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Archive through May 28, 2006

The TVClubHouse: General Discussion ARCHIVES: 2006 Mar. ~ 2006 May: Free Expressions: Manners/etiquteet/what would ya do/etc (ARCHIVES): Archive through May 28, 2006 users admin

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Urgrace
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08-19-2000

Saturday, May 27, 2006 - 7:53 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Urgrace a private message Print Post    
Couldn't get the invitation, so I'll skip suggestions.

There is a question I'd like to ask.

Would it be proper for a guest to wear bright red to a summer wedding? The wedding is an afternoon affair with an evening sit down dinner reception.

Julieboo
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02-05-2002

Saturday, May 27, 2006 - 7:57 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Julieboo a private message Print Post    
I can't think of a color that would be wrong to wear to a wedding or reception. I think red is fine.

Texannie
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07-16-2001

Saturday, May 27, 2006 - 8:10 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Texannie a private message Print Post    
I think it sounds lovely Grace.

wonder why it wouldn't open for you???
ok..tweaked a little more, how does this sound??
application/msword
texas invite 3.doc (26.6 k)


Texannie
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07-16-2001

Saturday, May 27, 2006 - 8:11 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Texannie a private message Print Post    
btw..look at the restaurant's website..it's a really cool place..

Hukdonreality
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09-29-2003

Saturday, May 27, 2006 - 8:11 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Hukdonreality a private message Print Post    
My favorite color is clear, and that is never appropriate to wear to a wedding!

Texannie
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07-16-2001

Saturday, May 27, 2006 - 8:11 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Texannie a private message Print Post    
ROFL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hukdonreality
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09-29-2003

Saturday, May 27, 2006 - 8:15 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Hukdonreality a private message Print Post    
ummm, sorry, but it definitely looks like you get food for free and the bar is a cash bar. I'd just take the plunge and be direct.

Texannie
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07-16-2001

Saturday, May 27, 2006 - 8:24 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Texannie a private message Print Post    
really? i guess i am just obtuse, but the 'and' doesn't connect that thought?
i must be getting bogged down in semantics cause
"food, cash bar" to me means we pay for the food and you pay for the drinks but
food and cash bar means you pay for both! LOL

Hukdonreality
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09-29-2003

Saturday, May 27, 2006 - 8:27 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Hukdonreality a private message Print Post    
Yes, but you and I know what the intentions are. I'm imagining worse case scenario and the possibility of even one poor soul not understanding.

Baby
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01-08-2006

Saturday, May 27, 2006 - 8:32 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Baby a private message Print Post    
How about take the word "Cash" out and just say "Food and Drinks are Extra" or "Food and Bar are Extra"?

Texannie
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07-16-2001

Saturday, May 27, 2006 - 8:32 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Texannie a private message Print Post    
well, they would have cash on them if they were drinking! LOL

Julieboo
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02-05-2002

Saturday, May 27, 2006 - 8:33 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Julieboo a private message Print Post    
I think I am with Hukd. I see food and cash bar and my mind says there is food (which is free) and a cash bar. I guess maybe cuz it doesn't say cash food (or something like that)...

Julieboo
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02-05-2002

Saturday, May 27, 2006 - 8:34 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Julieboo a private message Print Post    
Maybe say something like cake and entertainment provided. Food and drinks are available for purchase. (I dunno...)

Texannie
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07-16-2001

Saturday, May 27, 2006 - 8:36 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Texannie a private message Print Post    
cash food? LOL
not sure we are having a cake.

is this really so unusual?? I am feeling so cheap........

Julieboo
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02-05-2002

Saturday, May 27, 2006 - 8:41 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Julieboo a private message Print Post    
I didn't think it was so unusual, but I really can't think of a "proper" way to word this. So maybe it is more unusual than I thought... I don't think you should feel cheap at all. I think it is a nice gesture. To have you pay for all the people who might come would be too much.

Max
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08-12-2000

Saturday, May 27, 2006 - 9:17 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Max a private message Print Post    
Why don't you just say "No-host food and drinks."

Just like a no-host bar at a wedding, that would mean food and drinks are available for a price. :-)

Juju2bigdog
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10-27-2000

Saturday, May 27, 2006 - 9:47 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Juju2bigdog a private message Print Post    
Hahahaha, Texannie, now I see that page one was all there is. I also think "Food & Cash bar" implies free food, buy your own booze. I like Julieboo's suggestion of "food and drink available for purchase." That is very, very clear.

Urgrace
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08-19-2000

Saturday, May 27, 2006 - 10:12 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Urgrace a private message Print Post    
But Hukd, is clear really clear, and am I making myself clear? Is clear clearly a reality or is it not real because you can't see it. Can you feel it? Taste it? Maybe you can hear it clearly, but it couldn't have an odor. It's a muddy question. Do you think clear has an aura? We all wear one, but I think it comes in colors.

Herckleperckle
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11-20-2003

Sunday, May 28, 2006 - 1:08 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Herckleperckle a private message Print Post    
Think Gracie put something in her coffee? The only colors I'd try to avoid would be white and black. And there are occasions even when that rule is not hard and fast.

Annie, I'd go along with that last suggestion: "Food and drink available for purchase." Just to underscore for the guests they'd better bring moolah.

And btw, what a nice thing to do for a good friend! Sounds like a relaxed, good time.

Hukdonreality
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09-29-2003

Sunday, May 28, 2006 - 2:44 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Hukdonreality a private message Print Post    
Urgrace, clearly you are trying to confuse me!

Dogdoc
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09-29-2001

Sunday, May 28, 2006 - 5:56 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Dogdoc a private message Print Post    
I couldn't open the invitation (web tv in use here) but I think you have to be specific about guests paying for both food and drinks. " There is delicious food available for you to purchase and also a cash bar." (Gee, I want to come. It sounds like fun).

Twiggyish
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08-14-2000

Sunday, May 28, 2006 - 6:38 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Twiggyish a private message Print Post    
Grace, I think a red dress is gorgeous for a summer wedding. =)

Lumbele
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07-12-2002

Sunday, May 28, 2006 - 6:52 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Lumbele a private message Print Post    
Gracie, where I come from the only no-nos for female wedding guests' attire are light coloured dresses, aka white, cream, anything that could compete with the bride's dress. So red should be safe.

Julieboo
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02-05-2002

Sunday, May 28, 2006 - 7:44 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Julieboo a private message Print Post    
I like dogdoc's suggestion. That keeps them (the food and the drink) separate so you know that you'd have to pay for both food as well as drinks.

Texannie
Member

07-16-2001

Sunday, May 28, 2006 - 8:31 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Texannie a private message Print Post    
I like the "Food and Drink available for purchase"!!!
Thanks ya'll!!!