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Mocha
Member
08-12-2001
| Tuesday, April 27, 2004 - 3:21 pm
Ditto what everyone else said. (((Cin)))
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Twiggyish
Member
08-14-2000
| Tuesday, April 27, 2004 - 4:23 pm
Cindori, we were married 13 years before our daughter was born. We endured years of stupid comments, hurtful advice and numerous questions. I know some people honestly meant well, but they only made the agony worse. All I can say is my heart is in sympathy with you. I am sad for the loss of your child. Just tell them you don't want to talk about it. If they respect your feelings, they'll leave you alone. Sometimes you have to speak up for yourself. (I learned that the hard way)
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Cindori
Member
07-25-2003
| Monday, May 03, 2004 - 1:55 pm
I just wanted to thank you all once again, from the bottom of my heart. I'm dealing with it, and everything else, one day at a time . . . everything you all have said helps me so much . . . and makes me feel less alone. Thanks.
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Herckleperckle
Member
11-20-2003
| Tuesday, May 04, 2004 - 10:49 am
We're all here with you!

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Rupertbear
Member
09-19-2003
| Tuesday, May 04, 2004 - 1:22 pm
I'll co-sign that HP...and pssst, pass me one of those cute duckies! 
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Julieboo
Member
02-05-2002
| Tuesday, July 13, 2004 - 1:26 pm
Cindori, how old is your child? I have a 5 year old and we have been trying 5 years to have a second child. No luck. And believe me we have tried everything. Makes me very sad that he'll likely be an only child. So I know what you are feeling. Cuz everyone says "at least you have a child...." or worse, "just relax, you're trying too hard..."
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Cindori
Member
07-25-2003
| Tuesday, July 13, 2004 - 1:49 pm
Julie, she'll be 4 in January . . . and yes, everyone says "just be happy with what you have." {{Julieboo}}
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Wargod
Member
07-16-2001
| Tuesday, July 13, 2004 - 2:04 pm
I think that's supposed to be words of comfort from some people. They just don't seem to understand that rather you have no child or 5, it's still as devestating. Sure, I'm very thankful for what I do have, but it doesn't change the fact that I had a miscarriage, nor does it make my feelings of grief and sorrow less just because I have other children. And it doesn't make your feelings less valid just because you have a child. Hugs to both of you!
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Bookworm
Member
12-18-2001
| Tuesday, July 13, 2004 - 8:43 pm
I think about you each day Cindori. I am glad that you check in here. Please take care of yourself and your family. I don't know what else to say, but that I care about you.
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Cindori
Member
07-25-2003
| Wednesday, July 14, 2004 - 4:15 am
Aww, Bookworm, that's so nice of you. Wow, that seems like such an understatement compared to what I'm feeling. That really means a lot to me. Each day is different, but now at least some are better. Some days I feel more like myself again, then I have a regression and it feels like I'll never recover. Really, though, your caring touches me . . I can't express how much. ((Bookworm)) We don't talk to each other a lot, but I'd love to get to know one another better.
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