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Chere
Member
08-10-2005
| Sunday, September 20, 2009 - 11:04 am
Well, not too many people thought they would date once the show ended so they have proved the doubters wrong, at least for now. I hope they enjoy each other and I wish them the best. Most of all I am happy for our resident optimist Mary, who called this months ago when everyone called her crazy. You go, Mary! Anyhow, here's one of my favorite pics of Jeff and Jordan since being out of the house. They look so Hollywood here. http://i33.tinypic.com/e0oaxt.jpg
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Nic017
Member
08-02-2009
| Sunday, September 20, 2009 - 11:31 am
So admittedly, I have been on the Jeff/Jordan train from the beginning and I'm definitely in the camp that would love to see their relationship grow into lasting love--I'm a romatic, but also a realist. I've never put much faith in a future for any of the showmances that developed on reality shows, primarily because of the circumstances in which the relationship developed (reality show vs. real world). That said, I honestly think Jeff and Jordan have a good shot at making their relationship work--what is so different about them is, despite the circumstances of their meeting and developing a friendship, who they were in the house is who they are outside of the house--that's obvious. The Jeff that Jordan got to know and the Jordan that Jeff got to know in the house is really who they are--the feelings they developed for each other are real and have obviously only grown stronger as they've been outside the house. In every interview since the finale, I've seen nothing but honesty and genuineness when they talk about each other and the future. Distance is their biggest issue at this point, and that is fairly easily worked out, depending on how willing they are to sacrifice for each other...which no one really knows except the two of them! Jeff has repeatedly said that his feelings are real and he'd like this relationship to move forward. Now that Jordan is also stating that, they're obviously on the same page--I'm sure they're both well aware that to make a relationship work, they're going to have to address the distance issue. On the other hand, they obviously have a ton of support from their family and friends--that is huge when it comes to the success of a relationship. They care about each other on a deeper level than physical attraction, which is why I believe that even when they return home and are bombarded by all kinds of attention from other guys/girls, it's not going to change the way they feel toward each other. When they go to their respective hometowns, I'm sure they will both be approached by starstruck fans who imagine themselves as "the perfect fit" for Jeff or Jordan--but from what I can tell about their characters, neither one of them would be willing to cast aside something real for the attention thrown at them by rabid fangirls or fanboys...I can actually imagine that prospect being more overwhelming than exciting to them. So I guess although no one really knows what the future holds for Jeff and Jordan, at this point I'd say they have A LOT more going for them than against them. If they both want it to work out, they'll find a way to make it work out. That's just how real love works. I hope that they do make it...their relationship has made so many people around the country feel so good...I think it's because there's so obviously a connection between the two that is so rare to find. If they realize that, I can't imagine either of them throwing that away. JMO of course...
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Chere
Member
08-10-2005
| Sunday, September 20, 2009 - 11:31 am
I read the following excerpt on another BB board by a poster by the name of DaveG who had this to say about Jeff and Jordan. I work rather deeply inside the reality community and know of very few people who make the personal impression which Jeff and Jordon do either separately or together. In many respects they remind me of the private Trista and Ryan, Rob and Amber, Vadim and Natalie, and Will and Erin. Genuine, fun and with great chemistry. The difference, for me, is that neither Jeff nor Jordan exhibit the usual and expected ego about their appearance on a TV show. They are just very grateful to have had the opportunity and overwhelmed by the public affection. One thing that really stood out for me was seeing Jeff frequently leaving the leaving the gaggle of beautiful people surrounding him to go introduce himself to a "wall flower" standing to the side whom others ignored. That spoke volumes to me about his character. This is just one man's opinion, but it's nice to read how humble Jeff and Jordan have been since they have been out of the BB house.
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Zaanah
Member
08-29-2009
| Sunday, September 20, 2009 - 11:54 am
Mary....I have only posted a few times but I so enjoy your enthusiasm and optimism. I am on the same train you are, waving flags and floating balloons. They are delightful and I hope they will go for it, all the way!! Thanks for what you post here, luv it.
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Mnnice
Member
08-01-2009
| Sunday, September 20, 2009 - 12:17 pm
I hope it works; the more I see and read, leads me to believe they have a better shot than anyone who has done it in the past. One thing I noted last night in the chat w/James, when he asked Jordan how she would spend her money, she said that she was going to buy her mom and brother a home. She's changed it up a little and no longer includes herself in there, so maybe she is loosening the ties to mom a little - enjoying this new found grown up feeling. (More than likely, she's answered the same question so many times, that she's not giving a complete answer anymore - figures we've already heard it.)
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Happymom
Member
01-20-2003
| Sunday, September 20, 2009 - 12:18 pm
Once thing that really stood out for me was when an interviewer said something to Jeff about a showmance and he said he didn't even know he was having a showmance. 
