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Mary1971
Member
07-28-2009
| Monday, September 14, 2009 - 6:00 am
I am a true Romantic at heart so take this with a grain of salt BUT I totally think they will date in real life and I hope it lasts. I see them as different as other "Showmances" I have seen. They developed a real friendship first before getting Romantic at all. They formed one of the strongest and truest "Alliances" I have ever seen on BB. They always stuck up for each other no matter what. They seemed to have genuine feelings for each other & both decided to wait until they talked about their true feelings until out in the real world which shows maturity. I honestly think they will explore a relationship outside of the BB house and I wish them the best! How about you? Do you think they will date? Do you think their feelings are real? If you think they will date do you think it will last? If you don't think they will even try to date then, why? I for one am pulling for my favorite BB couple. They touched my heart and made my Summer and then some!!
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Mary1971
Member
07-28-2009
| Monday, September 14, 2009 - 6:05 am
ALSO: Does anyone know how we can keep tabs on J/J and followup to see if they actually date??
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Kaykohl
Member
05-10-2004
| Monday, September 14, 2009 - 6:13 am
I don't think they will because the BB house is such an artificial environment. However, they very well may make it outside of the BB house.
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Tntitanfan
Member
08-03-2001
| Monday, September 14, 2009 - 6:25 am
I posted somewhere else that I don't see them making a couple outside of the BB house. I LOVE JORDAN, but she is not bright nor sophisticated enough to live in Jeff's world - if she even WANTED to. I suspect Jeff was attracted to her not least because she didn't go gaga over him as doubtless happens in his RL. I think their friendship was very real, and I applaud how they supported one another in the house!
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Biscottiii
Member
05-29-2004
| Monday, September 14, 2009 - 6:53 am
Who knows. Kind of like in some Harlequin novel, they were stuck in a tiny space given the BB house. But once they exit the BB house the World is BOTH of their oysters. Sure, they will probably go do all the gigs & dating, probably Hawaii trip. But there's such a disparity in age, life styles, distance in home/family, life experience (she wants to be a squirrel while he wants to be an eagle). He seemed careful to not overstep the bounds like pushing for romance/sex, just like he would have respect for a kid sister. Kudos to Jeff, you're a BIG man seriously for not taking advantage & Kudos to you Jordan for standing firm on your own values! I know many people have a need to see Jeff & Jordan doing the romance forever thing, much as folks did with Dr. Will & Janelle. But I DO predict that Jeff & Jordan will stay BFF for a long time.
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Mary1971
Member
07-28-2009
| Monday, September 14, 2009 - 7:04 am
Well, I am a Romantic and I saw something special in them. I haven't seen it elsewhere. Yes, there are differences BUT in alot of ways they are similiar. Jeff is really not the brightest bulb and kind of immature for his age. I actually think they compliment each other well and I don't think age matters nor will distance if Jordan wins some $ tomorrow!! I also think a relationship is much more likely between the two and not just a friendship. I saw alot of attraction between the two and I can't see them lasting long as "just friends" and hearing them dating other people would just cause jealousy. I actually can't see a friendship lasting. I think if they date and actually become intimate they will stay together because the intimacy will seal it. If not I feel they will drift apart. I know that's different from everyones views but it's what I honestly think. I can actually see them getting married & having kids (like both of their moms think)
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Konamouse
Member
07-16-2001
| Monday, September 14, 2009 - 7:28 am
I'm a realist. I do not think they will date beyond what is good for "TV". There will not be a "happily ever after" for this couple. Sorry, just calling what I see. Remember Jessica and Eric? They *did* continue dating for a time after their season. Much different body language with those two.

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Mary1971
Member
07-28-2009
| Monday, September 14, 2009 - 7:31 am
Kona-I didn't see Jessica & Eric. How their body language different? Good or bad different? Well, I am still holding out hope. 
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Bonbonlover
Member
07-13-2000
| Monday, September 14, 2009 - 7:41 am
I think both Jordan and Jeff are adorable and well-suited for each other. However, I think Jordan is still a bit too immature for the kind of commitment that a long distance relationship requires. Kona, I would agree that Jess and Eric had different body language. Similar to Jordan, Jess did not want to display a relationship for the camera... but her body language made her affection towards him undeniable. Jordan was snuggly with Jeff when laying down... but she seemed to pull away from him quite a bit.
