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Sabbatia
Member
08-15-2005
| Sunday, July 22, 2007 - 9:56 pm
It's hard for me to watch because I was so close to my dad....and when a family member is gone, they are GONE, there is no going back or taking back what you've said. I guess when you are 20, you don't think about the fact that this could be the last time you talk to them. MY opinion.....I think Dick is strung as tightly as he can be between worrying about the game and his daughter, and nick. Dani is a brat and can't realize that if she would take away part of the stress instead of adding to it, he just MIGHT calm down a little bit and stop upsetting everyone.
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Cricket
Member
08-05-2002
| Sunday, July 22, 2007 - 9:56 pm
Earthmother, I'm sure you didn't scare the Bejesus out of them. No parent hides in their kid's bedroom and gets in their face to scare them. The emotional trauma is lifelong. He was abusive. He wasn't playing with them. This was his form of punishment.
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Flamingo
Member
08-19-2003
| Sunday, July 22, 2007 - 9:57 pm
Daniele is 20 going on 13. she appears to have a very strange view on reality.
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Kalekona
Member
06-12-2005
| Sunday, July 22, 2007 - 9:57 pm
my husband has a booming voice like that and it scared my daughter.
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Lesleyjack
Member
06-20-2005
| Sunday, July 22, 2007 - 9:57 pm
Exactly, C1. You have to build a strong respectful relationship with your kids long before they are 20. Now, when I see my 20 year old screwing up , we talk, and then he decides what he should do. I may not always agree, but I allow him to be an adult.
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Cricket
Member
08-05-2002
| Sunday, July 22, 2007 - 9:58 pm
Did he hide in the bedroom and get right in her face?
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Flamingo
Member
08-19-2003
| Sunday, July 22, 2007 - 9:58 pm
Cricket, you weren't there.
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C1mag
Member
07-12-2005
| Sunday, July 22, 2007 - 9:58 pm
Steviegirl is right. Dick needs to do a quick assesment of himself. Pull back and just hush. He's lost control of his suckers, I mean, army and he needs to call this a loss for himself and let them all sleep on it.
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Klaw73
Member
08-21-2006
| Sunday, July 22, 2007 - 9:59 pm
I am sure Kail is sitting some where thinking she was completely validated tonight and the HGs should have listened to her.
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Hamsterlady
Member
07-03-2003
| Sunday, July 22, 2007 - 9:59 pm
Cricket - How can you really take everything that Dani says at face value and take nothing that Dick says at face value?
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Earthmother
Member
07-14-2002
| Sunday, July 22, 2007 - 9:59 pm
Cricket, Abusive again? you can't make that assumption because one young immature woman who is overly dramatic makes that kind of comment.
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Kalekona
Member
06-12-2005
| Sunday, July 22, 2007 - 9:59 pm
cricket you need to take care in what you say accusing him of being abusive is over the line.
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Steviegirl
Member
07-07-2005
| Sunday, July 22, 2007 - 10:00 pm
Oh here we go again. Amber has to make this all about her.
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Kmjm
Member
05-19-2002
| Sunday, July 22, 2007 - 10:00 pm
I heard Dani say that she and her brother hid in the bedroom to get away from Dick. It wasn't Dick hiding from what I heard.
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Sabbatia
Member
08-15-2005
| Sunday, July 22, 2007 - 10:00 pm
Ever notice that Amber has a different opinion of things depending on who she is talking to?
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Stacey718995
Member
07-06-2007
| Sunday, July 22, 2007 - 10:00 pm
I am sure Kail is sitting some where thinking she was completely validated tonight and the HGs should have listened to her. I am sure knowing Kail that she thinks she is valuated
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Cricket
Member
08-05-2002
| Sunday, July 22, 2007 - 10:01 pm
No, Flamingo, I wasn't, but I had a girlfriend who had a similar father. He destroyed her and her brother's lives. Daniele is just saying what I was going to say. She never learned respect for him because he didn't earn it. He's not earning it now. It might be too late. How is it people see Dick's volatile temper and yet don't believe Daniele is telling the truth? Her brother said he yelled in their face when they were younger as well. He said he's gotten better over the last few years, but they were grown up by then. The damage was done.
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Bonbonlover
Member
07-13-2000
| Sunday, July 22, 2007 - 10:02 pm
Kmjm...that is what I heard also. Dani and her brother hid in their bedroom...It wasn't Dick hiding.
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Scubalass
Member
07-01-2004
| Sunday, July 22, 2007 - 10:02 pm
Stacey, So funny!!!!!! Kail does get all her words wrong!!!
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Stacey718995
Member
07-06-2007
| Sunday, July 22, 2007 - 10:02 pm
Her brother said he yelled in their face when they were younger as well. Where did Vince say that? I have been following his words closely and don't remember that.
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Lesleyjack
Member
06-20-2005
| Sunday, July 22, 2007 - 10:03 pm
I'm sure Jameka's thinkin' "Happy Freakin Birthday to Me!" tonight.
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Cricket
Member
08-05-2002
| Sunday, July 22, 2007 - 10:03 pm
Kmjm, I thought she said he hid in their bedroom and scared them. You mean she said they hid in the bedroom from him. I believe her. Sorry. I'm trying to make Dick worse than he is. I don't understand why she would lie about it.
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Flamingo
Member
08-19-2003
| Sunday, July 22, 2007 - 10:03 pm
no Cricket, you cannot assume anything whatsoever about what happened with Dick and Daniele based on what happened with someone somewhere else. You know that. And not every bratty 20 year old who has issues with her father has been abused.
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Nala63
Member
09-20-2005
| Sunday, July 22, 2007 - 10:04 pm
lol, i dont see how counciling could help...were all watching the same exact thing and all have different opinions. dick is an abusive parent.
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Stacey718995
Member
07-06-2007
| Sunday, July 22, 2007 - 10:04 pm
I couldn't help it Scuba, her words drive me nuts! lol
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