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Sunshyne4u
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06-17-2003

Saturday, February 23, 2008 - 12:01 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Sunshyne4u a private message Print Post    
I find it confusing.

Sheila has been going off and loudly caterwalling repeatedly about how Adam does this and Adam does That.

I've seen Adam approach her with his normal face and she goes off.

I dont know. Have I missed Adam truly going after her? I've watched the youtubes, I never saw adam try to hit her or get 'right into her face'.

what think you? or is this thread just a stupid idea LOL

me?? I am firmly on Adam's side at this point. Sheila seems to be fabricating incidents and forming mistaken impressions of snippets she overhears adam mumble.

Seattlemom
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05-10-2005

Saturday, February 23, 2008 - 12:06 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Seattlemom a private message Print Post    
Oh My gosh I'm sorry in the begining I have to admit Adam creeped me out! But he is no where as bad as she is painting him! Can we say Drama Queen! Oh my gosh those 2 girls were sick and she needs it to be all about her! Adam hardly goes near her!

Stopthemadness
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07-15-2005

Saturday, February 23, 2008 - 12:30 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Stopthemadness a private message Print Post    
I think Adam has his problems but I think she is the cause of most of their issues.

Penpoint
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03-27-2001

Saturday, February 23, 2008 - 2:00 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Penpoint a private message Print Post    
It's clear that Sheila is a very troubled woman and consequently the biggest trouble-maker in the house. And obviously Adam's biggest problem is Sheila.


Spunky
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10-08-2001

Saturday, February 23, 2008 - 9:44 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Spunky a private message Print Post    
At one point they seemed to have "found each other" and all was honky dory with the couple.

Now they hate each other again... what surprises me is that he is supposed to be a "public relations" person but has none of those qualities, at least in that house.

None of them are right for each other but these two are so wrong for each other that it would be a miracle if they last much longer...

Sheila seems to aggravate their lot with her constant shifts in moods and perceptions...

Steeltoe
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05-19-2007

Saturday, February 23, 2008 - 10:36 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Steeltoe a private message Print Post    
I think she is upset because she was partnered with him. If it would have been one of the more attractive men she would have been happy. Poor Adam does not know how to look or react to Sheila.

Goddessatlaw
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07-19-2002

Saturday, February 23, 2008 - 10:38 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Goddessatlaw a private message Print Post    
Penpoint summed up my perspective nicely.

Gumby
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08-14-2004

Saturday, February 23, 2008 - 10:47 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Gumby a private message Print Post    
I would love if it they were a real life couple and a big twist of this season. That would fool everyone. Oh well, one can dream.

Scribe
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08-16-2000

Saturday, February 23, 2008 - 11:31 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Scribe a private message Print Post    
whatever sheils's clinical diagnosis is she is clearly not functioning rationally. Last night she simply could not stop talking and talking a mile a minute - whatever her issue is it is not just Adam, or Allison not sitting with her hour after hour day after day - and how this appearance would ever help a book of hers sell is beyond me - dont we know most everything there is to know about her - very sad -

Seattlemom
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05-10-2005

Saturday, February 23, 2008 - 12:30 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Seattlemom a private message Print Post    
well I am sure that when she said she could put up with ED easier than Adam I could almost picture Jaws dropping around the world! ED would chew her up and spit her out!! Adam just looks like a Deer in headlights

Sunshyne4u
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06-17-2003

Saturday, February 23, 2008 - 4:02 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Sunshyne4u a private message Print Post    
naw, some women just love to be 'put in their place'
Sheila woulda loved ED

Lurknomore
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07-07-2001

Saturday, February 23, 2008 - 4:07 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Lurknomore a private message Print Post    
Actually I feel in many ways they are a perfect match for each other (and watching them is like a car crash, but easy to turn away). I do think Sheila is losing it at a more rapid speed lately BUT sorry, after hearing Adam's lovely "retard" speech, his belief there was nothing wrong with it, <100>. The only reason he is looking a bit better is because of how bizarre she has been, not to mention innappropriate last night going on and on and ON with those that just left the hospital.

I am glad I don't know either in real life, and I think they both need to leave this game. In a year of people I sincerely dislike, they are close to the top of my list. (Although I do think there are some that are more vicious/cruel/meanspirited than they are...but none more annoying or weird IMHO) :-)

But to answer your question, I think they are both wrong. Sheila NEVER knows when to shut up or let something go. And I have heard Adam be just horrid, treat her like dirt, demand she shut up, <100>. I think they bring out the absolute worst in each other.

Blair
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07-28-2005

Saturday, February 23, 2008 - 7:07 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Blair a private message Print Post    
I dislike both of them. Sheila obviously thinks she is better than Adam and I believe most of their problems arise from her. However, Adam has some definite faults too <100>

Seamonkey
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09-07-2000

Saturday, February 23, 2008 - 7:20 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Seamonkey a private message Print Post    
Last night he was told by Alex to go talk to Sheila, just listen and make her happy. He went in there and she started ranting and raving about how she was older, she was a mother, she has a son, she gave birth, she should be respected, she's had a hard life, no one else is a parent and life is a breeze (I had to think well.. she was completely disrespecting the entire house there) and he agreed but calmly said it had to go both ways and she just ran over that. I don't think she gets that she disrespected him first and has continually done that. She keeps saying she is working hard to appreciate him and compliments him but then she'll tell anyone else how horrible he is. So while he's not overly appealing to me, she is WAY worse. And, Sheila, 45 isn't THAT old and she isn't the first token "older" person but she is sure the one reacting the most.. she makes Kent look sunny, Jerry, Sheryl, Jack, etc.. respect has to be earned. This isn't a cranky 80 year old.

