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Reality TVClubHouse Discussions: Big Brother ARCHIVES: Big Brother 11 - Part 7: General Discussions: Will Jordan & Jeff date in "Real Life" and will it last??: ARCHIVES: Archive through September 14, 2009 users admin

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Mary1971
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07-28-2009

Monday, September 14, 2009 - 9:07 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mary1971 a private message Print Post    
Well, it looks like I am the only one! But I am still holding out for them to date & develop a Hot n heavy Romance! <100>

Bonbonlover
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07-13-2000

Monday, September 14, 2009 - 9:14 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Bonbonlover a private message Print Post    
Many of you are thinking that the J/J relationship will be stronger if Jordan wins the $500K. I have to disagree. While it will be nice for her financial situation I don't think it will have any bearing on their relationship... If anything hurt it. Jeff doesn't seem at all to be the kind of guy that dates a girl for her money... so if Jordan has a little or a lot is not a factor in his desire to date her. But if Jordan wins the money it may very well change her life... with her new found financial freedom she might not have time for Jeff...

But I still think Jordan acts like a high school girl with regards to dating. I don't think she is anywhere near mature enough to handle a serious, long-distance relationship.

Merrysea
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08-13-2004

Monday, September 14, 2009 - 9:21 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Merrysea a private message Print Post    
Mary, about your second post - from what we know about Jeff and Jordan so far, I don't think there is any way that we'll be able to keep tabs on them for long. Neither of them seem too internet-savvy or too interested in telling all to the world, and Big Brother isn't the kind of show that makes you enough of a celebrity to have paparazzi stalking them.

Dlkuhn4
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07-14-2002

Monday, September 14, 2009 - 9:21 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Dlkuhn4 a private message Print Post    
nope

Chere
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08-10-2005

Monday, September 14, 2009 - 9:21 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Chere a private message Print Post    
Mary, I love your enthusiasm for Jeff and Jordan. Early in the season when you used get upset at Jordan for not responding to Jeff's obvious flirting, it would drive me crazy! But I have grown to love your optimism for J/J and you have become one of my favorite posters to read. Keep hope alive for J/J, Mary, and maybe they will prove us not-so-hopeless romantics wrong.

Mary1971
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07-28-2009

Monday, September 14, 2009 - 9:37 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mary1971 a private message Print Post    
Chere-Thank you!!
Bonbon-I don't mean Jeff would date her for the money! No way! BUT it would give him an incentive to pursue a relationship IF he wasn't sure. I think that's human nature. Plus it would give Jordan Financial freedom to travel to see him. I really believe they have strong feelings for each other even stronger than we all know and they will date!
By the way, Jeff does have a MySpace page & I will be following them somewhow! I am keeping hope alive.

Rslover
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11-19-2002

Monday, September 14, 2009 - 9:50 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Rslover a private message Print Post    
Mary, Check out new stuff.

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Puzzled
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08-27-2001

Monday, September 14, 2009 - 9:51 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Puzzled a private message Print Post    
I just don't see sparks between them. Friendship, yes, but not more.

Mary1971
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07-28-2009

Monday, September 14, 2009 - 10:01 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mary1971 a private message Print Post    
Puzzled-your post left me well Puzzled. :-)
Are we watching the same couple? I think there was rarely a time I didn't see Jeff & Jordan cuddling, kissing, caressing, touching (even if one of them JUST had their hand on the others knee), rubbing, hugging, laying on each other, sitting on each other, smiling at each other! Now I don't know about you BUT I don't rub on my "Guy friends" like that EVER! They had extreme chemistry so much they couldn't ever keep their hands off each other. Believe me that passion will be released once they are out of the BB house. Count on it.

Carmil
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07-17-2005

Monday, September 14, 2009 - 10:01 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Carmil a private message Print Post    
I not only see sparks, I see Jeff's face light up when she walks into a room. There's uber chemistry between them, imo.

But having said that, I still think they will date a little after the show, but due to circumstances that have already been discussed, I think they will end up being just life long friends.

Mary1971
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07-28-2009

Monday, September 14, 2009 - 10:05 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mary1971 a private message Print Post    
Rslover-Yummy! Thank you!

Kep421
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08-11-2001

Monday, September 14, 2009 - 10:11 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Kep421 a private message Print Post    
I think both Jordan and Jeff are smart to NOT make committment statements at this point in their relationships.

They both understand that being in the house is much different then real life...and things could dramatically change once they are out and have to face the uncertainty of what's happened while they were in the house. I think its very smart not to give too much credence to their "showmance"...and then have it all blow up in their faces if things don't work out.

BUT... if Jeff and Jordan still feel the way they did inside the house, once they are out of the house...I think they will have a relationship outside the house.

JMO

Puzzled
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08-27-2001

Monday, September 14, 2009 - 10:13 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Puzzled a private message Print Post    
Propinquity can cause all kinds of affection and touching, etc., especially in isolation. I just don't see lightning and excitement.

