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Watching2
Member
07-07-2001
| Wednesday, August 09, 2006 - 11:19 pm
Too late for editing...but it was Wed. afternoon I found out about it. It's now 3:15 in the morning. I dozed on the couch for a while and now I'm back up and feeling sick about this again. I noticed from my typos above that it was the female who Kellie chased up the tree on Sat. She just loves to chase. "She" has her own kitty she loves in the house! Here we were upset Kellie chased her and scared her and now she's dead. My DD called tonight and I told her and she was so upset, too. She was all upset that Kellie had chased her into the tree. She was even more upset now. She was calling to tell me some exciting news about them finding a house they like and I just couldn't raise any enthusiasm and she understood. Anyway... I can't type much more so: {{{{Cdba, Christii, Max}}}}}}
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Max
Moderator
08-12-2000
| Wednesday, August 09, 2006 - 11:29 pm
{{Watching}} I would call animal control and tell them what happened. GIven that they were already alerted to the situation once, they may investigate further. People just never cease to amaze me with how cruel and heartless they can be to animals sometimes. 
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Jimmer
Moderator
08-30-2000
| Thursday, August 10, 2006 - 4:09 am
That is just disgusting.
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Retired
Member
07-11-2001
| Thursday, August 10, 2006 - 5:38 am
Disgusting is right! How sad.
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Bandit
Member
07-29-2001
| Thursday, August 10, 2006 - 8:04 am
Horrendous...absoultely horrendous. How can people be so cruel and hateful towards a defenseless little furbaby?!?!?!? This just makes me sick, and Watching, I can't imagine the agony that's eating at you. I'm so sorry. I would definitely call Animal Control again and report those no-good sons-of-%$%$##&##!} ((((Watching))))
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Moxygen
Member
07-08-2005
| Thursday, August 10, 2006 - 12:03 pm
I've been lurking in here for quite a while ... but the last installment made me so sad I had to post. The woman sounds a lot like my husband's sister in law who point blank told me that she had "put an end to that!" when we were both talking about out male cats spraying. When I asked further she said that she took him out back and took care of things. My blood boiled and I told her that she ought to be taken out back and be taken care of. She laughed at me and told me that animals are possessions and not part of the family. Ack! We haven't spoken since. My male cat wen to live with my mom - whose house he doesn't spray (no alley cats running around making his territory or something) ... all of our animals (our 2 female kitties and our dog) are our family. I don't understand people who are so cold hearted like that ... it's like there's something missing upstairs or they were absent the day compassion was handed out at school. I agree with Bandit - let her explain to animal control how the cat died. I'm so sorry you have these people as neighbors, Watching!
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Escapee
Member
06-15-2004
| Thursday, August 10, 2006 - 2:38 pm
We have a new addition to our little family. We have acquired Sofie. Sofie is a pure gray short hair. There really isn't any other colors on her, just this pretty silver gray coat. She is only 7 or 8 months old and already almost as big as Beans, so she might just turn into a huge kitty. Currently both kitties are residing in the laundry room exchanging hisses and swats. Unfortunately, they have to stay in there while I am at work, otherwise they terrorize the place. We have had Sofie for a couple of days now, and she is still pretty skittish. She doesn't come when you call her and she hides under the bed constantly. They both slept in the garage last night because it was cool, but this morning Beans came running in, but no Sofie, so I put him back out there so I didn't have to worry about litter box issues. I will post some pictures as soon as I can get the little bugger to come out.
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Sweetbabygirl
Member
08-31-2002
| Friday, August 11, 2006 - 4:50 am
(Eyes filling with tears) How unbelievably cruel….God, I’m so sorry, Watching (hugs really hard). I really don’t know what to say, this is just too horrid for words….how in the hell could kids DO that to a poor, defenseless kitty? I don’t want to imagine how it must have felt being in that dryer. You know what, I’m going to not talk about this now, I can’t keep crying at work. In the meantime, it is week four and I’m still grieving….last night while stroking Harpo, I started thinking about D.P. and couldn’t stop crying. Most people have said that some day I’ll be able to think of him with fond memories, but I’m not sure; whenever I think of him, I’m haunted by watching him pass away on the table at the vet’s office, and my hysteria afterwards. On the plus side, I sang a little to Harpo last night.