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Mary1971
Member
07-28-2009
| Sunday, September 20, 2009 - 12:47 pm
Chere, Nic and Zanaah-Thank you!!!!!!!! I have known all along that Jeff & Jordan had something real that was indescribable. I am a true Romantic at heart and love Reality show Romance. I realize most of them don't work out but isn't that the same in the real world too?? i saw something different in Jeff & Jordan from the very beginning. I saw a true friendship develop with true honesty and respect for each other. They bonded and helped each other true tough times and stayed true to each other. They showed a true caring for each others feelings and affection. They both had a twinkle in their eyes when looking at each other which is rare to find. For me true love has eluded me and when I see it I feel those two people need to grab it and don't let go. I think if we all support them and send them good vibes it will help. Maybe just maybe it will work out. If its meant to be and so far it is then nothing will stop it. I for one am smiling from ear to ear for them and believe they will be the exception. Here's to a long life of love Jeff & Jordan. I for one will not give up hope. 
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Lexie_girl
Member
07-30-2004
| Sunday, September 20, 2009 - 12:48 pm
Chere, I never said they wouldn't date after the show. I said they wouldn't make it very long after the show ended - especially after they both go home. A month or so... TOPS.
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Mary1971
Member
07-28-2009
| Sunday, September 20, 2009 - 1:03 pm
OK <100> I am going out on a limb: I think Jeff & Jordan will get married & have kids! There you go! They will date & miss each other so much when they are apart that one will move to be with the other (I think Jeff will move) then I predict they may both move to LA because I think they will be offered a deal to either be on a reality show like The Amazing Race or to star in their own reality dating show like Nick & Jessica did. Remember when Jeff said he would marry Jessica Simpson! If Jordan isn't a Jessica Simpson I don't know who is! Then I think their love will last & they will get married. OK, you heard it here first! And correction:Lexie_girl-95% of the people here thought Jeff & Jordan were just good friends and wouldn't date at all and they were wrong. I knew it all along!!
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Zaanah
Member
08-29-2009
| Sunday, September 20, 2009 - 1:16 pm
OMG Mary....I felt the same way! I thought initially I was just a soppy romantic and maybe reading more into it but then I said, heck no, they have IT. I too saw that twinkle, especially in Jeffs eyes first. I will go out on that limb with you, so move over, lol.
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Chere
Member
08-10-2005
| Sunday, September 20, 2009 - 1:21 pm
Bless your heart Mary. Let's not jinx them with such high expectations. I wish them the best, but I would be so disappointed if they went down that road as former reality stars trying to extend their 15 minutes. I don't really get that vibe from either of them which is why I like them individually and together. I remember once a hg mentioned to Jeff that BB alums clean up selling their stuff on eBay and Jeff's response was dismissive as he thought he'd look like an idiot for doing something like that. Jeff's response left a huge impression on me about where his head is at as far as being on reality TV. Jordan also said in a post-show interview that once all the excitement settles she wants to go to school to be a dental hygienist and have a normal life. I hope Jeff and Jordan keep that humbleness about them and the excitement of being the stars of the weekend in Vegas doesn't go to their heads. Actually, I hope we don't hear from them again for a while after their Real Player chat on Thursday. I hope they have a good relationship and maybe the best way for it to happen is to stay out of the spotlight. At least that's my opinion.
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Kmjm
Member
05-18-2002
| Sunday, September 20, 2009 - 1:54 pm
Nice post, Nic! I'm happy to see them together but I agree with Chere that we need to leave them to get on with their lives. I love the news but expect it to die down after the Real chat on Thursday. I sincerely hope they don't get a reality tv show- I think that would be too hard on their relationship. I especially hope that they don't start twittering! They'll be swamped!
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Mary1971
Member
07-28-2009
| Sunday, September 20, 2009 - 2:40 pm
Zaanah-Yeah, I am not the only sappy Romantic! I am sending them positive vibes!!
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Lexie_girl
Member
07-30-2004
| Sunday, September 20, 2009 - 2:40 pm
Mary, comparing Jordan to Jessica Simpson is NOT exactly a compliment. My houseplants are smarter than Jessica Simpson.
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Mary1971
Member
07-28-2009
| Sunday, September 20, 2009 - 2:47 pm
Lexie-Well, maybe BUT Jeff did say he loved Jessica Simpson and would marry her. I do think Jessica & Jordan have similarities for sure.
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Nick
Member
07-31-2004
| Sunday, September 20, 2009 - 2:56 pm
i liked how jordan put it.. they were having a bff-mance.. not a showmance.. also, i like how jeff gives jordan space outside the house.. he's with her but not all over her.. it shows he has respect for her.. just like he did in the house when she would say no..
