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Earthmother
Member
07-14-2002
| Tuesday, August 21, 2007 - 3:57 am
If Jen didn't like to be spoken to like that then she should not instigate that reaction. She knew full well what was going to happen when she did what she did. It was her game play just like Dick has his game play. Her stunt didn't change anything because she has not bonded with anyone in this game. As children we learn "for every action their is a reaction"..she knows this and that's why she did it. There are 7 empty beds in that house and she chooses to stay in the one with Dick..why if she is soooooo scared of him? She made a comment at their very first competition that she didn't want him to touch her (in front of everyone, and America) so she set herself up that day where he was concerned. If she hates smoking then why did she apply? Every year there is at least one smoker. She didn't seem to have the same problem with Joe. I'm not buying that this was her reason. Her reason was to get him kicked out and she failed..IMO this is Chilltown antics and she hasn't got the Chilltown skills.
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Shopstomuch
Member
07-09-2007
| Tuesday, August 21, 2007 - 3:58 am
Exactly Lynn... it looked to me like she wanted to have a temper tantrum because she was put up on the block w/ no chance to play for POV. So, it's slam the door, stomp the feet, and have a hissy fit time. No, I am not saying in any way shape or form that ED is right in his own behavior... however, she did provoke this by destroying something and then SHE is the one who touched him by hitting and slapping w/ him with a lit cig.
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Tre34
Member
08-17-2005
| Tuesday, August 21, 2007 - 3:59 am
Earthmother...great point why hasn't she moved to an empty bed else where?
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Shopstomuch
Member
07-09-2007
| Tuesday, August 21, 2007 - 4:00 am
I have wondered that myself when I see all of these. There are now tons of empty beds and you are correct when you say she didn't pitch such a fit w/ Joe smoking. The whole thing doesn't play out. She's doing this as part of her game play and she just is not able to handle the end result.
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Caycaye
Member
09-14-2001
| Tuesday, August 21, 2007 - 4:01 am
And some women ASK for their husbands to BEAT them when they get mad....They should have KNOWN better than to aggravate him....because they KNEW their husband was violent! (Obviously I DON'T AGREE with this line of thinking!)
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Onlymytulips
Member
07-17-2005
| Tuesday, August 21, 2007 - 4:05 am
Through all of the happenings last night--Jameka found a bug in her slop. I am wondering if that was one of those flour bugs that lay eggs and hatch and then fly away? Anyone see it?
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Lynn
Member
07-27-2005
| Tuesday, August 21, 2007 - 4:05 am
I certainly hope there is more punishment for Jen`s breking of the food rules last night.
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Earthmother
Member
07-14-2002
| Tuesday, August 21, 2007 - 4:06 am
First of all he isn't her husband, and he has not laid a hand on her. She was the aggressor and she was the violent one, so how does it make sense that she was the one being abused? I am fully aware there is a serious problem with domestic abuse in this country, but this is a television show watched 24/7. She could have taken her food and sat anywhere on that couch last night but she chose to sit right where he was, so how is that not taunting?
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Lynn
Member
07-27-2005
| Tuesday, August 21, 2007 - 4:12 am
Yes Earthmother, Jen most certainly was at fault last night. She destroyed stuff then decided to eat in front of Jameka. She was the one walking over to Dick and grabbing at him.
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Sunni
Member
07-05-2007
| Tuesday, August 21, 2007 - 4:14 am
acceptable behavior. dang fingers
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Shopstomuch
Member
07-09-2007
| Tuesday, August 21, 2007 - 4:41 am
Cay, I was responding if you would read through all the threads to those saying that Dick was nothing better than an abusive spouse and that Jen is the abused victim here. Never did I say that an abused person "asks for it" so do NOT ever put those words in my mouth and do not read more into a post than is there. Jen DID provoke this behavior. SHE destroyed his property, SHE struck him physically multiple times, SHE sat right next to him to continue to egg this on, and SHE broke the BB rules. You don't get to cry foul when you are the one doing the abusing also.
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Amy
Member
07-10-2002
| Tuesday, August 21, 2007 - 4:43 am
I don't like Dick's behavior and I don't like Jen's behavior but I do think that Jen is at fault for what happened last night. She knows just what to do to push Dicks buttons and she did it all last night to provoke him. But it backfired on her because she ended up being the one who lost it last night. She hit him fighting over the cigarette and now she should be paying the price. She is getting a penalty nom and if she continues eating while she is suppose to be on slop she should be kicked out of the house. She is the one who chose to be on slop to win the pov so she should have to live with that choice, not throw a fit and eat. There are many times Jen could remove herself from the situation but she doesn't and she gets no sympathy from me.