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Cdbga
Member
10-04-2004
| Friday, August 11, 2006 - 4:56 am
Hi all, time for the daily kitten update. Of course, this will actually cover 2 days, since I didn't post yesterday. I don't know what happened with that. I know I had composed a post, but I probably forgot to actually post it. I was at work and we got busy. So, anyhoo... I've continued to stop by after work and feed her/play with her. She has definitely gotten more comfortable with me and will come right out to me as soon as she sees me, and follows me a little ways when I leave. She still doesn't want to be picked up...and she is scared of anything that I might try to pick her up in. Yesterday I took a blanket to sit on (I'd just been spreading out my coat) and she wouldn't set foot on the blanket, and when I put her food on the edge of the blanket, she wouldn't eat it. When I went back Wednesday night to walk Whitney, I took snacks for her. That way, she was too busy eating her snacks to care about the kitten getting food. So, no growling or barking. They did stand and look at each other curiously, as always. Whitney had a vet appointment Wednesday evening, so while I was out, I picked up one of those cheap litter boxes that comes with the litter in it. If I end up keeping her, I'll get something better (probably one of those automated ones), but I wanted to have something on hand just in case...yet I didn't want to spend a lot of money, in case I don't end up with her. I never know from day to day whether she'll still be there when I go. I didn't get to go back last night. We usually walk at 7 and it started storming here around 6:30 and was still raining when I went to bed at 10. We had a brief break, which gave me just enough time to actually get Whitney out so she could take care of her business...but we had to hurry back in just as it was starting up again. And Whit is terrified of storms. I hope the kitten was able to find a safe, dry place...there are buildings around she could have run to. Watching, all of that stuff with your bad neighbor is just horrible. I just don't understand people like that. It is crazy to me that I'm going out every day and taking care of a cat that isn't even mine (which I know a lot of us here would do, as well) while your neighbor treats her own pets that way. I've been thinking about whoever put my kitten in the park...while putting an animal out isn't a good thing to do, they did pick a good place. Its Sweetwater Creek State Park...it's well-maintained and gets a lot of visitors. There's a lake and a creek, so the kitten does have access to water. There are picnic areas and people are always feeding the ducks, so the kitten would have access to at least some food. I guess I'd rather see someone put a cat out where it has a chance than keep it and treat it badly...and get mad at others who try to take care of it. And Moxy, ITA about animals being family. That is how I was raised to think of them. All of my pets growing up were considered family. Heck, I love my little Whitney more than a lot of my family! And it isn't only that, but they are also completely reliant on us to take care of them. You should not take in an animal if you aren't going to love them and take care of them. You just shouldn't do it. Christii, your new cat is gorgeous. Reminds me of my dearly departed Simon, but I think that is just the fluffy white fur thing! I hope she is starting to get adjusted. Escapee, congratulations on Sofie. I am definitely looking forward to seeing some pictures. If I can remember, I will take a pic or two of my park kitten and post them.
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Calamity
Member
10-18-2001
| Friday, August 11, 2006 - 7:34 am
Watching: I am so upset and horrified by your story. I would contact the local animal rescue organizations, the police/animal control, and the press. Maybe even child services, given that it was kids who are responsible for this monstrous act. Incidents such as this - and the sick humans who commit them or allow them to happen - must be exposed if we are ever to change both societal attitudes as well as the legal consequences for abusing animals. I'm afraid to say more because I'm so very upset. Hugs to Sweetbabygirl, Moxygen, and Cdbga. Congratulations on the new family member, Escapee.
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Retired
Member
07-11-2001
| Friday, August 11, 2006 - 2:22 pm
Congrats, Escapee. (((SBG))) I know it's hard to believe but the grief will pass eventually. Keep lovin on Harpo.
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Watching2
Member
07-07-2001
| Friday, August 11, 2006 - 9:21 pm
Just a quick post to let you all know I did speak to the legal people at the humane society and told the woman all about what happened. The problem about reporting what the kids did is, we don't know who she gave the kitten to and the kids who killed the baby. I really can't talk about this much because my stomach gets all twisted and I have GI problems to begin with and let's just say I've spent A LOT of time in the bathroom the last few days. I can't stop thinking of her. 
