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Scubalass
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07-01-2004

Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:29 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Scubalass a private message Print Post    
He NEEDS to talk .... he is looking for answers .. he is looking for help .... he is emotionaly raw ..... give the poor man a break!!!

Sunshyne4u
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06-17-2003

Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:29 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Sunshyne4u a private message Print Post    
and that last story of Dick's is indicative of the problem. He goes on holiday and figures buying some gifts is 'good enough'

Earthmother
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07-14-2002

Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:29 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Earthmother a private message Print Post    
It is how he feels..he needs help to understand. There is no chance that anyone who doesn't like him would ever give him the benefit of the doubt.
but the bottom line is she can't be a child again, you can't go back in time, so it's time to accept what has happened in your life and learn a lesson from it.

Earthmother
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07-14-2002

Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:33 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Earthmother a private message Print Post    
all the people I know have attachment disorder issues, lash out at their kids, Lash out at their spouses/ signif. others or FAKE happiness when infront of the public.

That's really sad..I'm glad the people I am aquainted with are not abusive/monsters. They have managed to get help and are quite normal, and some (sigh) are very good parents.

Rebelmomx2
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08-16-2006

Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:33 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Rebelmomx2 a private message Print Post    
OMG! how long has kail been talking to danielle?

Sunshyne4u
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06-17-2003

Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:33 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Sunshyne4u a private message Print Post    
finally we were getting to the true story...dick's Second wife and VORTEX

Sunshyne4u
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06-17-2003

Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:35 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Sunshyne4u a private message Print Post    
or so you think, no one knows for sure what goes on inbehind Closed doors.

Earthmother
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07-14-2002

Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:35 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Earthmother a private message Print Post    
Kail said "I'm sorry you had to go through that" you think maybe Danille told her something that Dick can't?

Scubalass
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07-01-2004

Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:35 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Scubalass a private message Print Post    
Kail is talking to Dani?

Chewpito
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01-04-2004

Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:37 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Chewpito a private message Print Post    
earthmother, that is true, untill you have a child you dont truly get it... My Father died when I was 27, I had my daughter at 29...
I often think what a truly wonderfull Grandfather he could have been.... If Only!

Earthmother
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07-14-2002

Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:37 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Earthmother a private message Print Post    
or so you think, no one knows for sure what goes on inbehind Closed doors.

So what you are saying is that people who have shitty childhoods all grow up with issues? and if you can't see them they are hiding them..and this you know for a fact?

Doublethink
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08-23-2006

Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:37 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Doublethink a private message Print Post    
Lurk, I appreciate that you're such a fan of Dick's, but you seem to draw a lot of your conclusions based on what the sons says. Gosh, I grew up in a disfunctional family of five kids, and we all have very different perspectives on what went wrong in our family.

In the D&D scenario, you're looking at the difference between brother and sister. I would guess that Dick could relate more easily to his son; not his daughter. He even said he would go on outings with Vince, but sent Daniele off to do her thing with someone else. In my opinion, Daniel'es brother is going to have a very different perspective of the family dynamics.

No way in the world would I want to try and resolve long-standing family problems in the Big Brother household. Too much of an artificial surrounding, and no support structure to handle all the emotional stress that you feel when confronting your demons. I just don't get why they both agreed to do this.

Nanalinda
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08-06-2005

Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:41 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Nanalinda a private message Print Post    
Nevermind--I found what I was looking for at Jokers. Thanks anyway.

Sunshyne4u
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06-17-2003

Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:44 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Sunshyne4u a private message Print Post    
Yes I know for a fact that the 'reality behind closed doors' often would shock even those 'close' friends who dont know what is going down.


however who have shitty childhoods all grow

where did I say "all" is in the whole world?? LOL Reading between the lines??

I said all the people I know....

Sunshyne4u
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06-17-2003

Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:46 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Sunshyne4u a private message Print Post    
I would be horrified if I ever had a heart to heart with a close friend or family only to find out they promptly run to someone to blab 'their' perspective and look for reassurrance

Lurknomore
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07-07-2001

Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:47 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Lurknomore a private message Print Post    
Double, I do take what the son says heavily into acct as he is giving us a 3rd insight into a very complicated relationship. Whereas I can guess what I think may have happened, and everyone here can toss out other theories, he is posting what happened! I've also been impressed with his tone as he has been straight forward w/out being mean, he has spoken of their flaws and their positives, and he knows them in a way none of us do! So why wouldn't I, or others, use what he says as a part of this complicated puzzle?!

His last few insights on this were quite interesting to me...and more objective than many of us here IMHO.

And FWIW, I like Dick in the game, but this to me has NOTHING to do w/the game. This is WAY too real life. And actually I like this Dick MUCH more than game Dick.

I do agree that BB is not the best place for this and I think it's sick this is how Ali wants to add drama...screw the real lives here. They want their real life soap. I pray no harm comes from it, and maybe some healing inspite of it all. They don't care they are messing with REAL lives and relationships.

As for why they did it, I think it has a lot to do with the fact he was a finalist 2 years ago. Makes ya wonder who his secret partner was eh? How they got here this year...may possibilities, but either way, i would have much preferred total strangers and no heartbreaking REAL drama that Ali felt a need to give us.

Jen
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07-27-2003

Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:47 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Jen a private message Print Post    
Good advice Jameka. Baby steps and let her talk and DON'T offer advice.

Lurknomore
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07-07-2001

Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:48 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Lurknomore a private message Print Post    
BTW Jameka is giving him some very good advice overall...hope he takes some of it. Sorry he poo pood the therapist idea! But rest of it quite good. Hope he really is listening!

Hypermom
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08-13-2001

Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:49 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Hypermom a private message Print Post    
Sun, this is what Jameka does in real life. I'm glad he is talking to her.

Kalekona
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06-12-2005

Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:51 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Kalekona a private message Print Post    
And i guess it is ok for HER to tell all to Amber and Kail but not for her father to get some support.

<100>

Doublethink
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08-23-2006

Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:55 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Doublethink a private message Print Post    
Lurk, again appreciate your comments. I just got the impression you were being a bit hard on Daniele, and a lot of what you posted seemed to be based on her brother's account of events. Just from my own experience, if I were in there and one of my sisters was posting, you'd be sympathetic toward me. If another one of my sisters was posting, you'd be sympathetic toward my parent. So take a lot of what a sibling says with a grain of salt.

Bicbicz911
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08-20-2005

Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:59 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Bicbicz911 a private message Print Post    
Watching this conversation and biting my tongue not to get into the fray.

As they say in Big Brother land, with that said... agreed, Kalekona. <100>

Kalekona
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06-12-2005

Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 12:00 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Kalekona a private message Print Post    
I just think Vincents perspective is a great insight and gives balance to both sides.
There are always more than two sides to a story and Vincent balances out the he said she said.

Sunshyne4u
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06-17-2003

Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 12:01 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Sunshyne4u a private message Print Post    
maybe I'm just jaded but the Son actively posting and taking control of rumors is just more proof that Dick and Dani had set things up in advance of BB.

for instance, if things are so negative between them, how could those private cosy meetings occur?

Count me skeptical. Maybe I'm wrong but... Just how I'm thinking at this precise moment

Kalekona
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06-12-2005

Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 12:04 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Kalekona a private message Print Post    
Bet Amber goes off about Dick interrupting her "date" with Eric.