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Bbdi
Member
09-01-2006
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 7:40 am
You know, I've been reading these conversations about Danielle and Dick, and have to ask. Is it possible to feel sympathy for Dick for the way that Danielle treats him, and also to believe he acts like a total jerk? I really despise the way he treats people , and that is his choice to treat people that way. But that doesn't mean I wish bad things for him, i.e., his daughter's treatment of him. She acts like a little brat too as far as I'm concerned. But I also feel sympathetic toward her for having such a difficult and mean father. I think if some of us would realize that just because we don't care for someone, doesn't mean that we love anyone who is hurting them, we wouldn't have so many arguments going back and forth about who is the good one and who is the evil one. They both certainly have their faults!
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Kdee
Member
07-31-2006
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 7:41 am
I like hearing Eric talk about the previous bbAll Stars. Yesterday he told Jameka to " get to steppin"....which what Boogie told Howie when Howie was evicted...It was cute
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Bbfan
Member
07-23-2007
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 7:48 am
The sideways glance Nick was giving Danielle was the night he was drunk in the hammock. I felt he was checking her reaction to him out. But, I guess his feelings for her could be true and still be manipulative. He certainly wouldn't be the first - inside or outside of the house! I am watching the Dick - Danielle talk on Showtime now and it really is heartbreaking. I don't know how Danielle can stay so cold. She must have been hurt so bad or be incredibly self-centered. I had problems with my parents and I had disagreements with my adult children from time to time and I have never seen any thing like this. I wish they would get a psych in for Dick. If he is doing it for sympathy, it is totally working for me. I do think he really loves his daughter; we are all flawed.
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Slybones
Member
07-20-2007
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 7:51 am
I agree with what Bbdi says. Im new to the boards and pretty much the show, but I don't think I have ever read so much dislike about one person. I guess its what is preceived by each viewer, but is he honestly that horrible a person?
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Beffylou
Member
04-21-2005
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 7:58 am
I agree .. I am really liking Eric a whole lot more. I think he's loosened up some and relaxed and it shows in his style of being there. He can laugh at himself and others and, personally, I love that about him. (i'm refusing to add anymore to teh D/D stuff .. I am just tired of them)
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Jan
Moderator
08-01-2000
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 8:01 am
(welcome, Slybones, to the world of BB and posting   )
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Bbfan
Member
07-23-2007
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 8:06 am
I like Eric more than I did at first too. But, I am really not liking Amber. I can't stand the way she is carrying tales to everyone and constantly bragging on herself. I think Eric and Jessica would make a cute couple. I don't think Jameka is trusting Nick or ED yet, do you?
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Skydiver6
Member
07-21-2006
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 8:18 am
I think Dani & Nick are both kind of playing each other. Earlier I was feeling bad for Dani because of how Nick was manipulating her but after last night I think it's 2 sided manipulation. I'm tired of watching them both stare at each other. I hope Nick, Dani or Dick goes next week.
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S009
Member
07-18-2007
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 8:25 am
Bbfan, I was just thinking last night as well how cute Eric and Jessica seemed together...
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Llwynn
Member
07-19-2003
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 8:28 am
Watching Showtime from last night and Danielle is so cold. I realize I have know way of knowing how Dick's behavior toward her has been in the past, but I just keep thinking that someday she is going to regret how she is acting. There are a lot of people who would give anything to hear their dad say the things Dick is saying to her.
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Bbfan
Member
07-23-2007
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 8:36 am
I agree, Llwynn! I was so glad he never pulled out the old "some day I won't be around" but it really is true. I hate when parents do that but the truth of the matter is that none of us knows how much time we have to heal any relationship. I do hate how he goes and tells all the details of every one of their talks! I don't think he does it out of maliciousness; I think he just talks too much! I wish he would keep it down to just Jameka. I think he could trust her on this issue and she gives him good, professional advice.
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Jodarae
Member
07-21-2006
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 8:36 am
I don't have the feeds, so I haven't been privy to the 'bratty' actions of Daniele on a daily basis. But, I just wanted to say that no one really knows what her damage is. I think her brother is probably genuine, but his side of things is still his side. We all tell our life stories from our own perspective. We don't know what Dani's perspective is. Also, 20 isn't exactly the most mature age even under great circumstances. It's barely out of the teens (even though I realize she's coming up on 21). And emotional maturity can be severely stunted by family dysfunction. I'm not excusing her actions, I'm just saying. Heck, look at Dick's maturity level. He doesn't exactly lead her by example.