So I'd say she is more wrong than he is.

Hiyall
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07-06-2005

Saturday, February 23, 2008 - 7:26 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Hiyall a private message Print Post    
I think Sheila set the tone for that "relationship" the very first night with her childish overeaction to being paired with him.

IMO she is way too self absorbed to even be aware of the tension she is causing. I think some of Adam's behavior (and I don't really care for him either) is a self defense mechanism.

Steeltoe
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05-19-2007

Saturday, February 23, 2008 - 7:47 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Steeltoe a private message Print Post    
You know what Scribe, Sheila does remind me of the Mary girl on celebrity rehab; she goes on and on and on...

Countrydaze
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11-07-2003

Saturday, February 23, 2008 - 9:43 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Countrydaze a private message Print Post    
Seamonkey, I agree with you 100%. Last night she kept telling him how he has constantly disrepspected her, but she has not one time shown him any respect at all...ever. She also kept saying how do you think my family feels seeing this. Well, my guess is they were probably hoping that she would shut her mouth and quit embarrassing them.

Panda
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07-15-2005

Saturday, February 23, 2008 - 9:57 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Panda a private message Print Post    
LOL Countrydaze! From what I see, Adam tries to avoid her at all costs!
I cannot believe Sheila keeps saying how will she look to her family, etc. Who told her to go on a reality show? I really hoped that she then get put up on the block!
I do not think Sheila is a "listener" she is a talker. Look how she went on and on to Alli and Amanda after they came back from the hospital?
She definitely set the tone and it's not good at all.

Scribe
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08-16-2000

Sunday, February 24, 2008 - 7:11 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Scribe a private message Print Post    
IMO Adam is just dopey - yes at the beginning he said some really offensive things - I note that James used a term also pol incorrect - as I say Adam is just dopey, lacks any self awareness but I dont think is intentionally mean spirited - Sheila on the other hand, with all that I am 45, I am a mother, I have a son, I I I I I is unbearable and insufferable - just cant take her mouth - dont like Allison either but frankly do give her some credit for listening to Sheila and not running in opposite direction sooner - I can tolerate Adam simply can't tolerate Sheila -

Darclyte
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07-11-2005

Sunday, February 24, 2008 - 10:24 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Darclyte a private message Print Post    
Adam is no prize in any sense, but Sheila has made the bed she's lying in and built a basement, walls, and ceiling around it and decorated the place with cheap leopard print furniture.

Sabbatia
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08-15-2005

Sunday, February 24, 2008 - 11:01 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Sabbatia a private message Print Post    
Shelia hasn't come to accept her age. Like most of us 45 yr olds, she's still 25 in her mind. THe fact that they paired her with Adam instead of one of the hotter guys is a reminder every time she looks at him that she isn't one of the young hot females anymore.

BTW, if ED were there, he would be constantly throwing in her face that she looks old and her modeling and acting careers are washed up. He would have zoned in on her weaknesses and he would have broken her down before the feeds even started.

Kimsue
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07-08-2005

Sunday, February 24, 2008 - 11:04 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Kimsue a private message Print Post    
None of them are right for each other but these two are so wrong for each other that it would be a miracle if they last much longer...


Maybe that is the next twist! They were paired with the least likely person to build a relationship with. Maybe that's why Jen and Ryan weren't paired up and why Amanda and Alex are such a big mess. Don't forget Sharon with her ex boyfriend whom she hated.

Cricket
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08-05-2002

Sunday, February 24, 2008 - 3:05 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Cricket a private message Print Post    
I don't believe for one minute Sharon hates her ex-boyfriend. She exaggerates sooo much. They seemed like they were in game mode very quickly and prob. would have gotten along better than many of the couples left in the house. If her ex hadn't tried to start trouble, none of us would have to be listening to Sheila, lol....unless, Josh brought her back. He wouldn't have done that, would he?

ROFL, Darclyte. Very apt description!

Cillysue2
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05-02-2003

Sunday, February 24, 2008 - 8:35 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Cillysue2 a private message Print Post    
Sheila is a very bitter person. Adam and his eyes creep me out too. But as someone said above, no big deal. Sheila should be trying to do whatever she can to cement their partnership for her own good in the game. I would have slapped her (j/k) a long time ago.

And when Nat said she had a horrible headache she just kept on and on and on about herself. She is a very selfish and mean spirited.

i have never disliked anyone in the house as much as I dislike her.

This is not a silly thread - gives me a chance to say what I think. Thank you.

Steeltoe
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05-19-2007

Monday, February 25, 2008 - 5:21 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Steeltoe a private message Print Post    
Sheila is wrong plainly put, she is the one always causing drama. I think that secretly she likes being a bitter person...

Mark13
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07-01-2001

Tuesday, February 26, 2008 - 1:35 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mark13 a private message Print Post    
BTW, if ED were there, he would be constantly throwing in her face that she looks old and her modeling and acting careers are washed up. He would have zoned in on her weaknesses and he would have broken her down before the feeds even started.


LOL! I'd pay extra to see that. Maybe they'll have a "couples all-stars" in a couple of years and put ED and Sheila together!