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Shenanagon
Member
07-28-2009
| Thursday, July 21, 2011 - 12:58 pm
I think he may have a boyfriend back home as opposed to the girlfriend he's told the houseguests he has. Dom's been one of the girl's from the beginning of the show. He reminds me alot of a very good friend of mine that is handsome and macho looking on the outside but more girl in his heart than I am. Am I imagining things? My friend that I watch the show with thinks he might be out of the closet but not ready to put that on tv. Nothing against holding off until you meet the right person I'm all for that but I would think by his age he'd no longer be a virgin. I wonder if the virgin story is to excuse why he doesn't come on to the other girls.
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Redpen
Member
07-24-2003
| Thursday, July 21, 2011 - 1:00 pm
Yep. He set off my gaydar since day one.
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Sunshyne4u
Member
06-16-2003
| Thursday, July 21, 2011 - 1:28 pm
its very possible he has done stuff but is still a virgin but we all saw how Clingey his mom is and how Dom still lives at home. either way, my gaydar must be broken. I think dom's Cassi crush is pretty obvious
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Angelrsg
Member
08-08-2005
| Thursday, July 21, 2011 - 1:30 pm
There is young man at my job that is in his 20's and still a virgin. He loves girls and was in a long distance relationship for a while. He is just waiting for the right person. My husband and I were together for 4 years before we "went all the way". At the time we were both in our twenties and both virgins. Not all men that wait are gay, and not all gays wait. There is nothing wrong with waiting regardless of being hetero or homosexual. And if he is gay, another cute guy batting for the other team, nothing wrong with that.
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Shenanagon
Member
07-28-2009
| Thursday, July 21, 2011 - 1:34 pm
I wasn't saying he was waiting because he's gay. Alot of christian teenagers wait. I waited but not until 25. I think he may be saying he's a virgin to excuse why he doesn't make moves on the girls in the house. This is all theory I could be wrong but it's just a hunch.
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Chippy
Member
08-16-2007
| Thursday, July 21, 2011 - 1:37 pm
Yikes, why suppose someone's sexuality or virginity? Makes me no nevermind. He seems to fit the metrosexual definition at a glance but whatever. Last night he was going on about his baby-making playlist (ipod songs to get in the sex mood or some such) which made me think he's trying to hard to prove he's a player. Of course, it didn't help when Kalia took that ball and ran from east to west coast with it...
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Shenanagon
Member
07-28-2009
| Thursday, July 21, 2011 - 1:39 pm
I read somewhere that he is supposedly a virgin I don't recall him talking about it. Anyone? Well I like to get to know them. It's the fun part of the show for me. I like Dom very much. He's very polite and sweet, too good to be hetero all my sweet male friends are gay so call it a Girlfriend sense.
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Sunshyne4u
Member
06-16-2003
| Thursday, July 21, 2011 - 1:41 pm
define moves.. I think being in bed, cuddling in Hammock etc as Making MOves. Offering massages, playing with Hair Definitely making moves. So i'm not sure what I'm watching, guess its not Dom.
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Shenanagon
Member
07-28-2009
| Thursday, July 21, 2011 - 1:42 pm
I do that with my guy friends!! Yes you're watching Dom just getting a different impression than mine is all. It happens;)
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Chippy
Member
08-16-2007
| Thursday, July 21, 2011 - 1:45 pm
I'm watching the same guy, Sunshyne. lol I think his momma did raise him well though.
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Stopthemadness
Member
07-15-2005
| Thursday, July 21, 2011 - 1:46 pm
He pings my gaydar.
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Shenanagon
Member
07-28-2009
| Thursday, July 21, 2011 - 1:50 pm
IF you and Sun are right Chippy ITA Dom's mom sure raised him right. It would definitely not make me unhappy to be wrong.
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Pippin04
Member
10-26-2007
| Thursday, July 21, 2011 - 1:56 pm
If he is my gaydar is really off.
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Chippy
Member
08-16-2007
| Thursday, July 21, 2011 - 1:56 pm
To be clear, I was talking about him being polite and respectful... not gay. His mom raised him right no matter his sexuality.
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Shenanagon
Member
07-28-2009
| Thursday, July 21, 2011 - 2:00 pm
Okay now I have to ask. What do you think Chippy?
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Nala63
Member
09-20-2005
| Thursday, July 21, 2011 - 3:08 pm
WOW, if a fella is kind, respectful of women ect..he goes on a gaydar list???
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Shenanagon
Member
07-28-2009
| Thursday, July 21, 2011 - 3:15 pm
Not at all.
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Lillian
Member
07-29-2009
| Thursday, July 21, 2011 - 3:41 pm
That he says he's a virgin at 24 makes me wonder. Again, nothing wrong with that, but it is unusual. He also seems to go overboard in his sexual innuendo, like he's trying to prove something. And he's going for the prettiest girls in the house. I knew several young men who until they were ready to come out spent a lot of time mooning over the most obviously pretty girls.
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Shenanagon
Member
07-28-2009
| Thursday, July 21, 2011 - 3:43 pm
I couldn't, and obviously didn't, say it better. He also seems to go overboard in his sexual innuendo, like he's trying to prove something. And he's going for the prettiest girls in the house. I knew several young men who until they were ready to come out spent a lot of time mooning over the most obviously pretty girls.
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Lainee
Member
07-19-2005
| Thursday, July 21, 2011 - 3:48 pm
I can't remember just when, either on the one of the TV shows or in the screen caps thread, nor can I remember the circumstances, but I remember at the time thinking that reminded me of one of my gay buddies many years ago. Something just clicked...does not mean anything except that maybe he is showing his effeminate side. 
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Shenanagon
Member
07-28-2009
| Thursday, July 21, 2011 - 3:50 pm
It's the overboard stuff. It's phony and Dom's not a good liar.
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Marksman
Member
05-04-2007
| Thursday, July 21, 2011 - 8:39 pm
I get a pretty strong feeling he is into both Cassie and especially now Danielle. Without that I could see a case being made, but the feelings he has for Danielle now are pretty clear and are not fake. It is much more than a friendship vibe. By the way what is up with Lawon. He makes everyone think he is gay, all the girls treat him like he is gay and then he keeps telling them all he is bisexual and they just seem to ignore it. I am afraid one of this girls are going to be surprised at some point.
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Puzzled
Member
08-27-2001
| Thursday, July 21, 2011 - 8:41 pm
I don't care if he's gay or straight, he's mighty fine eye candy, and seems like a nice guy.
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Chippy
Member
08-16-2007
| Thursday, July 21, 2011 - 9:36 pm
I'm not sure if there's an increase in the virgin population at his age or an increase in the sharing of that information, but it seems more common to me than ever before... that said, the only sex related agenda I care about is my own. lol Dom seems like a decent and genuine kid when he's conversing with the others... and the only one I can find a reason to root for in that gawd forsaken house. I don't care who's straight or who's not... I just wish something would happen to liven it up in there. I have a better chance at winning the lottery than seeing that wish come true this week.
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Juju2bigdog
Member
10-27-2000
| Thursday, July 21, 2011 - 10:47 pm
Am I the only one who caught on tonight's show the byplay between Danielle and Dom when they were going through a door together? And she said something like, "winners first," and he replied "ladies first," and she replied "that's you?" And he kind of deflected. I took that to mean he is gay, and she knows it, and he knows she knows. Not sure why the producers showed it.
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