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Mandana4evah
Member
07-08-2005
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 10:44 am
For everyone who thinks her behavior is "bratty" you have to remember that this hurt has been in her since she was little. Abandonment by a parent at any age is devistating. It seriously frameworks your view of the whole world and I can totally see her cutting him off because of whatever happened. It's called a defence mechanism, and it is exactly as Dick referenced it, an attempt at some form of control, so she will not be hurt every again, tho obviously she is hurt everyday. I feel so sorry for her. They both need intense personal family counciling to get over this and I am really really sad that cbs took this opportunistic attitude with them and their issues. I like both of them plenty and see both sides but seriously they should not have to do this on tv.
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Cricket
Member
08-05-2002
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 10:44 am
I agree, Chere. Also, I didn't think it possible, but the show and the live feeds are so far apart, it's like two different shows.
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Hamsterlady
Member
07-03-2003
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 10:45 am
I think that was a Christina Aguilera song they started playing. Perhaps 'Stronger'?
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Hypermom
Member
08-13-2001
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 10:50 am
With Mustardgate, has Eric now completed his fifth task?
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Christiii
Member
07-07-2005
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 10:51 am
I was ust reading here where someone said it is both of their faults. I not so sure about that. I think as a little girl, if you feel abandoned by your parent, its not your fault. It may be out of the parent's control for what ever reason, but it sure isnt the kids fault. Now that she is grown, she is over him, she doesnt want to deal with him as a grownup, for whatever reason. I appreciate that he is trying, but it seems in her eyes its too little too late. She is trying to make a life for herself, and Im sure didnt want to rehash all this stuff, especially in this venu. Yes, she IS young, bratty and immature, but the reasons behind her cold/shutting down attitude is a result of her childhood, Im sure. Did anyone read her lifebook entries?? they were posted at Fans of Reality Tv
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Cricket
Member
08-05-2002
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 10:51 am
From what I read on LF's it sounds like Dick's new alliance doesn't include Amber. Wonder how long it will take her to find out?
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Earthmother
Member
07-14-2002
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 10:53 am
Julie is promising adult entertainment Well based on what was flying all over these boards the other night she wasn't wrong. I must have read twenty times from 3 posters how Nick and Danielle did the nasty..It's not Julie's fault it wasn't true.
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Cricket
Member
08-05-2002
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 10:54 am
I didn't know about her lifebook entries, Christiii. Thanks for the info..I'll check them out.
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Kalekona
Member
06-12-2005
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 10:54 am
I was raised by my grandparents because i didn't fit into my mothers new life. I have HUGE abandonment issues but i NEVER acted like Daniele, nor did I or do i treat people the way she does. As i said last night there is no right or wrong in this. But if she can not let go of her anger nothing Dick does or tries will ever matter.
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Swimsuit_model
Member
07-27-2005
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 10:56 am
Cricket, what is Dick's new alliance?
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Zachsmom
Member
07-13-2000
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 10:56 am
EM-your 10:26am post is spot on. i am tired of reading that dani is so young, only 20 yada yada yada. we have men and women younger than that dying in iraq. i think she fears rejection and pushes people away before they can push her away. dick tries, dani doesn't.
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Chere
Member
08-10-2005
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 10:56 am
Who is in Dick's new alliance?
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Zachsmom
Member
07-13-2000
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 10:59 am
and dani and dick applied together for bb6, so they were on good terms then.
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Costacat
Member
07-15-2000
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 10:59 am
Everyone but Amber? 
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Christiii
Member
07-07-2005
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 11:01 am
Here is the link to her lifebook http://241dani.livejournal.com/ its odd that she has a big pic of an Olsen twin as her header...maybe that is her idol or something The journal is interesting. Her boyfriend seems like a great guy, im feeling pretty bad for him. Especially if they show a bunch of Nick/Dani stuff on tonites show. Its her boyfriend's birthday today, how much would THAT suck to watch on your bd!!
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Cricket
Member
08-05-2002
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 11:01 am
This was on LF's..Don't know if it's Ed's ramblings or he was talking to the group. Ed said who would have thought – an alliance between ED/Jameka/Jess/Eric/Dani Sub alliance between Eric – Dick _ Dani Previously his group had discussed that Amber was a basket case. I sure hope Eric is fooling Dick.
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Costacat
Member
07-15-2000
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 11:03 am
Who is "Ed"?
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Cricket
Member
08-05-2002
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 11:03 am
Ahh...thanks so much for that link, Christiii. I was having a hard time finding it.
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Kalekona
Member
06-12-2005
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 11:03 am
Cricket i wouldn't worry to much about that alliance jessica and jameka do not trust Dick.
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Cricket
Member
08-05-2002
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 11:04 am
E.D. - Evel Dick = Ed
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Earthmother
Member
07-14-2002
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 11:04 am
I'm sure he has the feeds and already knows what's going on.
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Christiii
Member
07-07-2005
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 11:04 am
no problemo! I found it last night over at Fans of Reality Tv in the Danielle thread. Im usually only here, but I wanted to see if other boards were split on the Dani/Dick thing like we were over here.
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Cricket
Member
08-05-2002
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 11:04 am
I'm just saying Amber is being scooted to the wayside.
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Cricket
Member
08-05-2002
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 11:07 am
Dustin giving Kail good advice without actually telling her she's staying.
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