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Mameblanche
Member
04-13-2005
| Saturday, October 08, 2005 - 10:25 pm
Welcome To The Gratitude Express! For some reason, the phrase An Attitude of Gratitude has been bouncing around in my brain today. (Maybe because its Thanksgiving!) I think that no matter how crappy we feel, there's always something to be grateful about that we should cling to rather than focussing on the crap. So today I am grateful because: 1) My dh loves me, I love him dearly, and today is our 6th wedding anniversary. 2) Although having my elderly mom move in with us this past Spring has been unbelieveably stressful, its also been surprisingly rewarding, as we're closer than we've ever been. 3) I've made some neat friends at TVCH! 4) I have some pretty terrific friends in RL - real life too! (One of them even sat with mom for 2 hours while Vin and I went out to celebrate over dinner. My friend is a Personal Support Worker and was happy to make a few dollars tonight and help us out in a pinch.) 5) So for today, overall, life is good. Could be lots worse. Daily I am going to try and find at least one tiny thing to be grateful for. Anyone else care to hop on The Gratitude Express to go for an uplifting ride?
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Kearie
Member
07-21-2005
| Sunday, October 09, 2005 - 10:20 am
Today I am thankful for my DD. She called this morning to tell me she got her package in the mail and it started "OINKING" at her. LOL I'm grateful for my loving daughter. I'm grateful for my wonderful family. Parents, siblings...all of them. I'm grateful for my dog Gizmo, who makes me laugh daily...and rarely leaves my lap. (that is a problem sometimes) I'm grateful that God loves me and will see me through everything I may go through.
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Pamy
Member
01-02-2002
| Sunday, October 09, 2005 - 11:49 am
Great thread!!! I am grateful for the most loving thoughtful son in the world, he amazes me everyday.
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Mameblanche
Member
04-13-2005
| Sunday, October 09, 2005 - 3:41 pm
I am grateful that this thread has started to take off, in a wonderful direction. I am grateful that although I had food poisoning last night, and I feel really yucky today, at least there was no recurrence. (So far.) I am grateful that although the new cleaning lady took 5 hours instead of 4, and cost me an extra bit of money, my place is squeeky clean! I am grateful that I have good friends and I am looking forward to hosting a Thanksgiving dinner party for some of them tomorrow. And mostly I am grateful that Vince is going to do most of the cooking! YAY!
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Bobbie_552001
Member
03-26-2003
| Sunday, October 09, 2005 - 3:42 pm
I agree Pamy, this is a great thread. I'm grateful for many things, but my children are truly a blessing from God. They have their "moments" that Mom just doesn't seem to understand, but they have come through their trials a much better person.
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Landi
Member
07-29-2002
| Sunday, October 09, 2005 - 5:03 pm
i posted this in the right now thread on september 29th. and i think this is the best spot for it. right now,I am thankful: FOR MY WIFE Who says it's hot dogs tonight, Because she is home with me, And not out with someone else. FOR MY HUSBAND Who is on the sofa Being a couch potato, Because he is home with me And not out at the bars. FOR THE TEENAGER Who is complaining about doing dishes Because it means she is at home, Not on the streets. FOR THE TAXES I PAY Because it means I am employed. FOR THE MESS TO CLEAN AFTER A PARTY Because it means i have Been surrounded by friends. FOR THE CLOTHES THAT FIT A LITTLE TOO SNUG Because it means I have enough to eat. FOR MY SHADOW THAT WATCHES ME WORK Because it means I am out in the sunshine FOR A LAWN THAT NEEDS MOWING, WINDOWS THAT NEED CLEANING, AND GUTTERS THAT NEED FIXING Because it means i have a home. FOR ALL THE COMPLAINING I HEAR ABOUT THE GOVERNMENT Because it means We have freedom of speech.. FOR THE PARKING SPOT I FIND AT THE FAR END OF THE PARKING LOT Because it means i am capable of walking And i have been blessed with transportation. FOR MY HUGE HEATING BILL Because it means I am warm. FOR THE LADY BEHIND ME IN CHURCH WHO SINGS OFF KEY because it means I can hear. FOR THE PILE OF LAUNDRY AND IRONING Because it means I have clothes to wear. FOR WEARINESS AND ACHING MUSCLES AT THE END OF THE DAY Because it means i have been Capable of working hard. FOR THE ALARM THAT GOES OFF IN THE EARLY MORNING HOURS Because it means i am alive. AND FINALLY, FOR TOO MUCH E-MAIL Because it means i have Friends who are thinking of me.
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Mameblanche
Member
04-13-2005
| Monday, October 10, 2005 - 10:17 pm
And I am thankful that Landi posted that lovely poem above! I am thankful that no matter what, my husband and I love each other. I am thankful he cooked the Thanksgiving turkey. I am thankful I am almost finished cleaning up after over 3 hours. I am thankful I only have a few more pots to wash tomorrow. I am thankful I have a dishwasher.