Chippy
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08-16-2007

Monday, September 14, 2009 - 10:18 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Chippy a private message Print Post    
I didn't see one thing to indicate that these two would, should, or even could have a relationship outside the house. In fact, I'd go as far as to say that had they met outside the house, their relationship wouldn't have even gotten where it was when they were thrown together in a game and held prisoner there with that bunch of inmates.

A decade is a looooong time when you're talking about 20-30yo. They are at completely different phases of life, live far apart, showed no signs of committment or a desire to relocate, well, I could go on and on, but NO, no future JJ IMO. I'm not even convinced they're lifelong friend material... especially if he doesn't vote her in f2. lol

Do you doubt for a second that if one or the other of them stood between them and 1/2 million bucks, they wouldn't knock them out of the way. Sure, they'd do it gently, but yeah, they'd do it.

BB house would be second on the list of where not to meet the "love of your life" right under brothel. Not goochy. lol

Mary1971
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07-28-2009

Monday, September 14, 2009 - 10:24 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mary1971 a private message Print Post    
Puzzled- I don't care if someone is attached to my hip 24/7 IF I had NO attraction for them I certainly wouldn't be touching them any more than would be required. Example: Michelle & Jessie last Season & Memphis & Keisha. Both couples had a friendship BUT you never saw them cuddling, touching, smiling & gazing at each other, kissing, hugging, caressing ect. Jeff & Jordan have chemistry galore! It makes me HOT just thinking of it. :-)

Mary1971
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07-28-2009

Monday, September 14, 2009 - 10:26 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mary1971 a private message Print Post    
Chippy-You are so unromantic! You can meet the love of your life anywhere! Age makes no difference or proximity. I don't know what you were watching but I saw huge chemistry and a true bond that's very very rare. It was beautiful to watch. Simply beautiful.

Kep421
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08-11-2001

Monday, September 14, 2009 - 10:35 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Kep421 a private message Print Post    
"Age makes no difference or proximity."

My relationship with my fiance, who is 18 years younger than me, and came from a place over 500 miles from me, is proof of that.

We were friends for about 3 years when it turned romantic...and then we "dated" (sounds so funny) for another 3 years before becoming engaged. We know its right, and even tho he's 18 years younger than I, when we are together, there is no age....only our friendship...which has bonded us tighter than we ever imagined.

If Jeff and Jordan find themselves in a relationship outside the house, they have just as much of a chance as anyone else....

Puzzled
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08-27-2001

Monday, September 14, 2009 - 10:36 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Puzzled a private message Print Post    
Well, Mary, everyone has different attitudes. Every couple is different. You think they have chemistry and I don't. We're both just guessing and time will tell.

Lexie_girl
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07-30-2004

Monday, September 14, 2009 - 10:40 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Lexie_girl a private message Print Post    
I'm with you Puzzled. I don't think these two stand a snowball's chance in Hell of making it outside of BB.

Kitt
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09-06-2000

Monday, September 14, 2009 - 10:42 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Kitt a private message Print Post    
I think they have a true affection for each other, but outside the house it's going to depend on circumstance, and I very much doubt Jordan's going to be moving from her home, or that Jeff will move to be close to her. For that reason I think nothing will happen.

I do however think they're one of the few real pairings that have started in the house.

Idolworship
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05-07-2003

Monday, September 14, 2009 - 10:49 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Idolworship a private message Print Post    
Mary, I was addressing intimate issues, when I said that Jeff doesn't have the patience, to get through the layers of men mistrust, which Jordan's mom has instilled. I know she promised Grandpa, that she wouldn't embarrass the family, by her behavior...I know. However, Jordan wants to cuddle, but has refused more kisses than I can count. She wants to go to Hawaii, with Jeff, as long as sex isn't involved.
Mom taught her that men only think with their penises, and that sex is all men want, etc. etc. etc. Yeah, I know...we've all joked, about that, but some man is going to have a difficult time, helping erase all of that "stuff," so Jordan can really enjoy the intimate side of life. I hope it's Jeff, and I hope he can restrain his "Now, Now, NOW" side, until Jordan allows herself to want what he wants. Otherwise, they'll never be a lasting couple.

Roxip
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01-29-2004

Monday, September 14, 2009 - 10:50 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Roxip a private message Print Post    
Stranger things have happened.

Mary1971
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07-28-2009

Monday, September 14, 2009 - 10:53 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Mary1971 a private message Print Post    
Kep-That's a wonderful story! I believe if its meant to be it makes NO Difference what we all think or what the circumstances are or the family background or the financial restraints or financial freedom or the distance or the age or the intimacy issues: IT WILL BE. I have faith.

Idolworship
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05-07-2003

Monday, September 14, 2009 - 10:55 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Idolworship a private message Print Post    
I sure hope so, Mary. I love them both.

Onlymytulips
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07-17-2005

Monday, September 14, 2009 - 11:02 am   Edit Post Move Post Delete Post View Post Send Onlymytulips a private message Print Post    
Don't care.