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Shopstomuch
Member
07-09-2007
| Tuesday, August 21, 2007 - 4:46 am
I agree Amy... she is the one who did choose the slop issue to save herself in a POV comp. Now, she is like a child having a temper tantrum. I also think this blatent abuse of all rules should have her out the door, no vote needed.
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C1mag
Member
07-12-2005
| Tuesday, August 21, 2007 - 4:47 am
Wow looks like I missed some shit tonight LOL About her swinging at Dick. I have not seen any video of it but if she was smacking at the cig then it's ok. Jessica went in and asked BB the morning Dick was smacking the pots and pans over their heads what they could and could not do with the situation and they told her they could smack the pots and pans away but not outright smack the person. So if Jen was aiming at the cig I guess "technically" it falls within the rules. However, I have to say in advance I saw and heard none of what happened. I'm still playing catch up. BB has really gotten way off course this year. With the AP vote being nothing but a safe vote for the Donatos to BB having so much influence and control this year to the physical threats, horrific name calling it's become a joke. I'm suprised about the Cig situation as well. I thought Jen asked early on if she could toss his smokes in the pool and they told her yes she could? I guess this was before America decided to adopt him as their favorite trainwreck. Oh well, the man has flat out said he'd bust her windpipe with his hands. Talked about sexually abusing her til she bleeds. It's all gotten out of hand and I go and miss this DANG IT LOL
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Amy
Member
07-10-2002
| Tuesday, August 21, 2007 - 4:49 am
Cimag, there are a few clips on youtube of what happened last night. Jen actually was hitting Dicks arms trying to get to the cigarette and he kept telling her to stop touching him.
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Skydiver6
Member
07-21-2006
| Tuesday, August 21, 2007 - 4:49 am
Wow! I can see the Jen haters stayed up the latest. Glad I went to bed when I did. Makes me curious if most of the dick lovers are from the west and maybe the different views on behavior are due partially to region?
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C1mag
Member
07-12-2005
| Tuesday, August 21, 2007 - 4:51 am
Thanks Amy I'm looking for them. If she was aiming for the cig "technically" she was within the rules. I'd have to see it myself. I wish she wouldn't have done something like.
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Amy
Member
07-10-2002
| Tuesday, August 21, 2007 - 4:52 am
I don't like either of them, I just think last night Jen was in the wrong. Dick has done his fair share of crap in the house but Jen stepped over the line last night.
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Skydiver6
Member
07-21-2006
| Tuesday, August 21, 2007 - 4:52 am
Exactly Kiara. I even heard Jessica say she THOUGHT Jen was going to hit him.
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Jgirl0129
Member
08-15-2007
| Tuesday, August 21, 2007 - 4:55 am
Why is Dick allowed to blow smoke in her face? Not only is it rude but with the issue of second-hand smoke (i know one puff probably wouldnt do anything)I am surprised he didnt get in trouble.
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Skydiver6
Member
07-21-2006
| Tuesday, August 21, 2007 - 4:55 am
I think Dick started everything last night. Jen could hear him out back going on and on about her. He had everyone hating on her. Jen just fought back and I was proud of her! Someone standing up to that bullying behavior.
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Milosmom
Member
06-10-2006
| Tuesday, August 21, 2007 - 4:58 am
I just saw it on Showtime and she smacked him on the arm to get the cigarette out of her face. That's when he said don't touch me.
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Shopstomuch
Member
07-09-2007
| Tuesday, August 21, 2007 - 4:59 am
No, she was just slapping at him, the cig, anything.... she had to lean over him to do this too as he leaned wayyyy back on the couch to get away from her hand. If you look, he also had his foot trying to push her away saying "don't touch me" "you are going to get burned etc" <sg> I thought her blank eyed Charles Manson follower look may actually take her far. Also, I am on the East coast, so that has zero to do with it. I am just sick of all the double standards. Eric says he is going on a murdering spree, Dustin and Amber are racist pigs, Jam is a hypocritical person, yet it's just a continous ED bashing. I don't get it... if you are going to be fair in your criticism's at least be honest. Why haven't ALL of Eric's violent threats and comments gotten the same harsh criticism? Because they weren't yelled? Why is it ok for one person to hit someone else, because they are female?
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