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Nic017
Member
08-02-2009
| Sunday, September 20, 2009 - 3:14 pm
Kmjm, Mary--Thank you...I didn't realize how long it got! I just feel bad when I see comments that come right out and say "No way it'll work. They just gotta get back to their respective lives." I think that disregards so much of what has happened between them (some of which was likely more intense because of the circumstances) but to minimize the genuine feelings they've developed for each other and essentially say that once they're not within each other's eyesight those feelings will disappear...well, who is anyone to say that? Other than Jeff and Jordan, who are really the only people who know for fact how they feel and where they'd like this relationship to go. Jordan seemed so excited yesterday about how much support was out there for her and Jeff...I think it's better for them to see people wishing them well and giving them encouragement, rather than being snarky or skeptical and saying no way is this going anywhere. I'd love to see an update every now and then on what's going on with the two of them, but definitely don't think the public needs to know their every move from this point on! I hope they get their privacy and let their own hearts guide their relationship. BUT, if they did decide to do another reality show because they genuinely wanted to, I'm sure I'd watch! 
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Mary1971
Member
07-28-2009
| Sunday, September 20, 2009 - 3:45 pm
Nic017-I agree 100%!!! That's what I have been trying to say all along. Why wouldn't it work out for them? I think it helps them if we remain positive and assume it will work out instead of just automatically assuming it won't. Who are we to say? Although I would love regular updates on them I know that's not realistic or fair. Every once in awhile though I would love to hear how they are. If they choose to do a reality show I will be on board to watch of course! But it's their choice. I see a real genuine connection with them and it makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside. They captured my heart and I am thankful for that. 
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Lurknomore
Member
07-07-2001
| Sunday, September 20, 2009 - 4:36 pm
Know my biggest concern for them? That fans may rob them of any real shot of happiness. I think one thing that really can destroy any couple is when unreal expectations are put on them. Granted this is all new, but I think if they were asked about Hawaii one more time, Jeff was going to say no just to shut everyone up. Let's not forget how he gets when he runs out of patience! For their sake, I hope TRUE fans just let them be. I saw a twitter account someone posted a link to...wish I saved it...where some die hard fan was contacting ALL the HG asking about J/J. I couldn't believe my eyes. I just pray none of those folks showed it to J/J! First I can see Jordan getting scared instead of how open she was to all of us last night..and shutting down. I can see Jeff being eventually pushed to say "I'm sick of this microscope." Anyone just one example to make my point. I adore them, and I so hope they get a shot. And I think for it to be a real one we all need to step back and let em just BE and figure it out themselves. And for once I agree with James Rhine (who wouldda thought lol). What THEY choose to share with us, I'll look forward to hearing. The rest is none of our business and we should remember that, or we may be the undoing of J/J!!!! How sad would that be?
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Mary1971
Member
07-28-2009
| Sunday, September 20, 2009 - 4:43 pm
Lurk-That Twitter account was mine! Marygracie. It was totally blown out of porportion! I tweeted I think 4 HG's saying "Hey, do you think J/J will date in real life" That's it. I certainly don't consider that weird by any stretch. I thought it was weird that PhilipPhoto was tweeting that J/J were in the room next to his & he heard Jordan's noises! I thought that was creepy but noone else seemed to. I am J/J's biggest fan and only want them to be happy together. The fan attention will die down after the next week or so & J/J realize that and actually I think they will miss it. They seemed thrilled with ALL of the fan attention last night and not scared of it or annoyed by any means. I honestly don't think either will shy away from the microscope on the contrary I think they will seek it out. I am pulling for them!!
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Chere
Member
08-10-2005
| Sunday, September 20, 2009 - 4:54 pm
Lurk, I hope J/J do not set up Twitter accounts and keep their Facebook private to friends and family only. Even though I love to look at pictures, it drives me crazy to know how some fans steal personal pics from private FB accounts. I hated to see pics of Jordan and her mom in their hotel room on several BB boards after her brother posted them on FB, which I believe is private. I'm sure Jordan's brother had no idea those photos would be swiped and posted on various message boards when he uploaded them. It's sad how some fans don't respect basic common sense privacy.
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Mary1971
Member
07-28-2009
| Sunday, September 20, 2009 - 5:20 pm
Chere- I agree but I think J/J will be fine. They are all grown up and can handle themselves. We should give them more credit.
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Lexie_girl
Member
07-30-2004
| Sunday, September 20, 2009 - 5:29 pm
If they choose to do a reality show I will be on board to watch of course! Not me. I like for my reality show contestants to have the ability to tell time.
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Flamingo
Member
08-19-2003
| Sunday, September 20, 2009 - 5:29 pm
credit they don't need. privacy and respect is what they need.
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Mary1971
Member
07-28-2009
| Sunday, September 20, 2009 - 5:36 pm
Flamingo- I mean give them credit to handle it and stand up for themselves. If you sign up for a reality show where you have cameras on you 24/7 you should expect some of your privacy to be stripped away for awhile. It will settle down & they realize it. They are more mature than we are about it. The attention they are getting is ONLY from people interested in seeing them be happy together. I for one would be flattered by such as attention as I believe they are. 
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