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Weinermr
Member
08-18-2001
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:26 pm
I think Dick needs to get up and leave the room. He's too relentless. He's suffocating her. I can feel it, I can just imagine how she's feeling.
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Jen
Member
07-27-2003
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:26 pm
It's always about him.
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Kmjm
Member
05-19-2002
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:26 pm
Well, Dick and Dani, if you had more fun when you were on the block, then just wait until next week and you may very well get that fun again.
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Lucas
Member
07-01-2005
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:27 pm
This is a good example, she is talking about deep stuff, and yet again he talks about how difficult his week as HOH was. Those two things do not mix, but Dick does not see it. I can clearly see Dick is trying, trying very hard, his love and caring are not disputed by me. But his personality will not allow him to see beyond himself, which is the key part of parenting. Until he see's that, he will continue to beat his head against a wall with his daughter.
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Christiii
Member
07-07-2005
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:27 pm
anyone watch Fat Camp on MTV a few years ago?? she is starting to sound like the girl who was told to take a shower she is hitting the same octives
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Jen
Member
07-27-2003
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:28 pm
Ditto Lucas. Totally agree.
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Lucas
Member
07-01-2005
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:28 pm
Earthmother, she does not need a spanking, she needs an adult who can make her feel special and loved, not responsible for his issues.
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Sabbatia
Member
08-15-2005
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:29 pm
Ummmm she brought up the game first. You don't understand what it's like for me here....it's not even fun anymore....
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Christiii
Member
07-07-2005
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:29 pm
well said Lucas!!
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Rebelmomx2
Member
08-16-2006
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:29 pm
ED needs to give her space and treat her like the "friend" she claims... try family counseling after the show and stop trying to work it out during the show.
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Kalekona
Member
06-12-2005
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:30 pm
She is mad that he can't see it from HER perspective but not once has she tried to see it from his. What was interesting was her saying she is sorry that she didn't ask to be there.
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Krissn
Member
07-09-2005
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:30 pm
I am getting angry at BB for this. BB needs to have a professional on-hand to help both of them. Continuing with conversations like this is not going to improve their relationship but rip it further apart.
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Sabbatia
Member
08-15-2005
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:30 pm
A spanking just might make her feel loved...and parented. I got them regulary, and couldn't have been closer to my Dad.
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Rebelmomx2
Member
08-16-2006
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:30 pm
Hug him
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Lyn
Member
08-07-2002
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:30 pm
Well we've been on the other end, Christiii. Oldest daughter wouldn't talk to her Dad for years because of some real-or-imagined slight even she can't remember now. (She was a teen at the time). Let it go on for years...hubby tried over and over. Finally decided to heck with it, and not let her do this number on him anymore. Told her she knew where he was whenever she decided she wanted to talk - then he left it at that. (This whole thing tore him apart). Finally the day did come and they managed to have a good relationship for his final years. Now she regrets their time apart. It doesn't matter who's at fault (finger pointing doesn't help). You have to know when to step back and come at it again later down the road
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Jen
Member
07-27-2003
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:31 pm
She desperately wants a parent who will be a parent. and when you're still angry with someone it's hard to hug them. This is totally progress. It's good. Don't go too far.
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Kmjm
Member
05-19-2002
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:31 pm
Dick is trying but he doesn't have the tools in his kit to deal with this. He wants her to see everything from his point of view and empathize with him because he is needy too. Get out of the house you two and sort this out in private with professional help. Surely the money and notoriety of being on BB can't mean more to Dick than his daughter.
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Christiii
Member
07-07-2005
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:31 pm
I think she resents him for giving her up, and putting his life before hers. I think that is how she sees it, and the root of all this Why didnt he love her enough to raise her?? I think she may never be a ble to voice it, but thats what is at the roots
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Kiari43
Member
08-25-2005
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:32 pm
Dick has me balling....She really needs to give him a chance.
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Rebelmomx2
Member
08-16-2006
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:32 pm
She really feels abandoned by her parents. Totally obvious by her fetal position and the comments she had made. I feel so badly for these two. God give them peace and the wisdom to get together. Give Danielle and maturity to know that there are always two sides and her daddy does love her.
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Aerojunki
Member
06-30-2004
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:34 pm
Oh great..I look like Amber now
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Christiii
Member
07-07-2005
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:34 pm
Im sure the psych is on speed dial
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Jen
Member
07-27-2003
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:34 pm
What is he talking about now????? Just stop talking!!!
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Christiii
Member
07-07-2005
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:35 pm
sorry, Jessica is alice
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Krissn
Member
07-09-2005
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:35 pm
"Dick, Please go to the diary room" and leave well enough alone.
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