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Sillycalimomma
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11-13-2003

Tuesday, October 04, 2005 - 11:40 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Sillycalimomma a private message Print Post    
Right now (((((Kaykay)))))) take her down! Make her sit next to Mr. Onion breath man! Grrrr.....i'll come over there and show her whats really going on!

Kaykay
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01-21-2004

Tuesday, October 04, 2005 - 11:44 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Kaykay a private message Print Post    
right now Silly i wish i could but she just so angry and thinks the world revolves around her. She always play the "poor me" game and i'm just sick of it. How i wish you could come and help....

Kep421
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08-11-2001

Tuesday, October 04, 2005 - 11:49 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Kep421 a private message Print Post    
aww Kaykay... my sympathies hon. I know how unpleasant it is for you right now... but it will pass...{{{{Kaykay}}}}

Tabbyking
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03-11-2002

Tuesday, October 04, 2005 - 11:49 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Tabbyking a private message Print Post    
right now, thanks, landi! we did have a fun visit, didn't we!?
silly, you are right about talking with friends. for me, tvch does that a lot!
oh, kaykay, i worked with a 22-year-old who thought she was all that and thought she was our boss even though she only came to the golf course for her discounted meals in the restaurant. i really wanted to tell her to f herself when i quit, but dd still works there, so i stifled myself. for once in my life!!
this girl had worked for maybe 6 months in her entire life and takes 4 days to go over the inventory that the pro-shop and restaurant people completed in less than 2 hours. every mistake she 'found' was hers. she would double-enter on the computer or something and then call (in front of big boss) and loudly tell us what was wrong. when she would call to tell us she had found out it was her error, it would be in whispered tones, so big boss couldn't hear that! she wears clothes i wouldn't wear to a nightclub and has major visible panty lines and a needy husband who calls every 5 minutes and a cell phone with her baby's crying on it for a ring-tone. she lives around the corner from me and none of the neighbors can stand her, either. she knows everything, but really knows nothing.
so, i can relate to how you feel, kaykay, and since my family called me kaykay when i was little, i feel a special bond to you and don't want any little chickadee-wannabes ruining 'our' day!!
oh, the gal i worked with is named lily, so i always called her 'lily white ass' under my breath. made me feel surprisingly better! LOL

Mocha
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08-12-2001

Tuesday, October 04, 2005 - 11:52 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mocha a private message Print Post    
Right now Kk, walk by her car with your car keys in your hand.

Kaykay
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01-21-2004

Tuesday, October 04, 2005 - 11:55 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Kaykay a private message Print Post    
right now - thanks tabby - i haven't smiled all day but "lily white ass" got me laughing

Mocha - i would but i am trying to be the professiol here

Tabbyking
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03-11-2002

Tuesday, October 04, 2005 - 12:11 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Tabbyking a private message Print Post    
right now, kaykay, wear a shirt that says, "professional car-keyer" on it, and then walk by with your keys in your hand.

Landi
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07-29-2002

Tuesday, October 04, 2005 - 12:12 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Landi a private message Print Post    
right now, i'd go for the mocha approach also. i'd also go to HR myself, and let them know what is what.

Kaykay
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01-21-2004

Tuesday, October 04, 2005 - 12:15 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Kaykay a private message Print Post    
right now - could you imagine.... She's so loopy - she would probably take me to HR for harassment - she it TOO much. she won't even talk to be for business reasons - what a nightmare and of course the boss is off the desk now

Mocha
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08-12-2001

Tuesday, October 04, 2005 - 12:16 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mocha a private message Print Post    
Right now Granny also uses lily white ass and so do I.

Kaykay
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01-21-2004

Tuesday, October 04, 2005 - 12:28 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Kaykay a private message Print Post    
right now - landi, i e-mail my big boss in London and I have set up a conference call with him and my boss here <she has no idea of course> i told them that she was going to lodge a complaint and that i wanted some feedback on my work performance before getting called to HR.

I need this like a need a hole in my head.

Mocha - lily white ass is TOOOO funny!!

Yankee_in_ca
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08-01-2000

Tuesday, October 04, 2005 - 12:31 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Yankee_in_ca a private message Print Post    
Right now, I've officially given up on summer.

It's my lunch break, and I just brought up my winter clothes from the storage unit.

Seeing that I've worn a jacket or sweater outside for the past two weeks, and today I'm wearing a heavy wool skirt AND tights, I guess it's time. Sigh.

