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Cindori
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07-25-2003

Friday, July 16, 2004 - 4:42 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
Kokology was created by Isamu Saito, a famous Japanese psychologist, and is the study of kokoro(mind or spirit in Japanese). It's based on psychological principles and asks you to answer questions about seemingly innocent topics, then reveals what your answers say about you. It does offer a degree of self-discovery, but mostly I just find it to be fun!

I thought perhaps we could try a few of these from yet another book I have:

The Blue Bird

One day a blue bird suddenly flies through a window into your room and is trapped. Something about this lost bird attracts you, and you decide to keep it. But to your surprise, the next day the bird has changed color from blue to yellow! This very special bird changes color again overnight - on the morning of the third day it is bright red, and on the fourth it turns completely black. What color is the bird when you wake up on the fifth day?

Choose your answer from the options provided, then look below for what your answer says about you!

1. The bird doesn't change color; it stays black.
2. The bird turns back to its original blue.
3. The bird turns white.
4. The bird turns golden colored.






The bird that flew into your room seemed like a symbol of good fortune, but suddenly it changed color, making you worry that happiness would not last. Your reaction to this situation shows how you respond to difficulties and uncertainty in real life.

1. Those who said the bird stays black have a pessimistic outlook. Do you tend to believe that once a situation goes bad, it never really returns to normal? Maybe you need to try thinking: if this is as bad as it gets, it can't get any worse. Remember, there's no rain that doesn't end and no night so dark that there's no dawn the next day.

2. Those who said the bird turns blue again are practical optimists. You believe that life is a mix of good and bad and that it doesn't pay to fight against that reality. You accept adversity calmly and let things run their course without undue stress or worry. This outlook lets you ride out the waves of adversity without being swept away.

3. Those who said the bird turns white are cool and decisive under pressure. You don't waste time on fretting and indecision, even when a crisis develops. If a situation gets too bad, you feel it's better to cut your losses and look for another route to your goal rather than getting bogged down in needless grief. This proactive approach means that things seem to just naturally go your way.

4. Those who said the bird turns golden can be described as fearless. You don't know the meaning of pressure. To you, every crisis is an opportunity. You might be compared with Napoleon, who said, " . . . impossible: the word is not French." But be careful not to let your boundless confidence get the best of you. It's a very fine line between fearless and foolhardy.


Ok, so there's the first one. If anyone seems interested, I'll post more.

Mamie316
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07-08-2003

Friday, July 16, 2004 - 4:53 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
I picked 4 so I guess that I am fearless but that's really not too true for me.

Justavice
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07-12-2003

Friday, July 16, 2004 - 5:00 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
I picked white (3) and it seems pretty accurate.

Jan
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08-01-2000

Friday, July 16, 2004 - 5:17 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
I picked white also. I am not sure if that is me or not!

Cindori
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07-25-2003

Friday, July 16, 2004 - 6:10 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
I'm tired, it's raining, there's nothing good on tv, and dd isn't ready for bed . . . so, I'm going to post another one.

Pictures at an Exhibition

Every once in awhile it's nice to take a break from your busy schedule and experience the world of art firsthand. Some of us go to concerts or plays, some take up dance or a musical instrument, others try their hand at crafts. And of course there's always a trip to a museum . . .

You are standing in front of a painting at an art museum, hands clasped behind your back as you try to take it in, when a total stranger comes up alongside you and says something to you. Which of the following does the stranger say?

1. "Isn't that a beautiful picture?"
2. "What do you think of this painting?"
3. "Excuse me, do you have the time?"
4. "You know, I happen to be a painter myself."






What your answer means . . .

When a stranger suddenly speaks to you there's always a momentary mix of apprehension and expectancy. In this imaginary scenario, the words the stranger spoke actually reflect how you react in chance encounters and when meeting others. Your answer reveals what kind of impression you make when meeting someone for the first time.

1. "Isn't that a beautiful picture?"
Your friendly and positive nature creates a great first impression on almost everyone you meet. Your only concern should be that people may not take you seriously at first.

2. "What do you think of this painting?"
You're the type who likes to feel out the other person's temperament before committing yourself to anything. People can sense that hesitancy, and it may color their reactions to you. You won't step on any toes with your cautious approach, but you may end up living on other people's terms.