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Mameblanche
Member
04-13-2005
| Wednesday, October 12, 2005 - 5:38 pm
Today I am grateful that mom has an understanding social worker who just kept reassuring me that I'm doing a great job and doing the best I can with mom, even though with my aches and pains, and impatience, sometimes I feel like the worst daughter in the world. And she let me cry and didn't make me feel more of a fool than I felt.
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Mameblanche
Member
04-13-2005
| Thursday, October 13, 2005 - 7:41 pm
I am grateful for my dh who today was my rock!
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Mameblanche
Member
04-13-2005
| Friday, October 14, 2005 - 4:25 pm
I am grateful that this week is almost over.
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Pamy
Member
01-02-2002
| Friday, October 14, 2005 - 6:12 pm
I am grateful our kitty seems to be getting better, I will be more grateful when he stops peeing everywhere.
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Citruscitygal
Member
08-07-2003
| Saturday, October 15, 2005 - 6:35 pm
I am grateful that I have TOO much work to do rather than not enough, or no job at all. I am, really!!!!

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Mameblanche
Member
04-13-2005
| Monday, October 17, 2005 - 7:30 pm
I a grateful that I have a friend who also is a caregiver to an elderly parent, like I am, and that we find a moment, once a month to have a 'What About Me?' day. For our 'Me' day today we went to a spa, spent waaay to much money pampering ourselves, and simply relaxed. And compared notes. Kind of like a mini-support group. And for that I am truly grateful.
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Mamie316
Member
07-08-2003
| Monday, October 17, 2005 - 7:42 pm
I am grateful to be enjoying a nice peaceful evening at home in comfy pjs. I am also grateful that all my family is home and safe and sound.
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Citruscitygal
Member
08-07-2003
| Monday, October 17, 2005 - 7:52 pm
I am grateful for my friend who listens with compassion and makes me laugh when I think there is nothing to even smile about.
~RG~
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Mameblanche
Member
04-13-2005
| Thursday, October 20, 2005 - 2:20 pm
I am grateful that with mom here, DH and I are even more of a family, if that's at all possible.
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Citruscitygal
Member
08-07-2003
| Sunday, October 23, 2005 - 12:34 am
I am grateful for my son. He is the greatest joy in my life. I'm grateful that he comes to visit us often and calls nearly every day. I'm grateful that he involves me in crazy, fun stuff that I don't really have time for, but wouldn't want to miss out on for anything.
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Herckleperckle
Member
11-20-2003
| Sunday, October 23, 2005 - 2:03 am
I am grateful for my dh. He is not perfect (thank goodness), but from the moment I met him (in high school), he has been able to make me laugh. Still true today. He's honest, solid and wise. And he genuinely loves me. (Me!!) He has been there for me--and our children--in good times and bad. (He's also a great kisser!) I can honestly say that he truly completes me. I am grateful for my adult children, whose hearts are so lovely they sometimes astonish me. They bring me joy just being who they are--complex, sensitive, artistic, articulate and loving individuals. I am grateful for my Herckle. He has helped my children develop into gentle, compassionate yet fun-loving people. He has helped my dh smile on the dark days in our lives. And he has given me the honor of making me feel that I am his special sunshine. I'm not afraid to admit that he is mine; we have a special, wordless bond.
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Mameblanche
Member
04-13-2005
| Monday, October 24, 2005 - 12:59 am
I am grateful for TVCH and friends like yourselves.
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Mameblanche
Member
04-13-2005
| Monday, October 24, 2005 - 11:49 am
Desiderata - by max ehrmann Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant, they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love, for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is perennial as the grass. Take kindly to the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be, and whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Today I am grateful a friend emailed this to me, and I am grateful for a chance to share it here. I hope you enjoyed it.
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Mameblanche
Member
04-13-2005
| Saturday, October 29, 2005 - 10:26 am
I am VERY grateful that my dh is doing very well after surgery, and should be home tomorrow. 
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Citruscitygal
Member
08-07-2003
| Wednesday, November 02, 2005 - 10:43 pm
I'm grateful that, after way too many days working at client's offices, I get to work at home for a few days.
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Mameblanche
Member
04-13-2005
| Saturday, November 05, 2005 - 8:52 pm
I'm grateful I have some very kind, thoughtful and understanding cyber-buddies here at CH! 
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Mameblanche
Member
04-13-2005
| Wednesday, November 09, 2005 - 7:18 pm
I am grateful I thought enough of myself to go out to Curves today, even though I haven't gone since April, and hadn't gone since December, before that, due to medical issues. I am grateful that I feel part of a buddy-system/encouragement group here. I am grateful that my husband is really proud of me that I went to Curves. I am grateful that I was so happy to be there, and that it felt like 'coming home'. I am even grateful that I am really sore in places I forgot I had. LOL. I am grateful I feel so happy.
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Ketchuplover
Member
08-30-2000
| Sunday, November 27, 2005 - 7:12 pm
I'm grateful that I'm not losing my mind too quickly 
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Mameblanche
Member
04-13-2005
| Sunday, November 27, 2005 - 9:47 pm
I'm grateful that I have good friends that put up with me even when I am in a whiny, bitchy mood.
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