Kep421
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08-11-2001

Tuesday, October 04, 2005 - 12:34 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Kep421 a private message Print Post    
Oohh Kaykay... is that going to upset your boss? Going over her head and then blindsiding her with this call she knows nothing about?

Serenity
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06-28-2005

Tuesday, October 04, 2005 - 1:38 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Serenity a private message Print Post    
Right now I hope Oprah is able to make a change by spreading the message "enough is enough." My heart is breaking for all the tiny victims of sexual offenders.



Escapee
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06-15-2004

Tuesday, October 04, 2005 - 1:45 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Escapee a private message Print Post    
Right now:
What does it say about our society if we can't protect our future generations from viscious evilness and irrevocable damage?

Kaykay
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01-21-2004

Wednesday, October 05, 2005 - 5:16 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Kaykay a private message Print Post    
right now i am a nevrous wreck this morning - i had a rotten nights sleep. I hope all goes well - think of me 10am EST !!!!

Julieboo
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02-05-2002

Wednesday, October 05, 2005 - 5:36 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Julieboo a private message Print Post    
RN, Kaykay, what happened so far? (Did you post more details-if so I missed 'em.) I am guessing that "chickie" went to HR about you and HR is having meeting w/ you at 10?
Well don't look at it as a time to be nervous. Look at it as a time to set the record straight.

My advice:

try not to get defensive (cuz you don't want to look guilty--especially cuz you are not.).

Try to be matter of fact.

Be professional as you can.

Be specific. Maybe write a list of stuff beforehand.

Good luck and if I can think of anything else, I will post it. I am sure other posters here might have some more suggestions. If not, I m sure they will give you a few words of moral support!!

Go Kaykay!!!

Kaykay
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01-21-2004

Wednesday, October 05, 2005 - 5:47 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Kaykay a private message Print Post    
right now - thanks julie - chicky called HR yesterday and set a meeting. I then had to make my move. There has been ALOT of talk about her hours with our boss and big boss so i decided to e-mail our big boss in London and set up a phone call for this morning at 10 am with my boss, my big boss who's in London on business and my big big boss. I told them that she was going to file a complaint and that i want to know the statues of my work performance from them before HR calls me in.
Basicly i want to look like the professional and not just run willy nilly to HR without first consulting my bosses. I hope it's right move to make. I had to nip her crap in the bud...
what do you think???
<sorry to ramble>

Lumbele
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07-12-2002

Wednesday, October 05, 2005 - 5:55 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Lumbele a private message Print Post    
RN, keeping my fingers crossed for you, Kaykay! You'll do fine, just remember to breathe and stay calm, factual and businesslike during your conference and HR meeting.
(After you nip her crapola in the bud, do the same to her butt)

Kaykay
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01-21-2004

Wednesday, October 05, 2005 - 6:01 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Kaykay a private message Print Post    
right now - thanks lumbele - i need all the crossed fingers i can get..

Mameblanche
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04-13-2005

Wednesday, October 05, 2005 - 6:21 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mameblanche a private message Print Post    
Right now (((kaykay))) 9:20 EST... already sending positive thoughts your way. Sounds like you are doing your utmost to be professional and that's gotta be a plus!

If you know where she lives you could set a mouse free in her backyard and point it in the direction of her house. And gulp, yes, I admit I really did that once!

Seriously, I like that you set up this conference call. I always say knowlege is power, and hopefully you'll feel your bosses have your back as they say.

Goodluck! And of course, keep us posted. :-)

Mameblanche
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04-13-2005

Wednesday, October 05, 2005 - 6:25 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mameblanche a private message Print Post    
Right now I'm dreading the day... they are going to be testing the fire alarms in our building all day - necessary but noisy. They will also be testing each smoke detector and that's very good.

Kaykay
Member

01-21-2004

Wednesday, October 05, 2005 - 6:37 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Kaykay a private message Print Post    
right now - thanks Mame - your post was sweet and funny!! How about a rat instread of a mouse!!! LOL!!

Marej
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09-20-2002

Wednesday, October 05, 2005 - 6:49 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Marej a private message Print Post    
Right now, according to the National Weather Service, we got 5.78" of rain from yesterday to today. Just think if it had been snow.

Spitfire
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07-18-2002

Wednesday, October 05, 2005 - 7:00 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Spitfire a private message Print Post    
Right now ....good luck Kaykay. It's time. :-)