocha
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08-12-2001

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Mameblanche
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08-24-2002

Friday, November 02, 2007 - 11:47 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mameblanche a private message Print Post    
((((((((Missy))))))))) Just take good care of yourself hon. I'm glad that he went with you - that you weren't alone today... And I think you are very wise about following up with counselling, hon. I wish I could give you a gentle real comforting hug right now sweetie.

Kstme
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08-14-2000

Friday, November 02, 2007 - 12:48 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Kstme a private message Print Post    
{{{{Missy}}}}

Dfennessey
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07-25-2004

Friday, November 02, 2007 - 12:58 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Dfennessey a private message Print Post    
Missy it sounds like you made the right decision for you.

Colordeagua
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10-25-2003

Friday, November 02, 2007 - 1:00 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Colordeagua a private message Print Post    
((((Missy)))) It was your decision, so it was the right one. Don't ever doubt yourself.

Nyheat
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08-09-2006

Friday, November 02, 2007 - 1:25 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Nyheat a private message Print Post    
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Hugs to you Missy!


Citruscitygal
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08-07-2003

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Missy2
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07-31-2001

Saturday, November 03, 2007 - 2:52 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Missy2 a private message Print Post    
Thanks everyone. It was so difficult and I'm utterly sad. Last night I cried myself to sleep. I know he would hug me and "be there" for me but I don't know. Its like why weren't you there before when it mattered? He offered to move forward but it didn't seem right, maybe it was me!! He only presented more problems. Offered no solutions, no financial assistance until I waved bills in front of him. Our communication is horrible. The whole thing breaks my heart. I guess I just wish he was someone that he is not, and together we are a couple that I'm not interested in. :-(

On another note, when I was at the health center they had the womens only waiting room, for before the procedure. In there they kept journals where women would write about how they were feeling as they waited. I started going thru them and they really touched me. But I was definitely not a place where I could read them or write in them, I could feel myself starting to cry. It was just so powerful and important.

Christina
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08-07-2005

Saturday, November 03, 2007 - 5:11 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Christina a private message Print Post    
Hug for you Missy2. Lots of hormones playing with you at this time too, dont forget that.
Glad you have some counselling.
There are some wonderful men out there, just keep looking, dont settle. You are young. Positive thoughts for you.

Juju2bigdog
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10-27-2000

Saturday, November 03, 2007 - 5:53 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Juju2bigdog a private message Print Post    
((((Missy2))))