3. "Excuse me, do you have the time?"
To half the world you seem like an all right sort, but to the other half you look just a little strange. You create a first impression of living life at your own pace and maintaining an individuality that some would call eccentric. You don't place much importance on what others may be thinking or feeling. For better or worse, therein lies the secret to you.

4. "You know, I happen to be a painter myself."
On first meeting someone, you come across as a little bit nervous and overeager. Maybe you're just trying too hard to be liked, but the harder you try, the worse an impression you make. Don't worry so much about making people think you're great - they'll like you better if you just loosen up and relax.

Mamie316
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07-08-2003

Friday, July 16, 2004 - 6:26 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
I picked one and that pretty much is me!

Lkunkel
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10-29-2003

Friday, July 16, 2004 - 6:36 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
Blue and 1.

Both answers are fairly accurate.

Azriel
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08-01-2000

Friday, July 16, 2004 - 6:52 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
I picked 4 and 1. I'm not so sure about me being fearless. This is fun, Cindori :-)

Cindori
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07-25-2003

Friday, July 16, 2004 - 6:59 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
I'm glad you like it! I'll post another one in a bit.

Autumn
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10-29-2003

Friday, July 16, 2004 - 7:00 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
Wow, I've never heard of this before but I like it/am enjoying it! Thanks, Cindori

My answers:

White, and #1 (isn't that a beautiful picture?)
Both answers are pretty accurate.

Kaili
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08-31-2000

Friday, July 16, 2004 - 7:05 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
The bird one...I picked green. Was I supposed to pick a color already mentioned? What does green mean? That I can't read instructions? LOL- I just went back and saw that I was limited. I don't know what I would have picked. White probably.

I picked "Excuse me, do you have the time?"
for the next one and it makes sense :-)



Justavice
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07-12-2003

Friday, July 16, 2004 - 7:06 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
My second answer is, "What do you think of this painting?" Totally accurate, just like the first one. I can't wait for the next one....

Cindori
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07-25-2003

Friday, July 16, 2004 - 7:11 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
Ok, another one coming up.

Cindori
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07-25-2003

Friday, July 16, 2004 - 7:25 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
You're Only Human

"I can't believe it! How could I do something so stupid?" We have all too many chances to say those words. Burned toast, coffee stains on paperwork, sleeping through the alarm clock, stubbed toes, missed exits - it's human nature to goof up once in awhile. Nobody's perfect, and each of us proves that every day. Keep that in mind the next time you're tempted to laugh at other people's careless mistakes. After all, you never know when it'll be your turn to wear mismatched socks to work.

You're walking down the street, thinking of other things, when you stumble into a garbage can on the sidewalk and knock it over. What comes spilling out from under the lid?

1. Nothing comes out - the can was empty.
2. A pile of loose trash spills out onto the street.
3. Apple cores, chicken bones, and other raw garbage.
4. A well-tied black plastic garbage bag.




What your answer means . . .

In your carelessness you overturned a garbage can, dumping out something that had been neatly shut away and exposing it for all the world to see. Your image of the can's contents reveals things inside you that you try to hide from public view.

1. Nothing comes out - the can was empty.
People who gave this answer tend to live their lives without making displays or false pretenses. What you see is what you get. It's this simple honesty that gives them their charm.

2. A pile of loose trash spills out onto the street.
Those of you who said the can was full of loose trash may seem to be straightforward and forthright to others but actually have a pile of unexpressed feelings locked up within. You may notice these feelings only as a general sense of frustration, but when you think about it, aren't there places where you've been holding back from saying the things you really feel?

3. Apple cores, chicken bones, and other raw garbage.
People who imagined a pile of kitchen waste are suppressing their appetites and the natural desire for food. Maybe you're on (or just avoiding) a diet. Or trying to save money by cutting back on eating expenses. Whatever the case, it's taking its toll on you. There's no need to overdo it, but it might to you good to spend a well-earned night out at a restaurant with friends.

4. A well-tied black plastic garbage bag.
People who saw a neatly tied garbage bag have a strong sense of self-control. Maybe too strong. You hate to show weakness or make complaints - your pride won't allow it. But letting others know how you really feel is no sign of weakness. Loosen up the drawstrings and let in some air before all that garbage goes bad and starts to smell.

Kaili
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08-31-2000

Friday, July 16, 2004 - 7:27 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
I picked 1 and I agree with the assessment. These are fun.

