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Kaili
Member
08-31-2000
| Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 7:01 am
New for today- Would you rather- Be married to someone who is extremely vain OR Someone who has an extremely poor self-image? I'm not sure here. The poor self image thing would get annoying, but so would the being vain thing. I'm going to opt for the poor self image though I think. Well, I don't know. I'd get sick of always trying to build up someone's ego, but I do think I'd be more likely to be rude and tell a vain person to get over himself. Yep, I think poor self image.
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Tabbyking
Member
03-11-2002
| Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 7:33 am
vain. i'd laugh a lot and roll my eyes. if he had a poor self-image, it would be depressing. having been with both types of men, the poor self-image type gets old fast--always having to build the guy up-- and the vain just made me smile to think the guy thought he was all that. my son's bio dad could not pass a window or a mirror without looking at his reflection. 20 years later, it still makes me laugh at how vain he was. when someone is vain, it's not a reflection of me, just their own inflated ego. when someone has a poor self-image, i feel i need to help lift them up and when it drags on, it gets tiresome.
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Escapee
Member
06-15-2004
| Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 7:50 am
There is nothing worse than someone who is down on themselves all the time.
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Cher
Member
08-18-2004
| Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 8:05 am
Vain
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Jeep
Member
10-17-2001
| Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 8:11 am
I'll take vain, but sometimes that can be a cover up for a poor self image as well. What's a woman to do???
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Lumbele
Member
07-12-2002
| Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 8:18 am
Vain - I'd cure him of that fast enough without too much effort. As mentioned before, building someone up all the time would get way too taxing.
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Yesitsme
Member
08-24-2004
| Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 8:19 am
I'll go with vain. I'm with Tabbyking....I have dated guys like that and was somewhat amused by making fun of them and watching how others reacted to them. Can't think that the guy with the poor self image would ever be much fun! I would have no patience for that. Plus it would be a bit insulting that the guy with the poor self image thought I was a worthy mate!
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Eeyoreslament
Member
07-20-2003
| Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 8:26 am
Vain. As least he would be concentrating on HIS image, and not criticizing MINE.
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Urgrace
Member
08-19-2000
| Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 8:31 am
vanity
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Landi
Member
07-29-2002
| Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 8:46 am
vain. much easier to deal with.
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Denecee
Member
09-05-2002
| Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 9:32 am
Vain
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Mamie316
Member
07-08-2003
| Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 9:47 am
Vain, I don't want to have to keep bolsting them up all the time.
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Scout
Member
01-20-2005
| Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 9:55 am
Guess I'm in the minority here, but I'll take the poor self-image guy. I've known lots of guys who may not have thought much of themselves, but were very thoughtful of other people. I've never known a vain guy to be thoughtful of anyone but himself.
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Denecee
Member
09-05-2002
| Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 10:04 am
That's true Scout, I want to change my answer.
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Vacanick
Member
07-12-2004
| Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 10:18 am
Vain ... good self esteem is a positive thing.
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Ophiliasgrandma
Member
09-04-2001
| Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 10:19 am
Scout convinced me to go with poor self-image.
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Jimmer
Member
08-30-2000
| Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 12:44 pm
I was going with vain but Scout convinced me as well (let's hope she never tries to sell us anything! )
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Seamonkey
Member
09-07-2000
| Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 1:13 pm
R for W and Vain.
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Nickovtyme
Member
07-29-2004
| Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - 3:21 pm
I'll go with poor self-image. Being someone who had a poor self image and low self-esteem in my youth...I can relate and be able to help them out of it.
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Kaili
Member
08-31-2000
| Thursday, June 30, 2005 - 1:08 pm
Oh my! Here it is, 3 o'clock already! I forgot all about this! Would you rather... Have the kind of personality that causes people to believe you are a conniving manipulator OR a pathalogical liar? I think the manipulator. If they thought you were manipulative, they wouldn't necessarily like you, but they would believe you. If everyone thought you lied all the time, they wouldn't like you AND they wouldn't believe you about anything.
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Cher
Member
08-18-2004
| Thursday, June 30, 2005 - 2:18 pm
probably the manipulator
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Ophiliasgrandma
Member
09-04-2001
| Thursday, June 30, 2005 - 3:56 pm
Manipulator R Me
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Vacanick
Member
07-12-2004
| Thursday, June 30, 2005 - 4:04 pm
Manipulator r me 2 OG
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Giddygrin
Member
06-27-2005
| Thursday, June 30, 2005 - 4:08 pm
This depends...Am I a convincing liar...
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Eeyoreslament
Member
07-20-2003
| Thursday, June 30, 2005 - 7:33 pm
I think if people considered me to be a conniving manipulator, I could almost consider that a compliment, so I'll take "manipulator".
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