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Merrysea
Member
08-13-2004
| Sunday, October 21, 2007 - 9:20 am
{{{Missy}}} I'm so glad you know what's right for you!
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Mocha
Member
08-12-2001
| Sunday, October 21, 2007 - 11:14 am

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Jimmer
Moderator
08-30-2000
| Sunday, October 21, 2007 - 4:57 pm
That is wonderful Missy! All the best to you.
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Seamonkey
Moderator
09-07-2000
| Sunday, October 21, 2007 - 5:07 pm

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Twinkie
Member
09-24-2002
| Sunday, October 21, 2007 - 5:23 pm
Missy, I know you are relieved this is over. I'm glad you are good with your decision.
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Wargod
Moderator
07-16-2001
| Sunday, October 21, 2007 - 9:51 pm
{{{Missy}}}
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Sunshyne4u
Member
06-17-2003
| Sunday, October 21, 2007 - 11:21 pm
thanks for getting back to us. Take care 
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Brenda1966
Member
07-03-2002
| Monday, October 22, 2007 - 7:51 am
Glad to hear you're feeling good about things Missy.
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Hukdonreality
Member
09-29-2003
| Monday, October 22, 2007 - 7:53 am
I'm glad you are comfortable with your decision. Long time getting there, but that was the goal all along. Best wishes going out to you 
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Saxywildcat
Member
05-30-2005
| Monday, October 22, 2007 - 1:29 pm
*HUGZ* MIssy
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Cinnamongirl
Member
01-10-2001
| Monday, October 29, 2007 - 7:45 pm
Hope all is going okay with you Missy!
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Twinkie
Member
09-24-2002
| Thursday, November 01, 2007 - 5:43 pm
Missy, let us know how you are doing. We care!
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Mocha
Member
08-12-2001
| Friday, November 02, 2007 - 6:35 am
Tgif Missy!!
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Missy2
Member
07-31-2001
| Friday, November 02, 2007 - 11:07 am
I just want to thank everyone for their support. I really appreciate it. This was the most difficult decision I've ever made. In my heart I dream of a family but financially and relationship wise we are not prepared or right for it. TO be honest with everyone when I went to the clinic that Friday I went alone. I went thru all the preliminary stuff, I was there for well over two hours. I met with he counselor and I broke down. I told her i was totally confused and unsure and I cried a lot. I decided to wait two more weeks and left, I had till the end of November to do the procedure. I didn't mention it because I didn't want more debates starting. AS soon as I left I was upset with myself because in my heart i know this is not right for US. and i don't feel good about doing it alone or doing it with him in the long run. I've seen him as a parent and he is not what I dream of for a father to my baby. Just the other day, mid sentence he asked me to find a girlfriend to share my stories with cuz he just isn't interested in hearing about what I was talking about! I guess it makes it okay because he ended it with, don't get offended I'm just not interested!? SO I rescheduled and went this morning. this time he went with me and i really appreciated his support. He has his good points. the procedure did go well and everyone there was totally understanding. i wasn't going to mention all this but thought sharing it may be helpful to others who have been in my position or maybe in my position. it was really hard today. plus there are so many babies in my life right now! friends prego everywhere its also difficult cuz I'm 32 years old and need 2 face the fact that I'm in a relationship that is not working. there are good and bad but i don't know. I'm scheduled to start counselling soon. it'll be worth every penny. sorry if this message is a mess I'm typing on a laptop. ugh! PLEASE HAVE A GOOD WEEKEND. I'M RESTING AND RELAXING
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Jimmer
Moderator
08-30-2000
| Friday, November 02, 2007 - 11:18 am
Wishing you all the best Missy! I know you gave this a great deal of thought and I'm glad you are getting some rest.
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Mocha
Member
08-12-2001
| Friday, November 02, 2007 - 11:41 am

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Mameblanche
Member
08-24-2002
| Friday, November 02, 2007 - 11:47 am
((((((((Missy))))))))) Just take good care of yourself hon. I'm glad that he went with you - that you weren't alone today... And I think you are very wise about following up with counselling, hon. I wish I could give you a gentle real comforting hug right now sweetie.
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Kstme
Member
08-14-2000
| Friday, November 02, 2007 - 12:48 pm
{{{{Missy}}}}
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Dfennessey
Member
07-25-2004
| Friday, November 02, 2007 - 12:58 pm
Missy it sounds like you made the right decision for you.
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Colordeagua
Member
10-25-2003
| Friday, November 02, 2007 - 1:00 pm
((((Missy)))) It was your decision, so it was the right one. Don't ever doubt yourself.
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Nyheat
Member
08-09-2006
| Friday, November 02, 2007 - 1:25 pm
Hugs to you Missy!
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Citruscitygal
Member
08-07-2003
| Friday, November 02, 2007 - 8:46 pm

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Missy2
Member
07-31-2001
| Saturday, November 03, 2007 - 2:52 am
Thanks everyone. It was so difficult and I'm utterly sad. Last night I cried myself to sleep. I know he would hug me and "be there" for me but I don't know. Its like why weren't you there before when it mattered? He offered to move forward but it didn't seem right, maybe it was me!! He only presented more problems. Offered no solutions, no financial assistance until I waved bills in front of him. Our communication is horrible. The whole thing breaks my heart. I guess I just wish he was someone that he is not, and together we are a couple that I'm not interested in. On another note, when I was at the health center they had the womens only waiting room, for before the procedure. In there they kept journals where women would write about how they were feeling as they waited. I started going thru them and they really touched me. But I was definitely not a place where I could read them or write in them, I could feel myself starting to cry. It was just so powerful and important.
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Christina
Member
08-07-2005
| Saturday, November 03, 2007 - 5:11 am
Hug for you Missy2. Lots of hormones playing with you at this time too, dont forget that. Glad you have some counselling. There are some wonderful men out there, just keep looking, dont settle. You are young. Positive thoughts for you.
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Juju2bigdog
Member
10-27-2000
| Saturday, November 03, 2007 - 5:53 am
((((Missy2))))
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