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Lainee
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07-19-2005

Friday, July 27, 2007 - 2:16 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Lainee a private message Print Post    
LOL Sanfranjoshfan...I think it is supposed to slang for HOT!

Sanfranjoshfan
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09-17-2000

Friday, July 27, 2007 - 2:19 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Sanfranjoshfan a private message Print Post    
LOL Okay...

Seamonkey
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09-07-2000

Friday, July 27, 2007 - 2:39 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Seamonkey a private message Print Post    
Unless Nick moved to So Cal, there is also a distance problem.

Optimystic
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07-08-2005

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I'd pick Kris in a heartbeat. I know that Dani is stuck in a surreal situation, and probably just needs the kind of comfort she's been getting from Nick, but c'mon....the guy is SO playing her. I think she's beginning to realize it, too, and realize just what she may be losing back at home.

Sharinia
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09-07-2002

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lol... I don't see how I could tell by looking at Nick and Kris who is the better catch.

Kris fits more of a 'nice guy image' but I think it's unfair to judge on looks alone. Nick actually has a nice way of speaking I think (although I think someone mentioned him being a hothead or something - not sure, as I don't have the feeds).

Kris has shown more consideration for Danielle's feelings, but of course they have a history and he loves her. He seems like a great, supportive partner.

Nick's disregard for Danielle's relationship is a turn off to me - whether it is 'game play' or whatever - I don't like his ethics.

But I think he is very good looking. I'd take him over Brad Pitt, myself...

Sanfranjoshfan
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09-17-2000

Friday, July 27, 2007 - 3:22 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Sanfranjoshfan a private message Print Post    
After BB, Nick and Dani will eventually get involved in some "reality show stars" special or competition or something, they will meet a lot of other ex-reality show stars and Nick will wind up bedding Trishelle and that will be that. Danielle will be back in the arms her boyfriend.

Kimsue
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07-08-2005

Friday, July 27, 2007 - 3:37 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Kimsue a private message Print Post    
Kris was being a gentleman on TV. Regardless of how he felt he would never put down Danielle. He loves her and if the relationship is on the "outs" That is for a private conversation.

I agree with whom ever it was above, that said he looked like he was about to cry the whole time. I can't be easy. I feel bad for him.

I don't know if I would have left a perfectly normal, seemingly nice fella for a chance on a TV show that may or may not result in winning a bunch of money but would definitely result in straining our relationship. Good relationships are hard to come by and much to precious.

Jimmer
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08-30-2000

Friday, July 27, 2007 - 3:51 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Jimmer a private message Print Post    
Nick has a nice way of speaking? I don't know that you would feel the same way if you had the feeds.

Sharinia
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09-07-2002

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Nick has a nice way of speaking? I don't know that you would feel the same way if you had the feeds.

uh oh... that bad?? I thought he sounded rather unpretentious on the show. When he told Danielle that he didn't want to be aligned with Zach and Mike and didn't trust them, I took that positively - like he didn't want to be in some jerky frat boy alliance.

who is Trishelle?

Sanfranjoshfan
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09-17-2000

Friday, July 27, 2007 - 4:31 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Sanfranjoshfan a private message Print Post    
Sharina, Trishelle was the girl on Real World Las Vegas who slept with one of her roomies. She's also been linked with several other reality show stars and even had a romance with Johnny Fairplay from Survivor. Apparently she gets around.

Sharinia
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09-07-2002

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Thanks SanFran - not one of my shows :-) Fairplay?? ewww.

Bblover262
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08-05-2005

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Add me to the bunch of people who got married young and it is still lasting. I got married when I was 20 and I am no 43 and am still happily married. I wouldn't change anything for the world. I think when you meet the right person you know it and it doesn't matter how old you are 15 or 50, when it is right, it is right.

Tobor7
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07-19-2002

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It is nice to see so many who have found a long-lasting relationship.

I have many thoughts about this, but I suppose I have to ask now...

Is there anyone who DIDN'T marry their childhood sweetheart or passed up on an early love in their late teens that now looks back and says that it was a mistake?

In the early years you have little life experience, little self-knowledge and very little experience with love and relationships outside of family. When you are that young what do you have to compare it to? And all those important growth years in the 20s and early 30s... how do you know that you will be the same person? Won't you change? Won't you grow? Won't the other person grow or change? (For better or worse?)

Any thoughts?

Ohiomobprincess
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11-07-2003

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After BB, Nick and Dani will eventually get involved in some "reality show stars" special or competition or something, they will meet a lot of other ex-reality show stars and Nick will wind up bedding Trishelle and that will be that. Danielle will be back in the arms her boyfriend.

You are SO right! Everyone always ends up with Trishelle, I just hope Nick doesn't.

Scotchbright
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10-05-2006

Friday, July 27, 2007 - 7:56 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Scotchbright a private message Print Post    

quote:

Where are house guests journals found?




