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Earthmother
Member
07-14-2002
| Wednesday, September 12, 2007 - 1:54 pm
I just think if she were as mean as she is being called that she wouldn't have taken the effort to fix Zach anything last night. Dani knows it's a game and she has been as nice to Zach as he has been to both her and her father. The fact that Zach makes comments behind their backs and Dick says it up front doesn't make any of them right. Dani should get a credit for doing something nice without there being an ulterior motive. Would anyone have accused Jameka of using Zach by giving him a hot meal?
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Milosmom
Member
06-10-2006
| Wednesday, September 12, 2007 - 1:55 pm
It was very telling, Jameka saying she doesn't expect to talk to Zach after the show, except for a catching up email once in a while. I think the hg's understand it's just a game way more than we do, and things done in the house aren't necessarily the way they will be later. Good or bad. No reason why Dani shouldn't have been nice.
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Asil
Member
08-12-2006
| Wednesday, September 12, 2007 - 1:55 pm
But just because Dick is her father, doesn't mean she HAS to love him and tell him so. Whatever has happened in their lives to bring them to this stage - no one but they know. But to say you HAVE to love and express that love to a parent,just because theyare your parent isnt' necessarily going to happen. Just my opinion, and I've experienced myself - just becuase they are family - sister/brother/mother/father/ whatever - doesn't mean we have to love them, let alone like them.}
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Archiecat
Member
08-16-2006
| Wednesday, September 12, 2007 - 1:56 pm
I agree, Lurk, except most of us on this "pretty" thread (ugliness not allowed) feel Dani did do things that were helpful. The towel: I give you that one. I just missed it. Now come here and give an old 70 something, fat woman (me) a virtual hug! {{{{ }}}} LOL
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Beekindpleez
Member
07-18-2006
| Wednesday, September 12, 2007 - 1:59 pm
Are we sure it's most of us? I think she did many things that were helpful. She is just not an overly expressive person. But she did take care of both of them.
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Boberg
Member
10-04-2002
| Wednesday, September 12, 2007 - 2:04 pm
Very interesting Jeanne on the "type logic" Is there a place to test yourself to see the type you are? Objective questions type thing or do you read and try to figure out yourself what you are? TYIA
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Archiecat
Member
08-16-2006
| Wednesday, September 12, 2007 - 2:05 pm
Bee, Jeanne is the resident analyst on this thread. She introduced us to our Myers-Briggs selves a few posts back. She can probably figure out the "not overly expressive person". Heck, even I could after researching her post on Google. ....and I am sure of only a few things and they don't have anything to do with BB8, I guess, so you got me there.
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Aurora
Member
11-24-2006
| Wednesday, September 12, 2007 - 2:07 pm
Just Google Myers Briggs Test, Boberg.
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Tresbien
Member
08-27-2002
| Wednesday, September 12, 2007 - 2:12 pm
The Kiersey test is similar and found online. Tickle.com might have one or both.
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Sunshyne4u
Member
06-17-2003
| Wednesday, September 12, 2007 - 2:24 pm
i confess I havent read most of the posts of this thread. As soon as I read the first few posts I knew what the problem was. The same problem that quite a few of us have noticed since the first few weeks of this show. We all see the same scene on Live Feeds. However, some of us look at facial expressions, tone of voice and the nuances of the interactions. Others see the 'broader picture'. In that way, the same interactions between Dani, Zach and Dick post-comp can be viewed in such completely different ways. I myself documented most of it in Screencap thread. I also was trying to keep up in the "Endurance comp thread". when I would hear Dani say nothing more than "Wave at Vincent" people would say Dani is saying words of support for her dad. my point is, it is all about Interpretation. I personally found Dani not very supportive of her father during that comp. The rare time she said anything it sounded terse and whiney like she was bored and just wanted it over. after the Comp she was brutally rude in repeatedly ignoring Zach including when he gave her dad HUGE props saying that He was tough and Could give a four star general a run for his money (OR something like that. I did it in screencaps) i fully admit I may have missed a pleasant Grunt or Mumble, but I didnt notice a response at all. Just my perspective! cheers ( GO ZACH )
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Sunshyne4u
Member
06-17-2003
| Wednesday, September 12, 2007 - 2:26 pm
speak o the Devil! Right now on Live Feeds dani and Dick are making fun of zach being nice to them after the comp. What does he want? There is no reason to do it? he just likes to kiss people's *ss. OH he just wants our vote. ((in other words, they think it is ploy, not that Zach is really a nice guy))
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Loppes
Member
07-12-2002
| Wednesday, September 12, 2007 - 2:30 pm
Sun they don't have the capacity to think any other way they they do. It's the Peter Principal. The comprehensive of humanity can own go so far. I am convinced of that.
