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Abby7
Member
07-17-2002
| Saturday, October 01, 2005 - 12:08 am
Mame, I understand what you are saying. I used to feel that way. In fact, I think many of us felt/feel that way. I always used to say to myself...darn, why do I let "them" (meaning TVCH) bother me so much (when I was feeling down). I think it's because we do spend lots of time here. So, it's like friends in a way. Please don't think it's because of you or your posts. Sometimes, people just agree with what you are saying and don't think it's necessary to answer. I know this is not the case with you....but for me, I started out at TVCH a real . I continue to be a (at times), but at least I know it. I am getting much better at not being "that" person I used to be. With you, Mame, I know you haven't been a . So, it's just a matter of getting used to the site. Just like in real life, I guess. Don't feel blue. This really is a great place. I'm so glad you posted. Now people will know how you feel and I'm sure you'll get more replies! Please post in my folder whenever you want. I'll do my best to reply (may take a few days...but I will reply). eta: oh the word in red starts with a B. :>)
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Mameblanche
Member
04-13-2005
| Saturday, October 01, 2005 - 12:13 am
Thanks Abby! ((hugs))
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Abby7
Member
07-17-2002
| Saturday, October 01, 2005 - 12:14 am
hugs back, mame!
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Wargod
Moderator
07-16-2001
| Saturday, October 01, 2005 - 12:30 am
Right now Abby, that's one word I wouldn't associate with you! Right now Mame, hugs! Sometimes posts get lost in the posting frenzy, or yep, people agree with you and don't want to post only, "I agree." Personally, this summer has been a sporadic one for posting for me. Sometimes I just don't have the energy, sometimes I just can't drag my thoughts away from sadness, other times I have a zillion things on my mind and mean to post and then realize later on I never did. It has nothing to do with the board or the posters, but it's been a rough year for us and I've spent most the summer catching up on the emotions I had to tuck away to make it through this past year. It's really not intentional to make anyone feel left out. Best thing to do, start visitng folders and just jump right in. Go visit mine! I've got a couple craft projects I just posted (ok wait, that might be boring if you're not into beading, lol.) Right now I'm still totally jazzed from the concert tonight. I got a signed guitar pick from Tommy Shaw of the Styx! Silly wargod damn near wetting her pants from excitement over a couple bands that have been around for 30+ years, lol!
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Landi
Member
07-29-2002
| Saturday, October 01, 2005 - 5:06 am
right now, i agree
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Vee
Member
02-23-2004
| Saturday, October 01, 2005 - 5:20 am
Right now, on the other hand, perhaps the poster disagrees, but doesn't think that it is worth troubling the waters. Also, the board is so large that it is impossible to be all things to all posters. I only know one poster who achieves that and it is not I. The board can teach us a lot about interpersonal relationships if we keep reaching out. Personally, I work very hard to never take anything personally. I make a conscious effort to give everyone the benefit of a doubt. After all, this is a cyber world, not real life. We get the opportunity to think before we respond and to edit if we don't like the way we respond. Where else do you get that chance? Enjoy posting, everybody!
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Kep421
Member
08-11-2001
| Saturday, October 01, 2005 - 6:15 am
Right now I'm thinking this maybe a cyber clubhouse, but we are real people behind these cyber names. And that is why some of us become so important to others. Right now Mamie all I can do is commiserate with you and let you know I have at times felt the same as you. The other morning I was so upset over something here and was mulling it over and over in my mind so much I forgot to rinse the conditioner out of my hair during my shower!!!! I really had to laugh at myself when I went to comb out my hair....LOL I've been here quite a while and have noticed that TVCH ebbs and flows as people come and go, (or come and stay) and cliques rise and fall over time. Best thing I've learned from TVCH is to choose my battles wisely, speak my mind respectfully, then let it go....(this last part being the hardest, but it gets easier with practice)
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Resortgirl
Member
09-23-2000
| Saturday, October 01, 2005 - 7:01 am
Right now I'm in total agreement with Kep. Being the overly sensitive person I am there have been quite a few times I "felt" snubbed here. Killed a thread, didn't get the response I hoped for, whatever. But I've learned that we are all busy, sometimes not realizing that when someone posts they really want a response. I am so guilty of that myself. Not taking the time to validate someones post. If I agree, I usually just nod to myself in agreement...LOL! As far as clicks go. I try not to be in one... I'm an all inclusive kind of gal!! I love ya all!