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Mary1971
Member
07-28-2009
| Monday, September 14, 2009 - 7:53 am
Bobon-I actually think it was because of the cameras for Jordan. Did you notice the last week Jeff was there Jordan was much more affectionate to Jeff and kissed him every night under the covers? I think both of their mom's were right that Jeff & Jordan both were hurt in previous relationships and were hesitant to trust and admit feelings especially on TV and I don't blame them. I think they both had realized they had real feelings and the end BUT unsure how the other truly felt and are afraid to take a chance on TV and be rejected. I honestly think IF Jordan makes the F2 and especially if she gets the $500,000 it will give her the freedom to travel and Jeff the extra incentive to pursue a relationship! NOT that Jeff doesn't have feelings but it will push him. Plus when they both see how hugely popular they were to America and to their families they will have even more incentive. I honestly don't know why people think they won't even try dating?? I mean maybe its me BUT a true friendship/attraction doesn't come along every day. Its like Gold and should be treated as such and not tossed aside!
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Carmil
Member
07-17-2005
| Monday, September 14, 2009 - 8:01 am
I think J/J will give it a go after the show is over. They may even make it to Hawaii together. But in the long run, I don't think they'll make it. Jordan is way too tied to her family and I don't see Jeff ever moving to NC. But I do believe they will remain lifelong friends. I think their feelings for each other on the show were very real and went way beyond just a "showmance". I actually think that Jordan will end up being way more into Jeff than she realizes, once she sees how popular he has become. Jeff will have women lined up from across the country waiting to have a chance with him. Not only that, but I think he's going to go all out on his acting career and end up living in CA. Jordan will be home in NC with her mom... text messaging Jeff daily. JMO... I really do love these two together. But need to be realistic.
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Idolworship
Member
05-07-2003
| Monday, September 14, 2009 - 8:04 am
It would be great, but I can think of at least two problems: 1. Geography 2. Jordan's mom has a really bad attitude, toward guys, and she's filled Jordan's head with lots of negative, stereotypical thoughts. Some man will have to peel off the layers, slowly, for Jordan to enjoy any sort of intimate relationship. Sadly, Jeff doesn't seem to have that kind of patience. They really are cute, together, and I wish them the very best.
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Mary1971
Member
07-28-2009
| Monday, September 14, 2009 - 8:10 am
Idol-Actually I think Jeff showed alot of patience with Jordan and did break down her walls. I think she's really into him now. Plus both of their families said on TV that they liked them together so I think their families will support them if not push them to try dating! Carmil-I do agree Jordan is actually more into Jeff now than he is into her. BUT I really think if Jordan wins the $500,000 and I think she will and she gets the spotlight Jeff will be much more interested in pursuing a relationship! Its just human nature. I know I would be much more interested if I guy I already had feelings for got $500,000. Now that's realism! LOL
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Carry09
Member
08-04-2009
| Monday, September 14, 2009 - 8:18 am
good morning! i think what j/j had was very cute and adorable at times and as much as i had fun listening to there bedtime antics i think that they will be close friends. like mary said, if jordan wins then you will see jeff right there with her...lol. i don't want them to feel pressured because of how popular they were to try and date if its not meant to be. but i wish them the best whatever they decide to do.
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Lillian
Member
07-29-2009
| Monday, September 14, 2009 - 8:27 am
My guess is that once outside BB, as some have noted, there will be women - not just girls - lining up to throw themselves at Jeff. After the initial fun of it, whether he's in LA or Chicago, he'll be able to settle into a relationship that really meets his needs and wants, without having to make concessions or just accept whatever comes along. I don't see Jordan fitting into that equation at all - he'll always have a fondness for her, but I'm not even sure a texting friendship will last since so much of her appeal to him was how he made her feel by being the ray of sunshine in the confines of the house. Then again, he may be so overwhelmed by female (and I bet some male) attention that he will cling to a person he thinks he can trust, if she stops pressing him for that trip to Hawaii, and if she's willing to spend some time wherever he lives. He's really in the drivers seat at this point, so she's the one who will have to put in the effort to make it work.