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Cdbga
Member
10-04-2004
| Saturday, August 12, 2006 - 5:01 am
Daily Kitten Update: Well, yesterday, she came right out to me as soon as I got there. I fed her, petted her for a while and she was perfectly happy to have me pick her up and hold her while I was sitting down (still won't let me pick her up while I'm standing). When I went back with Whitney for evening walk, we put out some food for her (I brought treats for Whitney again). She and Whitney still just seem really curious about each other. What was really cute yesterday, was that as Whitney and I walked, she was following us from a distance. And Whitney didn't want to leave the area the kitten was in. Usually she is all over that park, but she just kept circling me around that area. Although, as usual, I think it had more to do with the fact that she could smell food than with the actual kitten! But she was very nice to the kitten (in that there was no barking/growling/attempts to chase). The kitten was in a playful mood and was just being adorable...you know how kittens are. She was rolling around with a pine cone like it was a cat toy! She followed us most of the way back to the car when we left. Here are some pictures (she looks kinda mean in some of them, but really, she is the sweetest little thing...she was just a little unsure of the camera!):

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Max
Moderator
08-12-2000
| Saturday, August 12, 2006 - 6:31 am
Oh, she's darling! Please scoop her up and take her home soon. 
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Ophiliasgrandma
Member
09-04-2001
| Saturday, August 12, 2006 - 6:58 am
...like, today!
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Calamity
Member
10-18-2001
| Saturday, August 12, 2006 - 8:19 am
Oh Cdbga she's just beautiful! It sounds like she trusts you now and waits around hoping you'll show up. I hope you can find her a home! {{{Watching2}}}
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Retired
Member
07-11-2001
| Saturday, August 12, 2006 - 10:05 am
Cdbga, she is precious. Like the others said, scoop her up and bring her home!! My girls (Sugar and Spice) had their 6 wk. checkup at the vet this week (renal panels) and I'm happy to report they are improving/stable. That is a far cry from where they (and I) were this time last year so I am very happy and grateful.
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Cdbga
Member
10-04-2004
| Saturday, August 12, 2006 - 2:11 pm
Oh, y'all I had the worst afternoon. I decided to go ahead and take the kitten with me after I stopped to feed it today. And things were going just fine until the car ride freaked her out a little. I had her in Whitney's pet carrier, but I didn't realize that there was a gap under the flap (it is a soft carrier) that was just big enough for her to squeeze through and after I opened the car door, she popped out of the carrier and was out of the car before I could do anything. I tried in vain to get her to come back to me, but nothing worked. I just feel so bad because I took her from a place where she was pretty happy and pretty safe to a place she doesn't know where she might get hurt. And last time I saw her she was under a car, which just scares me. I have no idea where she is now. There are so many areas here where she would be safe and I just hope she finds one. I keep telling myself that she will find a safe place...after all, she found that area in the park. And, maybe, someone else here will take her in. There are a lot of pet lovers in this complex. I am just so sick over it...and on the verge of tears (already cried a little earlier) So, Watching, I'm sort of in that twisted stomach place with you, only I'm feeling really bad about what I did, while you are feeling bad because you couldn't do anything. And then, to just make things perfect, when I finally actually got inside, I found out that my Whitney had been sick all day...stomach trouble...so there was a lot of really nasty stuff for me to clean up when I got in...on the carpet, nonetheless. I wasn't mad at her or anything, she was sick, she couldn't help it. She never makes a mess otherwise. Poor little thing, she looked so embarrassed about the whole thing. And she's still not feeling well. I'm glad I'm off the next couple of days so I'll be home with her.
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Retired
Member
07-11-2001
| Saturday, August 12, 2006 - 3:27 pm
(((Cdbga))) Praying you'll find the little one again or she'll find you.
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Baby
Member
01-08-2006
| Saturday, August 12, 2006 - 3:41 pm
Cdbga, I have been following your story and progress with this beautiful and sweet little kitty. I wonder if it might help if you were to put some food outside where you could keep an eye on it to see if she finds it? And with you being off for a few days, you can really keep a watch out for her. Just a thought and hope it helps! Hope Whitney feels better soon!
