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Scubalass
Member
07-01-2004
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:49 pm
I think he is just trying to move the conversation on .... they have shed their tears .. had a talk ... had a hug ... he is trying to find common ground to end the convo.
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Earthmother
Member
07-14-2002
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:49 pm
At least she hugged him, but it shouldn't have been so hard for her. If she hasn't allowed him to know how much she has changed in two years, how can she expect him to know her. Someone said he was all about the game, even during this moment...he has to it's where they are. Obviously they need the money, if she wants to go back to school. He needs to bring her back into this game or they both might as well just leave.
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Rebelmomx2
Member
08-16-2006
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:49 pm
Sabbatia: I 2nd that!
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Christiii
Member
07-07-2005
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:49 pm
wow, Dick just wants to have fun so so so wierd how this turned
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Pattie444
Member
07-03-2005
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:49 pm
Dont let Amber near her
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Kmjm
Member
05-19-2002
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:49 pm
I think that there were many years when Dick was off doing drugs and partying when Danielle needed a Daddy and he wasn't all that dependable. It takes a long time to repair that. He can't just tell her he loves her now and have it all go away. Danielle has a lot of maturing and healing to do before she can forgive her Dad. He can't force her to do it on his agenda. Oh crap here he goes talking game again.
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Sabbatia
Member
08-15-2005
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:50 pm
Ezgoing, she is just as likely to go talk about it as he is....
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Flamingo
Member
08-19-2003
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:50 pm
i guess I should turn off my feeds now before she starts blabbing everything to Amber.
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Aerojunki
Member
06-30-2004
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:51 pm
Sabbatia: I 3rd that!
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Christiii
Member
07-07-2005
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:52 pm
yeah KM, thats what Im feeling too that last sentance I just Want to Have Fun that would have killed me, sometimes it not about you having fun Dad!
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Kalekona
Member
06-12-2005
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:52 pm
I just had to hug my kid... guess this hits close to home for me but i spent my time crying FOR my mother growing up so i cant imagine cutting her out of my life. And yes Dick laid himself open my mom has never done that. Christii SHE was the one crying she wasn't having fun first. As for continuing to talk about the game.. It is part of the pressure they are going through and their world becomes very small in that house.
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Dawken
Member
07-21-2005
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:52 pm
As A total daddy's girl at 36 no less I feel so bad for Dani right now ... every girl should have a fathers unconditional love and support ... no matter what is going on ... to see a child yes a child in many ways to have to go throu this on TV no less is breaking my heart
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Jen
Member
07-27-2003
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:53 pm
How can you say it shouldn't be so hard for her? Do you know what she's been through. If she can't hug him, she shouldn't just do it.
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Chewpito
Member
01-04-2004
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:53 pm
You were blessed then Dawken..
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Lurknomore
Member
07-07-2001
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:53 pm
Christiii I really think you got it wrong. I think he turns it to game because it's a 'safe" topic they share. To try to break the heavy emotional drama. Notice he didn't try to talk major strategy any time he did it....just some easy banter, like folks would discuss the weather or something benign out in the real world. In the house, the game is the easy choice, esp since they don't share much more. Look I know folks hate Dick in the game...ok fine their choice. But that is a man who we know doesn't like to be wrong BEGGING his daughter for a chance on any terms she wanted. The fact that is SO against who he is says to me it is 100% legit and it wants it at any cost or personal inconvenience. I think BB threw them into this mess for TV and they should BOTH have to talk to whatever shrink is on this year and talk about it. And hopefully someone w/some insight in how they could better communicate cause MAN they suck at it!
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Skydiver6
Member
07-21-2006
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:53 pm
But when I argue with my husband and we have a big emotional discussion and then right afterwards talks about some stupid thing I'm like, "WTF?" I'm still on the heavy stuff and he's talking about some silly thing and I think did he even mean anything he just said? How could he move on so quickly?? Maybe it's a guy thing.
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Jen
Member
07-27-2003
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:53 pm
Thank goodness that is over. That was too emotional for me and I'm not in the relationship.
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Kmjm
Member
05-19-2002
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:53 pm
Now Dick's all happy and Danielle is curled up in a fetal position in bed. He seems to have got what he needed, but she's not doing too well.
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Tera
Member
08-10-2000
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:54 pm
You are right Skydiver. Guys don't know how to argue properly.
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Christiii
Member
07-07-2005
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:54 pm
Kale I now she was whinning about not having fun, but I expectthat from her at 20 it would be REALLY hard for me to hear it from my dad
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Jen
Member
07-27-2003
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:54 pm
Go AWAY NICK!@!!!!
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Lurknomore
Member
07-07-2001
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:56 pm
I think Danielle is a drama queen used to playing the victim role. Dick is used to playing the life of the party role. They have both returned to their roles in life, let alone the house. I don't think it says a thing about either one, other than they are being who they are, with us dissecting them.
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Jen
Member
07-27-2003
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:56 pm
She doesn't need his shit too. Jeez. Leave the girl alone.
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Kmjm
Member
05-19-2002
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:56 pm
Now here comes Nick like some kind of leech or something to encourage her to be even more dependent on him. This sucks for her. I feel bad for Dani, she's one very messed up young woman.
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Scubalass
Member
07-01-2004
| Monday, July 23, 2007 - 10:56 pm
Lurk, I agree .. after tonight BB needs to get the shrink in and let them both talk .... this has gone way beyond entertainment ... CBS owes it to the two of them to help them. You can feel the rawness of the emotion for BOTH of them.
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