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Zgoodgirl
Member
08-22-2003
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 8:47 am
Jodarae, you are correct about who is telling the truth and how we will never know the whole story, which really I don't want to know. It just leaves a vile taste in my mouth to see a sibling get online and air dirty laundry out for the world to see, good or bad. I don't see any positive reason for someone to do something like that other than the attention it brings him. I would never forgive my sister for something like that.
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Marej
Member
09-20-2002
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 8:52 am
Dick and his alliance talk and no one else in the house raises holy hell about that. He's a big baby.
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Chicogirl
Member
07-23-2007
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 9:00 am
After reading and watching BBAD, I think Dani is behaving poorly and mistreating others. She won't talk to Nick or her Dad and then blames them becasue they don't know her. IMO she is behaving like a spoiled and selfish little girl, instead of an adult.
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K9lover1
Member
07-04-2005
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 9:01 am
I was quite impressed with how Jameka handled her talk with Dick about the children in Africa - I like her.
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Cricket
Member
08-05-2002
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 9:10 am
Regarding VAC, I think he is only doing what so many have requested of him; give them an insight as to what Dick and Daniele might be about. It's always exciting to have a family member post, because we feel we are getting extra info that way. He has stated that his father will use he and Daniele against each other at times; ie. he said when it was good between Daniele/Dick it was very good, to the point of his father saying he wished their relationship could be like that. However, is very up and down with Dick/Daniele, while VAC and his father seem to be able to have a decent ongoing relationship. The main thing that bothers him about his Dad is that he tells everything you tell him and VAC isn't like that. As far as his comments about his sister, I don't think they are trash talking remarks as much as trying to say, "Yes..this is the real her" or "No..it's not like her." I feel badly for Daniele in the house with Dick. I could clearly see her shaking and getting ready to crack, while her father seemed oblivious to it. I cheered her when she said he was supposed to be the adult. That is the part he is missing. His maturity level is much the same as the young houseguests. I didn't watch the whole encounter. It seemed to go on quite awhile, though. Daniele has closed off her emotions because the pain may have been too much for her and this is how she deals with it. In Dick's mind, he's her parent. He's remembering when she was a little girl. However, he's said it's been like this for 7 years, so Daniele probably doesn't remember the 'parent' Dick, only the 'mean friend' Dick who is trying to be a parent. They have different memories and Daniele's don't seem to be as happy as Dick's.
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Aerojunki
Member
06-30-2004
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 9:12 am
I totally agree, Chico
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Lesleyjack
Member
06-20-2005
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 9:13 am
BB just woke Nick up and had him go to the DR. You could hear them asking him "Do you think Dick's behavior is beginning to turn the house against him?" and Nick was saying that he thought it was, but that NIck likes the way Dick is upfront with everyone. I wish someone hadn't caught that it was going over the Internet.
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Lesleyjack
Member
06-20-2005
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 9:18 am
Then Nick came out and got Dani and hugged her. I think they asked him to go get her instead of waking everyone up to get her, too. I suspect we'll have a big ED show tonight.
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Aerojunki
Member
06-30-2004
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 9:18 am
I heard that too, wish we could of heard the rest.
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Cricket
Member
08-05-2002
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 9:23 am
Why does everyone in the house keep saying they like they way Dick is upfront with everyone? It sounds like a line. His being 'upfront' with everyone has caused extreme tension in the house. Also, he's not really upfront. He says a lot of negative things about people behind their back.
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Swimsuit_model
Member
07-27-2005
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 9:25 am
i wish Dick and Daniele weren't in the house together. I am sick of hearing about them, their body language, what that says about them, and who probably hurt who... BB WWWWHHHHHYYYYYYYY are you doing this to us? If I wanted to watch a father and daughter fight all the time, I would watch Full House.
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Luvbbplayers
Member
07-14-2006
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 9:30 am
Daniele needs to go, shes too immature and Swim you are correct its getting old. Esp. listening to her whine.
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Marej
Member
09-20-2002
| Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 9:32 am
I wish HOH was questions, like, "Who thinks they are in charge.", etc.
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