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Kaili
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08-31-2000

Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 7:01 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Kaili a private message Print Post    
New for today-

Would you rather-

Be married to someone who is extremely vain

OR

Someone who has an extremely poor self-image?


I'm not sure here. The poor self image thing would get annoying, but so would the being vain thing. I'm going to opt for the poor self image though I think. Well, I don't know. I'd get sick of always trying to build up someone's ego, but I do think I'd be more likely to be rude and tell a vain person to get over himself. Yep, I think poor self image.

Tabbyking
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03-11-2002

Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 7:33 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Tabbyking a private message Print Post    
vain. i'd laugh a lot and roll my eyes.
if he had a poor self-image, it would be depressing.
having been with both types of men, the poor self-image type gets old fast--always having to build the guy up-- and the vain just made me smile to think the guy thought he was all that.
my son's bio dad could not pass a window or a mirror without looking at his reflection. 20 years later, it still makes me laugh at how vain he was.

when someone is vain, it's not a reflection of me, just their own inflated ego. when someone has a poor self-image, i feel i need to help lift them up and when it drags on, it gets tiresome.

Escapee
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06-15-2004

Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 7:50 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Escapee a private message Print Post    
There is nothing worse than someone who is down on themselves all the time.

Cher
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08-18-2004

Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 8:05 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Cher a private message Print Post    
Vain

Jeep
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10-17-2001

Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 8:11 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Jeep a private message Print Post    
I'll take vain, but sometimes that can be a cover up for a poor self image as well. What's a woman to do???

Lumbele
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07-12-2002

Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 8:18 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Lumbele a private message Print Post    
Vain - I'd cure him of that fast enough without too much effort. As mentioned before, building someone up all the time would get way too taxing.

Yesitsme
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08-24-2004

Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 8:19 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Yesitsme a private message Print Post    
I'll go with vain. I'm with Tabbyking....I have dated guys like that and was somewhat amused by making fun of them and watching how others reacted to them. Can't think that the guy with the poor self image would ever be much fun! I would have no patience for that. Plus it would be a bit insulting that the guy with the poor self image thought I was a worthy mate!

Eeyoreslament
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07-20-2003

Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 8:26 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Eeyoreslament a private message Print Post    
Vain. As least he would be concentrating on HIS image, and not criticizing MINE.

Urgrace
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08-19-2000

Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 8:31 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Urgrace a private message Print Post    
vanity

Landi
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07-29-2002

Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 8:46 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Landi a private message Print Post    
vain. much easier to deal with.

Denecee
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09-05-2002

Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 9:32 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Denecee a private message Print Post    
Vain

Mamie316
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07-08-2003

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Vain, I don't want to have to keep bolsting them up all the time.

Scout
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01-20-2005

Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 9:55 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Scout a private message Print Post    
Guess I'm in the minority here, but I'll take the poor self-image guy. I've known lots of guys who may not have thought much of themselves, but were very thoughtful of other people. I've never known a vain guy to be thoughtful of anyone but himself.

Denecee
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09-05-2002

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That's true Scout, I want to change my answer.

Vacanick
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07-12-2004

Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 10:18 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Vacanick a private message Print Post    
Vain ... good self esteem is a positive thing.

Ophiliasgrandma
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09-04-2001

Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 10:19 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Ophiliasgrandma a private message Print Post    
Scout convinced me to go with poor self-image.

Jimmer
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08-30-2000

Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 12:44 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Jimmer a private message Print Post    
I was going with vain but Scout convinced me as well (let's hope she never tries to sell us anything! )

Seamonkey
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09-07-2000

Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 1:13 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Seamonkey a private message Print Post    
R for W and Vain.

Nickovtyme
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07-29-2004

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I'll go with poor self-image. Being someone who had a poor self image and low self-esteem in my youth...I can relate and be able to help them out of it.

Kaili
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08-31-2000

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Oh my! Here it is, 3 o'clock already! I forgot all about this!

Would you rather...

Have the kind of personality that causes people to believe you are a conniving manipulator

OR

a pathalogical liar?


I think the manipulator. If they thought you were manipulative, they wouldn't necessarily like you, but they would believe you. If everyone thought you lied all the time, they wouldn't like you AND they wouldn't believe you about anything.

Cher
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08-18-2004

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probably the manipulator

Ophiliasgrandma
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09-04-2001

Thursday, June 30, 2005 - 3:56 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Ophiliasgrandma a private message Print Post    
Manipulator R Me

Vacanick
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07-12-2004

Thursday, June 30, 2005 - 4:04 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Vacanick a private message Print Post    
Manipulator r me 2 OG

Giddygrin
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06-27-2005

Thursday, June 30, 2005 - 4:08 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Giddygrin a private message Print Post    
This depends...Am I a convincing liar...

Eeyoreslament
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07-20-2003

Thursday, June 30, 2005 - 7:33 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Eeyoreslament a private message Print Post    
I think if people considered me to be a conniving manipulator, I could almost consider that a compliment, so I'll take "manipulator".