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Archiecat
Member
08-16-2006
| Wednesday, September 12, 2007 - 2:30 pm
Thanks, Sunshyne, you have a good take on the whole evening...'course that is my perspective.
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Nycsoho
Member
08-11-2007
| Wednesday, September 12, 2007 - 2:31 pm
I did not know you had to grow up and be moraly correct to win the money. I don't think that's in the BB handbook. Boogie won last year and then there was Maggie and the Friendship.
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Archiecat
Member
08-16-2006
| Wednesday, September 12, 2007 - 2:33 pm
Heck, Loppes, now I have to go back to google to find out what part of that means. (Does that mean I am a lot like Amber?) Naw, my bad
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Inkydinkydoo
Member
07-25-2005
| Wednesday, September 12, 2007 - 2:43 pm
Why was Dani kind of nice to Zach? There is room for a couple of thoughts. 1. Common human decency. Possible, even probable. Most people will help people who are not friends in tough situations. 2. She has a lot of time to think during that comp. She is a smart young lady. If Zach wins the HOH, he chooses the person to go to F2. I am sure Dani wants it to be her, not her Dad. She wants to win. Don't blame her. So it did not hurt to be kind to Zach. Remember, she was already talking game with Dick before he quit shaking, trying to make him feel better about quitting, but game nevertheless. She never quits thinking about it. So what was the reason? Who knows. Possibly a little of both. There is one more reason Dani may have made Zach a grilled cheese sandwich and soup. Perhaps, the diary room or the doctor told she do it, in order to treat their hypothermia.
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Judyg8or
Member
08-07-2007
| Wednesday, September 12, 2007 - 2:46 pm
I can't find the youtubes on this comp, does anyone have some links?
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Loppes
Member
07-12-2002
| Wednesday, September 12, 2007 - 2:50 pm
Archie ROFLMAO!
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Sunshyne4u
Member
06-17-2003
| Wednesday, September 12, 2007 - 2:50 pm
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MBVrq_es0Io&mode=user&search= I'll go post some links in the 'Live Video Thread'
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Loppes
Member
07-12-2002
| Wednesday, September 12, 2007 - 2:53 pm
I have been thinking about that either she was being nice (which is hard to believe based on all her real thoughts of him), 2. as Inky said, BB told her too, 3. She was falling back to her old way of slight shmoozing, because if he wins Part 3 and has to make a choice, she wants him to take her instead of her father to F2. I'm thinking its my #3, that was the motive, knowing and witnessing her style. Its still All about Daniele in her mind.
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Archiecat
Member
08-16-2006
| Wednesday, September 12, 2007 - 2:59 pm
Loppes, You got her pegged, I think. You know her grandmother has modeled that "mother hen" behavior enough so she knows how. It probably is not her fault that she learned to whine and fuss to get her way early and it worked. And, out in the real world she is so beautiful that people react to that. Complex young woman!
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Damick6
Member
07-01-2005
| Wednesday, September 12, 2007 - 2:59 pm
There is one more reason Dani may have made Zach a grilled cheese sandwich and soup. Perhaps, the diary room or the doctor told she do it, in order to treat their hypothermia. I was wondering the same thing.
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Nyheat
Member
08-09-2006
| Wednesday, September 12, 2007 - 3:22 pm
Well it looks like that's over. Back to curt one-word answers when Zach speaks to Dani.
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Slinkydog
Member
11-30-2005
| Wednesday, September 12, 2007 - 3:28 pm
Yep, the temporary lapse into civility is over.
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Judyg8or
Member
08-07-2007
| Wednesday, September 12, 2007 - 3:45 pm
Thanks Sunshyne 
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