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Archive through May 30, 2006

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Cndeariso
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06-28-2004

Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 7:32 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Cndeariso a private message Print Post    
someone who is engaging, attentive, selfless, witty and understated.

Zachsmom
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07-13-2000

Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 7:36 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Zachsmom a private message Print Post    
One that is at ease with themselves, have old fashioned manners and old fashioned flirting (such as kissing a womens hand on meeting)

Hermione69
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07-24-2002

Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 7:38 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Hermione69 a private message Print Post    
Pretty much what Lori said. Friendly, attentive and flirty. I tend to think of charming people as a little too smooth, too.

Dogdoc
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09-29-2001

Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 7:42 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Dogdoc a private message Print Post    
I think that "charm" means the person has a certain power that attracts others to them. For some reason, Nancy Reagan came to mind and also Katherine Hepburn.

Hukdonreality
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09-29-2003

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I think someone who is charming makes me feel like I am the most important topic on their mind. A charming person could "sweep me off my feet" without me thinking they might have ulterior motives.

Mocha
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08-12-2001

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To me charming means a person who is very personable, can get along with anyone, very pleasant, can "charm" the socks off of your feet. This charm can be both positive and negative.

Mamie316
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07-08-2003

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Charming is when someone can just make you smile with a word. They are warm and there is charisma.

Seamonkey
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09-07-2000

Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 8:20 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Seamonkey a private message Print Post    
I think of "charming" someone as putting them under one's spell. This can be good or can be not so good and often it sets up an interaction that isn't based on genuine feelings or reality.

Pamy
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01-02-2002

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Pamy
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01-02-2002

Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 8:33 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Pamy a private message Print Post    
LOL j/k I agree with the others. I think that the person is someone everyone wants to be around because they make them feel good about themselves

Beth4freedom
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10-24-2003

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A sparkle in the eye, a smile on the lips, exudes a special energy, complimentary to people around, "grace under pressure" (trying to remember where that quote came from, and what it referred to), light and airy, zest for life, genuinely interested in other people, special quality.

Did this before reading others above; never thought of the negative side :-( After all, the word "charmed" does come from the magic world..."He's got me under his spell" from song "Bewitched, bothered and bewildered".

Vacanick
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07-12-2004

Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 9:12 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Vacanick a private message Print Post    
Charming = Charisma

Llkoolaid
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08-01-2001

Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 9:14 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Llkoolaid a private message Print Post    
A charming person to me is one who makes you feel good to be around. They are warm and friendly and but not wishy washy, they are just an all round good person who you like to be around.

Mamie316
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07-08-2003

Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 9:38 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mamie316 a private message Print Post    
Oh wait, was this a trick question and I was supposed to say Adven?!

Rosie
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11-12-2003

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Charming is someone that you enjoy being around. The real charming person is honest and genuine. The wannabe charming person is less than honest and genuine.

Skootz
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07-23-2003

Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 9:48 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Skootz a private message Print Post    
I think a charming person is someone we all want to be around that has all the traits you have listed above.

Littlebreeze
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02-18-2001

Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 10:30 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Littlebreeze a private message Print Post    
A charmer is one who makes another feel good about him/herself, in one way or another.

Twiggyish
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08-14-2000

Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 11:04 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Twiggyish a private message Print Post    
Charming: A kind, friendly person who has a smile that is reflected in their eyes. A person who is genuine!

Pamy
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01-02-2002

Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 12:46 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Pamy a private message Print Post    
Lori you and your question had me giggling to myself in court today.

The DA said to a witness "So,what you are saying is that a psycotic person could appear to be charming"

I about spit my water and was counting minutes til I could come post about it! LOL

Mocha
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08-12-2001

Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 12:52 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mocha a private message Print Post    
Maybe Lori's the DA and needed our answers for the trial? :-)

Pamy
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01-02-2002

Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 1:03 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Pamy a private message Print Post    
LOL!!!!

Heyltslori
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09-15-2001

Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 1:07 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Heyltslori a private message Print Post    
LOL!! That is very weird!

Seamonkey
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09-07-2000

Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 1:42 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Seamonkey a private message Print Post    
Too funny. Lori! Grrl if you are the DA at Pamy's trial, we all have to get together for dinner (after the trial, of course).

Mameblanche
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08-24-2002

Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 3:43 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mameblanche a private message Print Post    
A charming person to me is one who is graceful and endearing, with a gentle charisma.

Grannyg
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05-28-2002

Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 5:06 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Grannyg a private message Print Post    
Charming is Fred. One who gets your attention from the first meeting and continues to get your attention after 30 years.