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Watching2
Member
07-07-2001
| Saturday, August 12, 2006 - 11:54 pm
{{{{Cdba}}}}} I can imagine what you must be feeling! You've taken such pains to get her to trust you and then to finally get her home and have that happen, I'd be upset like you are. Hopefully, she'll find her way back to you. I hope Whitney feels better! {{{{To everyone who posted about their kitties}}}}
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Cdbga
Member
10-04-2004
| Sunday, August 13, 2006 - 8:24 am
Well, Whitney has taken full advantage of my heartache over the kitten...she's managed to get 3 LONG walks already today. Between her walk last night and her walks today, we covered nearly every inch of the apartment complex without a trace of the kitten...didn't see her, didn't hear her. We even went back to the park today to see if, maybe, she'd managed to go back there (it isn't all that far from where I live). When we got to her old area at the park, Whitney was definitely looking for her. She seemed sad, too when we didn't find her. When we left she was just staring back where the kitten usually is...and Whitney never does that. At the height of my insanity, I actually told the cat at the dumpster about my missing kitten and asked it to take care of her if it found her. Even more insane, I'm pretty sure the dumpster cat both understood me and agreed to do it! When we got back to the my building after our 3rd walk, I was starting to tear up again thinking about the poor little thing. And then, I heard a meow, and I called for her and she came right out. She was hiding in the shrubs in front of the building next to me. Which is, oddly, where I was hoping she might go, because the apartment on the end there is vacant, so she could have stayed very safe on that patio. I took Whitney in, put out a little food and I have her in the apartment with me right now, getting used to her surroundings. Whitney is being very good, but I haven't figured out whether she really approves of the addition to the household. I'm giving her extra love and attention to let her know everything is okay and the cat is supposed to be here. A little while ago, I was petting Whit and the kitten snuck right up and started licking Whit on the cheek it was quite cute. I've never tried to introduce a kitten to a dog's household, so wish me luck. Right now I have to go kitten proof some things. Whitney doesn't get into anything, so I'm always leaving my stuff out (like my basket of quilting fabric, my beads) when I'm working on a project. But the kitten is already into everything! Hey maybe she'll play with some of Whitney's toys. Whitney seems to be feeling much better today. She's still a little "off", but much better. We are almost at the end of the 24-hour fast and then she gets a "bland diet" for a few days to make sure everything is cleared up. Anyway, just wanted to let you all know the good news! Now I just have to think of a name for her. Well, actually, I guess I need to confirm that it is a "her", THEN I can think of a name! Ooh, and then I can get out my beads and make her some little necklace/collars like I've made for Whitney! I'll let you all know how things progress. And thank you all for your kind words and support during all this. It is nice to have a group of pet lovers to "talk" to about all this! I've said it before, and I'll say it again right now...we have a great group of people at TVCH! 
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Retired
Member
07-11-2001
| Sunday, August 13, 2006 - 9:36 am
Oh Cdgba, your post made me cry!!!! I am SO happy you found her/him again. Sounds like she/he was definitely meant to be yours. Hope she/he doesn't have fleas from living outside. Knowing how caring you are I'm sure you'll be getting her/him a vet checkup soon then you can be sure of the sex so we can come up with some name suggestions. Hope Whitney feels better soon.
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Ophiliasgrandma
Member
09-04-2001
| Sunday, August 13, 2006 - 9:40 am
Thank God! When I saw your name on the 'Cat' thread, I had my fingers crossed. This is just the best news today. One safety hint: Cats love to lick plastic grocery bags. Be sure to keep them out of her reach as they get their little heads through the handles and could get strangled. Our Ophelia loves her treat of licking the bags, so we always cut the handles. I've read that wherever it is they like about the 'licks' won't harm them.
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Saxywildcat
Member
05-30-2005
| Sunday, August 13, 2006 - 11:15 am
Cgdba I've been following as well and I actually read the post where she got lost and the one where you now have her within just a couple minutes of each other, so thankfully I didn't have to wait too long to see the good news! We just recently introduced a cat into a two dog household. We made sure that Leia had a place where she could go to be away from the dogs. Now she pretty much rules the roost! LOL The dogs and Leia play well together and if the kitten has had enough, she just runs away to where they can't get to her. These two dogs are 55 and 67 lbs and things are just fine. I think your little one will be just fine! I'm getting ready to share some new leia pics, so check back in a few!
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