Mamie316
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07-08-2003

Friday, July 16, 2004 - 7:39 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
I picked two and I have to say that that is me.

Cindori
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07-25-2003

Friday, July 16, 2004 - 7:43 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
Mamie, I find that they're fairly accurate.

Autumn
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10-29-2003

Friday, July 16, 2004 - 7:46 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
Ok, two of them jumped out equally at me and I couldn't decide between them (hope that's ok) and, after reading the answers, they are actually pretty true.

I chose:

#1 - nothing comes out; and #4.


Cindori
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07-25-2003

Friday, July 16, 2004 - 7:47 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
Autumn, it's very much a gut-feeling sort of thing, so if that's what you felt, then yep, it's ok.

Lkunkel
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10-29-2003

Friday, July 16, 2004 - 7:49 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
Autumn: you and me both, actually. I thought it was empty, until I picked it up and saw the BBB.

Of course, lately, I've been DREAMING about dumpsters and big black garbage bags.

Tess
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04-13-2001

Friday, July 16, 2004 - 7:51 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
I picked white, #1 (isn't it beautiful) and #2 (loose trash).

These are great, Cindori. Thanks.

Cindori
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07-25-2003

Friday, July 16, 2004 - 7:52 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
You're welcome, Tess. It makes me feel good when people actually LIKE an idea I had for a thread. :o)

Anybody have a particular aspect of themselves they'd like me to find one about? There are quite a few.

Autumn
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10-29-2003

Friday, July 16, 2004 - 7:54 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
Hmm...gotta work on those dreams, L. (have you looked up the meaning?)

Yep, I thought it was empty too then suddenly I "saw" a black garbage bag, it was weird. So I figured: ok, I'm going with both cuz they both feel equally right.

Cindori
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07-25-2003

Friday, July 16, 2004 - 7:55 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
L, if I were at work, I could look it up for you. I have a book on dreams, too. Imagine that. :o)

Cindori
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07-25-2003

Friday, July 16, 2004 - 8:13 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post    
Another one:

Caught in the Rain

Not everything in life is predictable. We're always getting hit by surprises, emergencies, and unforeseen disasters, without any chance to prepare ourselves mentally. Surprises of any kind can be stressful - an unexpected proposal just as much as a sudden breakup. There are too many things we can't predict or control; that's on of the reason we all tend to develop habits and patterns to live by.

You are walking outside when a hard rain suddenly begins to fall. Even if you run full speed, you're still about five minutes from your destination. Which of the following best describes your choice of action?

1. "I'd find an awning or tree to stand under and wait for the rain to stop."
2. "I don't know how long it's going to keep raining, so I'd run to where I'm going as fast as I could."
3. "I'd see if there was anybody around with an umbrella I could share or a store where I could buy one."
4. "I always have a folding umbrella in my bag when I go out, so I'd just use that."



What your answer means . . .

How did you respond to the sudden downpour? The rainstorm represents unforeseeable and uncontrollable forces in life. Specifically, your answer shows how you tend to react when a fight breaks out between you and a loved one or friend.

1. "I'd find an awning or tree to stand under and wait for the rain to stop."
You're the type who waits for the other side in a fight to cool off before trying to settle your differences. You prefer to let them rant and rave until they run out of steam, then present your case calmly and objectively. Some would say this is the intelligent approach, others would say it's just sneaky.

2. "I don't know how long it's going to keep raining, so I'd run to where I'm going as fast as I could."
You don't care about the end result of a fight so much as getting to speak your mind. You're sure you're right, and there's no sense in arguing the point. The concept of give-and-take doesn't figure into your tactics. If they get angry, you get angrier. If they start to yell, you scream. This doesn't make you much fun to argue with, but at least it's easy to tell where you stand on an issue.

3. "I'd see if there was anybody around with an umbrella I could share or a store where I could buy one."
You don't like conflict and confrontations, so you try to smooth things over and calm the other person down whenever a fight breaks out. Unfortunately, sometimes that only makes things worse. It may be important for you to make a stand and weather the storm every once in awhile.

4. "I always have a foldable umbrella in my bag when I go out, so I'd just use that."
You think you have an answer for every accusation, a justification for every fault. To you, an argument may be just a chance to hone your skills at debate, but to others you seem slippery, frustrating, and insincere. But of course, you probably have a good explanation for that, too.