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Kittyab
Member
07-16-2005
| Sunday, August 19, 2007 - 10:13 pm
Loppes, I think she said the problems are still there. Like I said the BB house is not the place to resolve family crap. If my mother was in the house with me, I would DOR in a heart beat lol!
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Mandeenmatt
Member
07-29-2005
| Sunday, August 19, 2007 - 10:13 pm
How did Amber betray Jameka?
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Cowgirlstraitup
Member
07-07-2005
| Sunday, August 19, 2007 - 10:14 pm
Well on a lighter note, I have a huge crush on Dick......sick I know. Not for his parenting skills that's for sure, but dang it, I really do have the hots for him. Okay, make fun of me now.
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Webchiq
Member
07-11-2005
| Sunday, August 19, 2007 - 10:14 pm
And I meant 100/100. Both have to give their full selves to the process or it is meaningless. And, it is completely okay for one, or both, to choose not to give any and to walk away, but as soon as you decide that you're going to try to give some, it has to be the full amount or it will never be resolved. You can't just put your big toe in and think that's enough.
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Mandeenmatt
Member
07-29-2005
| Sunday, August 19, 2007 - 10:14 pm
I thought Danielle was older than her brother. I thought Dick said he is going to take Vincent to a bar when he turns 21.
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Jen
Member
07-27-2003
| Sunday, August 19, 2007 - 10:15 pm
The facts came from Vincent. Who has a different take on things than his sister. There are many sides to every story: Vincent's, Dani's, the grandmother's, Dick's and the truth. No one knows how it actually was.
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Kalekona
Member
06-12-2005
| Sunday, August 19, 2007 - 10:15 pm
kitty, life is what YOU make of it. My mother chose a man over me- went on to have two children with him who got to live with her while i did not. My father gave up his fight for custody when my Grandparents stepped in because he knew that i was in a safe place. I CHOSE to take my mother for who she is not what i wanted her to be. I took what she was able to give. And i have a very good relationship with her today. And i know today that I got the better end of the deal than my sister and brother and i am Grateful my mother gave me up and let my grandparents care for me.
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Flamingo
Member
08-19-2003
| Sunday, August 19, 2007 - 10:15 pm
he did take Vincent to a bar. he mentioned how odd it was that they did that.
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Loppes
Member
07-12-2002
| Sunday, August 19, 2007 - 10:16 pm
rofl Kitty, and I agree she shouldn't have been in there, especially admitting that she knew her Dad would likely be there too. P.S. Wanna share your ice cream with us? lol
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Lucas
Member
07-01-2005
| Sunday, August 19, 2007 - 10:16 pm
We have no idea if Dick was a good parent or not, just tidbits from a reality tv show and some message boards. We do know he has not been in Dani's life consistently for years and she has a ton of resentment. Dani is still a imature child, Dick is a difficult, strong willed and often demanding and bullying personality. Conflict here seems pretty natural.
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Hypermom
Member
08-13-2001
| Sunday, August 19, 2007 - 10:16 pm
Vincent turned 22 in July.
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Flamingo
Member
08-19-2003
| Sunday, August 19, 2007 - 10:17 pm
Zach still alone on the couch? aww, Zach 
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Steviegirl
Member
07-07-2005
| Sunday, August 19, 2007 - 10:17 pm
Here goes Amber with the "poor me, I need the money". There's one every season.
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Lurknomore
Member
07-07-2001
| Sunday, August 19, 2007 - 10:17 pm
Kitty sorry missed your earlier post. ITA about the abandonment issues w/her Mom. I've said that in the past myself. I think it must be even harder now that the mother has a whole new family who she actually is a MOM too. I would think that would make it that much worse. I remember Vincent posting that he heard from her twice in one month when the show started, and that was a new lifetime record (if I recall correctly PLEASE check his thread for accuracy I hate quoting him in any way). But am now just to say how he said it with no emotion either way, but it ripped my heart out. I used to talk to my Mom 5, 7, 10 times a day. I just couldn't fathom twice in a month being a new lifetime record. So very sad for both those kids. Wonder why they see things so totally differently now...as they seem to have completly different personalities and viewpoints bout it.
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What555456
Member
06-14-2005
| Sunday, August 19, 2007 - 10:17 pm
I thought, Mandeen, that it was when Vincent turned 21, Dick to him to a strip joint. If I recall, Dick said it was the most intimate bonding experience he ever had with his son.
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Jen
Member
07-27-2003
| Sunday, August 19, 2007 - 10:18 pm
The dining room table chairs remind me of Poltergeist!
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Kittyab
Member
07-16-2005
| Sunday, August 19, 2007 - 10:19 pm
Loppes, sure its Dutch chocolate. Kalekona, not only did my mother mentally abused and neglicted me she left me with my grandparents to be with another man. My father was never in the picture since he did not want to pay child support. Yes I chose my life away from my parents, I had to for my own sanity.
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Kalekona
Member
06-12-2005
| Sunday, August 19, 2007 - 10:19 pm
That is not correct What. He did see the kids while he was married, he and daniele have even talked about it. One of their issues was her and his kids but he did not cut the kids out of his life for her.
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Christiii
Member
07-07-2005
| Sunday, August 19, 2007 - 10:19 pm
ok god, well, um I gotta go
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Loppes
Member
07-12-2002
| Sunday, August 19, 2007 - 10:19 pm
OY VEY! AMBER IS PULLING A JAMEKA!
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Lucas
Member
07-01-2005
| Sunday, August 19, 2007 - 10:20 pm
Quarters is calling Dear Lord, see ya
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Cruzlvr
Member
11-13-2003
| Sunday, August 19, 2007 - 10:20 pm
Game aside, I think Eric did a good job of talking to Dani. A lot better than what Amber would have. Amber would have commiserated her, while Eric got Dani laughing and got her back in playing the game.
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Nyheat
Member
08-09-2006
| Sunday, August 19, 2007 - 10:21 pm
LMAO about Amber!
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Lurknomore
Member
07-07-2001
| Sunday, August 19, 2007 - 10:21 pm
oh my goodness gracious...had no clue that rant was a prayer..but damn near lost it at how 'she didn't think it was possible to become better than she was before." OH My reality check PLEASE!!!! With no conceipt, I am a few gazillion times better educated and read than she is, and with no hesitation can tell you, and God, that the more I've learned is how little I know, and I am always praying for better understanding, wisdom, compassion, growth, ok maybe w/some less painful learning experiences. But I can't fathom her saying she didn't think she could be better. GOOD GRIEF!!!!
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Tk4x5
Member
07-10-2004
| Sunday, August 19, 2007 - 10:21 pm
It is Dick who feels that his personal relationship with his daughter is the basis upon which to get him fame and fortune. I don't know if he's going for fame and fortune, but the father / daughter "estrangement" is their storyline and the reason they were cast on this season. We don't know how much CBS is pushing Dick to keep this storyline running for editing purposes. And we don't know how much Dani refuses to say for the same reasons. It really makes me wonder if she was recruited for the show based on Dick's application, because she sure seems like she doesn't want to be there. I find this to be a very downer cast. There's not a sparkle or energy this year. It's all really lackluster, IMO.
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