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Scubalass
Member
07-01-2004
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:29 pm
He NEEDS to talk .... he is looking for answers .. he is looking for help .... he is emotionaly raw ..... give the poor man a break!!!
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Sunshyne4u
Member
06-17-2003
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:29 pm
and that last story of Dick's is indicative of the problem. He goes on holiday and figures buying some gifts is 'good enough'
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Earthmother
Member
07-14-2002
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:29 pm
It is how he feels..he needs help to understand. There is no chance that anyone who doesn't like him would ever give him the benefit of the doubt. but the bottom line is she can't be a child again, you can't go back in time, so it's time to accept what has happened in your life and learn a lesson from it.
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Earthmother
Member
07-14-2002
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:33 pm
all the people I know have attachment disorder issues, lash out at their kids, Lash out at their spouses/ signif. others or FAKE happiness when infront of the public. That's really sad..I'm glad the people I am aquainted with are not abusive/monsters. They have managed to get help and are quite normal, and some (sigh) are very good parents.
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Rebelmomx2
Member
08-16-2006
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:33 pm
OMG! how long has kail been talking to danielle?
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Sunshyne4u
Member
06-17-2003
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:33 pm
finally we were getting to the true story...dick's Second wife and VORTEX
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Sunshyne4u
Member
06-17-2003
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:35 pm
or so you think, no one knows for sure what goes on inbehind Closed doors.
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Earthmother
Member
07-14-2002
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:35 pm
Kail said "I'm sorry you had to go through that" you think maybe Danille told her something that Dick can't?
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Scubalass
Member
07-01-2004
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:35 pm
Kail is talking to Dani?
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Chewpito
Member
01-04-2004
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:37 pm
earthmother, that is true, untill you have a child you dont truly get it... My Father died when I was 27, I had my daughter at 29... I often think what a truly wonderfull Grandfather he could have been.... If Only!
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Earthmother
Member
07-14-2002
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:37 pm
or so you think, no one knows for sure what goes on inbehind Closed doors. So what you are saying is that people who have shitty childhoods all grow up with issues? and if you can't see them they are hiding them..and this you know for a fact?
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Doublethink
Member
08-23-2006
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:37 pm
Lurk, I appreciate that you're such a fan of Dick's, but you seem to draw a lot of your conclusions based on what the sons says. Gosh, I grew up in a disfunctional family of five kids, and we all have very different perspectives on what went wrong in our family. In the D&D scenario, you're looking at the difference between brother and sister. I would guess that Dick could relate more easily to his son; not his daughter. He even said he would go on outings with Vince, but sent Daniele off to do her thing with someone else. In my opinion, Daniel'es brother is going to have a very different perspective of the family dynamics. No way in the world would I want to try and resolve long-standing family problems in the Big Brother household. Too much of an artificial surrounding, and no support structure to handle all the emotional stress that you feel when confronting your demons. I just don't get why they both agreed to do this.
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Nanalinda
Member
08-06-2005
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:41 pm
Nevermind--I found what I was looking for at Jokers. Thanks anyway.
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Sunshyne4u
Member
06-17-2003
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:44 pm
Yes I know for a fact that the 'reality behind closed doors' often would shock even those 'close' friends who dont know what is going down. however who have shitty childhoods all grow where did I say "all" is in the whole world?? LOL Reading between the lines?? I said all the people I know....
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Sunshyne4u
Member
06-17-2003
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:46 pm
I would be horrified if I ever had a heart to heart with a close friend or family only to find out they promptly run to someone to blab 'their' perspective and look for reassurrance
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Lurknomore
Member
07-07-2001
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:47 pm
Double, I do take what the son says heavily into acct as he is giving us a 3rd insight into a very complicated relationship. Whereas I can guess what I think may have happened, and everyone here can toss out other theories, he is posting what happened! I've also been impressed with his tone as he has been straight forward w/out being mean, he has spoken of their flaws and their positives, and he knows them in a way none of us do! So why wouldn't I, or others, use what he says as a part of this complicated puzzle?! His last few insights on this were quite interesting to me...and more objective than many of us here IMHO. And FWIW, I like Dick in the game, but this to me has NOTHING to do w/the game. This is WAY too real life. And actually I like this Dick MUCH more than game Dick. I do agree that BB is not the best place for this and I think it's sick this is how Ali wants to add drama...screw the real lives here. They want their real life soap. I pray no harm comes from it, and maybe some healing inspite of it all. They don't care they are messing with REAL lives and relationships. As for why they did it, I think it has a lot to do with the fact he was a finalist 2 years ago. Makes ya wonder who his secret partner was eh? How they got here this year...may possibilities, but either way, i would have much preferred total strangers and no heartbreaking REAL drama that Ali felt a need to give us.
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Jen
Member
07-27-2003
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:47 pm
Good advice Jameka. Baby steps and let her talk and DON'T offer advice.
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Lurknomore
Member
07-07-2001
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:48 pm
BTW Jameka is giving him some very good advice overall...hope he takes some of it. Sorry he poo pood the therapist idea! But rest of it quite good. Hope he really is listening!
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Hypermom
Member
08-13-2001
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:49 pm
Sun, this is what Jameka does in real life. I'm glad he is talking to her.
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Kalekona
Member
06-12-2005
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:51 pm
And i guess it is ok for HER to tell all to Amber and Kail but not for her father to get some support. <100>
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Doublethink
Member
08-23-2006
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:55 pm
Lurk, again appreciate your comments. I just got the impression you were being a bit hard on Daniele, and a lot of what you posted seemed to be based on her brother's account of events. Just from my own experience, if I were in there and one of my sisters was posting, you'd be sympathetic toward me. If another one of my sisters was posting, you'd be sympathetic toward my parent. So take a lot of what a sibling says with a grain of salt.
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Bicbicz911
Member
08-20-2005
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 11:59 pm
Watching this conversation and biting my tongue not to get into the fray. As they say in Big Brother land, with that said... agreed, Kalekona. <100>
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Kalekona
Member
06-12-2005
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 12:00 am
I just think Vincents perspective is a great insight and gives balance to both sides. There are always more than two sides to a story and Vincent balances out the he said she said.
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Sunshyne4u
Member
06-17-2003
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 12:01 am
maybe I'm just jaded but the Son actively posting and taking control of rumors is just more proof that Dick and Dani had set things up in advance of BB. for instance, if things are so negative between them, how could those private cosy meetings occur? Count me skeptical. Maybe I'm wrong but... Just how I'm thinking at this precise moment
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Kalekona
Member
06-12-2005
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 12:04 am
Bet Amber goes off about Dick interrupting her "date" with Eric.
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