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Archive through December 08, 2005

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Costacat
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07-15-2000

Thursday, December 08, 2005 - 7:25 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Costacat a private message Print Post    
CUDDLE!! I'm a heat sinking monster!

Kearie
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07-21-2005

Thursday, December 08, 2005 - 7:26 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Kearie a private message Print Post    
Singing...."cuz we're hot, so hot."

Adven
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02-06-2001

Thursday, December 08, 2005 - 7:41 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Adven a private message Print Post    
No thank you. It's like sleeping with a huge hot water bottle with bad breath, sharp toenails and the occasional "we need to talk" at 3 a.m. I don't pour molten lava on my head, either.

Heyltslori
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09-15-2001

Thursday, December 08, 2005 - 7:46 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Heyltslori a private message Print Post    
Adven...how romantic!!

Wargod
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07-16-2001

Thursday, December 08, 2005 - 7:47 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Wargod a private message Print Post    
LOL Adven.

Another nope, I kick and occassionally hit in my sleep, if we cuddled up Darren would be black and blue the next morning. Even when we sleep with a little distance he sometimes tells me the next morning how I elbowed him in the ribs or kicked him in the shin.

Mameblanche
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04-13-2005

Thursday, December 08, 2005 - 7:52 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mameblanche a private message Print Post    
Him: Boiling Italian Furnace! + Me: Frosty Canadian with Icy Feet. = ? Do the math. Hee hee.

Karuuna
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08-31-2000

Thursday, December 08, 2005 - 7:59 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Karuuna a private message Print Post    
I like to cuddle to start and then move into my own space. I'm a very light sleeper and if the other person actually has the nerve to breathe or anything, I'll be awake all night long.

Escapee
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06-15-2004

Thursday, December 08, 2005 - 8:00 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Escapee a private message Print Post    
I can't be cuddled when I am trying to fall asleep. I need my space so I can flop around and get comfy. I am a big flopper. Once I am asleep, DH can cuddle up to me, that is fine, but usually he cuddles up to me for his alterior motives. That is one of my biggest pet peeves. I tell him: Don't wake me up for sex, if you wanted it, you should have thought about that before I fell asleep.
For some reason he thinks in my comotosed state that I will give in, folks it's never happened, it only makes me angry for being woke up.

Jasper
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09-14-2000

Thursday, December 08, 2005 - 8:08 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Jasper a private message Print Post    
The same sentiments as Landi and Escapee for me.

Babyruth
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07-19-2001

Thursday, December 08, 2005 - 8:24 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Babyruth a private message Print Post    
Start with cuddling then get into my own sleep space.

Vacanick
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07-12-2004

Thursday, December 08, 2005 - 8:29 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Vacanick a private message Print Post    
No cuddling for me. I enjoy my own sleep space.

Mocha
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08-12-2001

Thursday, December 08, 2005 - 8:36 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mocha a private message Print Post    
I like to cuddle but not when I'm trying to actually sleep. I have to have my own space, don't want anyone touching me or laying their arm over me and I can't take the xtra heat anymore.

Metoo
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02-22-2005

Thursday, December 08, 2005 - 8:45 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Metoo a private message Print Post    
LOL Escapee...you and I think just alike!
Answer to question: No cuddling.

Yankee_in_ca
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08-01-2000

Thursday, December 08, 2005 - 8:48 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Yankee_in_ca a private message Print Post    
Depends.

Marysafan
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08-07-2000

Thursday, December 08, 2005 - 9:02 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Marysafan a private message Print Post    
During the first part of our marriage, my hubby was in the Navy and spent a lot of time at sea or overseas. The worst part of the day was facing the empty bed. It was so hard that often for the first month I would fall asleep on the sofa rather than walk to that lonely empty bed.

He too had a hard time sleeping alone. We have a real appreciation for being together in our bed. Neither of us can sleep well without some part of our body touching the other...whether it be hands, feet or bottoms. We both need to know the other is there is beside us.

We sleep in a double bed because anything larger would be a total waste of space. We once spent the night with friends whose only accomodations were twin beds...we slept comfortably...both of us together like spoons in the same single bed. Our friends were shocked to discover the other bed not used.

When camping we used to zip our sleeping bags together. So yes to cuddling.

Spygirl
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04-23-2001

Thursday, December 08, 2005 - 9:12 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Spygirl a private message Print Post    
We're forced cuddlers because we sleep in a queen sized bed with a 24-pound dachshund and my husband is 6'5". Forced. :-)

Skootz
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07-23-2003

Thursday, December 08, 2005 - 9:18 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Skootz a private message Print Post    
nope - this is my space, that is your space..now let me sleep lol

Herckleperckle
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11-20-2003

Thursday, December 08, 2005 - 9:22 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Herckleperckle a private message Print Post    
That is so sweet, Marysafan. Loved reading that.

I begin the night cuddling, then move apart because it is simply too hot. When his full-scale locomotive and pig-snort snoring begins, I sneak OUT of the bedroom--can't take it. (Been doing that for the last 8 years of our 33 years of marriage now. Slept first on a sofa; then on a sofa bed and now, finally, on a real bed that is our guest bedroom/den.) Then, in the morning, I always climb back in and we cuddle again. Great way to wake up and super solution to our sleep need issues.

Froggiegirl621
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02-14-2003

Thursday, December 08, 2005 - 9:35 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Froggiegirl621 a private message Print Post    
I'm usually freezing, he's usually hot. I'll have three blankets on top of me while wearing long pants, long sleeved shirt/sweatshirt, and socks and he's barely covered sleeping in nothing but boxers! For this reason we usually sleep under seperate blankets/covers year round.

We do get our cuddling in while watching tv or movies at night or even just before we fall asleep, but once I'm asleep - don't touch me. I need my space, he needs his. It works well for us!


Wink
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10-06-2000

Thursday, December 08, 2005 - 9:43 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Wink a private message Print Post    
Nada

Denecee
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09-05-2002

Thursday, December 08, 2005 - 9:43 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Denecee a private message Print Post    
cuddle till almost asleep

Tabbyking
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03-11-2002

Thursday, December 08, 2005 - 9:57 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Tabbyking a private message Print Post    
cuddle, but spooning way. i cannot breathe if i face him in the bed. i couldn't breathe if one of our kids climbed into bed, even if they were only toddlers. i had to be on the outside, so kidlet went in the middle. i always teased my husband, "if we ever have a 3-way, the other GUY has to go home after we're done! i can't sleep 3 in a bed" LOL

Seamonkey
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09-07-2000

Thursday, December 08, 2005 - 10:13 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Seamonkey a private message Print Post    
Spooning to begin, but not to actually get some sleep!

Beachcomber
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08-26-2003

Thursday, December 08, 2005 - 10:39 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Beachcomber a private message Print Post    
With my DH, a hug, a kiss, and I love you and then I retreat to my side of the bed. My chihuahua does spoon my back while we sleep.

Native_texan
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08-24-2004

Thursday, December 08, 2005 - 10:57 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Native_texan a private message Print Post    
I'm claustrophobic, so it's cuddle for a bit and then go separate ways.