Gonzilly: I don't know where ALL the houseguests journals/blogs are - or if they all have one - but Danielle's can found here

Here in TVCH, there's a page for houseguests bios and fanmail - there are sometimes links among those threads to their personal pages. Here's the link.

Dolphinschild
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06-22-2006

Friday, July 27, 2007 - 8:12 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Dolphinschild a private message Print Post    
The few people I knew who married their high school sweethearts are all divorced now and have moved on to other relationships. Some waited and dated and some instantly hooked up with the first person that came along.

AS for me, I am going to be 45 in a few weeks and I am still not married or dating. (I was married before, once in early 20's and once in early 30's.) I thought I found mister right4 years ago, but mister right had other idea's. The one person I dated in high school and I had wondered all these years what if? He found me after all these years and wondered what if and I realized the best thing he ever did was leave when he did back then.

Tobor7
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07-19-2002

Friday, July 27, 2007 - 8:31 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Tobor7 a private message Print Post    
Thanks for that story Dolphin.

I was able to stay single into my 40s.

I don't know what ever happened to my teen love interest, but I know this. I was much better off for having NOT married her. Of course NOT marrying her had much to do with my parent's influence, even though I was SURE she was my soul mate. Maybe I was just deluded by the fact that it was the first girl I ever had sex with. Funny how you confuse sex with other things at that young age.

Now older and smarter and different than the young man I was at 20 - I have to thank my parents from saving me from a life of quite desperation.

Dolphinschild
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06-22-2006

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your welcome Tobor7. Thanks for shraring your story.

Bblover262
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08-05-2005

Saturday, July 28, 2007 - 11:33 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Bblover262 a private message Print Post    
Tobor7, to answer your question, I did not marry my high school sweet heart. I had many boyfriends in high school, but I met my future husband when I was in college at the age of 18. We knew we were meant for each other and were married two years later and we are still happily married 23 years later. I have no regrets whatsoever and I believe my husband and I have grown and matured together.

Merrysea
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Tobor, I got married at 20 after dating him for 2 years, stayed married until I was 43, and now I'm happily divorced!

2addicted
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07-17-2006

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Got married at 19 to my best (and hottest :-) )friend and we've been having a gas together for over 30 years. Created 2 sons, 1 business and a pretty awesome life together.

Some people find their true loves early. Who knows?? Love is mysterious (see WillandJanelle)
In my idealistic fantasy we all have a soulmate out there.

It's impossible to judge relationships accurately as we observe them on TV (see last year :-(

Smartypants
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03-09-2007

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Will and Janelle?

Sharinia
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09-07-2002

Saturday, July 28, 2007 - 8:35 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Sharinia a private message Print Post    
Bblover, everything you say resonates with me :-)

There is a lot to be said for getting married young and growing and maturing together. Not to suggest that everyone is ready then - there is no 'right age' to marry imho. I got hitched at 21, but if I hadn't met my husband, who knows, I might still be single. It felt like a winning lottery ticket was dropped into my lap. We are just obviously, sickeningly compatible.

I've never understood either the idea that getting married young was life limiting. I felt more motivated than ever to take on the world, and had the support of a loving partner. I worked hard to earn a scholarship to law school so I wouldn't have to bring debt into our marriage. I think my hubby felt extra motivated to do well in his career.

We both have had very full social lives. Being married hasn't stopped us from separate nights out drinking with our friends, close friendships with the opposite sex, etc. We believe that getting married young was advantageous because our 'boundaries' were shaped by the relaxed, easygoing mindset of college.

It's also helpful I think to not have a lot of baggage.

We have been married for 13 years and still don't have kids (although hopefully that will change before our 20th)

Sunshyne4u
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06-17-2003

Saturday, July 28, 2007 - 11:33 pm   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Sunshyne4u a private message Print Post    
High school sweetheart eh?

Well, there were only about ten people in my grade from my area in school and only two were guys.

The couples I knew in school still are together. mind you, a few were young girls with older guys in their twenties.

Slim pickens for people in small towns.

I was also raised with intellect. The idea of being stuck with a beerdrinking barely educated guy is HELL!!

and around here that is what the choice is. Except at my age they often are addicts as well.
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now I never saw anyone answer Jimmer's post.


11:04 am
If I was a girl and if I was Daniele (yes ….. rather big "ifs") from what I've seen on the show and feeds, it would take me all of a millisecond to figure out that Kris is a vastly better choice than Nick. I find it a bit astonishing that it is even close.

I'd be interested in hearing what more people here think?



if I were a girl, LOL, instead of a woman.

Nope the answer is still the same. The exciting athlete with a body that is stunning...who travels the world and does all kinds of fun activities. Has tons of potential for making $$$ in his field if he chooses OR a kinda average pudgy guy who has to move back in with mommy because he cant make a decent wage due to his career choice.

man oh man. my decision would be clear.

Guilt would bug me though.

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