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Mary1971
Member
07-28-2009
| Monday, September 14, 2009 - 8:34 am
Lillian-You made alot of good points BUT noone is pointing out that Jordan will have a ton of male attention too as she was very popular! Plus IF she wins the Big money she'll get even more attention which puts her in the Drivers seat too. I think they both have trust issues and will have a hard time with men/women throwing themselves at them and hopefully will seek solace in each other whom they do trust and care for.
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Lorry
Member
08-05-2007
| Monday, September 14, 2009 - 8:39 am
First, I want to say, I love Jeff and Jordon. They made this season for me. I was going to quit at the very beginning because I hated this young cast, but the two of them drew me in. They are both very likable and respectful people. You can tell they were raised with integrity and kindness. Compared to a lot of the rest of them, I was totally impressed. Sometimes the young people of today leave a bad taste in my mouth, but I felt there is hope with these two. They had class and dignity. OK, I think that they will remain close friends probably the rest of their lives. I believe friendship means alot to them BUT as far as romance goes, I don't think it will happen. First of all, they are both in different stages of their lives. Jeff is about building a career. He even said to Julie that he wanted to check out all his options, that were given to him, before he made any decisions. He's older, travelled the world, knows some famous people,did some some local modeling and acting. I'm sure is a some what celebrity in Chicago. He's a college graduate from a big city. Jordon, on the other hand, is young and very naive, She even said that she is in a different place in her life than Jeff. She's not ready for a relationship yet. She wants to have fun yet because she is still very young.She is extremely close to her family, loves being from a small town. I could see, at times, her being so naive would get on Jeff's nerves. She doesn't fit yet to the big world outside of her home town. Maybe in the next few years, she'll mature and things will be different. So for now, I really believe the will stay friends throughout the years. Attend each others wedding, births and other important moments of each others lives. Who knows, maybe 8, 10 years down the line, they will be ready for each other, but for now, I think they are both on different paths.
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Tissy
Member
07-28-2003
| Monday, September 14, 2009 - 8:40 am
I think Jeff and Lydia will carry on after the show the same way as they are in the JH 
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Jagger
Member
08-07-2002
| Monday, September 14, 2009 - 8:40 am
Once reality of the real world hits both of them they will both go back to there lives in different parts of the USA, both want to stay near there families and jobs so neither will pack up and move to be with the other person. They will remain friends but that's it.
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Carmil
Member
07-17-2005
| Monday, September 14, 2009 - 8:44 am
Mary... I do agree Jordan will also be very popular after the show and many guys will want to date her. But if you think she has trust issues now, imagine how frail her trust will be if she wins the $500k, always wondering if they're using her for her money. I'd rather see Jeff continue his interest in Jordan ESPECIALLY if she DOESN'T win. That would show unconditional feelings that would seem much more real to me. But .... no matter what.... I still hope she wins! 
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Mizinvanccouver
Member
02-22-2003
| Monday, September 14, 2009 - 8:45 am
Tissy....Jeff and Lydia?!!!! Where did that come from?!!!
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Tissy
Member
07-28-2003
| Monday, September 14, 2009 - 8:51 am
I`ve been watching them closely - just wait and see what happened in the JH !
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Mary1971
Member
07-28-2009
| Monday, September 14, 2009 - 8:52 am
Tissy-Knock it off! LOL
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Reenie
Member
06-24-2006
| Monday, September 14, 2009 - 8:52 am
Tissy - WHAAAAT???? How can you see in the JH?
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Chere
Member
08-10-2005
| Monday, September 14, 2009 - 9:04 am
I haven't read all the responses yet, but to answer the question: No I don't think Jeff and Jordan will date in real life. The fact that they live in different states and are in two different places in their life, I just don't see it happening. I see them being good friends who shared a special summer together. In fact, I hope they put more emphasis on growing their friendship in real life more than having a bf/gf relationship.
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