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Gambit_x77
Member
08-25-2005
| Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 12:12 pm
Dick is acting like a pansie. Jen doesn't deserve it. Come on people.
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Msstas1
Member
08-26-2005
| Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 12:13 pm
The concern here is that his behavior is continually escalating. The tea incident may have not been considered "that bad" but now that he's done something physical what will happen next time he's really PO'd?
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Joyfuld
Member
08-16-2005
| Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 12:14 pm
Gambit you made me laugh. < sigh > will ED ever confront a another man in that manner? I don't think so.
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Hukdonreality
Member
09-29-2003
| Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 12:17 pm
I've worked with plenty of people who made it their job to push people's buttons. Had I dumped a glass of iced tea on their head, I'd have been fired. It's completely inappropriate, immature, and a sign of a "man" out of control. Yeah, some man...
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Beckie03
Member
07-05-2007
| Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 12:17 pm
right...this is what i mean with having way to much time to sit here and analyze things. obiviously Dick will get a talking to. Jen could easily stay away, something Kail has done. No, she doesn't...why not? Because she wants to make good tv, she wants her 15 minutes of fame. She doesn't deserve what is said to her at all...but to say Dick hates all women because he dislikes Jen is ridiculous. It happened, nothing is going to happen again. He wouldn't do that to himself. Beau didn't do it to himself...but that's right, he said sorry...so because he said sorry, all is forgiven. How does that make sense? It's television, I'm sure if it was real life, he wouldn't be saying half the stuff he is, of course he wouldn't be around her either. It's tv, it's ratings, both Jen and Dick alike are doing it because of that...well it's RIGHT OR WRONG, it's being done. You may play it differently if you were there, but you aren't, she is. She is playing it the way she wants to, she is choosing not to talk to BB about getting him to leave.
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Earthmother
Member
07-14-2002
| Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 12:17 pm
will ED ever confront a another man in that manner? I don't think so. If another man intimated that he might be a pervert he just might..I'm jusy sayin'
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Jeanne
Member
07-15-2005
| Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 12:19 pm
So, if Dick sprayed her with a water hose would that be considered physical assault too? Geez. For what it's worth, if folks think Dick is abusive then baiting someone (a la Jen) should also then be considered abusive behaviour. Taunting is taunting, IMO.
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Bbdi
Member
09-01-2006
| Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 12:19 pm
Dick is acting like a pansie. Jen doesn't deserve it. and thereis lies the crux of the matter. Thanks Gambit!!
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Gambit_x77
Member
08-25-2005
| Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 12:19 pm
Thanks Joyfuld! Also Earthmother a-make-a no sense.
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Earthmother
Member
07-14-2002
| Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 12:21 pm
Of course it makes sense it's just not what some want to believe. IMO
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Jen
Member
07-27-2003
| Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 12:21 pm
Not if it was in fun. In the moment. He was pissed off, screaming obsenities at her, then poured a drink on her. Do we not see the difference? If Jen and Eric had gotten into a water fight while doing his hair last night, I would not say there was anything wrong. But if they had been screaming at each other and he did something, I would think something of it. It's the context. If Dick wasn't abusing her, she wouldn't have a reaction.
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Sanfranjoshfan
Member
09-17-2000
| Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 12:25 pm
Aren't people just assuming that Dick is stewing about Jen's comment a month ago? It sounds like that's the ONLY thing anyone can come up with to vilify Jen to make her "responsible" for Dick's abuse. I just don't buy it. It makes no sense. I sure haven't read or heard that Dick has been carrying on about it for the past month. Her month old comment is not what created Dick's out-of-control rage. He brought that in with him.
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Gambit_x77
Member
08-25-2005
| Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 12:27 pm
Nope. No sense has been made at this juncture.
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Skydiver6
Member
07-21-2006
| Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 12:29 pm
Just wondering if anyone here was ever swayed by anyone else here to change their minds about a HG?
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Joyfuld
Member
08-16-2005
| Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 12:30 pm
San I think you hit the nail on the head. He does seem full of rage and it is all directed toward Jen. I guess he feels it is safe to unload on Jen. He certainly did seem to back down from Zach.
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Lurknomore
Member
07-07-2001
| Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 12:31 pm
But isn't something not quite right that Jen wasn't upset with Dick and was laughing until Kail pulled her aside and suggested the strategy of playing it up and trying to get him kicked out? Am I the only person who has an issue with a woman who said she didn't feel threatened using that as game play strategy to advance her game? My serious fear is that when other folks see this it will encourage people to use fear (that doesn't exist) as a means to an end. Even worse, to me, is that folks seeing it will dismiss what the woman is saying seeing yet another time when a woman plots and fakes fear to gain something. Sorry but as a woman that gives me personally a huge concern because if God forbid I'm ever attacked, and I need to tell this, I want folks to know I would only speak the truth. But when we see folks like Jen and Kail plotting how to use it to advance I honestly feel it chips away at trusting a woman saying she is scared, and the motivation behind it! It would be totally different if she HAD been scared, but she not only wasn't she SAID she wasn't and Kail then pointed out why she should be, for the game. BLECH! And I'm very confused why this can't be a valid point, without Dick going too wrong still being a valid point?!!!! But just my thoughts...I just am sincerely confused bout it.
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Beckie03
Member
07-05-2007
| Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 12:31 pm
I highly doubt it, Sky. People are talking about an incident that happened last night, more than 12 hours ago.
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Skydiver6
Member
07-21-2006
| Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 12:31 pm
I think Dick is just an angry old man and he will continually find someone to take his anger out on. I think he is a very sad and unfullfilled guy - especially after reading the stuff on his my space.
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Jeanne
Member
07-15-2005
| Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 12:32 pm
If you want to consider Dick abusive then I think you might have to consider Jen's constant taunting / following Dick around to be abusive as well.
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Hypermom
Member
08-13-2001
| Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 12:32 pm
Lurk posted: One last point...we don't know exactly who the DR has warned about what. Jen was plotting with Kail to aggravate Dick and make him cross a line. And how she should play up being scared when she really wasn't. I personally didn't care for that at all, and turned off the feeds shortly after as I find that type of behavior horrid. To me, it's why many folks don't believe women when they say they are scared. So I personally had a hard time w/that. I wouldn't be suprised if they called Jen to task for that, but we don't know about it. I hope they did personally, just as I feel they absolutely should have told Dick to stop! Seriously? They were in there trying to figure out a way to make him cross the line? I know Kail has tried that before when Dick was on the block..she wanted Joe to make him angry, but Joe said no.
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Jen
Member
07-27-2003
| Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 12:34 pm
Jen wouldn't have to respond if Dick wasn't abusing her. And people are in the BB 2006 thread discussing what happened over a year ago. So what? Anything in BB is fair game.
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Skydiver6
Member
07-21-2006
| Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 12:36 pm
I think Jen does that smirk partly as a nervous, unsure response. Not that she is a nervous person but no matter how strong or weird she is, this has to be hard on her.
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Lurknomore
Member
07-07-2001
| Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 12:36 pm
Sky, I'm not sure I've ever changed my mind just from a post, but I've read posts that make me think about actions or things I missed and I've considered that since I am always re-evaluating how I feel about HG all season. But I try to read respectuful posts with an open mind. So my guess is if folks are just posting to prove their point, unlikely their mind will change. If folks are really discussing all aspects, sharing different viewpoints and have open minds, then a combo of that and what is going on in the feeds might affect how I view something.
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Gambit_x77
Member
08-25-2005
| Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 12:39 pm
Dick just wants to bask in Jen's awesomeness soup.
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