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Kerry827
Member
07-31-2007
| Tuesday, August 04, 2009 - 11:40 pm
when did jessie drop lydia? We they wrestling or cuddling? lol
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Seamonkey
Moderator
09-07-2000
| Tuesday, August 04, 2009 - 11:41 pm
DUKE is in DURHAM..
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Kappy
Member
06-29-2002
| Tuesday, August 04, 2009 - 11:41 pm
I agree, muffin that Kevin has a good heart. It's just too bad that Lydia is only his friend when she needs one.
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Bbnut
Member
06-12-2006
| Tuesday, August 04, 2009 - 11:41 pm
I don't know, Kerry...can't bear to watch that group...so I switch whenever they are on...miss some stuff that way, but you all keep me filled in...
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Lurknomore
Member
07-07-2001
| Tuesday, August 04, 2009 - 11:42 pm
I hate to say it, but Lydia needs to realize that if you choose to "vile service" someone that doesn't guarantee they will be civil to you, This is why one shouldn't do things like that to people you a) don't know well and b) have acted badly on national tv in the past. I'd feel far more sorry for her if she didn't make such horrid choices. She needs to find much needed missing self worth IMHO. If this show opens her eyes to that, then it may be a good thing, but not sure she'll get that.
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Robynne
Member
08-20-2005
| Tuesday, August 04, 2009 - 11:42 pm
Please tell me the BY people are not believing this fake fight..between Nat and Jessie
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Missyb
Member
07-28-2004
| Tuesday, August 04, 2009 - 11:42 pm
Kappy, I saw it too when he was hitting her and I thought she was holding back tears but didn't wnat to cry uncle. I did not think she was enjoying it at all.
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Loppes
Member
07-12-2002
| Tuesday, August 04, 2009 - 11:43 pm
I'm sorry but Lydia has to put her mouth where her tears are......she double sides herself. If she doesn't want to get upset she needs to stay away from Jesse. She brings it on herself.
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Mummy35332
Member
09-09-2005
| Tuesday, August 04, 2009 - 11:43 pm
Lydia is finally recognising the abuse. That does not make it her fault that she was abused. The abuser is the abuser. Sounds like it has been a pattern in her life. maybe now she will recognize it sooner. As for BB, they enabled the abuse.
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Muffin
Member
08-29-2007
| Tuesday, August 04, 2009 - 11:44 pm
Hopefully Lydia and Kevin will join up with J/J/M/ and take out the others. I still don't know where Russell's head is at, but those 5 could control the game.
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Lajonesin
Member
03-22-2008
| Tuesday, August 04, 2009 - 11:44 pm
Lydia has huge issues with rejection. She chases, pushes, uses her body, and gets overly emotional to avoid it at all costs.In the end, she just about guarantees she will be rejected (tattoos) in order to complete the cycle. It's all she knows of love and attention. She needs serious help or this pattern will ruin her life and she's probably a great person under it all.
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Loppes
Member
07-12-2002
| Tuesday, August 04, 2009 - 11:44 pm
Missy tonight or last night? If it was an issue for her last night she should have gotten up and left the room, but she didn't.
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Beekindpleez
Member
07-18-2006
| Tuesday, August 04, 2009 - 11:44 pm
I also do not think she was enjoying it. I think she was trying to be fun and a good sport and just didn't exactly know what to do. That smile on her face was not one of pleasure, it was one of confusion, in my opinion.
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Kappy
Member
06-29-2002
| Tuesday, August 04, 2009 - 11:44 pm
Missyb ~ I saw it as her enjoying it in an almost S&M way. She could have easily moved but stayed in this coy position of keeping her butt sticking out toward him.
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Seamonkey
Moderator
09-07-2000
| Tuesday, August 04, 2009 - 11:45 pm
No one brings that stuff on.. they may allow it but the perp is still the perp.
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Lurknomore
Member
07-07-2001
| Tuesday, August 04, 2009 - 11:45 pm
Kappy, how many friends has Lydia tried to make? I'm sorry for being hard on her, but I think we make our own bed. I hated how they treated Casey because I didn't feel he deserved it. I stood up for Russell before because I didn't feel he earned being ostracized. But with Lydia, I don't see where she invested any time or energy (for real not game play) with anyone other than Kevin or Jesse.
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Beekindpleez
Member
07-18-2006
| Tuesday, August 04, 2009 - 11:45 pm
I *heart* Kevin. Very much.
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Chewpito
Member
01-04-2004
| Tuesday, August 04, 2009 - 11:46 pm
I agree with Beek...
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Chitchat58
Member
07-25-2008
| Tuesday, August 04, 2009 - 11:46 pm
What happened between Lydia and Jessie to make her cry?
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Seamonkey
Moderator
09-07-2000
| Tuesday, August 04, 2009 - 11:46 pm
And she's on the block.. probably afraid to rock the boat.
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Seamonkey
Moderator
09-07-2000
| Tuesday, August 04, 2009 - 11:48 pm
And she is clean, too, a unlike certain HG.
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Lurknomore
Member
07-07-2001
| Tuesday, August 04, 2009 - 11:49 pm
Sea, I respectfully disagree. Jesse has been treating her like crap for weeks now. She could and should have walked away but instead she chased him more, went after him with that obnoxious baby voice and tried to make it a choice between her and Nat. I feel she definitely had a major role on bringing this on herself. I know in my life I take personal responsibility when I make bad choices. And I try to find the life lesson in them. Lydia is just wallowing and wanting to be a victim. I just don't respect that mindset. It would be different IMHO if Jesse had been wonderful to her then dumped her out of the blue. But come on, who here didn't see this coming? He wouldn't even hug her or kiss her. He just wanted himself pleasured. ICK!!! How do you not know if a guy won't even hug you?
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Kappy
Member
06-29-2002
| Tuesday, August 04, 2009 - 11:49 pm
Lurk, I have to agree. It's sad, the situation she's in, but she did it because she has no problems with using people. She's not completely innocent in this. She treats Kevin terribly as a friend.
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Beekindpleez
Member
07-18-2006
| Tuesday, August 04, 2009 - 11:49 pm
LOL, Sea. I am hoping this will help Lydia bring her strong self out. I would really like to see it. Very good that Kevin is telling her what Jesse will do next. Perhaps she will finally say NO to Jesse.
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Mnnice
Member
08-01-2009
| Tuesday, August 04, 2009 - 11:49 pm
I think Nat just messed up in her lie. She said she got a 945 (or something in the 900's) on her SAT, not knowing that they changed the score from 1600 to 2400 in the last year or so. The questioning look on her face was funny. With a 945, she wouldn't have made it into ASU.
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