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Kep421
Member
08-11-2001
| Saturday, October 01, 2005 - 7:05 am
awwww...doggone it RG...right now, you were the last of my cliques. Now I'm totally clique-less...
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Resortgirl
Member
09-23-2000
| Saturday, October 01, 2005 - 7:06 am
ROFL Kep! You are my friend, not my clique (spelled that wrong last time) And friends last forever!
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Vacanick
Member
07-12-2004
| Saturday, October 01, 2005 - 7:37 am
Right now .... I am the only person awake in my house. I'm glad I can come to TVCH and there's always someone around. Happy Saturday! 
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Texannie
Member
07-16-2001
| Saturday, October 01, 2005 - 7:56 am
Right now, I just gotta say I don't understand the Animal Farm threads and the fascination with a $100 robe!!!!!!!!!
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Resortgirl
Member
09-23-2000
| Saturday, October 01, 2005 - 8:19 am
Right now, I agree Annie... I have a blankie that my hubby bought me last xmas for $30 and it is the same material and very very soft. I did splurge on a similar robe, but it was not similiarly priced. As far as the Farm? I dunno?
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Julieboo
Member
02-05-2002
| Saturday, October 01, 2005 - 8:40 am
Right now, Walmart has socks of a similar material (I think as I haven't felt the "real deal") for $2.96. They also have robes for 17.96 (some with zippers some with ties) but I am not sure if it is the same material, but they are so soft and the same/similar material of the socks.
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Skootz
Member
07-23-2003
| Saturday, October 01, 2005 - 8:51 am
right now..I have 3 children for sale..please take them away before I really lose it.
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Julieboo
Member
02-05-2002
| Saturday, October 01, 2005 - 8:57 am
Right now, Skootz, how much are they and do they come with any type of warranty?
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Mocha
Member
08-12-2001
| Saturday, October 01, 2005 - 9:33 am
Right now rofl Annie I agree. Right now I'm at work for a few hours today.
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Mamie316
Member
07-08-2003
| Saturday, October 01, 2005 - 9:34 am
Right now, my allergies seem to be getting the best of me this morning.
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Texannie
Member
07-16-2001
| Saturday, October 01, 2005 - 9:51 am
Right now, i am sitting with a homemade facial mask on...didn't get the proportions right, hope my face doesn't fall off! LOL After this, I am coloring my hair.
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Kimsue
Member
07-08-2005
| Saturday, October 01, 2005 - 10:12 am
Skootz...Lol.... Right now I am in a similar boat to Skootz. BTW the TV is playing some telethon for a "Crisis Nursery" in Spokane. Sound like a worthy cause. You can go there if you are reaching the end of your rope and you feel like you need help with your kids. You just have to explain what your crisis is. Well I got to thinking, Do you suppose they would understand if I said I just need a few days with out someone calling me "hey mooooooom" or "mooooom he won't share the x-box"? I swear some days I think those two phrases are my full name.
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Skootz
Member
07-23-2003
| Saturday, October 01, 2005 - 10:13 am
Right now, Julie...I will pay to take them away for a while...whats your addy lol
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Skootz
Member
07-23-2003
| Saturday, October 01, 2005 - 10:16 am
right now..Kimsue...I could really do without the "mom........." but I would love to get out of doing homework and listening to them bicker and fight with one another every other minute of the day ... then come to me with this.
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Mocha
Member
08-12-2001
| Saturday, October 01, 2005 - 10:26 am
Right now I hear ya Skoots and Kimsue bout the bickering. That's all my boys do lately is bicker.
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Mamie316
Member
07-08-2003
| Saturday, October 01, 2005 - 10:27 am
Right now, I do daycare so I am enjoying my childless weekend. I hear my name so often during the week that I tell the kids I've changed my name and I won't answer until they say my new name.
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Mocha
Member
08-12-2001
| Saturday, October 01, 2005 - 10:28 am
lol
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