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Vacanick
Member
07-12-2004
| Saturday, July 21, 2007 - 6:27 am
Benji was just beautiful! He reminds me of my cat KC with that chiseled face ... beautiful! Hugs Sajo! I have a problem .. My son's lizard Lizzie has died. I suspected that was what was happening, she's slowed down quite a bit lately. The problem is that son will not be back home until Monday evening ... what do I do with my poor Lizzie???
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Vacanick
Member
07-12-2004
| Saturday, July 21, 2007 - 7:27 am
I asked my father what to do with Lizzie and he said to flush her down the toilet ... gasp! That's not going to work for me or Nicholas. I need another suggestion.
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Ophiliasgrandma
Member
09-04-2001
| Saturday, July 21, 2007 - 7:37 am
Put her in a box in the freezer and when your son gets back home you can help him make a decision as to what he'd like to do.
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Sajó
Member
06-18-2007
| Saturday, July 21, 2007 - 9:32 am
Thanks, Vacanick ! Yes Benji was a real beauty. I would also put Lizzie in the freezer, like OG said. Poor Lizzy
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Seamonkey
Moderator
09-07-2000
| Sunday, July 22, 2007 - 5:59 pm
Vaca, what OG said.. then you and Nick can work through the loss together.
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Bluerebel
Member
06-28-2007
| Thursday, August 23, 2007 - 12:09 am
I let my precious calico cat, Daisy, out Monday night and she was killed the next day. I started looking for her Tuesday and stayed up all night waiting for her to come home. This morning my neighbor said she found her dead in her driveway but she didn't know it was my cat. I asked her what she did with her body and she pointed somewhere behind herself. I just went inside and cried until I came to my senses enough to realize I had to give Daisy a proper burial. So with much trepidation I returned to my neighbor's house and asked her where Daisy was. She took me into the woods behind her house and we got Daisy and I buried her next to the flower bed but inside the fence. She was 2 years old when I got her in1993 or 1994. Yes, I took her for granted and I feel so guilty for letting her out and not getting up early to see if she wanted to come back inside.I have been preparing myself to face having to put my elderly lab to sleep in the next year,but I was not prepared for this. I guess you never are. Can anyone tell me how to transfer a picture from my cell phone to my computer ? Thanks for being here.
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Citruscitygal
Member
08-07-2003
| Thursday, August 23, 2007 - 1:03 am
(((((Bluerebel))))) Nothing I can say will take the pain away. I know because I lost my lab, Chloe, in April. I'm so sorry for your loss and for the circumstances that are causing you to feel guilty. I know I can make myself literally ill dwelling on what if and if only. I believe that Daisy knew how much you loved her and would not want you to be blaming yourself. Wish I could answer the picture on the cell phone question, but I'm sure someone else will be able to help. Take care.
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Pamy
Member
01-02-2002
| Thursday, August 23, 2007 - 4:02 am
Blue, my heart goes out to you. I agree with CCgirl. Daisy will be waiting for you on Rainbow Bridge. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very sad time
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Ophiliasgrandma
Member
09-04-2001
| Thursday, August 23, 2007 - 5:45 am
Blue, sad, so very, very sad, and I know you are just heartbroken. I am sorry!
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Halfunit
Moderator
09-02-2001
| Thursday, August 23, 2007 - 4:57 pm

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Supergranny
Member
02-03-2005
| Thursday, August 23, 2007 - 5:15 pm
It is so hard to lose one of our fur friends and it does hurt. Try to remember all the good things and don't dwell on the guilt or blame.
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Jimmer
Moderator
08-30-2000
| Thursday, August 23, 2007 - 5:17 pm
I'm sorry that happened to Daisy.
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Dolphinschild
Member
06-22-2006
| Thursday, August 23, 2007 - 11:22 pm
I'm sorry for you loss Bluerebel. ((((HUGS))))
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Bluerebel
Member
06-28-2007
| Thursday, August 23, 2007 - 11:48 pm
Thank all of you so much for responding to my post. Tonight I wrote a poem/essay to DAISY and I hope to type,print and frame it to hang next to her picture. My husband said maybe it would help to write about her. If that doesn't help I'll go find the Lexapro.Everyone can use a little numbness in their tragedy for a brief moment.
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Whoami
Member
08-03-2001
| Friday, August 24, 2007 - 12:18 am
{{{{Bluerebel & Daisy}}}} I don't have a camera phone, so I don't really know how they work. I don't know if this will work, but I know when my SIL sent me a picture from her cell, I had a message that I could view it on my provider's website. Don't know if it was cause we had the same carrier (T-Mobile), or if it would work with different carriers. If you want to try it, just PM or e-mail me (addy in my profile). I'll e-mail you my cell # and we can give it a try. My SIL has also e-mailed me pics directly from her cell. You can try that too if you like. I don't have a camera phone, so I don't really know how they work. Or, maybe you can just e-mail it to yourself?
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Mameblanche
Member
08-24-2002
| Friday, August 24, 2007 - 5:34 am
(((((((Bluerebel)))))))
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Sajó
Member
06-18-2007
| Friday, August 24, 2007 - 6:45 am
I'm sorry for your loss Bluerebel !!

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Calamity
Member
10-18-2001
| Friday, August 24, 2007 - 8:29 am
 Daisy Bluerebel: My heart goes out to you. I hope your dog can give you some comfort.
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Retired
Member
07-11-2001
| Friday, August 24, 2007 - 11:52 am
(((Blue))) I'm so sorry for your loss. Maybe this site will help. Pet Loss 
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Babyruth
Member
07-19-2001
| Friday, August 24, 2007 - 3:03 pm
((((BlueRebel)))) I'm so sorry about your kittycat Daisy.
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Sweetbabygirl
Member
08-31-2002
| Friday, August 24, 2007 - 3:04 pm
Exactly one year, a week and two days after putting my beloved D.P. to sleep, today I had to put Harpo to sleep. He was sick but today he began to meow in a high pitched voice, not eating or drinking....by the time I got him to the vet, they told me that the best thing to do would be to put him to sleep. Those of you that know me know how hard it was for us after D.P. died, but we eventually became quite close, so it is a devastating loss. Now he will join his brother at the Rainbow Bridge. I love you, Harpy....sweet dreams. Harpo Casavettes Hall-Watson 1992-2007
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Sajó
Member
06-18-2007
| Friday, August 24, 2007 - 3:11 pm
Sweetbabygirl .......I'm sorry for your loss as well.

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Ophiliasgrandma
Member
09-04-2001
| Friday, August 24, 2007 - 4:13 pm
SBG, I remember when you lost your first baby last year. I'm so sorry you have this new heartbreak.
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Retired
Member
07-11-2001
| Friday, August 24, 2007 - 7:04 pm
(((SBG))) My heart is breaking for you. I'm so sorry about Harpo and can't believe you are going through this again so soon after losing DC.
 (((Harpo and DC))) 
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Jimmer
Moderator
08-30-2000
| Friday, August 24, 2007 - 7:09 pm
I'm so sorry for your loss, Sweetbabygirl.
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